54 episodes

Hosted by somatic sexologist, Harley Rabbit, this show aims to have the conversations you can’t always have with friends / coworkers! Through sharing personal stories from her own kink journey, Harley encourages you to embrace your secret desires, let go of shame, and start experiencing sex how it’s meant to be!

Turns Out... I'm Into It‪!‬ Harley Rabbit

    • Health & Fitness
    • 5.0 • 8 Ratings

Hosted by somatic sexologist, Harley Rabbit, this show aims to have the conversations you can’t always have with friends / coworkers! Through sharing personal stories from her own kink journey, Harley encourages you to embrace your secret desires, let go of shame, and start experiencing sex how it’s meant to be!

    #56: Reflections on Speaking Out, and Cultivating Your Feed

    #56: Reflections on Speaking Out, and Cultivating Your Feed

    In this week's episode I reflect on the responses I got from speaking out in episode #54. I am so grateful to everyone who has reached out to me, shared their stories, or told me the episode had an impact on them. I was very nervous about how the episode would be received and this really goes to show that most people in this community are good humans! Also in this episode I reveal some of my favorite profiles to follow on Fetlife and Instagram! This is just one of the ways we can be proactive about cultivating a positive community around us. See the list of profile names below if you’d like to follow these amazing people yourself. Mentioned in this episode* Erenisch_Comics* ChainedValkyrie* Gary-whitehouse* MrG__ and PropertyofMrG* Thingsmyd**kdoes* _MrV- and Darkmole* Mostlybicpics* Bettersx.blog* Disabled_Eliza* Lainey.molnar* KimoftheinternetContact* Follow me on Fetlife (https://fetlife.com/users/13253650)* Follow me on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/harley_rabbit/)* Follow me on X (https://twitter.com/Harley_Rabbit_)* Watch on Youtube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCp0u2Vg3Zv0FqDUsY0J8PCw)

    • 37 min
    #55: Saying No - The Power of Setting Boundaries

    #55: Saying No - The Power of Setting Boundaries

    Setting boundaries might seem straightforward, but it’s often challenging to recognise and communicate them, especially in the context of kink. This week's episode dives into the complexities of identifying and asserting your boundaries, with a particular focus on the struggles faced by those with anxiety who may have become adept at ignoring their body’s warning signals. I share insights from my recent experiences at a weekend rope workshop that showed me that saying ‘no’ can actually lead to more fun! Special thanks to Evil Girls HQ and Miss Gen for an incredible workshop – if you have the chance to take a class with Miss Gen, don’t miss it! Links below.Mentioned in this episode* EvilGIrlsHQ website (https://evilgirlshq.com.au/?doing_wp_cron=1716873958.0229480266571044921875)* EvilGirlsHQ on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/evilgirls.hq/) @evilgirls.hq* Miss Gen on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/missgen_does_rope/) @missgen_does_ropeContact* Follow me on Fetlife (https://fetlife.com/users/13253650)* Follow me on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/harley_rabbit/)* Follow me on X (https://twitter.com/Harley_Rabbit_)* Watch on Youtube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCp0u2Vg3Zv0FqDUsY0J8PCw)

    • 43 min
    #54: I had a Bad Experience - This is What Happened

    #54: I had a Bad Experience - This is What Happened

    This week’s podcast was the hardest I’ve ever recorded. It’s easy to share the positive aspects of kink—the great experiences and the joys of exploration. What’s hard is sharing the negative experiences. It would have been much easier to keep this private, but my podcast is about sharing my kink journey openly and honestly. I can't do that if I’m only highlighting the good parts.In this episode, I discuss a recent experience where my vetting process failed, and I ended up trusting someone who caused me significant harm. This experience was confusing and required a lot of reflection and conversations to understand fully. I share all of this on the podcast as openly and accurately as I can. This isn't about pointing fingers but rather an honest exploration of the risks we take in this community and how we can better protect ourselves.Contact* Follow me on Fetlife (https://fetlife.com/users/13253650)* Follow me on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/harley_rabbit/)* Follow me on X (https://twitter.com/Harley_Rabbit_)

    • 1 hr
    #53: Surprising Lessons from Floor Ropes!

    #53: Surprising Lessons from Floor Ropes!

    In this episode, I dive into a recent adventure that took me to Brisbane, where I explored rope suspension for the first time. While I successfully achieved my suspension goals, it was the floor rope scenes with a talented rigger named Ravel (@ravel_shibari on Instagram) that truly transformed my perspective on rope.Join me as I share about these floor scenes, revealing what they looked like, how they felt, and the crucial elements of successful scene negotiation and trust-building with a new play partner. In line with our show’s ethos, I also peel back the curtain on some of the less glamorous aspects of kinky play—like stress, expectations, and fatigue—helping to normalise the full spectrum of experiences that come with exploring our kinks.Tune in to learn why sometimes the most insightful lessons come from unexpected places!Mentioned in this episode* Ravel on Fetlife (https://fetlife.com/users/4377021?sp=1)* Ravel on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ravel_shibari/)* Crystal Chateau (https://fetlife.com/users/4724347)* Rope Radar (https://roperadar.com/) (scene negotiation tool)* Contact Improvisation (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Contact_improvisation)Contact* Follow me on Fetlife (https://fetlife.com/users/13253650)* Follow me on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/harley_rabbit/)* Follow me on X (https://twitter.com/Harley_Rabbit_)* Watch on Youtube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCp0u2Vg3Zv0FqDUsY0J8PCw)

    • 48 min
    #52: EK Alisa Millard - Fire, Sensation Play and Somatic Therapy

    #52: EK Alisa Millard - Fire, Sensation Play and Somatic Therapy

    Welcome to the next instalment of our Everyday Kinkster series. In today’s episode I have a chat with Alisa Milard. Alisa is studying at Somatica Institute with me, and she has also just s...

    • 1 hr 24 min
    #49: How to Give INSANE Blowjobs - Even if you Can’t D********t

    #49: How to Give INSANE Blowjobs - Even if you Can’t D********t

    I am so excited to dive into this topic today! Most of us learn about blowjobs from porn, which usually shows some very talented actresses and actors taking a lot, very deeply! This is actually pretty hard to do (especially for a long time) and there is no wonder that so many of us think we are bad at giving b******s. In this episode I’m going to teach you my biggest secret to giving an insane blowjob! I’m also going to share a bunch of tips and techniques that are going to be WAY easier than what you’ve seen in porn, and will most likely be a lot more pleasurable for you and your partner! I’ll even take you through a practical exercise to get you started. Mentioned in this episode* Newsletter Sign Up (https://sendfox.com/harleyrabbit)Contact* Follow me on Fetlife (https://fetlife.com/users/13253650)* Follow me on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/harley_rabbit/)* Follow me on X (https://twitter.com/Harley_Rabbit_)* Watch on Youtube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCp0u2Vg3Zv0FqDUsY0J8PCw)

    • 30 min

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