Kayotic

Kaylee Gutierrez

Kayotic is the podcast for the beautifully chaotic women who are doing all the things — building businesses, raising babies, and trying not to lose themselves in the process. Hosted by Kaylee, a witty mom of four with a million passions, this show is like catching up with your brutally honest bestie who’s been through it. Expect unfiltered solo episodes and raw conversations with real guests — from her boyfriend, besties & inspiring people — diving into the messy, magical reality of motherhood, mental health, entrepreneurship, and everything in between. Whether you're juggling a side hustle at nap time or starting a project at 9PM (guilty), Kayotic is here to remind you: you're not alone, and your chaos is kind of your superpower. From the highs to the hot mess moments, nothing’s off limits. We’re showing up messy, but moving forward anyway — because progress doesn’t require perfection.

Episodes

  1. 06/12/2025

    “I had to stop fixing broken men and start fixing myself” | w/Angel

    In this episode of Kayotic, I’m sitting down with my girl Angel and trust me… this one gets DEEP. We go all the way back to teenage chaos, fixer-upper boyfriends, DUI rock bottoms, and the relationships that shaped (and nearly broke) us. Angel opens up about choosing the wrong partners, ignoring red flags, losing herself in survival mode, and what it actually took to walk away from a marriage that wasn’t aligned anymore. We unpack the raw, uncomfortable parts of dating toxic men, becoming a mom with someone you weren’t meant to build a life with, and the identity shift that hits you like a freight train after having a baby. Angel shares how motherhood forced her to choose stability, how divorce cracked her open, and how rebuilding her life led to the gym, healing, and eventually meeting a man who actually shows up. If you’ve ever settled, loved someone’s potential instead of their reality, stayed too long, or felt like you had to rebuild from scratch… this episode is your reminder that choosing peace isn’t weakness, it’s power. We cover: Why teenage “bad boys” felt like destinySeven years in a situationship that was straight out of a trailer parkBeing the other woman without realizing how deep it wentMarrying fast, missing red flags, and motherhood’s brutal clarityDivorce, shame, therapy, and learning to stop fixing broken menRebuilding your identity through fitness, sobriety, and soul-searchingDating after divorce + unhinged Hinge stories (Stroke Boy… we’re looking at you)Meeting Trevor, letting love in again, and unlearning survival modeThis episode is for you if: You’re healing from a toxic relationship, navigating co-parenting chaos, rebuilding after heartbreak, or rewriting your life as a woman and a mother who finally knows her worth. 📍 Episode Chapters & Timestamps 00:00 – Intro + “How did I end up here?”  01:30 – Angel’s childhood + fixer-upper boy pattern  03:45 – The 7-year toxic situationship & being the “other woman”  06:00 – Rock bottom, getting fired, and the final explosive breakup  08:15 – DUI, jail, and jumping into her next relationship  10:30 – Fast engagement → marriage → pregnancy → separation  12:45 – Red flags, financial chaos, and therapy saying “this won’t work”  15:00 – Motherhood forcing clarity + choosing stability for her son  17:30 – Co-parenting struggles, loss of control, and identity shifts  19:45 – Leaving toxic relationships & what people don’t understand  22:00 – Healing, learning self-worth, and advice to her younger self  24:30 – Fitness, sobriety, and rediscovering herself after divorce  26:00 – Dating again: roster era + the “Stroke Boy” saga  28:30 – Meeting Trevor + the Hawaiian-shirt love bombing  30:00 – Unlearning survival mode & letting in a healthy relationship

    1h 9m
  2. 22/07/2025

    From Blackout Nights to Potty Training: How Motherhood Changed Everything

    Ep.10 In this episode, we’re keeping it chaotic (as always) with my longtime bestie Carlie — and trust me, it’s a ride. From fake IDs and bar brawls to potty training and co-parenting, we dive deep into how motherhood flips your entire identity upside down. We laugh through the wildest Uber rides, spill the tea on that one questionable girls trip, and open up about the emotional weight of solo parenting, dating as a single mom, and learning how to set boundaries after heartbreak. If you're a mom who's evolved from the party scene to preschool pickup — or you're somewhere in between — this episode will have you laughing, nodding, and maybe texting your best friend mid-listen. We cover: Girls trip chaos, fake IDs, and why we don’t travel with strangers anymoreThe emotional rollercoaster of motherhood after a breakupCo-parenting wins and real-talk boundaries with your exPotty training fails, toddler wakeups, and parenting through exhaustionWhy dating as a single mom is a hard pass (for now)Teaching our daughters what healthy love looks likeThis episode is for you if: You’re navigating single motherhood and trying to keep your sanity intactYou’ve outgrown your party girl era but still want to laugh about itYou want honest, unfiltered talk about co-parenting, identity shifts, and dating post-babyYou’re figuring out how to protect your peace and raise your daughter with intentionYou need a reminder that you’re allowed to change, grow, and set the damn tone👯‍♀️ FOLLOW KAYLEE: https://www.instagram.com/kay.lee.lou/ https://www.instagram.com/kayoticbykaylee/ https://www.tiktok.com/@kay.lee.lou https://www.tiktok.com/@kayotic.pod 📍 Episode Chapters & Timestamps 00:00 – Welcome to Kayotic + meet Carlie  02:00 – If the bar bathroom walls could talk…  05:50 – Fake IDs, fights, and blackout stories  10:25 – The wildest Uber ride (and the girl who stole my bed)  16:30 – Motherhood now: potty training, moving, and starting over  23:15 – Dating as a single mom: “who has the time?!”  27:50 – Boundaries, co-parenting, and keeping things respectful  33:00 – Teaching our daughters how to spot healthy love  36:45 – Current obsessions: books, Love Island, and toddlers with DVDs  41:00 – Wrapping it all up: you’re allowed to evolve and protect your peace

    42 min
  3. 03/06/2025

    Dating a Single Mom Isn’t for the Weak (with Seth)

    Ep. 9 - In this episode, we’re getting raw, funny, and real about what it’s like to date a single mom—from the early awkward stages to building a blended family that actually works. Kaylee and her boyfriend Seth sit down for a vulnerable conversation about dating after heartbreak, breaking the “used goods” stigma, and what it takes to show up for kids who aren’t biologically yours. From single mom guilt to dad jokes and “jungle time,” this one’s packed with laughter, truth bombs, and heartfelt advice for anyone navigating love with a little extra chaos. We cover: What it’s really like being a single mom trying to date againThe fears and stigma men face when dating women with kidsHow to build trust with your partner’s kids (and survive the “you’re not my dad” stage)Red flags to watch for when dating as a single momWhy men need to stop wasting moms’ time if they’re not all inWhat real commitment to a blended family actually looks likeWhy dating a “hot mom” hits different when the jungle starts playing 😏This episode is for you if: You’re a single mom who wants to date again without guiltYou’re wondering how to blend families and make it workYou want a partner who shows up for you and your kidsYou’re tired of low-effort men and ready to raise your standardsYou love a little romance, realness, and chaos in your earbuds 🎧✨ If you’re a mom with a messy love life or a guy thinking about dating one—this one’s for you.FOLLOW KAYLEE: https://www.instagram.com/kay.lee.lou/ https://www.instagram.com/kayoticbykaylee/ https://www.tiktok.com/@kay.lee.lou https://www.tiktok.com/@kayotic.pod 📍 Episode Chapters & Timestamps 00:00 – Intro chaos, laughs, and awkward mic moments  01:00 – Finding out she was pregnant young + dealing with a toxic relationship  03:46 – Pregnancy stress, morning sickness, and single mom strength  05:21 – Andre as a baby: Lightning McQueen & toddler cuteness  06:30 – Living with parents, losing friends, and mom life at 21  07:45 – The newborn fog and dating again (with a little drama)  09:00 – “Used goods” stigma & dating fears as a new single mom  10:05 – Guys reacting to dating a mom & why it freaks some out  11:34 – Primal fears, paternity issues, and caveman-level jealousy  12:05 – Seth’s first time meeting Andre (and why Taco Bell saved the day)  13:50 – Why Seth didn’t care the kids weren’t biologically his  14:26 – Kaylee’s “no dating guys with kids” rule—and why she made it  16:00 – How step-parenting works when your partner has your back 17:50 – The turning point: respect, trust, and building family roles 19:23 – “We knew each other more than just two dates, y’all…” 20:06 – The fully developed brain test: What women really want 21:04 – Realizing men actually want families too 22:00 – The almost-crossed-paths story & banking together during Covid 23:13 – Seth’s advice to men: If you’re not committed, don’t waste her time 24:10 – Why Christmas is better with kids & making your own magic 25:28 – Moms: don’t lower your standards just because you have kids 26:25 – A message to all the meatheads: kids notice everything 27:01 – Final Q: What’s the best part of dating a hot mom? 27:20 – “When the jungle starts playing…” 🐆🔥

    28 min
  4. 15/05/2025

    No Plan, Just Passion: Starting Something New in the Middle of Motherhood

    Ep. 8 - In this episode, we’re keeping it 100 about the messy, chaotic life of motherhood — the mom guilt, the “I’m failing” moments, and the wild ride of trying to start a creative biz while juggling all the chaos. From a funny hospital story to real talk on pushing through doubt and overwhelm, Haley gets honest about what it really takes to keep going when you feel like you’re drowning. If you’re a busy mom trying to make moves without losing your mind, this one’s for you. We cover: The messy, real side of mom guilt and overwhelmHow to keep going when you feel like you’re failing at everythingThe wild chaos of juggling motherhood and starting a creative bizWhy it’s okay to embrace the chaos instead of trying to control it allPushing through doubt and finding your own kind of hustleWhat self-care really looks like when you’re drowning in to-dos✨ Grab your coffee (or wine), hit play, and let’s get real about motherhood, creativity, and keeping your sanity in the madness. This episode is for you if: You’re a busy mom trying to make moves but feel stuck in the chaosYou battle mom guilt and overwhelm daily (and want to feel less alone)You want honest, no-BS advice about balancing biz, motherhood, and yourselfYou’re ready to embrace your messy, chaotic journey instead of pretending it’s perfectFOLLOW KAYLEE: > https://www.instagram.com/kay.lee.lou/ > https://www.instagram.com/kayoticbykaylee/ > https://www.tiktok.com/@kay.lee.lou > https://www.tiktok.com/@kayotic.pod FOLLOW HALEY: > https://www.instagram.com/konzalphoto/ 📍 Episode Chapters & Timestamps 00:00 – Welcome to Kayotic: Chaos, crying, and calling it what it is  03:15 – Closet cries & motherhood burnout: The day everything cracked  07:00 – I was made for more: The itch to create something of my own  11:32 – Working full-time, parenting, and still chasing a dream  16:18 – Why I almost quit before I started (and how I kept going)  21:40 – Real talk: relationships, mental health, and not having it all together  26:27 – Letting go of guilt and making room for passion  31:15 – What “showing up” looks like when life feels messy  35:22 – You don’t need a plan—you need permission  39:44 – Ending with love: You’re allowed to change, grow, and come undone

    52 min
  5. 01/05/2025

    Branding Without the Burnout – Real Talk with Taysha

    Ep. 7 - In this episode of Kayotic, I sit down with branding expert and creative entrepreneur Taysha to unpack what really makes a brand stand out—and it’s not just the aesthetics. We’re talking strategy, messaging, personal vs business branding, and the mindset shifts that come with evolving your identity as a creative or entrepreneur. Taysha shares her own rebrand journey, the trap of perfectionism, and how creator moms can navigate content, offers, and business without losing themselves in the process. Whether you're a multi-passionate hustler or a mom figuring out your next move, this episode is full of real advice and relatable chaos (the good kind). We cover: When to start thinking about brandingSigns it’s time for a rebrandHow to find your voice (and stick to it)Whether or not you really need to nicheFinding the balance between strategy and vibesWhat consistency looks like in real life (not just on Instagram)✨ Grab your coffee (or wine), hit play, and let’s talk brand identity—with a little chaos on the side. This episode is for you if: You're a creative or entrepreneur feeling stuck or overwhelmed by your brandingYou’ve outgrown your current brand and don’t know where to start with a rebrandYou struggle with showing up consistently online (without faking it)You want real, honest advice from women balancing business, motherhood, and identity shiftsFREE Birthday Freebies Guide: https://stan.store/Kayotic FOLLOW KAYLEE: > https://www.instagram.com/kay.lee.lou/ > https://www.instagram.com/kayoticbykaylee/ > https://www.tiktok.com/@kay.lee.lou > https://www.tiktok.com/@kayotic.pod FOLLOW TAYSHA: > https://www.instagram.com/tayshasdesignstudio/  > https://tayshasdesignstudio.com/ 📍 Episode Chapters & Timestamps 00:00 - Intro & Catch-Up 02:30 - When Should You Start Thinking About Branding? The difference between personal branding and business branding. 03:25 - The Power of Messaging Why your message matters more than your logo. 04:12 - What Makes a Good Brand Strategy? Key components and common mistakes. 05:01 - How Perfectionism Holds Creatives Back A real talk moment about doing too much and people-pleasing. 07:12 - Signs You Might Need to Rebrand What to look for when your brand no longer fits. 09:05 - Where to Start When You’re Thinking About a Rebrand Strategy over aesthetics and making intentional choices. 10:08 - Taysha's Rebrand Journey How her brand evolved with her freelancing and business goals. 11:10 - Do You Really Have to Niche Down? The pros and cons of niching—and how to make it work for you. 13:01 - Personal Brand vs Business Brand How to decide which one makes sense for your goals. 13:45 - Strategy vs Vibes: Can You Have Both? Balancing creative instincts with data and direction. 14:21 - Advice for Creator Moms Managing branding, content, and offers without losing your mind. 15:39 - Balancing Business & Relationships Real talk about priorities, schedules, and outsourcing. 16:43 - How Often Should You Post on Social Media? The honest truth about consistency and burnout.

    23 min
  6. 11/04/2025

    Ep. 6 Kayotic Vibes

    Today’s episode is a whole vibe shift, bestie. We're saying goodbye to Group Chat Chronicles and officially welcoming you to Kayotic — the messy, real, raw, and intentional space for every overstimulated, overachieving, multi-passionate woman out there. From the name to the mission, I’m bringing you behind the scenes of the rebrand, why it feels like home, and what’s coming next on this wild ride. If you've ever felt like you're juggling a million things (kids, career, identity, chaos), this episode is your reminder that you’re not alone — and that your chaos is powerful. ✨ Key Moments: [00:00] The Rebrand Reveal — why Group Chat Chronicles just didn’t hit anymore[00:41] From messy tea to meaningful chaos[01:14] Who this podcast is really for (spoiler: it’s you)[02:18] Why Kayotic is the most "me" name ever[03:10] Balancing kids, business, work, and life (or at least trying to)[05:12] That one time poop derailed my entire day… welcome to mom life[06:44] The chaos never ends, but that’s the magic[07:16] What you can expect from solo episodes and guest convos[08:13] A massive thank you + how you can be part of the journeyIf you’re here for the laughs and the healing, the business talk and the late-night mom rants, Kayotic is the podcast for you. 💬 Let's keep the convo going!  Follow me on Instagram & TikTok: 📲https://www.instagram.com/kayoticbykaylee/ 📲https://www.tiktok.com/@groupchat.chronicles DM me your thoughts on the rebrand, share the episode with your chaotic crew, and don’t forget to rate the show — it seriously helps so much! See you next week, when we dive even deeper into rebranding your life with intention. 💖

    9 min

About

Kayotic is the podcast for the beautifully chaotic women who are doing all the things — building businesses, raising babies, and trying not to lose themselves in the process. Hosted by Kaylee, a witty mom of four with a million passions, this show is like catching up with your brutally honest bestie who’s been through it. Expect unfiltered solo episodes and raw conversations with real guests — from her boyfriend, besties & inspiring people — diving into the messy, magical reality of motherhood, mental health, entrepreneurship, and everything in between. Whether you're juggling a side hustle at nap time or starting a project at 9PM (guilty), Kayotic is here to remind you: you're not alone, and your chaos is kind of your superpower. From the highs to the hot mess moments, nothing’s off limits. We’re showing up messy, but moving forward anyway — because progress doesn’t require perfection.