Your Stories Matter

Jessica Graham

Your story is bigger than your darkest chapter. So many women have done the therapy. The courses. The personal development deep-dives. And somehow — they’re still stuck. Still making decisions from old narratives. Still living inside a story they didn’t consciously choose. That’s what this podcast is about. Your Stories Matter is for growth-minded women — especially those building businesses — who are ready to stop being run by the stories they inherited, absorbed, or were told to carry. And start living from the ones they actually want. Hosted by Jessica Graham, certified narrative advisor and story coach, each episode goes inside the real-time rewriting process — the triggers, the patterns, the identity shifts, and the moments that change everything. Because entrepreneurship has a way of dragging (often kicking and screaming) every unhealed story into the light. And when it does, you have two choices: stay stuck or rewrite. Your mess is your message. Your turning points are your treasures. Your struggle is your purpose. And being brave enough to say my story matters — that’s where everything changes, toots. 

Episodes

  1. 1D AGO

    Episode 5: When the Body Keeps Score: My Pandemic PTSD Story & How I Started to Heal

    Have you ever thought you moved on from something — only to have your body tell you otherwise? In this episode, I’m opening up about the pandemic chaos that led to PTSD: losing my job in China, living out of a backpack for 10 months across Vietnam, the Philippines, Liechtenstein, and Abu Dhabi — and what happened when I finally stopped moving long enough to feel it. From nervous system dysregulation and cortisol overload to shaking on the drive to a line dancing class, I share the real signs of stored trauma I didn't recognize as PTSD — and the nervous system regulation, inner child work, and healing practices that helped me release it without years of formal therapy. This episode is for anyone who: Has experienced trauma, anxiety, or uncertainty and pushed through instead of processingIs curious about nervous system healing, PTSD recovery, or somatic approaches to emotional releaseNeeds permission to just be witnessed — without fixing, advice, or toxic positivityTimestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:56 Navigating life changes: Divorce and relocation 03:53 The Impact of the COVID Pandemic on Personal Identity 18:50 Coping with Uncertainty 30:56 The Journey of Healing: Recognizing PTSD Symptoms 37:03 Empathy and Understanding: The Power of Listening ♥ Connect with me on Instagram: @jessicagraham.storycoach ♥ Sign up for the FREE monthly gathering for ambitious women in business, Stories in Action.   ♥ Book a call to discuss narrative coaching.  ♥ Start the process with a FREE Name The Narrative Session.  About me: I help female founders and ambitious women rewrite the stories that are keeping them stuck in outdated identities.

    48 min
  2. MAY 14

    Episode 4: Stop Waiting to Feel Ready (A Behind-the-Scenes Launch Story)

    What actually happens when you finally do the scary thing? Most of us wait to feel ready before we take the leap. But what if the terror you feel right before you do it is actually the sign you're exactly where you're supposed to be? In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the 24 hours after launching this podcast — the feelings that came up, the feedback that surprised me, and the pattern I noticed in myself that I wasn't expecting to unpack on air. We'll cover: Why doing the thing you're most called to do can feel the most exposingThe question I've been sitting with: do you actually need a rock bottom to change?How looking back at every risk I've ever taken gave me permission to finally take this oneWhy "one baby step" is not a cliché — it's literally how this podcast got madeThis one is raw, unscripted, and very behind the scenes. If you've been sitting on something you keep almost doing — this episode is for you. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:58 The podcast launch: what actually happened 14:53 The risks that always paid off 20:21 Rock bottoms and change 24:38 The awakening that led to Rewritten ♥ Connect with me on Instagram: @jessicagraham.storycoach ♥ Sign up for the FREE monthly gathering for ambitious women in business, Stories in Action.   ♥ Book a call to discuss narrative coaching.  ♥ Start the process with a FREE Name The Narrative Session.  About me: I help female founders and ambitious women rewrite the stories that are keeping them stuck in outdated identities.

    36 min
  3. MAY 6

    Episode 1: Why Owning a Business Forces You to Know Yourself (and Rewrite Your Story)

    Ever feel like building a business is breaking you open in ways you never expected? That’s because it is, and it’s not an accident. In this episode, I’m breaking down why entrepreneurship is the most intense personal development journey you’ll ever sign up for, and what to actually do about it. We’ll cover: Why owning a business exposes every unhealed story you’re carryingHow looking outside yourself for permission keeps you stuck and disconnectedThe step-by-step process Jessica used to stop mimicking others and build a business that finally felt like hersWhy your mess is actually your message — and how to start using itIf you’ve ever felt disconnected from your offers, your voice, or yourself, this is your starting point. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:57 Today’s topic: Entrepreneurship is personal development on crack 08:05 Building up trust in yourself 15:42 Identifying and externalizing the problem 22:13 Rewriting your story and identity 28:33 Finding community and support in the entrepreneurial journey 🎙️ Your Stories Matter is a podcast for growth-minded women ready to stop living inside stories they didn’t choose — and start rewriting them. ♥ Connect with me on Instagram: @jessicagraham.storycoach ♥ Sign up for the FREE monthly gathering for ambitious women in business, Stories in Action.   ♥ Book a call to discuss narrative coaching.  ♥ Start the process with a FREE Name The Narrative Session.  About me: I help female founders and ambitious women rewrite the stories that are keeping them stuck in outdated identities.

    32 min
  4. MAY 6

    Episode 3: Name the Trigger (And What to Do Next)

    Do you know how to figure out what’s actually triggering you — and what to do with it once you do? Most of us can feel when something’s off. We just don’t have a process for tracing it back to the root.  In this episode, I’m walking you through my exact methodology for naming a trigger, finding the pattern underneath it, and beginning to rewrite the story attached to it. We’ll cover: How to identify the emotion that’s actually coming up (not just the surface reaction)The process for tracing a trigger back to a specific memory or patternWhat externalizing the problem means and why it’s a game changer for identity workHow to find the alternative story and start integrating it as a new identityThis is the how-to episode. Practical, personal, and built from real experience. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:56 Understanding betrayal and trust 03:43 Identifying triggers and emotions 12:49 The process of reparenting 17:41 Finding trust and abundance 26:02 Moving forward with awareness 🎙️ New episodes drop weekly. Subscribe so you never miss one. ♥ Connect with me on Instagram: @jessicagraham.storycoach ♥ Sign up for the FREE monthly gathering for ambitious women in business, Stories in Action.   ♥ Book a call to discuss narrative coaching.  ♥ Start the process with a FREE Name The Narrative Session.  About me: I help female founders and ambitious women rewrite the stories that are keeping them stuck in outdated identities.

    29 min
  5. MAY 6

    Episode 2: From Betrayal to Trust (In Real Time)

    Why do we spiral into crisis mode over things that don’t actually warrant it? In this episode, I’m getting honest about a pattern I’m currently rewriting in real time — moving from betrayal into trust. What started as a simple argument with my husband revealed a much deeper story that had been quietly running my reactions for years. We’ll cover: What betrayal actually means (hint: it’s probably not what you think)The five emotions tied to a betrayal block and how to identify them in yourselfWhy your biggest emotional reactions are rarely about what’s happening in front of youWhat abundance really means — and why trust is the thing blocking itThis one’s raw, real, and exactly the kind of conversation we don’t have enough of. 📓 Grab your journal — you’re going to want it. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:57 Today’s topic: Rewriting my story of betrayal 03:36 Understanding the emotions and experiences 06:58 The impact of guilt on ability to trust 09:42 Exploring abundance and redefining worth 12:34 Important conversations and processing emotions 18:36 Introduction to narrative integration  🎙️ Your Stories Matter is a podcast for growth-minded women ready to stop living inside stories they didn’t choose — and start rewriting them. ♥ Connect with me on Instagram: @jessicagraham.storycoach ♥ Sign up for the FREE monthly gathering for ambitious women in business, Stories in Action.   ♥ Book a call to discuss narrative coaching.  ♥ Start the process with a FREE Name The Narrative Session.  About me: I help female founders and ambitious women rewrite the stories that are keeping them stuck in outdated identities.

    19 min

Ratings & Reviews

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About

Your story is bigger than your darkest chapter. So many women have done the therapy. The courses. The personal development deep-dives. And somehow — they’re still stuck. Still making decisions from old narratives. Still living inside a story they didn’t consciously choose. That’s what this podcast is about. Your Stories Matter is for growth-minded women — especially those building businesses — who are ready to stop being run by the stories they inherited, absorbed, or were told to carry. And start living from the ones they actually want. Hosted by Jessica Graham, certified narrative advisor and story coach, each episode goes inside the real-time rewriting process — the triggers, the patterns, the identity shifts, and the moments that change everything. Because entrepreneurship has a way of dragging (often kicking and screaming) every unhealed story into the light. And when it does, you have two choices: stay stuck or rewrite. Your mess is your message. Your turning points are your treasures. Your struggle is your purpose. And being brave enough to say my story matters — that’s where everything changes, toots. 

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