Find Love With Emily

Emily Bucknell
  • 5.0 (3)
  • Relationships
  • Updated Weekly

Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

  1. 4 days ago

    This Week's Love Note: Love Wants You To Do This

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx 💕 Join LOVED WITH EMILY: And get a growing library of refreshingly simple 5-day audio experiences, support and community that pick you up out of the horrors of dating and get you back on track to find love....FAST! CLICK HERE TO JOIN 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 👩‍❤️‍👨 GET EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR MAN: To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNECT WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    5 min

  2. 5 days ago

    Love Does't Feel Like This

    For sure, dating can royally suck 😫 It can feel like one long string of disappointment, pain, heartbreak. You get your hopes up. Put yourself out there. Try to say positive. And then you always end up back at “square one”. It can be really easy to think that this is just the way dating is. That finding love is HARD. The struggle is just part of the process. …but what if that isn’t actually true? 🤔   In this episode, I challenge one of the biggest (and most detrimental) assumptions that single women over 30 make about dating and finding love.  It might sound a little insane!! But challenging this assumption is the ONLY way you find love from here. If dating feels like a never-ending struggle that only leads to more struggle. 🎧 Hit play and listen to this episode now.  👉 JOIN THE 5-DAY RESET TO GET BACK ON TRACK TO FIND LOVE: LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE [22-26 June 2026] Here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💕 Join LOVED WITH EMILY: And get a growing library of refreshingly simple 5-day audio experiences, support and community that pick you up out of the horrors of dating and get you back on track to find love....FAST! CLICK HERE TO JOIN 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 👩‍❤️‍👨 GET EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR MAN: To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNECT WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    13 min

  3. 17 June

    “I Have So Much Love To Give… So Why Am I Still Single?”

    You know what’s really frustrating when you’re a woman, over 30 and still single?? Being told your whole life that if you're a good person, you work hard, treat people well, you’re kind and think of others, then good things happen. Then you start dating 🫣 And NONE of that seems to matter. You have such a big heart, so much love to give. You’re thoughtful, you’d make an incredible partner, your intentions are so loving. Yet somehow, you’re still single?!?!? WTF?!?! 🥺 In this episode, I explain why. I share the realization (and most mortifying dating experiences) I had that got me back on track to actually find love. Because the problem isn’t that you’re not loving enough. It isn’t that all the genuine, decent, available men are taken. It’s just that you don’t realize you’re chasing something that makes it hard to find real, lasting love. Inside this episode you'll hear: Why some of the kindest, most loving women struggle the longest to find loveWhat you’re actually chasing when you want a man, the relationship and loveWhy emotionally unavailable men can feel so addictiveWhy you get pulled into breadcrumbs, situationships and casual relationships you KNOW are BSWhy having "so much love to give" isn't actually what creates loveHow to stop the chase that’s keeping you single And what gets you back on track to actually find love. If you've ever found yourself wondering: "Why am I still single when I’m a kind, loving woman with a whole lotta love to give?" This episode is for you 😘 🎧 Press play now. 👉 JOIN THE 5-DAY RESET TO GET BACK ON TRACK TO FIND LOVE: LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE [22-26 June 2026] Here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💕 Join LOVED WITH EMILY: And get a growing library of refreshingly simple 5-day audio experiences, support and community that pick you up out of the horrors of dating and get you back on track to find love....FAST! CLICK HERE TO JOIN 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 👩‍❤️‍👨 GET EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR MAN: To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNECT WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    17 min

  4. 14 June

    This Week's Love Note: Stop Letting Dating Decide If You Find Love

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx 💕 Join LOVED WITH EMILY: And get a growing library of refreshingly simple 5-day audio experiences, support and community that pick you up out of the horrors of dating and get you back on track to find love....FAST! CLICK HERE TO JOIN 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 👩‍❤️‍👨 GET EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR MAN: To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNECT WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    7 min

  5. 13 June

    The Sign You’re Not Doomed To Be Single

    When you want love but you’ve been single for years… You’ve tried the apps, taken breaks from dating, worked on yourself, done the healing, listened to even more advice… It can feel like you’re “doomed to be single”. For real 💔😔 All you want is to know if love it’s meant for you. If it’s still possible. So you have a reason to keep hoping, to keep going. Often the hardest part of being single, isn’t being single. It’s not knowing if love will actually happen for you. You don’t know if what you’re doing to find love will eventually pay off. Or if it’s just a waste of your time. You don’t know whether you’re on the right track at all. It feels like you’re riding blind, just hoping things somehow work out for you. You don’t know if you’re wasting your time. Or if you should’ve given up on love years ago.  This episode gives you the certainty in love you’ve been looking for. The sign that tells you really simple whether you’re moving towards love… or away from it. And why dating becomes so much easier when you have this kind of guidance. In this episode you’ll learn: The biggest sign you're moving closer to love (or further away from it)The real reason love gets harder to find the longer you’ve been datingThat you feel “doomed to be single” is because you’re looking at the wrong thingsWhy feeling hopeless about love isn’t proof you are “doomed to be single”How to create certainty around love yourself and get on track to find it. If love feels impossible to find because dating never goes the way you want it to, this episode will feel like a huge exhale. Utter relief 😮‍💨 🎧 Hit play to listen now. 👉 JOIN THE 5-DAY RESET TO GET BACK ON TRACK TO FIND LOVE: LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE [22-26 June 2026] Here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💖 Episodes to listen to next:  Why Love Feels So Hard To Find (Even When You've Done Everything "Right") 💕 Join LOVED WITH EMILY: And get a growing library of refreshingly simple 5-day audio experiences, support and community that pick you up out of the horrors of dating and get you back on track to find love....FAST! CLICK HERE TO JOIN 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 👩‍❤️‍👨 GET EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR MAN: To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNECT WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    20 min

  6. 7 June

    This Week's Love Note: Your Dating Experiences Aren't Random

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx 💕 Join LOVED WITH EMILY: And get a growing library of refreshingly simple 5-day audio experiences, support and community that pick you up out of the horrors of dating and get you back on track to find love....FAST! CLICK HERE TO JOIN 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 👩‍❤️‍👨 GET EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR MAN: To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNECT WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    6 min

  7. 6 June

    How To Feel Safe With The Men You’re Dating

    Dating can feel scary. Not just because there are men out there who don't have good intentions. But because at some point, you're supposed to trust someone you still don't fully know 🫣 Let your guard down. Believe they're who they say they are. And hope you've got it right 🤞 What if you miss the red flags? What if you trust the wrong man? What if you end up hurt, blindsided or wishing you'd listened to yourself sooner? It's a horrible position to be in. Because you want love. But you also want to feel safe. And it can feel like in order to have love, you have to leap at some point and just hope the man you’re on a date with, or dating seriously has the best intentions. Thankfully, that's not your only option. Because feeling safe with the man or men you’re dating isn’t actually about putting your trust in men. It’s about leaning more fully into something you already have access to and that prioritizes what’s right for YOU above all else. In this episode you’ll see: Why trusting men isn’t the goal you want if you’re dating to find loveWhat makes it easier to spot red flags and see through all the dating BSAnd actually walk away when you first see them 🚩How smart women accidentally hand their trust to the wrong menConditions that make it easier to spot the men who do have the best intentions. If you’re a woman who’s dating, this is an episode you NEEEED to take the time to listen to. Because your safety is what matters most 😘 and this is how you ensure it. 🎧 Episodes to listen next: How To Find Love Without Using The Dating Apps 💕 Join LOVED WITH EMILY: And get a growing library of refreshingly simple 5-day audio experiences, support and community that pick you up out of the horrors of dating and get you back on track to find love....FAST! CLICK HERE TO JOIN 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 👩‍❤️‍👨 GET EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR MAN: To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNECT WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    20 min

  8. 31 May

    This Week’s Love Note: Why Dating Feels Harder The Longer You’re Single

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx 💕 Join LOVED WITH EMILY: And get a growing library of refreshingly simple 5-day audio experiences, support and community that pick you up out of the horrors of dating and get you back on track to find love....FAST! CLICK HERE TO JOIN 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 👩‍❤️‍👨 GET EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR MAN: To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNECT WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    8 min
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About

Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

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  • Creator
    Emily Bucknell
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    48
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 null All Rights Reserved.
  • Show Website
    Find Love With Emily

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