2 Things Can Be True

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2 Things Can Be True is a relationship show built on one simple idea: two people can experience the same relationship, see the same situation completely differently — and somehow, both can be right. Hosted by real-life couple Kas and Lellies, the show brings two perspectives to the conversations couples have every day but don’t always agree on. From love, sex and communication to money, trust, friendships, dating, marriage and the unwritten rules of relationships, nothing is off limits. Sometimes they agree. Sometimes they’re on completely opposite sides. And sometimes the truth is somewhere in the middle. Rooted in Black culture, hip-hop and real-life experiences, Two Things Can Be True is funny, honest, unfiltered and relatable — because being in a relationship isn’t always about proving who’s right. Sometimes, two things really can be true. Two perspectives. One relationship. A whole lot to talk about.

Episodes

  1. 10 hr ago

    Laugh Now, Cry Later

    Kas and Lellies get personal about growth, ambition, sacrifice, and how relationships change when two people’s goals don’t always line up. After celebrating Lellies’ career wins at Essence Fest, the conversation turns to how much they’ve both changed since they first met. From self-sabotage and learning to bet on yourself to becoming more patient, more confident, and more intentional, they reflect on the versions of themselves they’ve had to leave behind. Then things get real: What happens when one person is ready to start a family while the other is still chasing career goals? Kas opens up about wanting another child, while Lellies explains why she still wants time to go hard for her career. They also debate the sacrifices people make for love, whether you should relocate for your partner’s dream opportunity, whether long-distance relationships actually work, and one of the biggest questions of the episode: Do you have to be selfish to become successful? Two perspectives. One relationship. Two Things Can Be True. 00:00 God Bless You: Lellies Is Changing 00:53 Welcome Back to Two Things Can Be True 01:19 Lellies’ Big Weekend at Essence Fest 03:01 From the Back Door to the Superdome 05:20 Self-Sabotage, Motivation & Needing Haters 06:20 Learning to Stop Breaking Yourself Down 08:22 Undersell and Overdeliver 09:58 What Have We Outgrown? 11:07 Stop Talking Yourself Out of Your Dreams 12:30 What Should Never Change About Us? 14:52 How Different Are We From When We Met? 17:29 Learning How to Be “Nice Nasty” 19:33 Growing and Changing in a Relationship 20:04 Have Our Goals Stopped Aligning? 20:16 Career vs. Starting a Family 23:22 When Two People Want Different Things 26:20 Are You Ever Really Ready for a Child? 29:37 What Have You Sacrificed for This Relationship? 32:29 Putting Your Career on Hold for Your Partner 33:44 The Dream Job Scenario: Who Should Compromise? 36:14 Can We Actually Do Long Distance? 37:34 Is Following Your Dreams Selfish? 40:00 Can Resentment Ruin the Sacrifice? 40:55 The Things We Do for Love

    Laugh Now, Cry Later
  2. 10 hr ago

    What About Your Friends?!

    Kas and Lellies are talking about one of the trickiest parts of being in a relationship: your friends. What happens when your partner doesn’t like one of your friends? Should your partner meet everyone in your circle? Can you have an opposite-sex best friend without crossing boundaries? And how much of your relationship business should you really be telling your friends? Kas and Lellies get personal about their own friend groups, why they may actually be too close as a couple, friends knowing too much, respecting opposite-sex friendships, and whether you should tell your partner something that could completely change their happiness. Then they close things out with quick-fire questions—including the big one: If your partner and your best friend don’t get along, who comes first? Two perspectives. One relationship. Two Things Can Be True. 00:00 Welcome to Two Things Can Be True 00:30 Jay-Z, D’Ussé & the Concert Weekend 03:21 First Impressions of Each Other’s Friends 06:23 The Friends We Don’t Understand 08:44 The Friends We Appreciate 11:06 Can Your Partner Tell You Who to Be Friends With? 11:50 Boundaries With Opposite-Sex Friends 14:20 “Did Y’all Ever Hook Up?” 15:11 Balancing Friendship, Independence & Commitment 15:53 Are We Too Close as a Couple? 18:31 How Close Should Your Friends Be to Your Partner? 21:08 How Much Influence Should Friends Have? 21:48 Do You Tell Your Partner Your Friends’ Business? 23:12 Should Friends Influence Your Relationship? 24:12 The Secret You Might NOT Want to Know 26:12 Quick-Fire Relationship Questions 26:23 Should Your Partner Meet All Your Friends? 27:11 Should You Vent About Your Relationship? 27:29 Is Talking to a Friend Every Day Too Much? 27:49 Should Couples Have Separate Friend Groups? 27:56 Your Partner vs. Your Best Friend: Who Comes First? 28:49 Final Thoughts: Lovers AND Best Friends

    What About Your Friends?!
  3. 14 Sept

    You Can Love Someone & Still Not Like Them

    You can love somebody deeply… and still have moments when you don’t like them very much. On Episode 2 of Two Things Can Be True, Cass and Lilys get real about the habits that drive each other crazy, the point when their relationship almost didn’t make it, learning how to argue without destroying the relationship, and why having the right people around you can sometimes help you see your partner differently. They also get into what it means to truly support your partner through career changes, self-doubt and life — even when you’re not seeing eye to eye. Then the conversation takes a turn: If one person is ready for marriage and the other keeps saying “not yet”… how long is too long to wait? Can someone truly love you and still not be ready to marry you? Two perspectives. One relationship. Two things can be true. 00:00 Intro 00:50 Welcome Back to Two Things Can Be True 01:19 Summer, Adulting & Life in Your 30s 02:47 What Was Your First Impression of Me? 05:07 What Annoyed You About Me When We Met? 07:53 The Things She Did That Drove Him Crazy 10:06 What Still Drives Us Crazy About Each Other? 11:13 “You Don’t Need Makeup” — The Wrong Compliment? 13:22 The Habits That Still Piss Us Off 14:21 Did We Ever Think Our Relationship Wouldn't Last? 16:17 Depression, Feeling Lost & Fighting for the Relationship 17:51 Be Careful Who Gives You Relationship Advice 18:56 Loving Your Partner vs. Liking Your Partner 20:26 How We Handle Conflict 21:48 Is It Okay to Go to Bed Angry? 23:07 Supporting Each Other Through Life & Career 25:02 What Is a “Healthy Argument”? 26:04 Fighting Because You Believe in Your Partner 28:17 Your Partner Should Remind You Who You Are 29:45 What Real Support Looks Like 30:25 Self-Doubt, Creativity & Chasing Your Dreams 33:25 How Long Is TOO Long to Wait for Marriage? 34:44 Can Someone Love You and Not Be Ready? 36:01 Are You Actually Ready to Be a Husband or Wife? 36:53 To Be Continued… #TwoThingsCanBeTrue #Relationships #RelationshipTalk #BlackLove #Marriage #Couples #RelationshipAdvice #LoveAndRelationships #Dating #HealthyRelationships

  4. 14 Sept

    Your Partner’s Old Sex Tape Leaks… Are You Staying?

    Welcome to Two Things Can Be True. Episode 1 is officially here! We’re kicking things off by introducing you to us, our relationship, how we see things VERY differently, and giving you a taste of what you can expect from the show. Two perspectives. One relationship. A whole lot to talk about. From chasing dreams and supporting each other through the tough seasons to the relationship hypotheticals that might have us looking at each other a little differently — nothing is off limits. CHAPTERS 00:00 – Welcome to Two Things Can Be True 00:46 – Meet the Couple 01:24 – Is This a Relationship Podcast? 03:04 – What People Don’t Know About Us 04:18 – Everybody Is Looking for Love 04:39 – The Realist vs. The Dreamer 06:18 – The Pressure of Being the Man 08:04 – When Your Partner’s Dreams Get Tested 10:27 – Learning to Be Still 11:02 – Sacrifices We’ve Made for Each Other 14:18 – Our Favorite Season of Our Relationship 16:03 – Why COVID Was Her Favorite Era 17:43 – Watching Your Partner Chase Their Passion 19:48 – Growing Together Without Losing Yourself 20:54 – The Relationship Hypothetical Begins 21:22 – 50 Cent, Diddy & the Sex Tape Conversation 22:19 – What If Your Partner’s Old Sex Tape Leaked? 23:23 – Would You Break Up With Them? 25:29 – Is a Sex Tape a Dealbreaker? 26:15 – Two Things Can Be True #TwoThingsCanBeTrue #RelationshipPodcast #BlackLove #Relationships #CouplesPodcast #LoveAndRelationships #DatingAndRelationships #Podcast #RelationshipTalk #BlackPodcasts

    Your Partner’s Old Sex Tape Leaks… Are You Staying?

About

2 Things Can Be True is a relationship show built on one simple idea: two people can experience the same relationship, see the same situation completely differently — and somehow, both can be right. Hosted by real-life couple Kas and Lellies, the show brings two perspectives to the conversations couples have every day but don’t always agree on. From love, sex and communication to money, trust, friendships, dating, marriage and the unwritten rules of relationships, nothing is off limits. Sometimes they agree. Sometimes they’re on completely opposite sides. And sometimes the truth is somewhere in the middle. Rooted in Black culture, hip-hop and real-life experiences, Two Things Can Be True is funny, honest, unfiltered and relatable — because being in a relationship isn’t always about proving who’s right. Sometimes, two things really can be true. Two perspectives. One relationship. A whole lot to talk about.