Relationship Advice Hosted by: Chase Kosterlitz, Produced by: Sarah Kosterlitz

Opening up to vulnerability, asking better questions and mindfulness are all tools to have better conversations and improve your relationships. Listen to today's show for actionable tips to engage with your partner, friends and family in deeper conversations. 
In this episode with Ashley Kirsner we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

Tools to open up and become more vulnerable for deeper connections

The value of asking open ended questions and how to do it

Why you shouldn't try to fix all of your partner's problems

Why you should start sharing the impact of things your partner did

Using mindfulness to improve your conversations

Gratitude practices to start doing with your partner for immediate benefits

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Understanding how our past informs our present is a key component to creating more love for ourselves and others. Listen to today's show to learn how a moment of impact from our past can show up in the present and how to heal from this place. 
In this episode with Christina Rasmussen we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

Understanding grief's impact on what we do presently

How to shift from simply surviving to thriving 

Why we sometimes have a need to prove our worth to the ones we love

The invisible losses that shape who we are

Understanding the foundational issues behind our triggers

And much more!

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If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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Understanding our values and communicating them with our partner is an important exercise to create a thriving relationship. Listen to today's episode to learn more about creating a values driven relationship. 
In this episode with Colter Bloxom we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

The important difference between values and goals

How to clarify your values and communicate them with your partner

What to do when your values don't align with your partner's

Understanding and clarifying your non-negotiable values

When what we think we want is not what is really best for us

The importance of diversifying your values

And much more!

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Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!
If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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Understanding gender polarity and gender roles is a great way to improve the health and happiness of your relationship. Listen to today's show to learn how to apply this knowledge and start improving your relationship today!
In this episode with Magda Kay we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

Why romantic desire requires polarity and how to create it

Why you need to be communicating about roles in your relationship

Understanding your ideas about gender roles and applying this knowledge to your relationship

Moving between polarity and familiarity to create a loving and fulfilling relationship

How energy flows differently between the masculine and feminine 

And much more!

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If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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We all have expectations for our lives and relationships. When our expectations are not met is usually when we are most disappointed, upset, angry, insert negative emotion here. So what do we do? A good place to start is to learn what realistic expectations are for your relationship and learn how to ask for what you need. Listen to today's episode to get these tips and tools and start applying them to your relationship today!
In this episode with Talia Bombola we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

Establishing your expectations for a relationship and how to determine if they are realistic or not

How to consciously get your wants and needs met in a relationship

Communication tips to get your relationship needs fulfilled

The importance of of not only pointing out the negative in your relationship

Confronting the fact that your partner will disappoint you

And much more!

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Society, pop culture, media and the internet all paint a pretty rosy picture of what a relationship 'should' look like. Unfortunately, these models often don't reflect what a relationship will actually look like nor how to make them work well. Listen to today's show to understand what a healthy relationship actually looks like and requires. 
In this episode with Todd Baratz we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

The harsh reality that our partner's will always frustrate us

Why love is conditional in adult relationships

A healthy approach to using attachment theory to inform your relationship experience 

What to do when the honeymoon phase ends in your relationship

How to navigate a decrease in sexual desire in your relationship

The importance of understanding your partner's triggers and communicating about your own

And much more!

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Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!
If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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