Life After Divorce Coaching Doreen Yaffa and Jeff Wilson

Often, we're drawn to the allure of the "after" picture without fully embracing the journey it takes to get there. We yearn for the end result without wanting to endure the river of misery that flows in between. It's human nature to desire instant gratification and to shy away from the process, preferring immediate results over the daily steps required to reach our goals.
However, it's crucial to recognize that the true impact of a goal lies not in its achievement, but in the act of setting it. The moment we set a goal, we ignite a spark within ourselves—an aspiration that propels us forward and shapes our journey. It's in the pursuit of our goals, the daily grind, and the challenges we overcome that we truly grow and evolve as individuals.
So, let's embrace the process, the ups and downs, the victories and setbacks, knowing that each step we take brings us closer to our aspirations. And let's remember that the journey itself is where the magic happens—the transformation, the growth, and the fulfillment of our potential.

In today's episode, Jeff and Doreen delve into the concept of finding oneself, emphasizing that this journey is merely the starting point. Beyond discovering your true self, it's essential to identify your desires and goals, and then take proactive steps to manifest the life you envision. Taking action is the crucial key to transforming your aspirations into reality.

Rather than succumbing to feelings of embarrassment, guilt, or being immobilized by procrastination, consider the potential for something extraordinary. In this episode, Jeff and Doreen dive into Procrastination and how it can serve as a catalyst for unleashing your creativity and productivity. By understanding your procrastination patterns, you can transform your thoughts ( The Model-Episode #120 ) into tools for identifying your top three priorities, paving the way for significant achievements each day.

In this episode, Doreen and Jeff delve into a crucial aspect of navigating divorce: understanding your assets. Whether you're considering divorce or already in the midst of it, having a clear grasp of your financial landscape is essential. Join them as they discuss why knowledge truly is power in this situation.

In this episode, Jeff and Doreen explore the theme of reclaiming your power. Discover strategies to embrace personal responsibility and move away from blame as part of the healing journey following a divorce.

While going through divorce there are many circumstances that we cannot control.
The one thing we always have control over, however, is ourselves. And taking responsibility for ourselves is incredibly empowering and a huge part of the healing process.
It isn’t about blaming yourself for the divorce.
It’s about seeing every situation in your life as if you own it and taking responsibility for your part of it.
When you learn to do this, you give yourself so much more power than staying in a victim mentality.
This week, Jeff and Doreen discuss how taking responsibility can be for your life after divorce and how to do it without beating yourself up.