The Couple's Classroom

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Ever wonder what happens when the "Perfect Couple" on your feed has to figure out who’s doing the dishes? The Couple's Classroom is a weekly deep-dive into the unglamorous, hilarious, and often messy reality of modern love. Hosted by the laid-back James Wong and the high-energy Hazelle Teo, this show treats every relationship milestone as a lesson to be learned.

Episodios

  1. HACE 5 H

    The Friendship Lesson: Friends, Boundaries, and Support Systems 🤝

    Does getting attached mean losing your social life? In the tenth episode, James Wong and Hazelle Teo examine the "dyadic withdrawal” phenomenon, the research-backed tendency for couples to lose close friends once they become a pair. The episode explores the shift from individual social circles to a merged support system, particularly within the tight-knit "network overlap" of Singapore. The couple shares personal stories about the pressure of integrating as an introvert, the "Vanessa" syndrome of disappearing into a relationship, and the importance of maintaining individual identities while being seen as a "unit." From the red flags of secret opposite-sex friendships to the ethics of venting about your partner to others, this is a lesson in building a community that strengthens, rather than strains, a relationship. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    24 min

  2. 4 ABR

    Why Marriage Prep Isn't Just for When You Have “Problems"

    Is marriage preparation a sign of a struggling relationship, or a strategic investment for a successful one? In the ninth episode, James Wong and Hazelle Teo are joined by Dr John Tan, Executive Director of CARE Singapore, to discuss the necessity of marriage prep. The episode introduces the powerful philosophy that couples must either choose to prepare their marriage or spend their future repairing it. Moving beyond the stigma that counseling is only for "problems," the discussion explores how marriage prep acts as a "supplement" to prevent future conflict rather than just "medicine" to fix it. The couple shares their personal journey through the SYMBIS assessment, uncovering their "Romantic" versus "Resolute" mindsets and learning how to navigate the "baggage" every individual brings into a union. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    35 min

  3. 28 MAR

    To Post or Not to Post? Navigating Social Media Boundaries

    Is a relationship more stable when the world isn’t watching? In the eighth episode, James Wong and Hazelle Teo explore the decision to keep an entire dating life a complete secret until the moment of engagement. The episode breaks down the concept of "Context Collapse”, the digital phenomenon where family, colleagues, and critics all merge into one audience, making it difficult to maintain an authentic connection. The discussion covers the freedom of remaining hidden for 13 months, the hilarious moment G.E.M. almost exposed the pair on a concert Kiss Cam, and the challenge of drawing a line between professional content and personal partnership.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    29 min

  4. 21 MAR

    Why 69% of Your Fights Will Never End 📉

    Is it possible that the small, recurring fights in a relationship are actually never meant to be "solved"? In our seventh episode, James Wong and Hazelle Teo tackle the science of conflict, starting with the staggering fact that 69% of relationship disagreements are perpetual and baked into our personalities. It turns out, those "petty" arguments about the little things are often disguises for much deeper emotional needs. The couple gets vulnerable about how their conflicts usually escalate. They also break down the anatomy of a fight: what makes things worse, how defensiveness creeps in, and the specific ways they’ve learned to "repair" and reconnect after the dust settles. It’s a lesson in emotional safety, shifting the goal from "winning" the argument to simply understanding the partner. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    26 min

  5. 14 MAR

    When You're Not On The Same Cleanliness Wavelength

    Can a relationship thrive when one partner sees a mess and the other sees "living space"? In our sixth episode, James Wong and Hazelle Teo tackle the friction between a cleanliness-focused partner and one who is naturally more easy-going. It turns out, different hygiene standards are about more than just who picks up the socks. The couple explores the "Clutter Threshold”, the point where physical disarray turns into genuine mental stress for Hazelle, while James remains perfectly unbothered. They get honest about the frustration of the "mental load," how James has had to recalibrate his definition of "tidy," and how they navigate the daily tension of living with two very different internal compasses for cleanliness. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    28 min

  6. 7 MAR

    When Your Love Languages Don't Match 💔

    Is it possible to love someone deeply but still feel completely misunderstood? In our fifth episode, James Wong and Hazelle Teo get raw about the friction that happens when love languages collide. It turns out, showing love in your own "language" doesn't always count if your partner isn't fluent in it. The couple reveals their primary driver and share hilarious and honest stories from their personal lives, including a gift from Hazelle that backfired into an argument, the awkward tension of wanting public affection, and why a simple compliment can sometimes be more valuable than a clean house. They discuss how they’ve learned to stop "translating" and start giving the other person exactly what they need in the moment. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    27 min

  7. 28 FEB

    Should You Move In Together Before Marriage?

    Is living together before marriage a relationship "cheat code" or a recipe for disaster? In our fourth episode, James Wong and Hazelle Teo dive into the reality of cohabitation in Singapore, a move that is often considered rare and sometimes even taboo.   It turns out, moving in reveals things a dinner date never could. From Hazelle’s absolute strike against doing the dishes to the realization that they have vastly different standards of hygiene, the couple exposes the habits that clashed the hardest. They discuss the "Trial Period," the daily adjustments required to share a space, and what living side-by-side truly revealed about their compatibility. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    25 min

  8. 21 FEB

    Who Should Get The Wedding Angbao Money? 🧧

    In our third episode, James Wong and Hazelle Teo dive into the "ultimate taboo" that breaks most couples: finances. It turns out, being a "Saver" and a "Spender" isn't just a personality trait, it’s a lifestyle clash. From the high-stakes stress of a wedding budget to the awkward reality of who picks up the check at dinner, we’re breaking down the numbers. We even get into the "Great Angbao Debate" and how James’s pragmatic saving habits balance out Hazelle’s "treat yourself" philosophy. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    27 min

  9. 14 FEB

    Why Is It "Weird" When The Girl Is Older?

    Is age really just a number, or does society make it a problem? In our second episode, James Wong and Hazelle Teo tackle the 6-year age gap that everyone seems to have an opinion on. It turns out, going public wasn't all celebrations, from social media trolls accusing Hazelle of just wanting "fresh meat," to James realizing he had to level with his own maturity to win over her parents and keep up with her success. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    25 min

  10. 5 FEB

    Why James Wong "Audited" Our Relationship Before We Got Together

    In our first episode, James Wong and Hazelle Teo get honest about the messy shift from "just interested" to 100% committed. It turns out, their start wasn't exactly a fairytale, with Hazelle genuinely thinking James was gay, to James writing a literal manifesto in his phone notes before they even went on a date. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    27 min
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Ever wonder what happens when the "Perfect Couple" on your feed has to figure out who’s doing the dishes? The Couple's Classroom is a weekly deep-dive into the unglamorous, hilarious, and often messy reality of modern love. Hosted by the laid-back James Wong and the high-energy Hazelle Teo, this show treats every relationship milestone as a lesson to be learned.

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