Find Love With Emily

Emily Bucknell
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Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

  1. 3 DAYS AGO

    This Week’s Love Note: Love Doesn't Happen The Way You Think

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. 📝 JOURNAL QUESTIONS from this episode: What is the “seed” you want to plant? What kind of relationship do you actually want (not the man), the relationship? How are you currently treating that seed? Are you expecting it to be a full-grown relationship already? Are you dismissing or “stamping on” early signs of love Dates, connections, experiences, because they’re not it yet? When things don’t go to plan, how do you respond? Do you fall into “this isn’t working”… or do you come back to love? Are you giving your love life what it needs to grow? Calm, trust, openness, gratitude, emotional steadiness? Or are you feeding it doubt, frustration, and hopelessness? If love was already growing… how would you think, feel, and act differently right now? Love always, Em xx 💞 THIS IS WHERE LOVE HAPPENS 👇 To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNET WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    8 min

  2. 4 DAYS AGO

    Why You Attract Bare Minimum Men Who Breadcrumb You (And How To Break The Pattern)

    This is one of the most frustrating dating patterns for single women over 30… You meet a man you actually like... There’s chemistry. You see potential. But it never actually becomes something real 😔 He seems into you when you’re together… But when you’re not? It’s no plans. Minimal effort. Just enough to keep you interested. And so without really realizing, you pick up the slack. You reach out. Plan dates. Try to turn it into something more, the relationship you really want. A lot of women believe that this is just how men are now. But that’s not actually what’s happening. And believing that is a BIG part of why you keep attracting these men who breadcrumb you. In this episode, you’ll see exactly: • Why you keep attracting the bare minimum men • Why you can’t help but try to turn their breadcrumbs into more • The belief that keeps you stuck working hard for love (and why it never pays off!) • Why putting effort into the wrong man won’t ever lead to love • What actually needs to shift for you to attract a man who will shows up for you fully. Here's the truth that changes everything if what you want is love: You don’t end up in one-sided relationships by accident. And until you understand the pattern that you’ve been stuck in… You’ll keep trying hard for love with men who are never going to choose you. 🎧 Hit play and listen to the full episode now! 🧲 Other episodes in the “Why You Attract…” series:  Why You Attract Emotionally Unavailable, Avoidant Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Feel Invisible To Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Boring Men You're Not Attracted To (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract Men Who Pull Away (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Men That Only Want One Thing (And How To Break The Pattern) 💞 THIS IS WHERE LOVE HAPPENS 👇 To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNET WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    19 min

  3. 29 APR

    "I Just Want A Man Who Chooses Me"

    There’s a very specific kind of pain that many single women over 30 feel… That deep ache, the longing to be chosen by a man you love just as much. You want to know what it feels like to have a man choose you. Easily, naturally, because he wants to. Because he wants you. And when you still don’t have that after years of dating, it can become an ache that never seems to leave. Most women think that the solution to this is finding the right man. And so they keep dating. Keep hoping. But nothing changes. This episode explains exactly why and what to do to finally meet your man, the man who will choose you every damn day for the rest of his life. In this episode you’ll see: Where this desire, the ache to be chosen actually comes fromWhy this ache feels so intense (and becomes so hard to shake)Why trying to find the right man will never fix this feelingWhat it really means to “love yourself” or “choose yourself”How close you actually are to finally meeting your man Because here’s the thing that you’ll rarely hear explained so clearly: That ache to be chosen that you feel? It’s not coming from being single or because you don’t yet have your man. And until you understand where it comes from, you’ll keep grasping for the wrong solution. 🎧 Hit play and listen to this episode now! 💖 Episodes to listen to next: Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 1 Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 2 💞 THIS IS WHERE LOVE HAPPENS 👇 To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNET WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    18 min

  4. 26 APR

    This Week’s Love Note: Get Love Moving Towards You

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx 💞 THIS IS WHERE LOVE HAPPENS 👇 To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNET WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    6 min

  5. 25 APR

    Why She Gets The Guy And You Don't

    There are women who find love easily… And then there’s your experience 💔 ✔️ You’ve followed all the dating advice. ✔️ You’re swiping on apps. ✔️ In your “feminine energy”. ✔️ Playing hard to get. ✔️ Trying really hard. And yet, you’re the one who’s left confused, frustrated and why you’re always the single friend. This episode will take you deeper than any dating advice ever will. Because the reason she gets the guy and you’re perpetually single?? It’s NOT because she’s prettier. Better at dating. Someone men just like more. You’re just unlucky. Or destined to be single forever. There’s something happening beneath the surface. Something you can’t see… But that changes EVERYTHING! Inside this episode, you’ll hear: Why some women seem to attract incredible men and loving relationships without tryingWhy doing “all the right things” in dating can actually keep you stuckThe real difference between women who find love easily and those who don’tWhat really determines your dating experience (without you realising it)The simple steps to become the woman love happens easily for. This episode will help you understand how love really happens, so it can finally happen for you too. If you’ve ever asked yourself: “Why do I have to always be the single friend?”“What am I missing?”“Why is love so easy for everyone else and so hard for me?” Hit play on this episode now! You'll get the answers you've been looking for. 💖 Episodes to listen to next: Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 1 Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 2 💞 THIS IS WHERE LOVE HAPPENS 👇 To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNET WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    16 min

  6. 19 APR

    This Week's Love Note: When Dating Feels Like the Same Disappointing Story

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx 🧲 Episodes in the “Why You Attract…” series to listen to this week:  Why You Attract Emotionally Unavailable, Avoidant Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Feel Invisible To Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Boring Men You're Not Attracted To (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract Men Who Pull Away (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Men That Only Want One Thing (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract Bare Minimum Men Who Breadcrumb You (And How To Break The Pattern) 💞 THIS IS WHERE LOVE HAPPENS 👇 To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNET WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    5 min

  7. 18 APR

    Why You Attract The Men Who Only Want One Thing (And How To Break The Pattern)

    Men who only want sex. Men who run from commitment. Men who don’t care about getting to know you. Men who only want casual.   ❌ This isn’t "just how dating is" in 2026.   There are still plenty of women in their 30s and 40s who are meeting genuine, kind, loyal men and ending up in committed, loving relationships.   If that not your experience and you’re stuck attracting the men who only want one thing… There’s a simple reason for this that typical dating advice rarely mentions.   It’s the reason that it feels like all men are the same. No one’s looking for commitment. You find it hard to cut men off who tell you they don’t want “anything serious.”   Once you understand what’s happening under the surface, then you get what you need to break out of this pattern. And finally attract the kind, genuine men who want the loving relationship you do.   Inside this episode, I walk you through: The unconscious mistake that keeps you stuck attracting the men that only want sex The subtle ways you reinforcing this pattern without realisingWhy expecting the wrong men to become the right one is draining your chances of finding loveAnd what actually needs to shift so you can start attracting men who want love This episode will stop you feeling like dating is something happening to you, as though there’s nothing you can do but just hope for the better. You can change the men you attract. 🎧 Hit play, so I can walk you through how! 🧲 Other episodes in the “Why You Attract…” series:  Why You Attract Emotionally Unavailable, Avoidant Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Feel Invisible To Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Boring Men You're Not Attracted To (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract Men Who Pull Away (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Men That Only Want One Thing (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract Bare Minimum Men Who Breadcrumb You (And How To Break The Pattern) 💞 THIS IS WHERE LOVE HAPPENS 👇 To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNET WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    19 min

  8. 15 APR

    Dating Is NOT How You Find Love

    If dating feels exhausting 😔 No matter how much you try, nothing ever actually leads to love… This episode is going to hit HARD. ...because what if the reason it’s so hard for you to find love, isn’t because you haven’t figured out dating yet? What if it’s actually because dating was never the thing that creates love in the first place?!? I know. That probably goes against everything you’ve been told: ✔️ Put yourself out there more. ✔️Go on more dates. ✔️ Fix your profile. ✔️ Get better at texting. ✔️ Learn how to “do dating right.” And yet… You’ve done all of that. And you’re still here... Still single. Still trying. Still wondering why it’s not working. In this episode, I’m breaking down the missing piece to find love that almost never gets mentioned in dating advice. It’s the reason that dating can feel like a complete waste of time. Even when you’re doing everything “right”. Once you hear this, why dating hasn’t helped you find love will finally make sense. You’ll understand: Why dating more, trying harder, following all the advice hasn’t brought you any closer to loveWhat’s actually been missing this whole time (and why you’ve never heard this about love before!) The subtle ways you might be unknowingly pushing love away while you’re dating Why some women meet their person quickly, while others stay stuck for years The one shift that takes dating from exhausting and pointless to the place where love can finally meet you. Because finding love isn’t about apps. Or strategies. It’s not about doing the “right” things to have a man choose you. It’s about something much deeper. You deserve love. You deserve to have it happen easily for you. This episode unlocks that for you. FINALLY! …so hit play and listen now!! 🎧 💖 Episodes to listen to next: Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 1 (Energy & Emotions) Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 2 (Thoughts, Beliefs & Subconscious Patterns) 💞 THIS IS WHERE LOVE HAPPENS 👇 To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNET WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    15 min
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Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

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  • Creator
    Emily Bucknell
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    32
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 null All Rights Reserved.
  • Show Website
    Find Love With Emily

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