In Tune with Tradition - Perspectives on Session Etiquette in Irish Traditional Music

Tara Connaghan

Welcome to “In Tune With Tradition,” the podcast dedicated to exploring the unwritten rules, shared experiences, and stories of Irish traditional music sessions. Sessions are magical gatherings where music, community, and tradition come together, and it is session etiquette (the customs and courtesies shared by all) that helps sessions run smoothly and ensures everyone feels welcome, whether playing, listening, or joining in for the first time. Hosted by Tara Connaghan, a seasoned Irish fiddle player and cultural insider, this series dives deep into the heart of the Irish session. Each episode features conversations with musicians, session regulars, and passionate participants from Ireland and beyond, sharing their personal experiences and perspectives on the etiquette and quirks that make each session unique and magical. Whether you’re a seasoned player, a newcomer, or simply curious about the world of Irish traditional music, “In Tune With Tradition” offers an authentic, entertaining, and insightful look at the elements that make up brilliant Irish music sessions. Expect lively stories, practical advice, and plenty of laughs as we celebrate the music, the people, and the spirit of the session. The podcast was launched Scoil Samhraidh Willie Clancy 2025 in Miltown Malbay, Co. Clare, Ireland by Mairéad Ní Mhaonaigh, renowned fiddle player, singer, and founding member of Altan. Join Tara and her guests each episode as they tune into the tradition, sharing the wisdom and warmth that resonate through the magic of Irish music sessions.

  1. 8 APR

    How to find your voice in Irish traditional music

    Discover how Irish music sessions are more than just tunes, they're vibrant social gatherings that thrive on authenticity, politeness, and shared musical language. Join us as we explore the nuances of session etiquette, musical identity, and the magic of finding your voice within the community. Main Topics:The social fabric and etiquette of Irish music sessionsDeveloping personal musical voice and confidenceThe cultural differences in music perception and participation In this episode:Lexie Boatwright shares her journey of adapting to Irish musical nuances and social vibesInsight into how social connection and politeness shape session interactionsThe importance of self-awareness and authenticity for musiciansThe role of rhythm, dynamics, and personal style in Irish musicThe cultural contrast in perceptions of competition, performance, and self-promotionPractical advice on how to contribute meaningfully to sessions at any levelReflection on how musical and cultural identity influence learning and performing Timestamps:00:00 - The social essence of Irish sessions and fitting in 00:27 - The importance of social vibe over technical skill 01:46 - How social and musical dynamics intertwine 03:46 - The role of caring and authenticity in sessions 05:13 - Building connections through social interaction 06:26 - Vulnerability and learning as an adult musician 07:42 - The impact of travel and access on learning Irish music 09:02 - Brain science and learning Irish music 10:48 - The stages of developing fluency and confidence 12:48 - The significance of rhythm, swing, and phrasing 15:01 - The analogy of storytelling and fluency in music 16:44 - Recognising Irish musical vernacular and accents 17:34 - The importance of organising and sharing musical vocabulary 18:56 - The beauty in imperfection and being yourself in sessions 21:07 - Playing your unique voice, the confidence to being your true self 23:40 - Cultural reflections on Irish versus American musical attitudes 26:10 - Session etiquette and politeness over social dominance 28:56 - How to navigate social cues and musical contributions 33:49 - Making space for different instruments and musical expressions 36:29 - The accessibility of Irish music and the importance of persistence 42:22 - The value of hunger, access, and community in learning 44:32 - The long-term approach to mastering Irish music 49:26 - Embracing mistakes and the non-perfection in performance 54:36 - The cultural lens on competition versus performance 57:23 - The role of festivals, competitions, and social mixing 62:34 - The importance of social interactions and playing together 66:29 - Finding your voice and the social-cultural context of Irish music 70:14 - Building confidence and sharing your music authentically 75:36 - Developing your musical voice through variation and exploration 79:26 - The significance of rhythm, dynamics, and ornamentation 83:08 - Contributing to the session beyond just playing tunes 86:38 - The social glue: belonging and community in Irish music 89:22 - Neuroscience of learning music and neurodiversity 93:43 - The relationship between classical and Irish traditional music 97:04 - Overcoming self-consciousness in hearing your own voice 99:52 - Recognising mistakes and the natural flow of performance 106:54 - The importance of intentionality and matching rhythm 111:58 - Dynamics, phrasing, and micro-dynamics in session playing 120:13 - Defining Irish music: features, patterns, and cultural identity 122:32 - The role of accompaniment and social harmony in sessions 126:51 - Final thoughts on authenticity, community, and musical self-acceptance Resources & Links: The Consequences - Band WebsiteIn Tune With Tradition - Private Session Experiencehttps://www.patreon.com/cw/SessionEtiquette Produced, recorded & edited by Tara Connaghan and guest editor Anita Alvarez Santos

    2h 8m
  2. 19 MAR

    Lack of etiquette is anyone that disrupts the flow

    Summary: Discover the nuances of Irish music sessions through the insights of UK accordionist Luke Daniels in conversation with Tara Connaghan. This episode explores what makes a great session, common pitfalls, and how to contribute positively whether you're a novice or a seasoned musician. In this episode: Luke shares hilarious and memorable session mishaps, including a disruptive session in Milltown and an unwelcoming experience with a plastic bag. The significance of listening over talking and the impact of environment on session quality. How to join a session when you're just starting out, including practical tips on timing, tune selection, and attitude The debate over recording sessions silently or with consent, and the ethics surrounding it. Insights into playful and respectful interactions with musicians of all levels and ages. A discussion on tuning in different keys and regional playing styles affecting session dynamics. The importance of not taking oneself too seriously, "don't be a dick", as a guiding principle for session etiquette. Timestamp Highlights: 0:00 - Introduction to Luke Daniels 2:34 - What makes a session successful: number of players and responsiveness 4:05 - How fragile good sessions are and the importance of natural flow 6:30 - A memorable incident: a disruptive pub session in Milltown 8:46 - The story of a plastic bag and unwelcome gatekeeping at a session 10:31 - Giving feedback to fellow musicians and managing social interactions 13:04 - The impact of recording in sessions and respecting musicians' boundaries 25:14 - How beginners should approach joining sessions and tune repertoire 35:41 - The regional differences in session styles and tempo considerations 41:25 - The balance of structure and freedom in improvisation and etiquette 42:54 - The mystery question: playing in different keys and tuning considerations Resources & Links: https://lukedanielsmusic.com www.sessionetiquette.com In Tune with Tradition - Patreon https://www.patreon.com/cw/SessionEtiquette In Tune with Tradition: The Private Session Experience www.sessionetiquette.com/retreat Podcasthon: https://podcasthon.org/podcaster/in-tune-with-tradition Donegal Cancer Flights & Services: https://ionadnp.ie/donegal-cancer-flights/?lang=en Donate: https://ionadnp.ie/donations/tabhair-sintiuis/ Produced, recorded & edited by Tara Connaghan and guest editor Anita Alvarez Santos Keywords: Irish Music Sessions, Session Etiquette, Luke Daniels, Accordionist Insights, Musical Improvisation, Session Atmosphere, Recording Ethics, Regional Playing, Styles, Musical Connection, Beginner Session Tips, Irish music

    49 min
  3. 9 MAR

    How to Read the Room

    In this episode Tara Connaghan talks with Emmy-Winning TV host, Mickela Mallozzi, about her love for Ireland and Irish music and how she has learned to 'read the room' through her years of presenting the 'Bare Feet with Mickela Mallozzi' TV series. Discover how to respectfully participate in Irish sessions and the importance of cultural understanding, cultural nuances and the joy of musical exchange. This episode is part of the Podcasthon - a charity event uniting podcasters worldwide to raise awareness for local charities. https://podcasthon.org/ My chosen charity: Donegal Flights and Cancer Services https://ionadnp.ie/donegal-cancer-flights/?lang=en Donate to Donegal Flights and Cancer Services: https://ionadnp.ie/donations/tabhair-sintiuis/ Bare Feet with Mickela Mallozzi' TV series https://www.travelbarefeet.com/ Bare Feet with Mickela Mallozzi is available on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/travelbarefeet Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/SessionEtiquette www.sessionetiquette.com In tune with Tradition: The Private Session Experience: www.sessionetiquette.com/retreat Vote for the podcast at the NYC Podcasting Awards: https://www.silver-nyc.com/nycpodcastawards/vote Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Irish Session Culture 01:33 Michaela's Connection to Irish Music and Culture 05:24 What Does an Irish Traditional Music Session Mean? 10:03 How to Approach a Session as a Newcomer 13:44 Cultural Nuances and Respect in Irish Sessions 18:43 Learning the Language and Nuances of Irish Music 23:12 Reading the Room and Understanding Session Dynamics 27:43 Handling Requests and Song Selection Etiquette 32:43 The Significance of Silence and Respect in Sessions 37:18 The Emotional and Dynamic Range of Irish Music 42:16 The Role of Community and Generations in Sessions 46:26 Advice for Respectful Participation and Observation 51:17 Final Thoughts on Cultural Respect and Connection Recording, Editing, Mastering: Tara Connaghan Guest editor: Anita Alvarez Santos Creative Virtual Assistant www.SolaraSage.us Keywords Irish music, music sessions, Mickela Mallozzi, traditional music, musicians, music community, session etiquette, music culture, travel bare feet, Irish American

    1hr 4min
  4. 18 JAN

    Sessions have represented my greatest pleasures and miseries

    Summary In this episode of "In Tune with Tradition”, Tara Connaghan talks to author of the book ‘Field Guide to the Irish Music Session’ Barry Foy. He shares his personal journey, starting from his early experiences in Dublin's vibrant music scene in the 1970s, where he is thankful he was tolerated, sometimes several nights every week. Barry discusses the psychological barriers that new musicians face when joining sessions, emphasising the importance of psychological safety to truly enjoy and contribute to the music. He also reflects on the evolution of Irish music, the pressures faced by musicians today, and the significance of understanding the unspoken rules of sessions to foster a welcoming environment for all participants. Throughout the conversation, Barry highlights the need for patience and understanding among musicians, especially when it comes to welcoming newcomers. He shares anecdotes from his own experiences, illustrating the challenges and joys of participating in sessions. The discussion also touches on the impact of technology on traditional music, the importance of repertoire, and the communal aspect of music-making that transcends individual skill levels. Barry's insights serve as a guide for both seasoned musicians and newcomers, encouraging a deeper appreciation for the rich tapestry of Irish music. Links: www.sessionetiquette.com www.sessionetiquette.com/retreat Book: Field Guide to the Irish Music Session, by Barry Foy Advert: www.soundsound.ie DanDan Fitzgerald recording studio Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Irish Music Sessions 01:12 Barry Foy's Journey in Irish Music 04:50 The Importance of Psychological Safety 09:35 Navigating the Unspoken Rules 16:15 The Evolution of Irish Music 25:16 The Role of Technology in Music Sessions 34:08 Creating an Inclusive Session Environment 42:51 Advice for Newcomers to Irish Music Sessions 51:44 Reflections on the Future of Irish Music Recording, Editing, Mastering: Tara Connaghan Guest editor: Anita Alvarez Santos Creative Virtual Assistant www.SolaraSage.us Keywords Irish music, music sessions, Barry Foy, traditional music, musicians, music community, session etiquette, music culture

    1hr 12min
  5. 27/12/2025

    If that happened consistently it would drive me mad!

    Episode 11: Leonard Barry If that happened consistently it would drive me mad! Summary In this episode of 'In Tune with Tradition’, Tara engages in a deep conversation with uileann piper Leonard Barry about the significance of Irish music sessions, the etiquette involved, and the importance of respect and listening in traditional music. They explore the dynamics of group sessions, the role of accompaniment instruments, and the need for inclusivity and encouragement for new musicians. The discussion highlights memorable experiences in sessions and the collective joy that music brings to both musicians and listeners alike. Links from Show: Course starting in January. Buy now at 2025 prices. Prices will go up at 11.59pm on 31st December 2025. https://www.sessionetiquette.com/courses Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections 01:58 The Importance of Irish Music Sessions 05:23 Learning Through Listening 07:58 Session Etiquette for Beginners 11:18 The Role of Accompaniment Instruments 14:25 Creating the Right Atmosphere in Sessions 16:48 Respect and Inclusivity in Music 20:04 Navigating Different Skill Levels 22:45 Recording in Sessions 25:00 The Magic of Shared Musical Experiences 27:25 Encouraging New Musicians 29:52 Memorable Sessions and Learning from Heroes 32:46 The Dynamics of Group Sessions 35:26 Awareness and Respect in Sessions 38:11 Final Thoughts on Session Etiquette Keywords Irish music, session etiquette, traditional music, listening skills, music community, respect, learning, musicianship, cultural heritage, music sessions, uileann pipes, Irish music sessions

    1hr 12min
  6. 06/12/2025

    Live from the Ennis Trad Festival 2025

    Summary This episode of 'In Tune with Tradition' features a live discussion at the Ennis Trad Festival in November 2025. The panel consisted of fiddle player, Siobhan Peoples, multi-instrumentalist Autumn Rhodes and dancer and listener, Carmel Greene. We explore the essence of Irish traditional music sessions, exploring the roles of musicians, dancers, and listeners. The panel discusses the challenges faced by beginners and intermediates, the importance of etiquette, and the collective experience of music. Together with the audience we also reflect on the impact of COVID-19 on the music scene, the commercialisation of traditional music and emphasising the need for community and connection in sessions. Links mentioned in the podcast: Pilot phase of in depth courses on session etiquette - the chance to ask the questions you've always wanted to ask. https://www.sessionetiquette.com/courses Book featuring a chapter on 'Unlocking the Magic of Irish Music' by Tara Connaghan: ChangeMakers - Entrepreneurs with a Mission - Voices with a Message' https://amzn.eu/d/1DFvxNA (available now) Or pre-order https://www.sessionetiquette.com/shop Link to school child out-competing the rest of the school choir: (mentioned by Siobhan Peoples) https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=4182812845154569&rdid=0JSf80e6yuKMA8tS West Clare Mullagh Half Set (mentioned by Carmel Greene) https://youtu.be/tPwfGJEJb0c?si=fffXwuQ75DMv3FEY Takeaways Irish traditional music sessions are social gatherings that require awareness and collaboration.Listeners play a crucial role in enhancing the session experience.Beginners often face challenges when entering a session for the first time.Intermediate players must navigate social dynamics and repertoire choices.Listening is as important as playing in a session.Session etiquette is essential for maintaining harmony among musicians.The architecture of a session affects the overall experience.The collective experience of music transcends individual performances. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Irish Traditional Music Sessions 03:04 The Essence of an Irish Traditional Music Session 08:40 The Role of Dancers and Listeners in Sessions 11:12 Challenges for Beginners in Music Sessions 16:25 Navigating Intermediate Challenges in Sessions 22:23 The Importance of Listening in Sessions 26:18 Session Etiquette and Group Dynamics 32:23 The Architecture of a Session 37:41 The Collective Experience of Music 42:56 The Disconnect Between Dance and Music 48:11 The Impact of COVID-19 on Music Sessions 56:59 Commercialisation of Traditional Music 01:02:19 Closing Thoughts and Audience Engagement Keywords Irish music, traditional sessions, Irish music sessions, music etiquette, session etiquette, dance, community, COVID-19 impact, music challenges, listening, group dynamics, commercialisation, music interview

    1hr 23min
  7. 05/11/2025

    Fairy Forts and Changelings

    Summary This episode is a collaboration between Tara Connaghan (In Tune with Tradition podcast) and Shannon Heaton (Irish Music Stories podcast). It delves into the rich tapestry of Irish folklore, particularly focusing on the mystical traditions surrounding fairies and fairy forts. The conversation explores how these supernatural elements are intertwined with Irish music, storytelling, and cultural heritage. Through personal anecdotes and expert insights, the hosts examine the significance of fairies in both historical and modern contexts, highlighting their role in shaping Irish identity and the lessons embedded in fairy tales. Takeaways The podcast explores the intersection of Irish music and folklore.Fairy forts are significant in Irish culture and mythology.Supernatural beliefs are deeply rooted in Irish traditions.Childhood experiences shape our understanding of fairies.Fairy tales often serve as metaphors for life lessons.Storytelling is a vital part of preserving cultural heritage.Modern interpretations of fairy lore reflect societal changes.The influence of fairies extends to music and creativity.Fairy tales can provide comfort and explanations for life's mysteries.The relevance of fairy stories persists in contemporary society. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Irish Music and Supernatural Themes 04:42 Exploring Fairy Lore and Superstitions 07:50 Investigating Fairy Forts and Their Mystique 10:38 Connections Between Irish and American Folklore 13:47 The Role of Music in Supernatural Storytelling 16:34 The Evolution of Fairy Tales and Their Impact 20:06 Children's Perception of Supernatural Stories 22:53 The Cultural Significance of Fairy Songs 25:46 Conclusion: The Enduring Magic of Folklore 29:58 The Dark Side of Fairy Tales 33:26 Ghostly Tales and Eerie Experiences 34:44 Exploring Fairy Lore and Beliefs 38:57 The Consequences of Disregarding Fairies 45:28 The Role of Fairies in Grief and Loss 48:37 Lessons from Fairy Tales 51:45 The Reality of Fairies in Modern Times 54:17 Introduction to Folklore and Myth 54:47 Upcoming Events and Engagements Keywords Irish music, folklore, fairies, supernatural, storytelling, culture, traditions, Irish heritage, music sessions, fairy tales

    55 min

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Welcome to “In Tune With Tradition,” the podcast dedicated to exploring the unwritten rules, shared experiences, and stories of Irish traditional music sessions. Sessions are magical gatherings where music, community, and tradition come together, and it is session etiquette (the customs and courtesies shared by all) that helps sessions run smoothly and ensures everyone feels welcome, whether playing, listening, or joining in for the first time. Hosted by Tara Connaghan, a seasoned Irish fiddle player and cultural insider, this series dives deep into the heart of the Irish session. Each episode features conversations with musicians, session regulars, and passionate participants from Ireland and beyond, sharing their personal experiences and perspectives on the etiquette and quirks that make each session unique and magical. Whether you’re a seasoned player, a newcomer, or simply curious about the world of Irish traditional music, “In Tune With Tradition” offers an authentic, entertaining, and insightful look at the elements that make up brilliant Irish music sessions. Expect lively stories, practical advice, and plenty of laughs as we celebrate the music, the people, and the spirit of the session. The podcast was launched Scoil Samhraidh Willie Clancy 2025 in Miltown Malbay, Co. Clare, Ireland by Mairéad Ní Mhaonaigh, renowned fiddle player, singer, and founding member of Altan. Join Tara and her guests each episode as they tune into the tradition, sharing the wisdom and warmth that resonate through the magic of Irish music sessions.

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