Another Way

Matt DeFina
Another Way

Welcome to Another Way, a podcast where we explore how you can stop following the script that society has given you, and start to create your own. My intention is stoke your inner fire, expand the possibilities of what you could do with your life and help us shift the paradigm for what it means to live a meaningful life. On the podcast, we’ll explore ideas and meet pioneers that are challenging the status quo, and ultimately help you (and me), find another way.

  1. Ep14 - A completely different approach to shadow work - An introduction to 'Existential Kink' - Dr Carolyn Elliot (Part 1/2)

    23/09/2024

    Ep14 - A completely different approach to shadow work - An introduction to 'Existential Kink' - Dr Carolyn Elliot (Part 1/2)

    I am so excited to share this episode with you - Existential Kink is a practice that has changed my life and changed the lives of so many people and clients around me and this episode I'm talking to the creator and author of the practice. Dr. Carolyn Elliott, now known as Carolyn Lovewell, is a writer, educator, and expert in shadow integration, with a PhD in Critical and Cultural Studies from the University of Pittsburgh. She is best known for her book Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power, which explores how embracing repressed parts of ourselves can unlock personal transformation. The book blends Jungian shadow work with a unique approach to finding pleasure in difficult or undesirable experiences. In addition to her writing, Carolyn runs online programs like the "Sleep Over Mystery School," teaching occult philosophy and practical magic. She also founded the online community Electric Yes, where she offers coaching and workshops focused on her "Existential Kink" practices. Carolyn has traveled extensively, lived as a digital nomad, and now resides in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, with her family​. On the episode, we talk about: What 'Existential Kink' is How Carolyn discovered the 'EK' practice Why we actually love and create our own suffering (and how to change this) How to use EK to create the life you truly want (and why you don't yet have it) How Carolyn uses EK in her everyday life and relationship Carolyn's Links Instagram The Immortal College Buy the book: Existential Kink Matt's Links Another Way Instagram Matt Defina Instagram

    56 min
  2. Ep13 - How do you get the most out of yourself? - Alfie Robertson

    16/07/2024

    Ep13 - How do you get the most out of yourself? - Alfie Robertson

    This week's guest is a powerhouse! Alfie is an entrepeneur, fitness coach, model, actor and former corporate professional who left the rat race to pursure something more. Alfie shot to social media fame earlier this year (2024), after he created a Instagram account called @alfiegetshard, to share the journey of him completing the 75-hard challenge (go look this up if you don't know it!). In just a few months, Alfie's account grew to over 100k followers (now 247k), and he then used this momentum to launch a fitness, health and coaching business off the back of it. Originally from New Zealand, but relocated to Bondi Beach, Alfie is the epitomy of what's possible when you back yourself and create your own way. He's now living the life of his dreams with a bunch of other Kiwi mates who have all created the same lifestyle for themselves. He's team up with best mate Jake Blundell (aka @elastaboy - 661k IG followers) and they've now got their own IG accounts and businesses together, @purebodyeat and @trainpurebody (links below). I met up with Alfie at Waves Podcast Studio in Bondi while I was up for a trip earlier this year and the pleasure of going for a run with him and his run club while I was up. As you'll here in the episode, I first met Alfie because I complete one of his diet and fitness challenges and it had a real impact on me - I loved his philosophy and how much he simplifies things down. Naturally, I was keen to meet with him and start to uncover some his secrets. As you'll hear in the episode, Alfie's attitude to life, work and training are exceptionally positive and inspirational. In this episode, Alfie and I talk about: How he got into this world of health and fitness What it takes to actually show up day in, day out How to build a brand and business that's aligned with your life How to squeeze the most out of life, in all areas Alfie's got a heap of really accessible programs online, go and check him out at the links below. Alfie's Links IG - @alfiegetshard IG - @purebodyeats IG - @trainpurebody IG - @elastaboy Another Way Our podcast and business exists to help purpose-driven professionals create a meaningful life and career, without burning out. If you know of any guests that you think should appear, or have topics you'd like us to cover, please let me know via my details below. Contact Details As always, I'd love to hear your feedback! You can find me at the links below: IG - @anotherway.au IG - @mattdefina_ Email: matt@anotherway.au Working together Want to chat about collaborating or working together? Book a discovery call with me here Enjoy!

    1h 8m
  3. Ep12 - How to create a spacious, sustainable and purpose-driven life & career - Alison Rice

    16/04/2024

    Ep12 - How to create a spacious, sustainable and purpose-driven life & career - Alison Rice

    Alison Rice is a 10x award-winning leader, conscious career and business mentor, regenerative brand strategist and podcast host. It all started in 2018 with the launch of the now-acclaimed Offline, The Podcast. An antidote to hustle and grind culture, it remains dedicated to exploring more conscious and sustainable definitions of success. To date, it's been downloaded over 1.5 million times. Her ever-evolving body of work exists to serve anyone seeking a more spacious, sustainable and purpose-driven version of success. Which includes… Spiritually informed and highly strategic career mentorship and business programs.  Regenerative brand, community and content strategies that start with deep listening and emerge to meet the need of the time. Inclusive and aware community spaces that offer people a safe place to land, recover and redefine the role their work plays in the overall storyline of their lives. Prior to Offline, Alison held writing, editing, programming and publishing roles at The Walkley Foundation For Excellence in Journalism, ACP Magazines and Allure Media. In 2015 she led the award-winning localisation and launch of Who What Wear, Byrdie and MyDomaine into the Australian market and from 2013-2018, led POPSUGAR to become one of the country’s most-read women’s lifestyle websites. Key Projects Explore Alison's conscious career and business mentorship space at getoffline.co/off. Enrolments for the only four-month season she's running in 2024 are now open and will close at midnight on Sunday, April 28. Contact - Alison If you'd like to get in touch with Alison, the email address to write to support@getoffline.co. You can find her on Instagram @alisonlarsenrice.

    1h 31m
  4. Ep11 - From Event Specialist to Meditation Teacher (How meditation saved Sammy's life) - Sammy Swayn

    02/04/2024

    Ep11 - From Event Specialist to Meditation Teacher (How meditation saved Sammy's life) - Sammy Swayn

    Meet Sammy, a dynamic individual who has worn many hats and experienced a multitude of life's adventures in a remarkably short span of time. Stepping off the conventional path at an early age, Sammy ventured into the realm of electrical work, instilling in him a profound appreciation for the value of hard work.  However, fate had a different calling, and at the ripe old age of 20, he bid farewell to the electrical trade to immerse himself in the vibrant world of music. This career change ignited his creative spark, inspiring him to craft and produce events that resonated with his own unique vision.  Over the past decade, Sammy has poured his heart and soul into curating extraordinary music festivals, food extravaganzas, and captivating community shows. His biggest triumph to date? An awe-inspiring long weekend gathering that united a staggering 35,000 people in Melbourne. Yet, amidst the glitz and glamour of the event scene, Sammy confronted his own battles with mental health, a struggle that had plagued him since his formative years. It was during his lowest point, when hope seemed to elude him, that he realized a transformation was essential.  Introduced to mindfulness by his family doctor, Sammy began to venture down a new path.  The transformative tools of meditation and mindfulness became the bedrock for nurturing and sustaining his mental well-being, elevating his overall quality of life to new heights. Driven by an unwavering passion, Sammy's mission is clear: to share the profound benefits of meditation and mindfulness with the world. Through his own remarkable journey, he aspires to guide and inspire others on their path to finding balance, cultivating inner peace, and unlocking their true potential. Sammy's story is a testament to the transformative power of meditation and mindfulness, and he stands ready to empower individuals from all walks of life to embrace a higher quality of existence Connect with Sammy One Minute Meditator Sammy Swayn Connect with Matt Matt Defina Another Way Mt Kilimanjaro Retreat Support Services Lifeline - 13 11 14 Beyond Blue - https://www.beyondblue.org.au/

    1h 10m
  5. Ep10 - How do you answer the call to adventure? - Andrea Beck

    06/03/2024

    Ep10 - How do you answer the call to adventure? - Andrea Beck

    How do you actually say YES to the adventure of life? What do you do when life keeps throwing your curveballs, hurdles and stop, wrong way signs? What do you do when life keeps whispering in your ear and nudging you to go another way? Well, my guest this week knows a thing or two about the above! On this episode, we spoke about: How Dre got into marketing and made some bold moves in her career at an early age The health challenges Dre navigated as a result of not choosing her true path The magic that has transpired in Dre's life since she did say YES Andrea Beck Andrea is a Cultural Futurist, Business Strategist, Creative Mentor, and CEO. She’s the founder of All Rise, the next gen business development agency that innovates for impact (or “idea lab for transformational leaders and orgs”). There, she helps purpose-led brands launch, scale and establish themselves in their market, so they can become more influential and make a real difference in the world. From working for the Big 4 Management Consultancies, to pursuing art as a law school drop-out, to designing the strategies for major multinational brands like Barbie, Colgate and Chanel, to changing the law multiple times with marketing (e.g. removing taxes on tampons, introducing new Power of Attorney legislation to prevent abuse). Andrea has worked in every corner of the creative industry, as a researcher, analyst, business / brand / marketing strategist, content creator, partnerships manager, sales representative, brand ambassador, and business owner. With business of all sizes. She’s fascinated by the power of stories to drive change, here to give future visionaries a voice, and raise the leaders our world needs. According to Andrea, we live in an extremely exciting time, where anyone has the opportunity to get their message and idea out there. But, having worked with many first-time creators, she also knows how daunting this can be! 30-day challenge To remove some of the barriers many aspiring business owners and thought leaders have, she’s leading a 30-Day Challenge, where she’ll be building a completely new brand and community from scratch, covering the exact steps it takes, from defining your vision, to finding your edge, to growing your audience, and beyond. She invites those who have always wanted a side hustle, or to take their brand to the next level, to join her. The creative revolution is here, and there has never been a better time to pursue your purpose or passion project! Dre's Links IG - @andreabeck www.allrise.com.au Matt's Links IG - @mattdefina_ www.anotherway.au

    1h 15m
  6. Ep9 - How to redefine your Bucks Party as a Rite of Passage - Joshua Payne

    07/02/2024

    Ep9 - How to redefine your Bucks Party as a Rite of Passage - Joshua Payne

    This is a very special conversation with a dear friend and brother of mine, Joshua Payne. Josh and I have done so much together in the last 6 years since meeting in his job interview for The Man Cave, and today we sat down to talk about his Bucks Party, or as he renamed it, his Bucks Portal. Bucks parties are realistically designed to celebrate a man stepping into becoming a Husband, but unfortunately we have lost the meaning and significance behind this event. And, Joshua wanted to do something about that and make it a truly memorable weekend that prepared him for his wedding. He recruited his nearest and dearest, including myself, to create a weekend for him that would do this. This is a juicy conversation about:  Rites of Passage and why they should be intentionally re-integrated back into society What it means to Josh to become a Husband and choose to get married Why he wanted his Bucks Party to instead be a 3-day, intentional Rite of Passage How we designed the weekend, including sharing a few key moments! __________ Bio As a seasoned professional with over 6 years of experience in the coaching and mentorship domain, Joshua has worked with thousands of individuals nationwide. Serving as a senior facilitator at The Man Cave, a renowned preventive mental health and emotional intelligence charity, Joshua has personally guided over 5000 young men towards embodying healthy masculinity, while also providing world-class facilitation training and emotional support to fellow facilitators/role models within the organisation.  Beyond his extensive role at The Man Cave, Joshua has continued to expand his impact by designing and delivering leadership and character development programs for organisations such as Movember, Monash University, The Olympic Committee, and The Rites of Passage Institute, spanning various age groups. Now Joshua is stepping forward and birthing an offering of his own.  “Your Window” is a brand new coaching and mentorship program that is the cultivation of all the tools and resources Joshua has been deeply initiated into across 6 years of facilitating and participating in various trainings worldwide. The concept behind 'Your Window’, which offers group and 1:1 support to both men and women, revolves around the idea that individuals experience life through their unique lens shaped by their emotions, their belief systems, their wounding, and their core memories. These core memories we have experienced and the pain we have endured across the timeline of our lives often fogs up our window, leading us to see the world, ourselves, and others through a distorted lens. Through compassionate witnessing and gentle guidance, Joshua will support and empower you in cleaning your window, creating a far clearer connection to your fullest expression, deepest desires, and your own sovereign power.  ____ Joshua Payne IG - https://www.instagram.com/joshen.around/  Matt Defina IG - https://www.instagram.com/mattdefina_/  LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthewdefina/  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/matt.defina/  Another Way IG - https://www.instagram.com/anotherway.au/  Website - www.anotherway.au  Join Book Club https://www.anotherway.au/book-club  Come to Basecamp A new, monthly community gathering for the holistic health community of Melbourne https://www.anotherway.au/basecamp The Kilimanjaro Experience - 2024  https://mountainsandmarathons.world/thekilimanjaroexperience-matt/

    1h 15m
  7. Ep8 - How to build an ICONIC online brand and business - Julia Vogl

    30/01/2024

    Ep8 - How to build an ICONIC online brand and business - Julia Vogl

    Julia Vogl is an Australian Journalist, Video Communication Coach, now a good friend AND a personal coach of mine. Julia has helped me grow and navigate A LOT in the last 12 months and I can't wait for you to hear this conversation. Her credentials include working for Australian Primetime TV shows like The Project on Channel Ten, Channel Nine, Hoyts and Foxtel, as well as newspapers and digital platforms like Cut.com spanning the last decade in Australia, the UK, and Indonesia. She is renowned for her razor-sharp wit, her love for bright popping colours, and a true dedication to bringing out the 'REAL' in all those she meets.  Her penchant for provocative video creation extends across entertainment, sport, music and celebrity having interviewed the likes of Cher, Harrison Ford, Kate Winslet, Matthew McConaughey, Justin Timberlake, Baz Lurhmann and many more. Julia’s unique personality and willingness to turn her flaws into her flair have been her edge in standing out from the saturated market that is social media. Julia is currently based in Melbourne Australia, running online programs for On Camera Confidence and also in person public speaking workshops.  On this episode, we talk about:  How to build an iconic brand and business How to show up with confidence on Camera Julia’s personal journey with mental health and an eating disorder Her favourite Hollywood A-Lister that she interviewed (it’s epic)  How to do all the above, sustainably AND enjoy it along the way  Julia Vogl IG - https://www.instagram.com/juliavogl_/  Talk Is Cheap Academy Website - https://www.talkischeapacademy.com/  Matt Defina IG - https://www.instagram.com/mattdefina_/  LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthewdefina/  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/matt.defina/  Another Way IG - https://www.instagram.com/anotherway.au/  Website - www.anotherway.au  Join Book Club https://www.anotherway.au/book-club  The Kilimanjaro Experience - 2024  https://mountainsandmarathons.world/thekilimanjaroexperience-matt/

    1h 18m

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Welcome to Another Way, a podcast where we explore how you can stop following the script that society has given you, and start to create your own. My intention is stoke your inner fire, expand the possibilities of what you could do with your life and help us shift the paradigm for what it means to live a meaningful life. On the podcast, we’ll explore ideas and meet pioneers that are challenging the status quo, and ultimately help you (and me), find another way.

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