
170 episodes

Sluts and Scholars Pleasure Podcasts
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- Sexuality
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4.9 • 15 Ratings
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Sluts & Scholars is one of Cosmopolitan's "Hot Podcasts to Listen To." Nicoletta Heidegger is a licensed marriage and family therapist and sexologist and she chats with folks from across sexuality, kink, and professional spectrums about desire, pleasure, shame, stigma and (of course) bodily functions. Combining irreverence and expertise, on the docket is anything remotely related to sexual, reproductive and bodily autonomy; from the indigenous menstrual practices of the Hupa Valley tribe, to beauty confidence advice from Dita von Teese, and anal sex pro tips from Jessica Drake. Sluts and Scholars is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com
*Sluts and scholars is a sex positive, shame free, educational podcast where we try to help make your sex smarter and your smarts sexier. While we love to give advice and resources, please note that this podcast is not intended to be therapy or a replacement for therapy. Thanks for tuning in and we hope you enjoy!
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160 The Crygasm with Javay da BAE
This episode features millennial sexpert and sex eductaor Javay da BAE. Javay and Nicoletta cover a lot from racism in sex work to how to keep your long term relationship sexually connected. But also- the crygasm!
Sponsors/ discounts:
Pour Moi: https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/
Dipsea:
Dipseastories.com/sands
Sakara: www.sakara.com/SANDS
Javay: https://www.javaydabae.com/
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159 Burnout with Moushumi Ghose
With the election on top of all the other 2020 madness, burnout this year feels more real than ever. Using their own experiences as therapists, Moushumi Ghose joins Nicoletta for a very real conversation about feeling burnt out. Some topics: what to look for during burnout, what to do about burnout, and how to avoid it in the first place.
Moushumi: https://www.losangelessextherapy.com/
Other Resources:
- Book by the Nagoski sisters https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/592377/burnout-by-emily-nagoski-phd-and-amelia-nagoski-dma/
- Talk with Brene Brown https://brenebrown.com/podcast/brene-with-emily-and-amelia-nagoski-on-burnout-and-how-to-complete-the-stress-cycle/
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158 This is Halloween
This special episode features some past guests' submissions featuring real sexual health horror stories. Join Nicoletta as she welcomes back Dirty Lola, Mistress Justine Cross, Isabella Frappier, and Dr. Laurie Mintz. From debunking condom myths, to butt plugs gone wrong, health care horror, and systemic -isms, this episode is not for the faint of heart and is sure to leave you reeling.
This episode is sponsored by Dipsea. For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands
Featured Guests:
Dirty Lola: https://dirtylola.wordpress.com/
Mistress Justine Cross: https://www.losangelesdominatrix.com/
Isabella Frappier: http://www.isabellafrappier.com/
Dr. Laurie Mintz: https://www.drlauriemintz.com/
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157 The Most Naked Woman with Michelle L'Amour
Burlesque icon Michelle L'Amour joins Nicoletta for a conversation about genital confidence. They also delve into beauty standards, Alopecia, and vulnerability- as well as Butthoven.
Sponsors:
Right now, Trivia Star is offering you 2,500 coins and 500 gems when you download and play. Just go to the Apple or Google store and search for Trivia Star.
$25 off of the Intensity by Pour Moi https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/
Michelle L'Amour: https://michellelamour.com/
Resources mentioned:
Book: Tipping the Velvet https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004JHY6EG/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1
Andy Warhol video (which is still on YT, while Michelle's female version was blocked): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AAjmD1SIsrk
Butthoven:
https://vimeo.com/31398940
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156 - All About Herpes with Emily L. Depasse
This episode features sexologist and soon-to-be therapist Emily L. Depasse. Emily and Nicoletta talk about all things Herpes from stigma, to sex education, policy, and personal stories. Have you ever wondered how to tell a new or ongoing partner that you have Herpes? Tune in to find out how to navigate this very common virus.
Sponsors/ discounts:
Pour Moi: Pour Moi is offering our listeners an additional $25 off of Intensity when you go to PourMoi.com and enter code SandS at checkout. You can use this code along with any other discount code on their website https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/
Trivia Star: Trivia star-is offering you 2,500 coins and 500 gems when you download and play. Just go to the Apple or Google store and search for Trivia Star.
Emily:
https://www.emilydepasse.com/
Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Ella Dawson's TED Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YcIl-hclrLI
- Something Positive for Positive People: Access to therapy/nonprofit/podcast https://www.spfpp.org
- American Sexual Health Organization: "Herpes (oral & genital) cannot be spread through inanimate objects such as spoons, glasses, razors, towels, bed sheets, etc. Herpes can only be passed through direct skin-to-skin contact with the infected area such as kissing, oral sex, genital-to-genital rubbing, vaginal, and anal sex." https://www.ashasexualhealth.org/five-things-you-should-know-about-herpes/ -
Planned Parenthood: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens/ask-experts/can-herpes-be-spread-through-sharing-food-and-drinks
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155 The Single Sex Therapist with Nicole Belmonte
This week Nicoletta is joined by classmate and colleague Nicole Belmonte- who is also a therapist and sexologist. They talk about what it is like dating when you are a sex therapist, how to deal with being single, and what exactly a sex therapist can help you with.
This episode is sponsored by Dipsea and Trivia Star!
Dipsea: Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands
Trivia Star: Trivia star-is offering you 2,500 coins and 500 gems when you download and play. Just go to the Apple or Google store and search for Trivia Star.
Nicole Belmonte: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/nicole-e-belmonte-schaumburg-il/384837
https://real-talk-therapy.com/
Article from the episode: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/202005/my-therapist-the-porn-star
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Customer Reviews
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Informative and a pleasure to listen to. Covers all aspects of the SW industry.
So good!
Intelligent, informative and fun!
So necessary & educational!!
I can’t express how many times this podcast has given me complete mind shifts through its educational aspects, but also how much Simone and Nicolette have helped destigmatise a plethora of things! All while being really entertaining, inspiring women xx
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