You’re Probably Right

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You’re Probably Right is a long-form podcast for people who feel out of step with surface-level advice and easy answers. Each episode looks at relationships, social dynamics, belief systems, and the quiet patterns that shape how people treat each other, especially the parts nobody prepares you for. There are no quick fixes here. Just clear thinking, lived experience, and conversations that trust the listener to keep up. Hosted by Michael C Murray. If this podcast brings you value, help keep it going. Support the show: buymeacoffee.com/yprpodcast ☕️

  1. 3D AGO

    Episode 335 — Old Pain Is Still Deciding What the person Gets

    Episode 335 of You’re Probably Right picks up where Episode 334 left off. If Episode 334 was about old pain still deciding what the new man gets, this episode goes even deeper into what that actually does to new love. This is about how past hurt, unresolved wounds, and emotional survival mode can quietly make the next person pay for damage they never caused. Mike breaks down how old relationships may be over on paper but still alive in the nervous system, still shaping trust, intimacy, softness, and connection in the present. He talks about what happens when fear starts sounding like wisdom, when protection turns into distance, and when someone new ends up carrying emotional weight that belongs to somebody from the past. If you’ve ever felt like a current relationship was being taxed by old heartbreak, old trauma, or old attachment, this episode will hit. Episode 335 is about the hidden cost of bringing yesterday’s pain into today’s love.

    30 min

  2. 5D AGO

    Old Pain Is Still Deciding What the New Man Gets | Episode 334

    Sometimes the problem is not that she doesn’t care. Sometimes old pain is still deciding what the new man gets. In Episode 334 of You’re Probably Right, Michael C. Murray explores emotional unavailability, old relationship wounds, heartbreak, and how unresolved attachment can affect new love, trust, intimacy, and long-term relationships. If you’ve ever felt like someone was present but still guarded, this episode will hit.

    53 min
  3. Why Mixed Signals Keep You Stuck | Episode 333

    6D AGO

    Why Mixed Signals Keep You Stuck | Episode 333

    Most people don’t stay stuck because of love. They stay stuck because nothing ever made sense. In this episode, Michael C. Murray breaks down why mixed signals are so hard to move on from — and why the confusion hurts more than the ending itself. This isn’t about overthinking.It’s about understanding the pattern that keeps you emotionally tied to something that never fully formed. If you’ve ever found yourself replaying conversations, questioning what was real, or trying to make sense of someone who couldn’t be consistent… this episode will hit. You’ll learn: Why confusion feels deeper than it actually isWhat really hooks you in the beginningThe difference between intensity and connectionWhy moments don’t matter — but patterns doHow mixed signals slowly erode your self-trustAnd the shift that finally helps you move onAt some point, it stops being about them…and starts being about what the situation is doing to you. Use these naturally (don’t spam): mixed signals in relationshipswhy can’t I move onemotional confusiontoxic relationship patternsattachment psychologydating psychologyrelationship advicesituationshipemotional unavailabilityself-awareness

    1h 20m

  4. APR 7

    Social Gravity -How Ordinary People Become More Noticeable Episode #332

    On this episode of You’re Probably Right, I break down the idea of social gravity and why some people seem to pull more response out of the world than others. This is not just about looks, status, or confidence. It is about what people notice, how they read you, whether you seem intentional, and whether you feel easy to engage. We get into salience, coherence, warmth, approachability, humour, presence, and social ease, and why ordinary people who feel overlooked are often not lacking value, but lacking translation. If you’ve ever felt invisible in rooms, passed over socially, or outclassed by more attractive or naturally gifted people, this episode is for you. This episode is about becoming easier to notice, easier to read, and easier to respond to without becoming fake, loud, or performative.

    49 min
  5. How Lust and Low Self-Worth Make a Mark | When Hunger Overrules Judgment | Ep. 331

    APR 6

    How Lust and Low Self-Worth Make a Mark | When Hunger Overrules Judgment | Ep. 331

    In Episode 331, I break down how a mark is made. Not through innocence alone, and not just through someone else’s manipulation, but through hunger strong enough to overrule judgment. This talk centers lust, scarcity thinking, impatience, low self-worth, self-editing, over-giving, and the humiliation that often finally breaks the spell. At the center of this episode is one hard line: Once lust gets you negotiating with what self-respect should’ve disqualified, you’re already in danger.

    42 min

  6. APR 4

    Users vs. Marks - The Greased Rung Episode #330

    In Episode 330, Users vs. Marks: The Greased Rung, I break down a pattern a lot of people have lived through but struggle to explain clearly. This episode is about the kind of person who doesn’t come close to build something real, but comes close because there’s something in you they can use. I talk through how these dynamics often work: the scouting, the story, the tailored bait, the sample, the breadcrumbs, the confusion, the false clarity, the feeling of having to stay “online” and hold your place in line, and the damage that can happen when somebody learns exactly what in you is easiest to pull on. This is also about discernment. About the difference between what feels close and what can actually hold weight. About why the close rung is often greased. And about what to do when somebody comes back after the spell has already been broken. If you’ve ever felt like you were slowly taught to betray your own judgment in a relationship, this episode is for you.

    1h 50m
  7. Bonus Episode: Dinner With the Podcast After Heartbreak Episode #329

    APR 2

    Bonus Episode: Dinner With the Podcast After Heartbreak Episode #329

    Episode 329 is a bonus episode, and this one is more personal than usual. I sat down to eat and talk through something a lot of people know too well: what happens inside you after a painful breakup. This is not a polished lecture or a neat list of answers. It is a real time reflection built around 20 honest questions about heartbreak, rejection, rumination, emotional attachment, trying to fix what ended, and figuring out what the pain actually revealed. Sometimes a breakup is not just about losing a person. Sometimes it exposes what you hoped for, what you feared, what you ignored, and what was already hurting underneath the relationship. If you have ever found yourself replaying conversations, trying to stay productive, wondering why one person hit you so deeply, or asking what you are actually supposed to do with the pain after love falls apart, this episode is for you. This is Dinner With the Podcast After Heartbreak.

    1h 8m
  8. Episode 328: Trusting God After Painful Relationships

    APR 1

    Episode 328: Trusting God After Painful Relationships

    In this episode, I am handling this part of the series a little differently. Instead of coming at it like a formal teaching, I wanted to approach it as a careful question period. The issue is too important to speak on casually. So the real question I am asking here is this: What does the gospel do with the ways pain has changed how we love? We talk about what happens when pain reshapes the heart through withdrawal, control, overgiving, performance, and fear of people. We also walk through Scripture and ask a deeper question than just what happened to us. We ask what happened in us, what we started trusting, what we started hiding behind, and what Christ does with that. This episode is for anyone trying to make sense of how hurt affects love, trust, identity, and relationships. It is honest, careful, Scripture grounded, and aimed at real transformation not just recognition. If pain has changed the way you love, this conversation is about whether the gospel can reorder what your heart now trusts. If you want a slightly sharper alternate title, use: Episode 328: What the Gospel Does With Love After Pain

    1h 8m
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You’re Probably Right is a long-form podcast for people who feel out of step with surface-level advice and easy answers. Each episode looks at relationships, social dynamics, belief systems, and the quiet patterns that shape how people treat each other, especially the parts nobody prepares you for. There are no quick fixes here. Just clear thinking, lived experience, and conversations that trust the listener to keep up. Hosted by Michael C Murray. If this podcast brings you value, help keep it going. Support the show: buymeacoffee.com/yprpodcast ☕️

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  • Creator
    Michael C Murray
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    341
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Michael C Murray
  • Show Website
    You’re Probably Right