Your Weekly Tee Tynesha Lomax, MSW

Have you ever felt like you were in a constant lose lose situation with certain people. That no matter what you did or said they would find away to make you the problem. You constantly ask for them to do something with you and they constantly turn you down. Then that one time you do not ask they make a big deal about it? Expecting you to ask even though they know they will say no because it hurts their feelings by you not inviting them. Yet, they never think to invite you anywhere. These people tend to be not only selfish but ungrateful at the same time. Be cautious of these types of people as they can be very draining to you. 

Are you healed or are you distracted? We tend to hold our feelings in to save someone else’s reputation or protect their feelings. What about ourselves are we hurting us more to benefit someone else? Let go of that hurt do what is needed to truly heal from that trauma, guilt, shame and pain that you’re currently distracting yourself from.

As my Grandma works always say “don’t let one monkey stop the show”. Do for yourself and get it done, minimize the chance of disappointment. Don’t be afraid to ask for help but don’t depend on it either. Only you can get you to your goals.

There’s time that we all lack motivation and find it so hard to keep pushing. This episode talks about the balance of taking a break when needed, but remembering to keep pushing. A break is okay but do not quit. Dig deep within and find whatever it is that made you start the first time to start again...keep pushing

Have you ever had someone tell you, “you can’t be mad at her, that’s just who she is”. I have, numerous times and it’s the most frustrating thing I've ever heard. They can be them but I can’t be me? I think not. Tune in to hear my thoughts on being yourself even if it makes someone else uncomfortable.

We all have the same 24 hours in a day, and it is up to us to determine what to do with them? How do you plan your day? Time is something that you cannot get back so how will you manage your time? Listen to this episode about finding the positivity within the day and making the best of your time. Let's make the best out of the next 24 hours.