Autism Parenting Secrets

Len Arcuri, Cass Arcuri
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Are you a parent of a child with Autism? Are you ready to rise above the diagnosis? Each week on Autism Parenting Secrets, we are going to share how you can rise up and become the parent you need to be. Get personalized support at: elevatehowyounavigate.com

  1. 11 hrs ago

    Your Ability To NOTICE Is A Superpower

    Welcome to Episode 324 of Autism Parenting Secrets. This week, I'm joined by Sarah Kernion, founder of INCHSTONES and mother of three children, including two with profound, non-speaking autism and whole body apraxia. Parents see things others simply can't. You are with your child across thousands of ordinary moments. You notice subtle changes in behavior, connection, sleep, digestion, regulation, communication, and development. Those observations aren't insignificant. They're clues. Yet it's easy to discount what you see when you're sitting across from a doctor, therapist, teacher, or other professional with years of training and expertise. Sarah makes a powerful case for a different posture. You don't need to know more than the experts.  But you do need to recognize that you bring something to the table that no one else can: an extraordinarily deep understanding of your child. That means becoming more than an advocate. It means becoming an intentional observer, noticing patterns, documenting what you see, asking better questions, and trusting yourself enough to bring those observations forward. We also explore the importance of asking not only "What is this?" but "Why might this be happening?" And Sarah shares the idea at the heart of INCHSTONES: progress isn't only found in the big milestones we're conditioned to look for. It's also found in the tiny moments of connection, growth, and development that are easy to miss when we're focused only on how far our child still has to go. Those inchstones matter.   The secret this week is…  Your Ability To NOTICE Is A Superpower   You'll Discover: Why your observations about your child are incredibly important clues (3:53)How to show up differently in conversations with practitioners (10:21)Why becoming a better observer changes your role in your child's care (21:07)Why asking "Why might this be happening?" can reveal more (31:36)Why inchstones deserve to be celebrated alongside milestones (39:02)  About Our Guest: Sarah Kernion is the founder of INCHSTONES, host of the Inchstones podcast, and a national advocate for families raising children with profound autism. She is the mother of three children, including Milly and Mack, who both have profound, non-speaking autism and whole body apraxia. Through honest storytelling and conversations with leading researchers, physicians, and fellow caregivers, Sarah explores the intersection of science, advocacy, and the lived reality of raising children with the highest support needs. Her work invites parents to notice the small moments that often reveal the biggest truths because inchstones, not milestones, change lives. www.inchstones.co   References in this Episode: Meadow HealthAdditional Resources: To learn more about personalized 1:1 support go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.com  If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

  2. 3 Sept

    Healing Is More Possible Than You Think

    Welcome to Episode 323 of Autism Parenting Secrets. This week, I'm joined by returning guest Beth Lambert, Executive Director of Documenting Hope and author of A Compromised Generation. After more than two decades immersed in children's health, Beth is more hopeful than ever. Why? The science has changed.  Our understanding of the microbiome, nervous system, metabolism, environmental stressors, and other contributors to chronic childhood conditions has exploded.  More practitioners are applying this knowledge clinically.  And more parents are sharing stories of children making remarkable progress. But having more information and more options doesn't necessarily make a parent's job easier. In fact, it can make discernment even more important. Your child is unique.  There is no universal roadmap, perfect practitioner, or silver bullet.  The opportunity is to gather good information and support while becoming increasingly clear about what makes sense for your child. We also explore something parents can easily overlook: you are part of your child's environment. Your nervous system, energy, decisions, consistency, and ability to regulate matter.  Supporting yourself isn't taking attention away from your child. It can be foundational to helping your child feel safe and thrive. Beth also shares why in-person community can be so powerful and what she's most excited about at Documenting Hope's upcoming Health & Healing Expo in Orlando, November 21-22. The future is changing quickly. There are more reasons for hope, more tools available, and more possibilities opening up for families.   The secret this week is…  Healing Is More Possible Than You Think   You'll Discover: Why there’s more reason for hope than ever before (1:26) Why YOU are your child’s most important decision-maker (7:00) Why commitment beats chasing the next intervention (15:42) How community can create unexpected breakthroughs (23:05) Why the future of children’s health could look radically different (32:48)   About Our Guest: Beth Lambert is a former healthcare consultant and teacher. As a consultant, she worked with pharmaceutical, medical device, diagnostic, and other healthcare companies to evaluate industry trends. She is the author of A Compromised Generation: The Epidemic of Chronic Illness in America's Children and co-author of Brain Under Attack: A Resource for Parents and Caregivers of Children with PANS, PANDAS, and Autoimmune Encephalitis. Beth founded Epidemic Answers in 2009 and currently serves as Executive Director of Documenting Hope. She attended Oxford University, graduated from Williams College, and holds a Master's Degree in American Studies from Fairfield University. www.beth-lambert.com/documenting-hope   References in this Episode: Health & Healing Expo by Documenting Hope, November 21–22, 2026 | Orlando, Florida + Virtual Healing Together by Documenting Hope A Compromised Generation by Beth Lambert Brain Under Attack by Beth Lambert   Additional Resources: To learn more about personalized 1:1 support go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.com   If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

  3. 27 Aug

    Don’t Hand Over Your AUTHORITY

    Welcome to Episode 322 of Autism Parenting Secrets. This episode is about discernment, intuition, nervous system regulation, and learning how to think independently when navigating your child’s health challenges. Dr. Cammy Benton shares the painful experience that pushed her beyond conventional medicine after one of her daughters became severely ill.  Despite being a physician herself, she found herself dismissed, gaslit, and pressured to ignore her own instincts while her child continued deteriorating. What followed completely transformed how she views medicine, parenting, and healing. You’ll hear why curiosity, humility, and critical thinking matter so much when choosing practitioners and making decisions for your child.  You’ll also hear why nervous system regulation is essential if parents want to access their own intuition clearly. This is not about rejecting medicine. It’s about remaining conscious, engaged, and empowered while navigating complex decisions. The secret this week is…  Don’t Hand Over Your AUTHORITY You'll Discover: Why fear can cause you to doubt your own instincts (14:11) How fear can cloud your ability to make good decisions (34:31) Why curiosity and humility lead to better healthcare decisions (26:39) Why you shouldn’t outsource your discernment to anyone (32:04) Why regulating yourself helps your child thrive (36:14) About Our Guest: Dr. Cammy Benton, MD is a functional medicine physician, IFM-certified and currently completing a longevity fellowship with A4M. Since 2016, she has owned Benton Integrative, a holistic concierge practice in Huntersville, North Carolina. A graduate of medical school in 2000 and Family Medicine residency in 2004, she has spent over two decades studying integrative modalities including nutrition, homeopathy, Ayurveda, sexual health, functional medicine, and psychedelic medicine. She is a Founding Director of Physicians for Informed Consent, advocating for truly informed medical choice, and is also a student of ancient healing traditions. https://www.bentonintegrative.com/ Additional Resources: To learn more about personalized 1:1 support go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.com If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

  4. 20 Aug

    Never Make Decisions Out Of FEAR

    Welcome to Episode 321 of Autism Parenting Secrets. Parents make high-stakes decisions for their children all the time. And those decisions become much harder when they're surrounded by conflicting opinions, uncertainty, pressure, and fear. My guest this week is Dr. Taylor Bean, a Naturopathic Doctor and MAPS Fellow who is passionate about helping parents understand their options so they can make more informed decisions for their unique child. Her own journey into informed consent began when she became a mother, and that principle now runs throughout her work with families. In this conversation, we cover a lot of ground. Dr. Bean explains why she thinks the earliest years matter so much for establishing microbial health, why food introduction deserves more thought than it often receives, and how genetics can help practitioners better understand a child's inflammatory response. We also explore Vitamin A, probiotics, homeopathy, fever, and practical ways parents can prepare before their child gets sick. And we dive into vaccine decision-making, including why Dr. Bean believes so many parents find themselves in a "gray zone" where they aren't looking for someone to tell them what to do.  They want to understand their options so they can decide for themselves.. That's the bigger message here. You don't need someone else to make the decision for you. You need the information, support, and confidence to make an informed decision that's right for your child. The secret this week is…  Never Make Decisions Out Of FEAR You'll Discover: Why informed consent became foundational to Dr. Bean's work (3:15) Why MTHFR isn't the whole story when considering inflammatory response (15:50) Why Vitamin A plays such an important role in Dr. Bean's approach (19:32) How being prepared can reduce fear when your child gets sick (27:47) Why so many parents are stuck in the vaccine "gray zone" (40:44) About Our Guest: Dr. Taylor Bean is a Naturopathic Doctor and owner of TaylorMade Wellness in Salmon Arm, British Columbia. Becoming a mother is where her core value of achieving informed consent was born. While her profession taught her to be curious and treat each patient individually, it was her positive birthing experiences that changed her perspective on what a true doctor-patient relationship means. Her career started in Singapore, where she supported patients throughout Southeast Asia. She has been supporting Canadian families since 2016. www.drtaylorbean.com Vaccine Education Masteclass References in this Episode: MAPS Parent Conference - September 12-13, 2026 in Philadelphia, PA - Use code PARENT20 for discounted admission Medical Academy of Pediatrics & Special Needs (MAPS) Dr. Ben Lynch Additional Resources: To learn more about personalized 1:1 support go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.com If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

  5. 13 Aug

    Virtual Reality Prepares For Real Life

    Welcome to Episode 320 of Autism Parenting Secrets. Many parents are understandably cautious about technology. And for good reason. Screens are everywhere. Devices are everywhere. Artificial intelligence is rapidly changing how we live. And virtual reality is becoming more accessible than ever. So where does it fit? Should it simply be avoided, or could it become another valuable tool to help children learn and grow? Vijay Ravindran is the founder and CEO of Floreo, a virtual reality-based therapeutic platform designed to help autistic and neurodivergent individuals build social, communication, behavioral, and independent living skills. In this conversation, Vijay shares the personal story that inspired Floreo, explains why practicing skills in a low-pressure virtual environment can improve real-world learning, and discusses the clinical research supporting this approach. He also addresses an important concern many parents have: how to use technology intentionally, thoughtfully, and in moderation while keeping the focus on helping children thrive. Whether or not virtual reality ultimately becomes part of your child's journey, this episode offers a practical framework for thinking differently about how learning happens and how technology may complement, rather than replace, the important work already being done by parents, therapists, and educators. The secret this week is…  Virtual Reality Prepares For Real Life You'll Discover: Why practicing in a low-pressure environment can build real-world confidence (5:11) How Floreo keeps parents and therapists actively involved throughout every lesson (13:04) Why just 20 minutes per week produced meaningful clinical improvements (18:41) Why children with higher support needs showed the greatest gains in Floreo's clinical trial (25:11) The encouraging message every autism parent needs to hear about their child's potential (34:32) About Our Guest: Vijay Ravindran is the founder and CEO of Floreo, a virtual reality-based digital therapeutic company developing FDA-regulated software-as-a-medical-device (SaMD) treatments for autism and other neurodevelopmental conditions. Under his leadership, Floreo has earned FDA Breakthrough Device Designation, completed a pivotal randomized controlled trial demonstrating statistically significant clinical outcomes, and expanded its platform across clinics, schools, and homes while pursuing FDA De Novo clearance. Prior to founding Floreo, Vijay served as Chief Digital Officer of The Washington Post and previously held senior software engineering and product leadership roles at Amazon, where he helped launch Amazon Prime. Floreo was inspired by his experience as the father of a child on the autism spectrum. https://floreovr.com/ Additional Resources: To learn more about personalized 1:1 support go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.com If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

  6. 6 Aug

    Protect BIFIDOBACTERIA First

    Welcome to Episode 319 of Autism Parenting Secrets. For years, parents have heard about probiotics, gut health, dysbiosis, and the microbiome.  But those broad concepts don't always answer the most important question: What should we focus on first? Dr. Sabine Hazan has spent more than two decades studying the microbiome, and her research has taken an unexpected turn.  What began as an investigation into COVID immunity led her to a much larger discovery.  Across autism, Alzheimer's disease, Parkinson's disease, cancer, Lyme disease, long COVID, inflammatory bowel disease, and many other chronic illnesses, one common thread kept appearing: declining levels of BIFIDOBACTERIA. In this conversation, Dr. Hazan explains why she believes this group of beneficial microbes deserves far more attention, why simply taking probiotics may not be enough, and why protecting the microbiome may be one of the most important investments families can make in their children's long-term health. Whether or not future research confirms every aspect of her current thinking, this episode offers a fascinating look into how one physician-scientist is approaching one of the biggest unanswered questions in autism. The secret this week is…  Protect BIFIDOBACTERIA First You'll Discover: Why autism became "all about BIFIDOBACTERIA" for Dr. Hazan (3:15) The surprising difference between restoring and simply adding probiotics (24:05) Why protecting the microbiome may be even more important than rebuilding it (29:15) Several everyday factors Dr. Hazan believes can rapidly deplete BIFIDOBACTERIA (35:45) Why the future of autism may begin with measuring the microbiome much earlier in life (1:07:50) About Our Guest: Dr. Sabine Hazan is one of today's most highly regarded gastroenterologists and researchers helping shape the field of microbiome science. She is the CEO of Ventura Clinical Trials and founder of ProgenaBiome, a CLIA-certified, CAP-accredited laboratory exploring the relationship between the microbiome and conditions including autism, cancer, Parkinson's disease, Alzheimer's disease, and longevity. Dr. Hazan has led more than 46 clinical trials and has published extensively on stool testing, probiotics, fecal microbiota transplantation, and the role of the gut microbiome in chronic disease.  She also founded the Microbiome Research Foundation to advance independent microbiome research. https://sabinehazanmd.com/ References in this Episode: ProgenaBiome Microbiome Research Foundation Let's Talk Shit by Dr. Sabine Hazan Autism Health Summit Documenting Hope Additional Resources: To learn more about personalized 1:1 support go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.com If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

  7. 30 July

    Don’t Skip The FOUR PILLARS

    Welcome to Episode 318 of Autism Parenting Secrets. Many parents enter this journey searching for the next therapy, treatment, supplement, or breakthrough intervention.  While those approaches can absolutely help, Dr. Kurt Woeller believes one of the most common mistakes is pursuing advanced therapies before establishing the foundations that allow them to work. Dr. Woeller is an integrative and functional medicine physician, biomedical autism specialist, educator, author, and Chief Medical Officer of Mosaic Diagnostics.  For nearly 30 years, he has helped families and practitioners better understand the underlying factors influencing health, development, communication, behavior, and recovery. In this conversation, he shares the Four Pillars that he believes should remain at the center of every biomedical program: diet, foundational nutrients, gut health, and methylation.  He also explains why individualized investigation, thoughtful testing, and consistent implementation matter far more than chasing the latest trend. The secret this week is…  Don’t Skip The FOUR PILLARS You'll Discover: Why skipping the foundation slows progress (9:12) The FOUR PILLARS every parent should strengthen first (10:47) How to find your child's unique "kryptonite" (30:18) The one test NOT to skip (41:36) Why great parents become great detectives (50:09) About Our Guest: Dr. Kurt N. Woeller, D.O., is an integrative and functional medicine physician and biomedical autism specialist with nearly 30 years of experience. He focuses on complex conditions including autism, autoimmune disorders, and neurological challenges using specialized diagnostics and targeted interventions. He serves as Chief Medical Officer of Mosaic Diagnostics, is the founder of Integrative Medicine Academy, and is the author of multiple books including Autism: The Road to Recovery. Dr. Woeller is a respected educator who has trained thousands of practitioners and continues to lecture internationally on autism, functional medicine, and biomedical intervention. Sunrise Functional Medicine Center Dr. Woeller on Substack Integrative Medicine Academy You Tube Channel Dr. Woeller’s Functional Medicine Doc Talk podcast References in this Episode: Mosaic Diagnostics Autism Recovery System James Adams The Personalized Autism Nutrition Plan: Nourishing Hope for Kids with ASD, ADHD, Anxiety, and Neurodevelopmental Delays by Julie Matthews, M.S. Metabolic biomarkers of increased oxidative stress and impaired methylation capacity in children with autism, Dr. Jill James et al. Meadow Health Autism Health Summit Medical Academy of Pediatrics and Special Needs (MAPS) Documenting Hope Additional Resources: To learn more about personalized 1:1 support go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.com If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

  8. 23 July

    Financial Clarity Reduces Overwhelm

    Welcome to Episode 317 of Autism Parenting Secrets. Many parents spend so much time focused on therapies, interventions, schools, and immediate challenges that the long-term picture gets pushed aside. And often, financial planning can feel emotionally overwhelming because parents associate it with uncertainty, fear, or even giving up hope. Ann Hynek joins us today to discuss why thoughtful financial planning is really about gaining clarity, creating a roadmap, and making decisions that align with your family’s goals and values. Ann is the founder of Hestia Wealth and Wellness and specializes in helping families navigating autism and developmental disabilities create long-term financial and life plans with greater confidence and less stress. The secret this week is…  Financial Clarity Reduces Overwhelm You'll Discover: Why financial planning should begin with clarity instead of numbers (4:16) Why many parents emotionally delay long-term planning (15:19) What thoughtful financial strategy actually looks like for families (20:29) Why slowing down often leads to better decisions and less stress (27:47) About Our Guest: Ann Hynek is the Founder of Hestia Wealth and Wellness, where she helps families navigating autism and developmental disabilities create thoughtful long-term financial and life plans. After a 15-year career leading marketing strategy at firms including BlackRock and Morgan Stanley, Ann’s son’s autism diagnosis inspired her to shift her focus toward helping families navigate the complex world of special needs planning with greater clarity and confidence. She specializes in areas such as ABLE accounts, special needs trusts, SSI/SSDI benefits, estate planning, and long-term transition planning. hestiawealthwellness.com Additional Resources: To learn more about personalized 1:1 support go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.com If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

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Are you a parent of a child with Autism? Are you ready to rise above the diagnosis? Each week on Autism Parenting Secrets, we are going to share how you can rise up and become the parent you need to be. Get personalized support at: elevatehowyounavigate.com

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  • Creator
    Len Arcuri, Cass Arcuri
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    325
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