Your Bold Marriage

Chris & Jamie Johnson

Your Bold Marriage is a weekly podcast for couples who are tired of simply surviving marriage and are ready to build something extraordinary! Hosted by Chris and Jamie Johnson—authors of A Little Book for a Bold Marriage—this show delivers honest conversations, practical tools, and faith-rooted wisdom to help you communicate better, reconnect emotionally, strengthen intimacy, and rediscover joy together. The hosts lean on their 15 years of marriage and parenting experience, and Jamie adds a therapist's perspective as a Licensed Mental Health Counselor. Each episode tackles real marriage challenges with clarity, hope, and actionable steps you can apply immediately. Marriage is a gift from God—and when you’re willing to invest in it intentionally, a love-filled, deeply fulfilling marriage isn’t just possible… it’s within reach.

  1. 2d ago

    Money, Marriage & Trust: Why Couples Keep Fighting

    Money is often listed as one of the top reasons for divorce. And, even if not a divorce topic, money can definitely be one of the biggest sources of stress in marriage — BUT it can also become one of the greatest opportunities for unity.  In this episode, Chris & Jamie dig into why finances are about so much more than numbers: they reveal priorities, values, trust, and the deeper heart issues beneath the surface. It’s never about the money itself! We talk honestly about the tension couples feel around budgeting, debt, spending habits, career decisions, and different money mindsets. But we also share the healthier, more hopeful path forward: one built on communication, shared financial vision, wise planning, and radical generosity.  Whether you’re trying to get out of debt, break free from lifestyle creep, or simply get on the same page with your spouse, this conversation will challenge you to see money not as an enemy, but as a tool for building a stronger marriage and a more purposeful life.  Tune in for practical wisdom, real stories, and a faith-centered perspective on how couples can pursue financial unity together. DISCLAIMER:  This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests. The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area. Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy. Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

    35 min
  2. Jun 23

    Why "We're Fine" Is One of the Most Dangerous Things You Can Say About Your Marriage

    Most marriages drift into mediocrity, mistaking being "fine" for thriving. But what if "fine" is actually a red flag?  In this very blunt episode, we uncover how complacency slowly erodes even the strongest relationships and why the idea of just "getting by" can be a silent killer of love. You’ll discover the subtle signs that your marriage is in danger of stagnation—and how to flip the script before it's too late. We break down the myths around marriage boredom, sharing eye-opening statistics like the 42% divorce rate and how the majority of couples claim to be "fine" despite feeling disconnected or unfulfilled.  Learn why couples often avoid addressing issues head-on and the danger in settling for a marriage that’s just "okay." If you’ve ever wondered whether your relationship is truly thriving or just surviving, this episode is for you. You'll hear practical insights on recognizing the slow erosion of intimacy, friendship, and connection—how routine, conflict avoidance, and neglecting emotional depth quietly chip away at love.  This episode will challenge you to elevate your expectations, prioritize wellbeing, and reconnect on a deeper level. Because a marriage that truly thrives glorifies God and becomes a powerful testament of love, intimacy, and purpose. Don't settle for mediocrity—choose to thrive.  Whether you're newlyweds, in the middle of raising kids, or navigating lifelong commitments, this episode provides the tools to avoid the slow erosion of love and build a marriage that not only endures but thrives. Prepare to love your marriage again—and help others do the same. Chris & Jamie are passionate about guiding couples toward authentic, joy-filled, lifelong love. As seasoned marriage partners, they share practical advice rooted in faith, experience, and a commitment to real transformation. Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

    34 min
  3. Jun 16

    Why So Many Couples Stop Having Sex—and How to Rebuild Connection

    Most couples underestimate how much emotional disconnection, unhealed trauma, and unrealistic expectations can silently sabotage their sex lives—and the truth might scare you.  In this 3rd episode in our series on sex and intimacy, Chris & Jamie unveil the hidden roots that keep intimacy stuck and shows you how to heal, reconnect, and reignite the passion. Did you know that unaddressed trauma, broken trust, or hormonal imbalance might be quietly ruining your desire? Whether you're struggling with navigating postpartum intimacy, past abuse, persistent stress, or mismatched sex drives, this episode reveals practical, biblically grounded strategies to overcome these barriers.  You’ll discover the surprising ways that emotional safety, clear communication, and intentional therapy can transform not just your sex life but your entire marriage. We break down: why emotional disconnection is a foundation for sexlessness, the importance of healing from trauma and unmet needs, how physical health impacts desire, and why prayerfully addressing your struggles can pave the way for breakthrough.  Now is the time to address what’s really blocking intimacy and take practical steps toward healing and renewal. Without action, these issues fester and deepen—leaving you feeling distant from your spouse and disconnected from God’s design for joy and purity in marriage. But with faith, openness, and expert guidance, true restoration is possible.Whether you’re navigating chronic illness, hormonally driven desire fluctuations, or emotional wounds from the past, this episode offers hope and clarity.  This episode is your invitation to prioritize your sex life as a necessary, prayerful part of your spiritual and marital journey. Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

    35 min
  4. Jun 9

    Why Married Couples Don’t Talk About Sex (& the Lies That Keep Them Stuck)

    Most couples are unknowingly sabotaging their sex lives with harmful lies they don’t even realize they believe.  In this bold follow-up to last week, Chris & Jamie uncover the most dangerous misconceptions about sexual intimacy in marriage—and show you how to crush them. If you’ve ever felt frustrated, disconnected, or stuck in a cycle of shame around sex, this episode is your breakthrough. You’ll discover the truth about why sex isn’t just a duty, but a gift from God designed to strengthen your marriage. We break down the common myths that wives don’t enjoy sex, that a sexless marriage is healthy, and that talking about sex is taboo. Plus, we reveal practical steps to improve communication, reignite passion, and break free from the spiritual and mental blocks sabotaging your intimacy.  Through honest stories and biblical insights, you’ll learn to identify the lies you’re believing—like “I don’t have time,” “it’s okay if I don’t want sex,” or “this will never change”—and replace them with truth and hope. Whether you’re struggling with past baggage, body image issues, or just a busy schedule, this episode equips you to take action today. Why it matters: your sexual relationship isn’t just about physical pleasure—it’s a vital part of your spiritual health, emotional connection, and lifelong fulfillment. Ignoring these myths can lead to long-term pain, frustration, and disconnection. But with the right mindset, communication, and biblical perspective, you can experience a revitalized marriage where intimacy thrives. Perfect for Christian couples, spouses feeling stuck, or anyone seeking a healthier, more joyful sex life in their marriage. Don’t let these false beliefs hold you back—hit play and start transforming your intimacy today. Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

    31 min
  5. Jun 2

    The Biggest Lies About Sex in Marriage (& How They're Quietly Destroying Intimacy)

    In this episode, Chris & Jamie expose the common misconceptions that distort God’s beautiful design, revealing how unhealthy teachings, both secular and Christian, have undermined intimacy and joy between spouses.  If you're wondering why sex often feels like a duty or why your partner's pleasure might seem secondary, this episode has the answers for you. Jamie and Chris dismantle damaging myths with biblical clarity, scientific insights, and raw honesty. You'll discover how God's design for mutual pleasure, trust, and intimacy enhances your marriage rather than erodes it.  They explore how a healthy sex life should not be a selfish act, obligation, or boring, but a vibrant expression of love, respect, and partnership—created to strengthen your bond. Beyond the theology, you'll break down the harmful cultural teachings that have shaped your expectations—whether it's the lie that women don't want or enjoy sex, or that a man’s needs always come first. This episode is your call to re-shape the sex life in your marriage. DISCLAIMER:  This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests. The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area. Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy. Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage RSS Link - https://api.riverside.fm/hosting/Ko57iPWW.rss Apple Link - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-bold-marriage/id1883144804 Spotify Link - https://open.spotify.com/show/6PhPIHc3XSmS0qAekuKbOM?si=2372b09752a247b1  YouTube Link - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLkSBu2uQwZJNwujJkZE0TsyRKsw4KBlqp

    40 min
  6. May 26

    Ask a Therapist: Real Answers to Real Marriage Questions

    In those episode, we turn our attention to Frequently Asked Questions from couples in real marriage counseling sessions. Jamie, a licensed mental health counselor with over a decade of experience in trauma and couples therapy, will answer key questions from both an online audience as well as some real-life examples she receives in therapy sessions.  Join us for a raw and insightful conversation, as Chris fires the questions and Jamie shares powerful real-world examples and expert tips on when it’s really too late to save a relationship, and when hope still remains. You’ll discover how trauma, unresolved bitterness, and more, influence ongoing fights, and how understanding the deeper issues beneath recurring conflicts can set you on a path toward reconciliation. We break down the core signs that indicate it’s time to seek help — like excessive conflict, resentment, and safety concerns — and why some issues need individual work before couples therapy can truly heal.  Jamie also shares her perspective on falling back in love, how to rekindle affection in long-term relationships, and what a truly healthy marriage looks like in today’s world. This episode is essential listening for anyone feeling stuck, doubtful, or exhausted in their relationship. Whether you’re just wanting to get better, starting to question if your love can survive, or you’re already at your wit’s end, what you’ll learn here can transform your approach to marriage and healing. Remember: even the most broken relationships can be restored when both partners commit to doing the inner work. If you value growth, resilience, and the real truths behind lasting connection, tune in now. Your path to a healthier, happier marriage begins with understanding what’s truly going on beneath the surface. DISCLAIMER:  This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests. The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area. Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy. Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

    30 min
  7. May 19

    How Better Communication Can Save Your Marriage

    In this episode, we uncover the surprising truths about communication that can save your marriage. From busting harmful stereotypes like the “nagging wife” or the “silent husband” to understanding how small, unresolved issues erode trust over time, you’ll learn practical ways to transform frustration into connection.  Chris & Jamie cite the statistic that 63% of couples who claim their spouse is a good listener report thriving marriages—and we dive into how you can be one of them. We break down the specific communication styles that either build intimacy or create wedges—covering everything from how your childhood influences your habits, to the importance of tone, sarcasm, and intentional time together. You’ll hear about the power of quick conversations, avoiding logistics-only talk, and how to navigate difficult, emotional discussions without tearing each other down. This episode is essential if you’re tired of feeling unheard, stuck in destructive patterns, or worried your marriage is unraveling. Whether you’re in a new relationship or decades in, understanding and intentionally improving how you connect will change everything. Because communication isn’t a personality trait—it’s a skill you can learn, master, and continually refine. Tune in to hear actionable tips, real stories, and the mindset shifts that can turn everyday conversations into deep, lasting connection. Your marriage’s future depends on how well you talk—and listen. Perfect for couples ready to intentionally upgrade their marriage, and anyone who wants to discover the true secrets to meaningful, conflict-free communication.  DISCLAIMER:  This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests. The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area. Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy. Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

    32 min
  8. May 12

    10 Reasons Every Couple Should Pray Together

    Unlock the profound power of praying together as a couple — a practice proven to strengthen your marriage, deepen intimacy, and even cut divorce rates dramatically. Whether your relationship is new or seasoned, discover how daily prayer can transform your connection with each other and with God, creating a bond that sustains through life's storms. In this episode, we dive into top rock-solid reasons why couples who pray together daily experience greater spiritual unity, emotional closeness, and decision-making clarity. You’ll learn how praying as a team invites divine guidance into your most important moments, extends spiritual protection over your family, and cultivates humility that levels the playing field in your marriage. We break down how consistent prayer reduces conflict, builds trust, and fosters vulnerability essential for true intimacy—all supported by powerful statistics from reputable studies. Are you undervaluing prayer’s role in your marriage? If you're ready to see a steadfast transformation in your marriage, this episode is essential listening. It’s time to make prayer a habit—your marriage’s spiritual armor and your path to lasting love. DISCLAIMER:  This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests. The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area. Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy. Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage: Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

    34 min
5
out of 5
14 Ratings

About

Your Bold Marriage is a weekly podcast for couples who are tired of simply surviving marriage and are ready to build something extraordinary! Hosted by Chris and Jamie Johnson—authors of A Little Book for a Bold Marriage—this show delivers honest conversations, practical tools, and faith-rooted wisdom to help you communicate better, reconnect emotionally, strengthen intimacy, and rediscover joy together. The hosts lean on their 15 years of marriage and parenting experience, and Jamie adds a therapist's perspective as a Licensed Mental Health Counselor. Each episode tackles real marriage challenges with clarity, hope, and actionable steps you can apply immediately. Marriage is a gift from God—and when you’re willing to invest in it intentionally, a love-filled, deeply fulfilling marriage isn’t just possible… it’s within reach.