That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan

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A sex positive podcast that provides a shame free perspective on all things sex. Nothing is off bounds in this uncensored podcast, delving into all the juicy and taboo topics you can imagine. Most importantly this podcast aims to break down the stigmas surrounding sex and provide the tools to create a liberating sexual experience for everyone. Disclaimer: the educational information within this podcast does not take place of professional or medical advice. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic. Email your questions, stories and comments to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com This podcast is created on the land of the Wadawurrung people, the traditional custodians of this land. I pay my respects to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Elders past and present. I acknowledge that it always was and always will be Aboriginal land.

  1. 3 days ago

    189 Why do people get turned on by humiliation? with Sexologist Lex Nyree

    Emily is joined by sexologist and sex educator Lex Nyree to unpack humiliation kinks. They cover what counts as humiliation versus degradation, why some people are drawn to it, and how to explore it without crossing into harm. The conversation also goes deep on consent, aftercare, and why having this kink does not automatically mean someone has low self-esteem. Key topics Lex defines humiliation kink. Examples discussed include verbal humiliation, small penis humiliation, service humiliation, public embarrassment scenarios, forced feminisation, and financial domination. Emily and Lex discuss why humiliation kink can be appealing, including the release of control, novelty, sexual association developed over time, and accidental discovery through play. They discuss what it means to have a fantasy vs kink that is practised. Safety. Lex describes the experience of both submissives and dominants. They discuss how to bring up your humiliation kink with a partner. Does having a humiliation kink mean you have low self-esteem?   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre www.sexwithlex.com.au Instagram @sexwithlexmelb See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  2. 19 Aug

    188 Missionary sex shouldn’t be boring, if it is, you’re doing it wrong

    In this episode, Emily explores how to spice up the missionary position. Missionary can get a bad rap, dismissed as boring or too vanilla, but it doesn't have to be. Emily shares 8 ways to bring more pleasure, connection and excitement into missionary, proving there's way more to this position than people give it credit for. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  3. 13 Aug

    187 Why you keep dating the wrong people with Dr. Gillian O’Shea Brown

    Why do we keep choosing the wrong partners — even when we know better? In this episode of That’s Orgasmic, Emily sits down with psychotherapist and professor Dr. Gillian O’Shea Brown to unpack the unconscious patterns that draw us toward emotionally unavailable relationships, familiar chaos, and unresolved wounds. Together, they explore the idea of an “erotic emotional map,” how childhood attachment patterns can shape adult love lives, and why butterflies, adrenaline, and uncertainty can sometimes be misread as attraction. Gillian shares practical tools for noticing what a relationship brings out in you, including a simple body-based exercise and a post-date reflection practice that helps you track whether someone expands your sense of self or slowly erodes it. If you’ve ever found yourself repeating the same relationship pattern, struggling to walk away, or wondering why calm love feels unfamiliar, this conversation offers compassionate insight and grounded guidance for choosing healthier, safer, and more reciprocal connection. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre Pre-order Dr. Gillian O'Shea Brown's book now (with a preorder bonus of a sample chapter and the Erotic Emotional Map) Take the Psychological Achilles Heel Quiz: https://gillianosheabrown.webflow.io/ Dr. Gillian's Instagram Dr. Gillian's TikTok   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  4. 5 Aug

    186 What makes someone good at sex? (It's not experience)

    Think being good at sex comes from having lots of experience? Think again. In this episode, I'm breaking down one of the biggest myths about sex: that the more sex you have had, the better you'll be in bed. The truth is, great sex has everything to do with communication, curiosity, connection, and a willingness to learn. We'll explore:• Why sexual experience doesn't automatically make someone a better lover• The qualities that actually make someone a great sexual partner• How communication can transform your sex life• Why slowing down often leads to more pleasure• The importance of connection and aftercare• Why porn isn't sex education• Evidence-based resources to help you learn about pleasure, even if you've never had sex before   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  5. 22 July

    185 Why do I like my sex toy more than partnered sex?

    This episode explores the listener question, "I bought a toy and I'm honestly a little embarrassed about how much I like it more than partnered sex. Does that mean something's wrong?" Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  6. 15 July

    184 Stop approaching women like this

    In this episode, Emily discusses a recent scary experience of a man asking for her number in public. Emily also discusses the different ways men have approached her in public, from the ok to the bad.   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  7. 8 July

    How to eat p***y - Queer edition with Jordana Ezra [REVISIT]

    There is no new episode this week, instead, enjoy this revisit to episode 134 How to eat p***y.  In this episode, I am joined by Jordana Ezra, a somatic sexologist specialising in LGBTIA+ sex. She is a bisexual lesbian, host of MOIST a sell-out queer speed dating event and founder of the p***y frequency a method devoted to women and non-binary coming out later in life.  Emily and Jordana discuss: Performance anxiety to eat p***y How to eat p***y How to practice p***y worshipping How to get to know your p***y Getting out of your head and into your body FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast To book a session with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre follow the link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com JORDY'S INSTAGRAM  FREE PLEASURE MAPPING SESSION WITH JORDY See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  8. 1 July

    182 How to have a terrible sex life

    Emily a sex and relationship therapist, discusses the most common behaviours that contribute to a bad sex life...they're more common than you'd think. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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A sex positive podcast that provides a shame free perspective on all things sex. Nothing is off bounds in this uncensored podcast, delving into all the juicy and taboo topics you can imagine. Most importantly this podcast aims to break down the stigmas surrounding sex and provide the tools to create a liberating sexual experience for everyone. Disclaimer: the educational information within this podcast does not take place of professional or medical advice. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic. Email your questions, stories and comments to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com This podcast is created on the land of the Wadawurrung people, the traditional custodians of this land. I pay my respects to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Elders past and present. I acknowledge that it always was and always will be Aboriginal land.

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