How Married Are You?

Glen & Yvette Henry
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You may know Glen from Beleaf in Fatherhood where he gives a real life perspective of life as a stay at home parent. This podcast is an extension of his youtube series, where he & Yvette sit down on a weekly basis to share their parenting and marriage experiences as a unit.

  1. 1 DAY AGO

    You're Not Gonna be a Lazy Mother #HMAY Ep. 262

    “Am I going to be a lazy mom?” A 23-year-old listener is glowing with excitement about her first pregnancy 👶🏾—but beneath the joy, fear lingers. Raised tough, she worries she won’t be nurturing enough, won’t have the energy, won’t measure up. Her 25-year-old husband is steady and supportive, but she’s left asking: How do I step into motherhood when doubt whispers louder than confidence? We talk: 💡 Why parenting starts in the womb—and how small daily choices already shape connection 🛑 The lie of the “lazy mom” and why rest is a requirement, not a weakness 💸 Facing financial fears with faith and resilience instead of scarcity thinking 🍼 How breastfeeding, bonding, and even “missed invitations” become training grounds for grace 🌱 Learning to parent yourself first so you can parent your child with confidence and compassion Have you ever doubted you’d be “enough” as a parent? How did you find your footing? Episode 262 is live—join the conversation and share your story! #HowMarriedAreYou #ParentingWithGrace #Episode262

    44 min

  2. 23 SEPT

    My Husband Deleted Me Off of His Instagram #HMAY Ep. 261

    PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY! A listener married young and in love; years later, pregnant with a toddler at home, she’s watching her husband drift from faith, hide the marriage online, and surround himself with bad influences. Birthdays and Mother’s Days go ignored, passwords are gone, and therapy suggests an ultimatum. Is she clinging to hope—or ignoring what she already knows? We talk: 🕊️ Redemption starts with repentance and confession—and two willing people. 🚩 Public secrecy is a signal: removing your spouse from socials isn’t “privacy,” it presents you as single—trust what that communicates. 🧭 Gaslighting check: move as if you know the truth, and seek clarity wisely (community, receipts, even a P.I. if safe)—but remember, you can’t unsee what you find. 👥 Character over position: look for someone submitted to mentors, community, and growth; that’s more telling than job titles or labels. 🧩 Forgiveness ≠ reconciliation: you can extend grace without staying; with kids, co-parenting may continue, but covenant requires honesty and change. Have you ever had to choose clarity over comfort in a relationship? What did repentance look like in real life? Episode 261 is live—tap in and share your story.

    41 min

  3. 16 SEPT

    I Don't Know if I Can Handle My Husband’s Vulnerability HMAY Ep. 260

    PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY Is wanting vulnerability the same as being ready to hold it? A newlywed (90-something days in!) loves her husband but admits his past trauma makes openness slow. Then the Holy Spirit hits her with two checks: “Can you handle what he gives you?” and “Steward well what he gives you.” We unpack what “safe space” really costs: capacity, patience, and practice. 💛 We talk: 🧩 Capacity ≠ desire: Wanting all the feelings isn’t the same as being able to carry them—growth over pass/fail. 📦 Steward what you have: Treat disclosures like a fragile package—follow “handling instructions,” even if unspoken. 🤫 Sometimes love is quiet: Hold space, resist fixing, let him finish, respond later with care. 🧑🏾‍🤝‍🧑🏾 He needs his people: Spouse ≠ only container—think therapist, mentors, men’s community, real accountability. 🛡️ Protect each other & the mission: Boundaries are holy; honesty and safety can coexist. How did you build capacity to be a safer place for your partner’s truth? Drop a tip for the wedding party. Episode 260 is live—tap in!

    59 min

  4. 9 SEPT

    She Don't Like You Black Brother #HMAY Ep. 259

    A brother wrote in after a three-year long-distance rollercoaster where tough talks turned into silence and her parents turned hostile. He prayed for an approval and called it a sign while every other sign said no. We laugh, we side-eye, and we keep it loving but honest. 😂🙏🏾 We talk: 🙅🏾‍♂️ Stop over-spiritualizing dating. God is not a vending machine or a green light on command. 🚫🏠 Racism in your own home is a hard no. You cannot change being Black and you shouldn’t try to survive where you aren’t respected. 🤐 Silence is not depth. Stonewalling and hiding are patterns, not personality quirks. 🎆 Chemistry is fireworks. 🧯 Compatibility is fire safety. Choose the relationship that chooses you back. 🧹 Unfollow, block, and heal. Get a real therapist and find mentors 10 to 15 years ahead in the season you want, where mutual respect is obvious. Ever turned a red flag into a “sign” and had to course-correct later? Tell us how you knew. Episode 259 is live.

    50 min

  5. 4 SEPT

    In Case You Forgot Where We Stand on Polyamory... #HMAY Ep. 258

    A 27-year-old listener in a three-year poly relationship wants simple guardrails—tell me when you’re out with someone else, if you’re spending the night, and shut it down if they try to edge me out. He resists, agrees begrudgingly, then doesn’t follow through. She’s financially stuck, sharing a cramped place he pays for, and wonders when it’s time to plan her exit. 🛡️💔 We talk: “You wrote us knowing where we stand. Our counsel is to get out.”“He wants more. You want depth. What you desire and what you accept are two different things. One has to change.”“You’re asking for safety, transparency, communication, covering, stability. Those are far easier to build with one person.”“If you truly want that lifestyle, seek voices who live it. We don’t. Our vision is covenant and wholeness.”“The goal in marriage is loving each other into fullness. Fragments won’t make anyone whole.” Have you ever stayed where your needs weren’t respected because leaving felt impossible? What boundary finally moved you toward safety? Episode 258 is live—tap in and tell us your story.

    32 min

  6. 26 AUG

    I Might Lose a Friend to Gain a Husband #HMAY Ep. 257

    Is God’s will bigger than girl code? ✝️ When a listener in her church circle and her friend’s ex catch real feelings, the trio dynamic—and a friendship—hangs in the balance. She’s prayed the feelings away, he confessed he wants to pursue her, and everyone’s watching to see whether wisdom or worry wins. 💔 We talk: “They didn’t guard their hearts.” Staying close after a breakup kept hope alive and blurred boundaries.“Church culture can blur the lines.” You can’t call dibs on people, and friendship circles can make feelings messy.“You want to be with somebody who wants to be with you.” Maturity releases what isn’t yours and resists possessiveness.“Let the Lord’s voice be the loudest in your ear.” Not girl code or guy code—God’s guidance first.“You’re free to pursue if it’s mutual.” Ask, “What’s your plan and how will this be different,” and accept that you might “lose a friend for your future husband.” Have you ever dated within the friend group? How did you balance loyalty and love? Episode 257 is live—tap in and tell us where you draw the line.

    52 min

  7. 19 AUG

    Montego Bay, Marriage & Messy Growth #HMAY Ep. 256

    What do you do when the man you want to be feels out of reach? 💍🇯🇲 Recorded in Montego Bay while Glen and Yvette celebrate 15 years 🎉, a listener writes in before his own 10-year anniversary: he’s lost motivation, avoids hard conversations, and feels inconsistent in faith and intimacy after weight gain. Without a positive male role model, he’s under a heavy cloud and asking how to lead his family God’s way. ✝️ We talk:Glen shares that year 10 was rough too; therapy in 2020 helped him initiate sex and hard conversations again. 🧠💬“Father yourself”: restructure your inner voice with accountable self-talk and kindness while you grow the man. 🗣️❤️🌱Make it practical: schedule sex 📅, commit to a 30-minute walk 🚶‍♂️🚶‍♀️, and listen to a podcast together to spark real dialogue. 🎧Progress over perfection: trim TV and gaming 📺🎮, make one right decision at a time ✅, and stop treating growth like a deadline. ⏳Partnership in real life: give your spouse room to change 🔄, ask specifically for what you need 📝, and contribute to comfort without mind-reading. 🧩 Have you ever rebuilt confidence in the middle of a marriage? 💬 What first step actually moved the needle for you? Episode 256 is live from Jamaica 🇯🇲 during Glen and Yvette’s 15th-anniversary trip 🎉.

    43 min

  8. 12 AUG

    That Girl is NOT Your Friend! #HMAY Ep. 255

    What do you owe a friend when romance enters the chat? 💔 A listener matched with a guy and told her girls how excited she was—only to learn weeks later that one of them secretly liked him, talked to him, and went on a date. The friend admitted it only after he ghosted her and showed zero remorse. Now the question is clear: where’s the line between shooting your shot and protecting the friendship? We talk: Take inventory: this isn’t the friend you share that kind of news with.Friend vs. homie: keep the group vibe if you want, but downgrade access to your heart.If someone says “I’m hurt,” you acknowledge it—even if you disagree.Loyalty matters: don’t compete with your friends for attention, affection, or “the cupcake.”Years don’t equal trust: 15 years of history doesn’t excuse shady choices. Ever had a friend cross the line on dating etiquette? 🚩 Tell us where you draw the boundary. Episode 255 is live—drop your take in the comments! #HowMarriedAreYou #Friendship #GirlCode #Podcast 50% OFF of our E-Course, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Premarital Advantage⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Email list⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Contact Us: hello@howmarriedareyoupodcast.com Leave Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a Review⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US: Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Support us with a one-time gift through ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠PayPal⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HMAY Podcast IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Glen's IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Yvette's IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chocolate Babies IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Frank the Puppet's IG ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Yvette Unplugged Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!

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You may know Glen from Beleaf in Fatherhood where he gives a real life perspective of life as a stay at home parent. This podcast is an extension of his youtube series, where he & Yvette sit down on a weekly basis to share their parenting and marriage experiences as a unit.

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  • Creator
    Glen & Yvette Henry
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2025
  • Episodes
    259
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Glen & Yvette Henry
  • Show Website
    How Married Are You?

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