You're Doing It Wrong

Mia Schachter and Risdon Roberts
  • 4.3 (12)
  • SELF-IMPROVEMENT
  • UPDATED SEMIWEEKLY

A twink, Mia Schachter (Consent Wizardry), and a whore, Risdon Roberts (Out Beyond Intimacy), talk consent 2.0, beyond yes and no.

  1. 12/02/2025

    Mia interviews Risdon

    Mia Interviews Risdon for their upcoming book! Video version on YouTube with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats!!! Upcoming classes. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, multi-disciplinary philosopher-artist, musician, and Tinder’s Resident Consent Educator living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group classes online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry and you can read their writing, including their canceled memoir on Substack. Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.  Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. Plot driven feature lengths. Soft stuff.

  2. 03/12/2025

    Intimacy Coordinators Discuss Justin Baldoni vs. Blake Lively

    wtf is going on here? We share our takes as intimacy coordinators. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats!!! Upcoming classes. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, multi-disciplinary philosopher-artist, musician, and Tinder’s Resident Consent Educator living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group classes online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry and you can read their writing, including their canceled memoir on Substack. Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.  Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. Plot driven feature lengths. Soft stuff.

  3. 11/20/2024

    Kelly talks about the Left Eating Our Own

    Kelly comes on to talk about shutting down a social justice project because of Cancel Culture and the ways the Left eat our own. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats!!! Consent Wizardry’s Upcoming classes. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, multi-disciplinary philosopher-artist, musician, and Tinder’s Resident Consent Educator living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group classes online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry and you can read their writing, including their canceled memoir on Substack. Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.  Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. Plot driven feature lengths. Soft stuff.

  4. 09/24/2024

    Daddy?

    This episode was recorded before our last episode. We published them out of order because Mia wanted to wait to secure the rights to their canceled book, Unsolicited Advice, now available on Substack. We talk with Mischa Byruck about men and all the worst things you've ever done. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats!!! Upcoming classes. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group classes online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry and you can subscribe on Substack. Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.  Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. Plot driven feature lengths. Soft stuff.

  5. 09/11/2024

    We got too high and had sex anyway

    We talk about getting high and having sex anyway, regret, blame, and punishment. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats!!! Upcoming classes. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group classes online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry and you can subscribe on Substack. Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.  Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. Plot driven feature lengths. Soft stuff.

  6. 05/23/2024

    My needs don't change because of your needs

    Video version on YouTube with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats!!! Upcoming classes. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group classes online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry and you can subscribe on Substack. Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.  Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. Plot driven feature lengths. Soft stuff.

  7. 04/19/2024

    Brad Stops By

    Our friend Brad stops by. He runs @nature.is.not.metal on IG. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry. Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.  Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. Plot driven feature lengths. Soft stuff.

  8. 03/29/2024

    The One About Incest

    CW: Incest, CSA. We talk about incest, taboo, the moralization of science, and so much more. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry. Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.  Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. Plot driven feature lengths. Soft stuff.

See All (17)

4.3
out of 5
12 Ratings

About

A twink, Mia Schachter (Consent Wizardry), and a whore, Risdon Roberts (Out Beyond Intimacy), talk consent 2.0, beyond yes and no.

Information

  • Creator
    Mia Schachter and Risdon Roberts
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2025
  • Episodes
    17
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Show Website
    You're Doing It Wrong