Ditch The Debate

Taniel
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Are you a mom entrepreneur ready for more (without the guilt) unlocking your full potential while tackling the chaos of juggling life, family, and business? Welcome to ’Ditch The Debate,’ where I’m your guide, Taniel—an expert in Transformation Coaching, Clinical Hypnotherapy, Online Marketing, and Leadership with a passion for helping high-performance moms step into the life they fully deserve. Join me on a transformative journey where practical strategies intersect with the power of the mind. In short - where the woo-woo rubber hits the road. Together, we’ll dive into empowering discussions, actionable insights, and inspiring stories. It’s time to ditch the debate & make it happen. So, grab a comfy chair, tune in, and let’s step into your powerful, authentic self together. Are you ready? Let’s go!

  1. 02/12/2025

    Why Willpower Doesn't Work & What Actually Does

    If you’ve ever started Monday with colour-coded to-do lists and ended the week hiding from your inbox, this episode is going to sting a little… in a helpful way. In this episode, Taniel talks about why “I just need more willpower” is one of the biggest lies women tell themselves – especially working moms who are already running on fumes. We’re breaking down why you can’t “discipline” your way out of survival mode, and what your nervous system and subconscious are actually trying to do when you procrastinate, self-sabotage, or “fall off the wagon.” You’ll hear why your patterns are often protection, not failure, why your brain will always prioritise safety over goals, and what to focus on instead: safety, capacity, and self-trust. This is not another productivity pep talk. It’s a reality check on why willpower keeps letting you down – and a practical guide to what genuinely helps you follow through in a life that’s already full.   What You’ll Hear: Why “I just need more discipline” is a trap How your nervous system quietly overrides your willpower The difference between laziness and protection Subtle signs you’re in survival mode (not flaky or inconsistent) What actually works: safety, nervous system regulation, and small honest moves   This episode is for you if: You start strong… then crash and burn on every plan You think you’re “bad at consistency” You keep calling it procrastination, but deep down it feels heavier You’re tired of feeling like a grown woman who still needs someone to “keep her accountable”   Free Resource: Download your free 5-Minute Calming Hypnosis Audio – a gentle nervous system reset for overwhelmed moms. 👉 https://tanielstrydom.com/5-min-calming-reset-audio   ➡️ Episode page: https://tanielstrydom.com/why-willpower-doesnt-work ➡️ Website: https://tanielstrydom.com ➡️ Follow me: https://instagram.com/tanielstrydom

    13 min

  2. 18/11/2025

    The Invisible Load of Working Moms & Why It Is Crushing Us

    The invisible load isn’t the dishes, the errands, or the lunchboxes - it’s the mental and emotional weight of carrying everything for everyone, all the time. In this episode, Taniel breaks down what the invisible load really looks like, why working moms are more overwhelmed than ever, and how this constant mental labor quietly drains our energy, identity, and nervous system. Dr Gabor Maté recently said this is “the hardest time to be a mother since World War II,” and honestly… the evidence is everywhere. Mothers are expected to work like they don’t have children and parent like they don’t have jobs. And that pressure shows up in our minds, our bodies, and our emotional capacity. You’ll learn how to name the load you’re carrying, why your body feels constantly braced, and how to start putting down the parts that were never meant to be yours alone.   What You’ll Hear: What the invisible load actually is Why today’s motherhood culture is heavier than ever How the mental load impacts your nervous system The emotional residue no one talks about Simple shifts to lighten the weight and get your capacity back   This episode is for you if: You feel responsible for everything You’re tired even after sleeping Your mind never switches off You want to feel lighter, calmer, and connected to yourself again   Free Resource: Download your free 5-Minute Calming Hypnosis Audio - a gentle nervous system reset for overwhelmed moms. 👉 tanielstrydom.com/5-min-calming-reset-audio   ➡️ Episode page: https://tanielstrydom.com/the-invisible-load-of-working-moms ➡️ Website: https://tanielstrydom.com ➡️ Follow me: https://instagram.com/tanielstrydom

    17 min

  3. 12/11/2025

    The Sunday Night Anxiety Sprial

    That sinking feeling on Sunday night? It’s not just “Sunday Scaries.” It’s your body bracing for survival. In this episode, Taniel shares her personal experience with the Sunday night anxiety spiral and explains why it’s not about dreading Monday - it’s your nervous system remembering past stress. You’ll learn how to decode what that anxiety is trying to tell you, what it needs instead of control, and simple ways to bring your body back to calm before the week begins.   What You’ll Hear: The real reason moms dread Sunday nights How your body “time travels” into stress What your anxiety is actually trying to tell you Gentle ways to interrupt the spiral and find calm A powerful mindset reframe that makes Monday feel lighter   This episode is for you if: You dread Sunday nights because your mind won’t switch off You start the week already exhausted or anxious You want to stop over-preparing and start feeling safe in your body again   Free Resource: Download your 5-Minute Calming Hypnosis Audio - a free nervous system reset to help you feel grounded before Monday. 👉 tanielstrydom.com/5-min-calming-reset-audio   ➡️ Episode page: https://tanielstrydom.com/sunday-night-anxiety-spiral-for-moms ➡️ Website: https://tanielstrydom.com ➡️ Follow me: https://instagram.com/tanielstrydom

    9 min

  4. 04/11/2025

    Why Snapping At Your Kids Isn't Your Fault

    We’ve all had those moments - the ones where you lose your cool, yell louder than you meant to, and then feel that crushing wave of guilt. But what if those reactions weren’t really your fault? What if your body was just doing what it was designed to do - protect you? In this episode, Taniel unpacks what’s really happening when you snap at your kids and why it has more to do with your nervous system than your patience. You’ll learn how stress and overstimulation push your body into fight-or-flight mode, why guilt keeps you stuck in the same cycle, and how to begin teaching your body that calm is safe again. This isn’t about being the perfect mom - it’s about understanding your body, repairing with compassion, and finding your way back to calm when life feels loud.   What You’ll Hear: The real reason you snap - and why it’s not your fault How your nervous system reacts to overwhelm and chaos Why guilt keeps you stuck in the same emotional loop Simple ways to reset and repair after you’ve lost your cool How to start teaching your body what safety and calm feel like again   This episode is for you if: You find yourself snapping or yelling, then drowning in guilt afterward You’re tired of feeling reactive, overstimulated, or constantly “on edge” You want to understand how your nervous system shapes your emotions You’re craving more patience, peace, and connection with your kids   Free Resource: Download your free 5-Minute Calming Hypnosis Audio - a gentle reset to help you regulate your nervous system and return to calm, even on the busiest days. 👉 tanielstrydom.com/5-min-calming-reset-audio   Connect: ➡️ Episode page: https://tanielstrydom.com/why-snapping-at-your-kids-isnt-your-fault ➡️ Website: https://tanielstrydom.com ➡️ Follow me: https://instagram.com/tanielstrydom

    8 min

  5. 28/10/2025

    When Survival Mode Becomes Your Default & How To Break The Cycle

    In this episode, we explore what happens when survival mode stops being a temporary response and becomes your everyday normal. Taniel shares her personal story of living in constant “go mode,” how her body forgot what calm felt like, and the small, gentle shifts that helped her rebuild safety, peace, and presence from the inside out. This isn’t about doing more — it’s about doing less, on purpose. If you’ve been holding it all together for everyone else and feel like you’ve lost touch with yourself, this episode will remind you that you’re not broken — you’re healing.   What You’ll Hear: The hidden ways survival mode shows up in daily life Why your body stays “on” even when you want peace What it really means to re-teach your nervous system safety Small, realistic ways to start feeling calm again How healing often looks slower, softer, and more real than you expect   This episode is especially for you if: You’re constantly “on,” even when exhausted Rest feels uncomfortable or unearned You’re ready to feel calm, safe, and in control again   Free Resource: Join the waitlist for my 5-Minute Calming Hypnosis Audio — designed to help your body remember what safety feels like again: tanielstrydom.com/5-min-calming-reset-audio   Connect with Taniel: ➡️ Episode page: https://tanielstrydom.com/what-to-do-when-survival-mode-becomes-your-default ➡️ Website: https://tanielstrydom.com ➡️ Follow me: https://instagram.com/tanielstrydom

    9 min

  6. 30/09/2025

    I Didn't Know I Was In Survival Mode Until I Was Finally Safe

    Episode Summary: In my last episode, I shared the moment I realized I didn’t recognize myself anymore. But what happens after that? After you leave the job, the role, the relationship, the version of yourself that was built in survival? This episode is about that in-between place—the one no one talks about. Where everything is finally quiet… and instead of peace, you feel panic. Where your nervous system doesn’t know how to rest, because for so long, it only knew how to survive. If you’ve ever slowed down and felt lost instead of relieved, this one’s for you.   What You’ll Hear: What survival mode really feels like (and why it often goes unnoticed) Why stillness can feel threatening, even when it’s what you crave The small rituals that helped me reconnect with myself How I discovered nervous system + subconscious healing out of necessity What healing actually looks and feels like (hint: it’s not always a glow-up) This episode is especially for you if: You’ve “made it out” but don’t feel better yet Rest feels uncomfortable, unfamiliar, or even unsafe You want to heal, but nothing seems to stick You’re craving calm, clarity, and connection — but feel stuck in the in-between   Join the waitlist to receive a free calming hypnosis audio, designed to help your body feel safe again — even in the middle of a chaotic day: https://tanielstrydom.com/5-min-calming-reset-audio/   ➡️ Website: https://tanielstrydom.com ➡️ Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/tanielstrydom

    11 min

  7. 10/06/2025

    The Moment I Realized I Didn't Recognize Myself Anymore

    There was a moment—7 months pregnant, sitting in my home office after a leadership call—that I realized I didn’t recognize myself anymore. I was successful. Respected. In a senior role at a global company. But I was also exhausted, silenced, and pushed so far beyond my edge that my body went into early labor just two days later. This episode is not just about corporate burnout—it’s about what happens when we abandon ourselves to survive in toxic environments, and how we begin the journey back to the woman we used to be. What You’ll Hear: The slow unraveling behind professional success A traumatic meeting that sent me into early labor How I lost myself—and what helped me find my voice again Why burnout is not a mindset issue, it’s a nervous system response A gentle invitation to reclaim your calm This episode is especially for you if: You're stuck in a high-pressure job that’s draining your energy or identity You feel anxious at the thought of another Monday You've normalized survival mode but know something has to change You want to feel calm, safe, and confident again—but don’t know where to start ✨ Join the waitlist to receive a free calming hypnosis audio, designed to help you reset your nervous system and reconnect with your true self: https://tanielstrydom.com/5-min-calming-reset-audio/   ➡️ Episode page: https://tanielstrydom.com/the-moment-i-didnt-recognize-myself/ ➡️ Website: https://tanielstrydom.com ➡️ Follow me: https://instagram.com/tanielstrydom

    12 min

  8. 08/01/2025

    Looking Back at 2024 and Moving Forward into 2025 with Intentions

    In this episode, I’m sharing a personal journey through the highs and lows of 2024 and how these experiences shaped my lessons, mindset, and goals for the year ahead. It’s a raw and honest reflection of growth, acceptance, and the power of clarity as we step into 2025. What to Expect in This Episode A candid look back at the unexpected challenges of 2024, including personal loss, health struggles, and lessons learned. The importance of acceptance and letting go of control to protect your peace. Key lessons from 2024, including: Setting boundaries as a form of self-respect. Redefining productivity with presence over busy-ness. Shifting a scarcity mindset to embrace financial abundance. Rewiring your mind through neuroplasticity and self-belief. How gratitude anchored me through tough times and what I’m most thankful for. My intentions for 2025: clarity, simplicity, and joy. Practical steps to reflect on your own 2024 and set meaningful goals for 2025. Key Takeaways Acceptance Frees You: Letting go of the need to control outcomes protects your inner peace and helps you move forward. Boundaries Are Essential: Saying “no” to what drains you makes room for what matters. Presence > Productivity: Stop tying your worth to your to-do list and prioritize being present with your loved ones. You Deserve Abundance: Release guilt around wanting more and give yourself permission to thrive financially and emotionally. Growth Is Possible at Any Stage: Your mind is a powerful muscle that can be rewired for confidence and resilience. Share the Love If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with someone who might need it! Don’t forget to leave a review or subscribe—it really helps the podcast reach more amazing listeners like you.   Let’s Connect ➡️ Episode page: https://tanielstrydom.com/2024-reflection-and-intention-setting-for-2025 ➡️ Website: https://tanielstrydom.com ➡️ Follow me: https://instagram.com/tanielstrydom

    15 min
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Are you a mom entrepreneur ready for more (without the guilt) unlocking your full potential while tackling the chaos of juggling life, family, and business? Welcome to ’Ditch The Debate,’ where I’m your guide, Taniel—an expert in Transformation Coaching, Clinical Hypnotherapy, Online Marketing, and Leadership with a passion for helping high-performance moms step into the life they fully deserve. Join me on a transformative journey where practical strategies intersect with the power of the mind. In short - where the woo-woo rubber hits the road. Together, we’ll dive into empowering discussions, actionable insights, and inspiring stories. It’s time to ditch the debate & make it happen. So, grab a comfy chair, tune in, and let’s step into your powerful, authentic self together. Are you ready? Let’s go!

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  • Creator
    Taniel
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2025
  • Episodes
    59
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2023 Ditch The Debate
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