Find Love With Emily

Emily Bucknell
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Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

Episodes

  1. 1 DAY AGO

    What’s Actually Keeping You Single Over 30 (And How to Finally Break the Cycle) | PART 1

    If you’re a single, self-aware woman over 30 and you’ve worked on your anxious attachment, you’ve swiped on dating apps, tweaked your profile, played” hard to get”… And you still don’t understand why you’re still single. Listen to this episode and in 25 minutes you’ll finally have a clear answer. You don’t need to date more. Be more in your feminine energy. Or play “the game” better. What’s keeping you single is happening below the surface. It’s what determines the men you attract (or don’t) and the dating experiences you keep having (but don’t want). It’s been keeping you stuck in this cycle where love always feels out of reach. Inside this episode I walk you through a practical exercise that makes this obvious. It explains: -         Why you attract the men you do (or why nothing is happening at all) -         Why doing more hasn’t changed anything -         The real reason you’ve felt stuck in the same cycle -         And the exact steps to take to break it (that have nothing to do with dating). You are not single because you haven’t tried hard enough. Because there’s something wrong with you. Or because it’s “just not meant to be.” You’re single because no one showed you this before.  👉 Click here to download the worksheet. Then hit play. By the end of this episode, you’ll know exactly what’s been standing between you and love all this time and how to close the gap. Let’s get to work! 👉 Be sure to subscribe to the podcast so you don’t miss Part 2. 💖 To learn more about the one rule love follows, click below to listen to: Episode 1: Why Love Feels So Hard To Find (Even When You've Done Everything "Right") Episode 2: Love Is Simpler Than You Think - Here’s What You’ve Been Missing HIGHLY RECOMMENDED: Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    25 min

  2. 28 FEB

    There’s Nothing Embarrassing About Wanting Love

    Wanting love in when you’re a single woman over 30 can bring a mix of emotions, especially when you’ve been dating for years and it still hasn’t happened for you. It’s common for a feeling of shame or embarrassment to slowly rise up. It can feel silly or way to vulnerable to want love when it seems unlikely that it’ll ever happen for you. And so, you can start to hide your desire for love. You laugh it off. Tell people you’re happy being single. You’re in “no rush” Joke about how awful dating is when you’re over 30. But underneath it all, that desire is still there. Inside this episode we talk about this shame that so many single women over 30 feel about wanting a loving, committed relationship, especially when you’ve tried, hoped, dated and waited. You’ll hear: Why wanting love can start to feel like something that’s better to hideHow embarrassment shapes your dating choices and stifles the flow of love into your lifeWhat shifts when you stop seeing your desire for love as something to downplayThe practical steps that allow you want love confidentlyAnd how this changes your entire experience of dating. This isn’t a conversation about forcing confidence or pretending it doesn’t feel scary to wear your heart on your sleeve and go after what you want. It’s about understanding what’s actually happening beneath that embarrassment and why releasing it changes way more than you might expect. There’s something important for you to see here: Love can’t move towards you, while you feel ashamed for still wanting it. If you’ve ever found yourself joking about how terrible your love life is, accepting breadcrumbs hoping they’ll turn into what you want or wondering what it must mean about you that love hasn’t happened for you yet… This episode will feel like someone finally putting words to how you’ve been feeling all this time. From that you’ll also find clear steps that make finding love just as predictable as having other desire for your life, like you dream job or dream house. So by the end, the embarrassment you feel in wanting love, becomes pride that you want something so damn glorious for your life. That’s what love follows. That’s how love finds you.  HIGHLY RECOMMENDED: Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    20 min

  3. 24 FEB

    Finding Love Doesn’t Mean What You Think It Does

    If finding love feels heavy, like a lot of pressure and responsibility because you’ve been left to figure it out on your own… You're not alone. For so many self-aware, single women over 30, finding love feels like never ending quest you didn’t ask for. As though love, or the right man is something you have to bust your ass to find. You have to search for. It’s something you have to chase down or get right before time runs out. And when conversations, dates, situationships, and almost-relationships keep leading you back to where you started, it’s natural to wonder: WHY IS FINDING LOVE SO HARD?!?! Inside the episode you’ll find a conversation that most dating advice never touches on… How the pressure and responsibility you’re carrying to find love “while you still can” is shaping your entire love life without you realizing it. Because here’s what I’ve seen time and time again: You’re doing allllll the “right” things when it comes to dating. But you’re looking for love in a way that always keeps it just out of reach. If you’ve ever felt exhausted by dating, weight down by trying to find love and like you’re getting further away from finding the right man… This episode is for you. Inside, you’ll find the perspective shift that changed everything for me… and now 100s of my students. It releases pressure you’re feeling, reframes what “finding love” actually means and what you’re doing to “find” it. There’s a whole lotta relief waiting for you inside this episode. Hit play and listen now (and don’t forget to subscribe!) xx   HIGHLY RECOMMENDED: Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    11 min

  4. 21 FEB

    39, Single, And Feel Forgotten? Listen To This

    If you’re single in your 30s or 40s and have ever felt left behind, forgotten or like everyone else’s lives have moved forward without you… this episode is a must listen. We’re talking about that pain that shows up when you’re single and: Conversations with your friends don’t quite include you anymoreWeekends are quieterFeeling like you’ve been pushed down the list of priorities of friends you still hold dearWondering where you fit in now. For single women over 30, this pain becomes more than just a moment. It can become your story. The one about being the last single friend, the one who’s never chosen, no longer a priority, the one life somehow skipped.   But what if that feeling isn’t actually about being single? In this episode you’ll find a freeing perspective on this pain that most women never consider. It explains why: Reassurance from friends never really changes how you feelRelationships with men crumble before they’ve really taken offThis pain lingers even when your life looks full from the outside. This conversation will feel surprising, confronting, deeply relieving… likely all three! If this is a feeling you’ve been quietly carrying, hit play on this episode now. …and don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode xx HIGHLY RECOMMENDED: Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    16 min

  5. 17 FEB

    “Where Are All the Decent, Available Men?”

    If you’ve been dating 5+ years and still haven’t met the right man… It feels like you’re living through a man drought… And dating apps are filled with emotionally unavailable men and hook-ups… This episode will challenge everything you thought about why decent available men feel so hard to find. Because what if the problem isn’t: ·        That you’re over 30 ·        Men ·        Where you live ·        Dating apps ·        Or “bad timing”? What if it’s something that’s completely within your control to change?! Inside this episode, we talk about: ·        How the belief that there are no decent men left becomes the exact reason you’re not meeting them ·        The hidden way your thoughts about men determines the quality of men you meet ·        Why dating apps don’t deserve their bad rap (and what actually determines who you meet on them) ·        How the pressure to “find love” pushes the right men further away ·        The shift that turns dating into less effort, more reward. This isn’t about lowering your standards. And it’s definitely not about trying harder. It’s about understanding how love really happens so you can work with love, instead of fighting against it and coming up empty handed…again. If it feels like there just aren’t any decent, available men left, press play now! Ready to change this and Attract YOUR Man?! This is what I walk you through how to do inside AYM. Not by forcing yourself to date different. Not by lowering your standards. But by taking simple steps to follow the one rule love does. So that dating feels lighter. The right men start showing up. And you stop trying so damn hard. Click here for Attract YOUR Man: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast …and if this episode helped you finally make sense of why the decent, available men feel so hard to find, please share it with a friend you know has been finding this hard too! HIGHLY RECOMMENDED: Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    17 min

  6. 14 FEB

    “Maybe Love’s Just Not Meant for Me?”

    If you’ve ever had the thought “maybe love’s just not meant for me” this is the episode for you. It’s the heart-breaking assumption so many women make when you’ve spent years dating and you’re exhausted by it all; swiping on dating apps, the false hope, emotional whiplash. …and it feels like letting go of love might actually hurt less than continuing to try. Inside this episode you’ll undeniably see that the idea of idea of love not being “meant for you” comes from a false belief about love and that if you want love, it IS meant for you. This isn’t dating advice. And it’s not a “be more positive” pep talk. It’s a deeper conversation about how love really work and why the pain you feel around dating might just be pointing you towards something you’ve never been shown before about love. If you’ve ever felt like giving up on dating, giving up on love...DON'T. Hit play on this episode instead! Want to find love already? If this episode hit something in you, Attract YOUR Man is for the women who are done dating the hard way and want a different path to love… that actually gets you there! Click here for Attract YOUR Man: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast. And if this episode feels like something a friend needs to hear, please share it with her. Sometimes it’s an honest conversation like this that changes everything for someone. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED: Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    15 min

  7. 7 FEB

    How To Use This Podcast To Find Love... FAST!

    Find Love With Emily isn’t just a podcast where you listen, learn something new and move on. This podcast is here to help you create real change that you want to see in your love life. In this episode, I share how to use this podcast to do exactly that. So that it's not just something you have a nice time listening to, but something that really leads you to love. We talk about: Why waiting for dating to “start working” actually keeps you stuckWhat to do when nothing seems to be happening in your love life at allHow to break out of the the patterns you're sick ofHow unexpected, small, simple steps taken now, will start to change things for you. What I share is a HUGE part of how I met my husband so fast (and a “hack” all my AYM students know!). Recommended reading: 'The Compound Effect' by Darren Hardy. And if you don’t want to just dabble in changing your love life... because you want to find love in the next few months: Your next step is to join Attract YOUR Man, where I guide you through daily steps to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man. Click here to get started: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast HIGHLY RECOMMENDED: Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    10 min

  8. 7 FEB

    Love Is Simpler Than You Think - Here’s What You’ve Been Missing

    Here’s why finding love doesn’t have to be complicated: Inside episode #1 of Find Love With Emily, I introduced you to the one rule love follows. Today, we take it a step further. If dating feels exhausting, confusing or like you’re constantly trying to forcing something to happen, this episode will help you understand why and how love becomes so much simpler to find when you start working with the way love really happen. We talk about: -         Why typical dating advice makes it harder to find love -         Why love doesn’t follow effort, strategy, panic or pressure -         How fear, worry and “unloving” beliefs push love away -         What it really means to follow the one rule love does day-to-day -         The 4 predictable stages women move through when they start following love’s rule -         The changes that happen when the dating “handbrake” comes off You’ll see why finding love doesn’t have to be so hard or complicated (and why trying harder was never the answer). So, if you’re exhausted by dating because nothing seems to work and you don’t want to give up on love, hit play on this episode now! And then?? Let me guide you through the steps, tools and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man. Click HERE to Attract YOUR Man.  HIGHLY RECOMMENDED: Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    21 min

  9. 6 FEB

    Why Love Feels So Hard To Find (Even When You've Done Everything "Right")

    You’ve tried the dating apps. You’ve tried to be in your “feminine energy” and heal your anxious attachment. You’ve stay hopeful. And yet… you’re still single. If you’re exhausted, confused and heartbroken by dating, this episode is for you. Inside this first episode of Find Love With Emily, I share the truth about why dating just doesn’t work for so many smart, self-aware women in their 30s and 40s who want love. And why typical dating advice is never the answer! We talk about why all the effort you’ve put into dating is actually making it harder to find love and what the exhaustion you feel is trying to tell you. If you want real, lasting love, it isn’t about swiping harder, playing games, being the woman men want or luck. It’s about understanding how love really happens and what needs to shift to finally attract YOUR man! If it feels like you’ve tried everything to find love, dating hasn’t worked and you don’t know why you’re still single, press play now! If you’re done with Option 1 (dating harder), Option 2 (giving up on love) is a No and you’re ready for Option 3 (to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man)…   Click HERE to get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED: Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    16 min
  • 9 Episodes

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About

Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

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  • Creator
    Emily Bucknell
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    9
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 null All Rights Reserved.
  • Show Website
    Find Love With Emily

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