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'notes from an eldest daughter' is a podcast for eldest daughters especially from immigrant families) who’ve carried it all and are finally ready to relax. This is your space to exhale. Through honest and relatable convos on identity, mental health, and the universal eldest daughter experience, we unpack the invisible weight that comes with being the first born, coming from someone who REALLY gets it (trust). If you're the strong one, the fixer, the role model, and you're ready to feel seen and supported, this space is for you! Soooo, put down the to-do list, take a breath, and just listen

  1. 4 DAYS AGO

    wnrs wednesdays: the new years eve edition

    The last ‘we’re not really strangers Wednesday’s’ episode of 2025! Thank you so much for tuning in for the past few months and being part of this community; couldn’t have done this without y’all 333 As always, thank you to all those who’ve been supporting the podcast; it truly means the world 🫶🏾 0:00 - weekly check-in + song of the week 1:48 - Card #1 (reconnection) 6:12 - Card #2 (love) 09:28 - Card #3 (compliments) 11:35 - Outro Connect With Me: Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@eldestdaughternotesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/eldestdaughternotes/Substack: https://substack.com/@eldestdaughternotes?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-pageEmail (Business Purposes ONLY): eldestdaughternotes@gmail.com33

    12 min

  2. 17/12/2025

    wnrs wednesdays: crying in public, exes, and deleting social media

    from crying at a target to snapping for the streak, we explore some more wnrs cards in this week's episode of ‘we’re not really strangers Wednesday’s’! Truly had so much fun recording this episode and I hope y'all enjoy listening to it as much as I enjoyed recording it. As always, thank you to all those who’ve been supporting the podcast; it truly means the world 🫶🏾 0:00 - weekly check-in + song of the week 1:59 - Card #1 (crying in public) 7:38 - Card #2 (exes) 13:02 - Card #3 (deleting social media) 16:43 - Outro Connect With Me:Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@eldestdaughternotesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/eldestdaughternotes/Substack: https://substack.com/@eldestdaughternotes?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-pageEmail (Business Purposes ONLY): eldestdaughternotes@gmail.com33

    18 min

  3. 10/12/2025

    wnrs wednesdays: cheating, singledom, and dinner with exes

    Another episode of ‘we’re not really strangers Wednesday’s’! Truly enjoyed recording this episode; thank y’all for your support with the podcast! Couldn’t do Spotify Wrapped for Creators without y’all 3 As always, thank you to all those who’ve been supporting the podcast; it truly means the world 🫶🏾 “Dear Future Wifey” podcast: Olay and Friends episode: https://youtu.be/PF_3WFqg0pM?si=ZZpkZnMhJcs1z0ePKennieJD: https://youtu.be/Esy6eUsviJI?si=4SCFlr_mE_MZOKmx0:00 - weekly check-in + song of the week + spotify wrapped! 7:10 - Card #1 (cheating) 14:24 - Card #2 (singledom) 20:22 - Card #3 (dinner with exes) 23:48 - Outro Connect With Me: Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@eldestdaughternotesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/eldestdaughternotes/Substack: https://substack.com/@eldestdaughternotes?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-pageEmail (Business Purposes ONLY): eldestdaughternotes@gmail.com

    24 min
  4. wnrs wednesdays: nudes, first dates, and being ghosted

    03/12/2025

    wnrs wednesdays: nudes, first dates, and being ghosted

    Another episode of ‘we’re not really strangers wednesday’s’! Truly enjoyed recording this episode; starting off the very cold month of December well with this episode! The weather is getting colder and the sun is setting sooner than desired, but wnrsw continues on! As always, thank you to all those who’ve been supporting the podcast; it truly means the world to me 🫶🏾 Song of the week: Shallow - Magnolia Park:https://on.soundcloud.com/Ny4oJQNCtVHwQ3ninLhttps://music.apple.com/us/album/shallow-single/1750265079https://open.spotify.com/album/6Cor4gZH5ANpH8OSuyH3a3?si=Le2-TFCzRSGtkmAks-Hr9Qhttps://youtu.be/XpHwOf3IkGU?si=ueFmd6wGRwQjclla0:00 - song of the week + briefly weekly 3:10 - Card #1 (nudes) 5:43 - Card #2 (first dates) 7:48 - Card #3 (being ghosted) 12:25 - Outro Connect With Me: Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@eldestdaughternotesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/eldestdaughternotes/Substack: https://substack.com/@eldestdaughternotes?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-pageEmail (Business Purposes ONLY): eldestdaughternotes@gmail.com33

    13 min

  5. 26/11/2025

    wnrs wednesdays: choosing guys over friends, death, and being the “strong friend”

    Another episode of ‘we’re not really strangers Wednesday’s’! Twas the night before Thanksgiving; truly a hectic time at American groceries stores and airports, but banal in comparison to the rush of the weeks prior to Christmas 🎄 . Either way, this week was quite hectic and on 2x speed for me, but commitment to the podcast is a resolution (hint for the last episode of this year!). As always, thank you to all those who’ve been supporting the podcast; it truly means the world to me 🫶🏾 man I need - Olivia Deanhttps://youtu.be/JGKgbmz_gcU?si=vGa8l9sxvLUbd-zZAmatonormativity - Tara Mooknee video essay: https://youtu.be/gsW3VsraJqo?si=sMhVZYUQN8C8crQl0:00 - weekly check-in + song of the week 2:05 - Card #1 (choosing guys over friends) 6:15 - Card #2 (death) 8:55 - Card #3 (”strong friend”) 13:46 - Outro Connect With Me: Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@eldestdaughternotesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/eldestdaughternotes/Substack: https://substack.com/@eldestdaughternotes?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-pageEmail (Business Purposes ONLY): eldestdaughternotes@gmail.com33

    15 min

  6. 19/11/2025

    wnrs wednesdays: travel, black womanhood, and fall leaves

    Another episode of ‘we’re not really strangers Wednesday’s’! As always, thank you to all those who’ve been supporting the podcast; it truly means the world to me 🫶🏾 Blessings - NaikaSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/track/2w8h4UxNixZ48O5eYqXJ7w?si=6yF1mxoSS3mXZ83HqFyjPwSoundcloud: https://on.soundcloud.com/0rZhOqzei06v5BNy56Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/album/blessings-single/1835924118Youtube: https://youtu.be/KSOxniD7Wmc?si=POPeg2DVtZ-zHrXg0:00 - weekly check-in + song of the week 6:25 - Card #1 (travel) 10:32 - Card #2 (black womanhood) 14:31 - Card #3 (fall leaves) 16:50 - Outro Connect With Me: Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@eldestdaughternotesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/eldestdaughternotes/Substack: https://substack.com/@eldestdaughternotes?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-pageEmail (Business Purposes ONLY): eldestdaughternotes@gmail.com33

    18 min

  7. 12/11/2025

    wnrs wednesdays: fear, dating history, and being “anti-movies”

    All the cards from this week’s episode are from wnrs’ newest deck! I’ve been so excited for this deck to drop and the cards were so fun to select and answer. Definitely looking forward to going through the deck these upcoming weeks! Thank you all for tuning in to this week’s episode Song of the week: Now or Never - TKANDZ Youtube: https://youtu.be/FS2gNuxpkvM?si=jGl6RVIQIct4YmPh Soundcloud: https://on.soundcloud.com/C1ZHoCadZlOgUBPyyl Deezer: https://www.deezer.com/en/album/828064911 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/album/2iJkrwXpyChhfeClyX7oov?si=h5MFnyqIRDCFGgBcB0U2Qw Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/album/now-or-never/1840511385?i=1840511387 Chapters: 0:00 - intro (briefly weekly + song of the week) 2:41 - Card #1 (fear) 7:00 - Card #2 (dating history) 10:05 - Card #3 (being “anti-movies”) 19:31 - Outro - Connect With Me: - Tiktok: [https://www.tiktok.com/@eldestdaughternotes](https://www.tiktok.com/@eldestdaughternotes?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc) - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eldestdaughternotes/ - Substack: https://substack.com/@eldestdaughternotes?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-page - Email (Business Purposes ONLY): eldestdaughternotes@gmail.com - 33

    12 min

  8. 30/10/2025

    wnrs wednesdays: ‘A Nice Indian Boy’, Smosh, and tea

    The ills of iOS 26 will not stop me from giving y'all the weekly episode! Recorded the episode on the voice memos app, so audio might sound different. Not better, not worse, just different. Either way, had fun recording this episode and I'm really excited to share November's 'note-on' episode in the next few days! And as always, thank you to all those who’ve been supporting the podcast; it truly means the world to me 🫶🏾 Tit for Tat - Tate McRaeSoundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/tate-mcrae/tit-for-tatYoutube: https://youtu.be/u-HEopHeHb8?si=z42gIwwOQZt4qaZ5Somebody - LattoSoundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/latto777/somebody?in=latto777/sets/gyatt-4Youtube: https://youtu.be/sB5n6wnT61w0:00 - weekly check-in + song of the week 2:15 - Card #1 (a nice Indian boy) 4:25 - Card #2 (Smosh) 7:01 - Card #3 (tea) 11:03 - Outro Connect With Me:Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@eldestdaughternotesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/eldestdaughternotes/Substack: https://substack.com/@eldestdaughternotes?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-pageEmail (Business Purposes ONLY): eldestdaughternotes@gmail.com33

    18 min
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'notes from an eldest daughter' is a podcast for eldest daughters especially from immigrant families) who’ve carried it all and are finally ready to relax. This is your space to exhale. Through honest and relatable convos on identity, mental health, and the universal eldest daughter experience, we unpack the invisible weight that comes with being the first born, coming from someone who REALLY gets it (trust). If you're the strong one, the fixer, the role model, and you're ready to feel seen and supported, this space is for you! Soooo, put down the to-do list, take a breath, and just listen

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