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Qiniso and Nicho

The Gap is a long-form conversation podcast between two men walking life together — not from a place of having it all figured out, but from a place of honesty, faith, and lived experience.We’re navigating the space between where we are and where we’re becoming — in relationships, purpose, faith, masculinity, and identity. We believe the gap isn’t something to escape, but something to understand, sit in, and grow through.We love Christ, but we live in the real world — a world full of pressure, ambition, temptation, doubt, and unanswered questions. The Gap exists to hold those tensions without pretending they don’t exist.This channel is for people who are becoming; not performing.

Episodes

  1. 25 JAN

    EP 2: SINGLENESS ISN'T LONLINESS

    In this episode of The Gap, we sit in the space many people rush through or avoid the gap between singleness and relationships. Whether you’re single, dating, or already in a relationship, this conversation is for you. We unpack how God is present in the gap, even when life feels uncertain, quiet, or unfinished. We talk honestly about our failures, the lessons we learned during singleness, and what it really looks like to hear from God when you’re waiting, wondering, or figuring things out. This episode is for: Singles learning patience and purpose Couples still figuring out faith, love, and alignment Anyone asking, “God, what are You doing in this season?” One of the key truths we land on is this: The gap in our singleness is not emptiness it’s intentionality. God uses this space to shape us, prepare us, and teach us how to listen before the next chapter begins.

    35 min

  2. 8 JAN

    EP 1: LIVING IN THE GAP

    What does it mean to live in the space between who you are and who you’re becoming? In this opening episode of The Gap, Nicho and Qiniso introduce themselves—not as experts with all the answers, but as two men committed to walking life honestly, faithfully, and in real time. This conversation sets the foundation for why The Gap exists and what listeners can expect from the journey ahead. We share parts of our individual stories... where we come from, the struggles that shaped us, and the moments that forced us to confront the tension between faith and real life. From ambition and pressure to doubt, identity, and unanswered prayers, we talk openly about the gaps we’ve encountered and continue to live in. More than just telling our stories, this episode asks a deeper question: What do we actually do while we’re in the gap? When clarity hasn’t come yet. When growth feels slow. When faith is real, but life is heavy. The Gap isn’t about escaping discomfort or rushing toward outcomes—it’s about learning how to sit with God in the middle of the process and allowing the becoming to happen honestly. This podcast is for those who are becoming, not performing.  For those who love Christ but are navigating real-world tension.  For anyone learning to trust God in the in-between. Welcome to The Gap.

    32 min
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About

The Gap is a long-form conversation podcast between two men walking life together — not from a place of having it all figured out, but from a place of honesty, faith, and lived experience.We’re navigating the space between where we are and where we’re becoming — in relationships, purpose, faith, masculinity, and identity. We believe the gap isn’t something to escape, but something to understand, sit in, and grow through.We love Christ, but we live in the real world — a world full of pressure, ambition, temptation, doubt, and unanswered questions. The Gap exists to hold those tensions without pretending they don’t exist.This channel is for people who are becoming; not performing.

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  • Creator
    Qiniso and Nicho
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    2
  • Rating
    Clean
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