Your Mess or Mine?

Mel
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” Your Mess or Mine?” is a podcast that dives into the full spectrum of relationships - family, friends, work, and romance. We've expanded beyond dating to explore every dynamic that shapes our lives. Through real stories, expert insight, and listener questions, we help you navigate the messiness of human connection with understanding and growth.

  1. 02/05/2025

    Date Night or Me Night?

    Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, this episode has something for you! Will and I are sharing fun date ideas, creative gifts, and ways to treat yourself—because love isn’t just for couples. From unique experiences to solo adventures, we’ve got you covered. Tune in as we break down the best ways to make memories whether it’s with someone special or just with yourself. Because who says you need an occasion to celebrate love? 🎧 Listen now and get inspired for your next great date—or the ultimate self-care night! Topics: Gift ideas for special occasions/Valentine's Day for singles and couples. If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join our private FB group and send me a message at   https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/   Dance Classes from Diva Dance - https://divadancecompany.com/locations/arlington-texas/ Workout Classes from Wise World of Fitness - https://www.wiseworld.fit/ NY Pizzeria NRH - https://www.nyorkpizzeria.com/

    39 min

  2. 01/16/2025

    The Dating Draft: Buiding your dream partner one trait at a time

    In this playful episode we're diving into the ultimate fantasy draft-but make it dating! Join us as we build our dream partners, one hilarious and quirky trait at a time. From personality must-haves to ridiculous red flags we're somehow willing to overlook, no trait is off-limits. Plus, we ask YOU the listeners to share your dream traits and dating apps must-haves. Did your submission make it onto the show? It's light, fun, and maybe just a little revealing...so grab your headphones and draft along with us! Send us your dream partners and let us know whose lineup you think wins the draft. 1. Personality traits 2. Hobbies & interests 3. Skills & abilities 4. Physical quirks 5. Red flags 6. Wildcards Topics: Red Flags, emotional intelligence, love bombing, and frankenboyfriend/frankengirlfriend. @coachryan If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join our private FB group and send me a message at  https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

    56 min

  3. 12/30/2024

    Office Affairs & Toxic Chairs

    Should you date a coworker? Or is it a one-way ticket to drama-ville?And what about toxic workplaces-how do you protect yourself when the problem is bad management? Will and I spill the tea on workplace relationships and listeners share their insights on the subject. Will and I also give you the tools you need, and practical tips to prioritize your well-being in a toxic work environment. If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com, yourmessormine@gmail.com or you can join our private FB group and send me a message at  https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/ If you'd like to check out the AMAZING dentists I mentioned here's their links: https://www.colleyvilledentistry.com/ https://www.whittledentistry.com/

    1h 4m

  4. 12/11/2024

    Silent Nights, Not Silent Fights

    The holidays are a time for joy, connection, and celebration-but let's be real, they can also come with their fair share of challenges. This week, Will and I sit down with our guest Tatiana, who shares her story about dealing with her cousin's toxic girlfriend. With her birthday/Christmas party coming up at her grandma's house, Tatiana opens up about her fears and struggles to keep the peace while protecting her joy. If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join our private FB group and send me a message at https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

    43 min

  5. 11/18/2024

    Getting Real With Will

    AND I'M BACK WITH YOUR NEW CO-HOST WILL!!!! Will and I discuss real struggles in attempting to date as an introvert, mending relationships, and how you can feel stuck when you're in an abusive relationship. Domestic violence hotline: 800-799-7233 If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join our private FB group and send me a message at  https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

    54 min

  6. 06/17/2024

    Breadcrumbing

    SEASON 2 FINALE - Gabriel, Vikki, and I discuss our experiences with breadcrumbing. Topics: Breadcrumbing, proper etiquette when scheduling a date, double booking, ghosting, place holders, and dating apps. Speed dating event we hope to see you at: https://www.facebook.com/share/r/UcaViqjoRDyCTTib/ If you'd like to be a guest on the show please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

    1h 5m
  7. Dumped or Discarded?

    06/03/2024

    Dumped or Discarded?

    Gabriel and I discuss the difference between being broken up with and being discarded. Topics: Cuffing season, avoidant attachment, narcissists, discard phase, talk therapy, getting over a breakup. If you'd like to be a guest on the show please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

    28 min
  8. Going The Distance

    05/13/2024

    Going The Distance

    Gabriel and I interview Ashely as she shares her experience in her very new relationship. Although the distance is what ended her previous relationship she's hoping this new one will go the distance for her. Topics: Dating long distance, dating as a single parent, and new relationships. *Ashley was also on season 2 episode 3 during one of the live interview clips. * If you'd like to be a guest on the show please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

    44 min
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” Your Mess or Mine?” is a podcast that dives into the full spectrum of relationships - family, friends, work, and romance. We've expanded beyond dating to explore every dynamic that shapes our lives. Through real stories, expert insight, and listener questions, we help you navigate the messiness of human connection with understanding and growth.

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  • Creator
    Mel
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2025
  • Episodes
    31
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Mel
  • Show Website
    Your Mess or Mine?