Transcending Trauma ® with Moniquea Spiteri

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"Where healing meets humanity."Welcome to Transcending Trauma, a space where science, story, and soul converge. Hosted by Somatic Psychotherapist and change-maker Moniquea Spiteri, this podcast explores the human journey through trauma, transformation, and embodied awakening. Each episode invites you into meaningful conversations with leading experts, healers, and visionaries who are redefining what it means to heal,  from the nervous system up. With warmth, depth, and authenticity, Moniquea guides listeners through the complexities of trauma recovery, the wisdom of the body, and the pathways to reclaiming vitality, connection, and purpose. Whether you’re a practitioner, a healing soul, or someone reclaiming your vitality after adversity, Transcending Trauma ® offers grounded insights, somatic practices, and heartfelt stories that remind us: Transformation is not just possible,  it’s how we transcend the patterns of survival, awaken the wisdom of the body, and remember the truth of who we are. New Season Theme:The Return - stories of resilience, reinvention, and radical embodiment. To connect with Moniquea, visit her Facebook page - https://www.facebook.com/somaticsynergy and connect with Moniquea via her other platforms via Link Tree https://linktr.ee/Moniquea_Spiteri To connect with Moniquea, visit her Facebook page here https://www.facebook.com/somaticsynergy Many thanks to The Kondoors for the use of their amazing single, Mr Rain, for our show's theme song in Season 1. To find out more about The Kondoors visit - https://www.thekondoors.com/ or to purchase Mr Rain click this link - https://orcd.co/byqrerj #TranscendingTrauma #Trauma #MoniqueaSpiteri #TheKondoors

  1. S2 E13 - Boundaries: The Return of the Self

    9 MAY

    S2 E13 - Boundaries: The Return of the Self

    What if boundaries are not walls… but a return to yourself? In this episode of Transcending Trauma, Moniquea Spiteri explores boundaries through the lens of trauma healing, nervous system regulation, attachment, somatic awareness, and relational repair. Many people struggle with boundaries not because they lack strength, but because their nervous system learned that staying connected meant staying agreeable, easy, or emotionally available. This episode explores why boundaries can feel so difficult to hold, how trauma and attachment patterns interrupt our sense of self, and why boundaries are not primarily about controlling others, but about remaining connected to ourselves. Through three guided somatic practices, you’ll learn how to feel the edge of self in the body, recognise the moment you override your own truth, and begin staying connected to yourself while remaining in relationship. In this episode we explore • boundaries as a felt sense in the body • why boundaries feel unsafe or activating • the nervous system and fear of disconnection • people pleasing, over adaptation, and self abandonment • staying grounded in truth without shutting down • self loyalty, mutuality, and authentic connection A powerful episode for anyone ready to stop abandoning themselves in relationships and begin reclaiming boundaries as an act of self return. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    32 min
  2. S2 E12 - The People Pleaser Pattern: Breaking the Cycle Without Losing Your Heart

    12 APR

    S2 E12 - The People Pleaser Pattern: Breaking the Cycle Without Losing Your Heart

    Why does saying no feel so hard? In this episode of Transcending Trauma, Moniquea Spiteri explores the people pleaser pattern through the lens of trauma healing, nervous system regulation, attachment, parts work, and somatic awareness. Many people experience people pleasing as kindness, over giving, or simply being the one who keeps everything together. But beneath the behaviour is often a deeply intelligent survival adaptation rooted in the fawn response, fear of disconnection, and the belief that love must be earned through usefulness. This episode explores how people pleasing slowly becomes identity, how guilt and resentment keep the cycle repeating, and why boundaries are not the opposite of love, but the pathway back to authentic connection. Through three guided somatic practices, you’ll learn how to recognise the over giving cycle in real time, stay present through the guilt wave without rescuing, and begin reclaiming boundaries without losing your warmth, heart, or capacity for love. In this episode we explore • people pleasing and the loss of self • guilt, resentment, and fear of being selfish • the younger protective part and the good child pattern • over functioning, role identity, and self abandonment • how to stay warm, open, and clear in boundaries • rebuilding self loyalty and authentic connection A powerful episode for anyone ready to stop abandoning themselves in the name of connection and begin reconnecting with their truth, capacity, and sense of self. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    36 min
  3. S2 E11 - The Fawn Response: When Safety Becomes Self-Abandonment

    6 APR

    S2 E11 - The Fawn Response: When Safety Becomes Self-Abandonment

    In this episode of Transcending Trauma, Moniquea Spiteri explores the fawn response, a powerful and often misunderstood trauma response where the nervous system learns to prioritise harmony, approval, and connection in order to stay safe. Often experienced as people pleasing, conflict avoidance, or constantly managing the emotional needs of others, the fawn response is not a personality flaw. It is an intelligent nervous system adaptation that can develop in environments where maintaining connection felt essential for safety. Drawing on trauma psychology, Polyvagal theory, somatic experiencing principles, parts work, and body‑based awareness, this episode explores why people pleasing becomes automatic in the nervous system and how we can begin reconnecting with our own voice while staying in relationship. You’ll also be guided through three gentle somatic practices to help you recognise the fawn response in your body, reconnect with your internal signals of yes and no, and begin responding from a more grounded and authentic place. Topics explored in this episode include • The fawn response and how it develops in trauma • People pleasing and the nervous system • Polyvagal theory and the social engagement system • Guilt, approval seeking, and fear of disappointing others • Parts work and why younger protective parts can take over in relationships • How to reclaim your voice without losing connection This episode includes three guided somatic practices designed to help you slow down, notice your body’s signals, and begin creating new relational experiences for your nervous system. If this episode resonates with you, consider sharing it with someone who may benefit from the conversation, and follow the podcast so these teachings can reach more people interested in trauma healing, nervous system regulation, somatic therapy, and relational healing. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    37 min
  4. S2 E10 - Secure Attachment in Action

    28 MAR

    S2 E10 - Secure Attachment in Action

    What does secure attachment actually look like in real life? In this episode of Transcending Trauma, Moniquea explores how relational safety is built not through perfection, but through regulation, repair, and emotional maturity. Drawing on nervous system science, attachment theory, and relational awareness, this conversation explores how secure attachment shows up in everyday interactions. From navigating conflict to learning the art of repair, Moniquea explores how two nervous systems can move through tension without losing connection. Through three guided somatic practices, you will learn how to recognise safety in the body, stay present during moments of disagreement, and practise repair in ways that strengthen relationships over time. Secure attachment is not about never being triggered. It is about learning how to return. Because the real foundation of secure relationships is not perfection. It is the willingness to reconnect, again and again. In the next episode we explore how emotional maturity continues to shape the way secure attachment becomes visible in everyday life. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    27 min
  5. S2 E09 - From Reaction to Regulation

    15 MAR

    S2 E09 - From Reaction to Regulation

    From Reaction to Regulation Why do we react before we can think? In this episode of Transcending Trauma, Moniquea explores what really happens in the body when we get triggered and how to build the capacity to regulate in real time. Drawing on Polyvagal Theory, Somatic Experiencing, parts work, body psychotherapy, and relational teachings from Terry Real, this conversation explores why the nervous system moves faster than the thinking brain and how the past can become superimposed onto the present in moments of activation. Through reflection and three guided somatic practices, you will learn how to recognise your personal trigger patterns, interrupt reactive survival responses, and return to presence in the heat of the moment. Regulation is not about becoming unshakeable. It is about becoming recoverable. Because when you learn to regulate your nervous system, you do not just calm your body. You reshape your relationships. In the next episode we explore Secure Attachment in Action and what emotional security actually looks like in everyday life. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    37 min
  6. S2 E08 - The New Story: Embodied Agency

    16 FEB

    S2 E08 - The New Story: Embodied Agency

    In this episode of Transcending Trauma, we explore what it really means to reclaim agency over your life, not through mindset alone, but through embodied choice. Trauma shapes the stories we live inside of. It influences our attachment patterns, our nervous system responses, and the internal narratives that quietly guide our relationships. But the story that helped you survive is not necessarily the story that will help you thrive. Drawing on Polyvagal Theory, Somatic Experiencing®, parts work, body psychotherapy, and relational teachings from Terry Real, Moniquea unpacks how the past can become superimposed onto the present, and how we begin to interrupt that pattern. This episode includes three guided somatic practices to help you:• Recognise the old narrative running beneath your reactions • Disrupt automatic survival scripts • Strengthen embodied agency in real-time relationships Embodied agency is not about control or perfection. It is the steady, grounded capacity to pause, regulate, and choose from your wise adult self instead of protective reactivity. Because healing isn’t about rewriting history — it’s about living differently now. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    36 min
  7. S2 E07 - The Power of Integration

    7 FEB

    S2 E07 - The Power of Integration

    The Power of Integration In this episode of Transcending Trauma, we explore what it really means to integrate healing — not just as an inner process, but as a lived, embodied reality. We look at how regulation, relational repair, and conscious choice shape a new way of being in the world. Drawing on Somatic Experiencing®, Parts Work, and attachment theory, Moniquea guides you through three practices to support real-life integration. Because transformation doesn’t end with insight — it deepens as we live the new story.   Includes: • 3 guided somatic practices • Teachings on attachment, nervous system repair, and relational healing • Reflections for living your integration day-to-day Make space for this one — and let it become a gentle companion on your path. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    29 min
  8. S2 E06 - Sacred Work: Turning Pain into Purpose

    30/12/2025

    S2 E06 - Sacred Work: Turning Pain into Purpose

    Sacred Work: Turning Pain into Purpose What if your pain wasn’t a burden to carry, but a message waiting to be heard — a sacred thread guiding you toward deeper purpose? In this episode of Transcending Trauma, Moniquea Spiteri explores how trauma can become a gateway to transformation and meaningful contribution. Drawing from Somatic Experiencing®, neurobiology, and personal reflection, she unpacks the alchemical journey of turning pain into presence, wisdom, and sacred service. This gentle and empowering episode guides you through three embodied practices designed to help you listen to the messages beneath your pain, embody the truths you’ve earned, and begin offering your unique medicine to the world — not through performance, but through presence. Whether you're a healer, creative, caregiver, or someone walking their own healing path, this conversation offers tools and inspiration for embracing your story as a source of power and purpose. ✨ Featuring: The somatic language of pain and what it reveals How purpose arises through regulation and integration Personal stories of transformation and sacred offering 3 embodied practices to connect, integrate, and radiate your medicine This is a deeply affirming episode for those on the edge of something new — where survival becomes service, and pain becomes path. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    33 min
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"Where healing meets humanity."Welcome to Transcending Trauma, a space where science, story, and soul converge. Hosted by Somatic Psychotherapist and change-maker Moniquea Spiteri, this podcast explores the human journey through trauma, transformation, and embodied awakening. Each episode invites you into meaningful conversations with leading experts, healers, and visionaries who are redefining what it means to heal,  from the nervous system up. With warmth, depth, and authenticity, Moniquea guides listeners through the complexities of trauma recovery, the wisdom of the body, and the pathways to reclaiming vitality, connection, and purpose. Whether you’re a practitioner, a healing soul, or someone reclaiming your vitality after adversity, Transcending Trauma ® offers grounded insights, somatic practices, and heartfelt stories that remind us: Transformation is not just possible,  it’s how we transcend the patterns of survival, awaken the wisdom of the body, and remember the truth of who we are. New Season Theme:The Return - stories of resilience, reinvention, and radical embodiment. To connect with Moniquea, visit her Facebook page - https://www.facebook.com/somaticsynergy and connect with Moniquea via her other platforms via Link Tree https://linktr.ee/Moniquea_Spiteri To connect with Moniquea, visit her Facebook page here https://www.facebook.com/somaticsynergy Many thanks to The Kondoors for the use of their amazing single, Mr Rain, for our show's theme song in Season 1. To find out more about The Kondoors visit - https://www.thekondoors.com/ or to purchase Mr Rain click this link - https://orcd.co/byqrerj #TranscendingTrauma #Trauma #MoniqueaSpiteri #TheKondoors

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