Behind the Paddle

Porcelain Victoria
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Welcome to "Behind the Paddle", the podcast that explores the fascinating world of sex across a wide spectrum of topics; from LGBTQ+ and feminine power, to kink, sex work and the adult industry. We aim to inform, inspire and entertain, featuring expert interviews, compelling stories, and thought provoking discussions.Join Porcelain Victoria (a very experienced Pro-Dominatrix of 8yrs)  on a funny and wonderfully truthful look at the world through the lens of a BDSM practitioner working in the sex industry.She will also be answering listeners questions about real-life queries which will be discussed on the podcast. These can be sent in via email or through anysocials. Email: behindthepaddlepodcast(at)gmail.comOur socials: https://allmylinks.com/behindthepaddle

  1. 3 days ago

    E129: Feminisation: Why Does It Appeal to Some Men? The Psychology, Shame & Misconceptions

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome back everyone to Behind The Paddle Podcast Today's episode is one I've wanted to make for a long time because it's surrounded by misunderstanding, judgement and, frankly, a lot of misinformation. We're talking about feminisation. Now, before anyone jumps to conclusions, this isn't an episode promoting or criticising it. It's an attempt to understand it. I have my own stories which I'm going to share with you. Some of them are absolutely heartwarming and others really made me reconsider offering feminisation sessions. For some people, feminisation is a kink. For others it's an exploration of gender expression. For some it's simply fantasy. For others it becomes part of discovering who they really are. Those aren't all the same thing. One of the biggest mistakes people make is assuming every person interested in feminisation fits into one category. Believe me it certainly doesn't.  Human beings are far more complicated than that. Today I want to explore the psychology behind it, where shame comes from, how masculinity fits into the picture, the influence of the internet, and why this topic says so much about how society treats gender. Now what I'm going to discuss isn't a blanket for everyone who dresses up no not at all. Every individual person has their own reasons. Hey, I might not even hit on why some men do it. We are learning every single day, especially seeing clients as often as I do I love to be educated on what makes people tick and what really leads them to enjoy what they enjoy.  My hope is that whether this applies to you personally or not, you'll leave with a deeper understanding of feminisation.  Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

  2. 24 Aug

    E128: An English Madam Part 13

    Send us Fan Mail The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne  Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south London. Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

  3. 17 Aug

    E127: BEHIND THE BADGE - Alan Greer

    Send us Fan Mail “Laws are threats made by the dominant socio-economic ethnic group in a given nation. It’s just a promise of violence that’s enacted and the police are basically an occupying army, you know what I mean?” - Brennan Lee Mulligan A police officer is given something that few people in society ever receive: authority. That authority is not only the power to enforce the law. It is the ability to enter people's lives at their most vulnerable moments. A police officer may arrive when someone is frightened, injured, distressed, or in danger. People open their doors because they believe the person standing there has come to help. At least that's what they want you to think. That belief is the foundation of policing. Trust. But trust can also be broken and stepped on.. When “allegations” and i put these in quote marks because we all know these aren't "allegations emerged that a person who held that position may have abused it, the consequences reach far beyond one individual. They affect victims. They affect communities. And they affect confidence in the entire organisation. In 2026, Police Scotland launched an investigation into former officer Alan Greer. Police say the investigation uncovered allegations of serious sexual offences involving multiple women and spanning many years. The case has become one of the most significant investigations into a serving police officer in Scotland.  Let's talk about the abuser Alan Greer. This episode is about the investigation, the people affected, and the wider questions raised about policing, accountability and trust. It is about what happens when the institution created to protect people has to investigate one of its own. Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

  4. 10 Aug

    E126: An English Madam Part 12

    Send us Fan Mail The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne  Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south London. Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

  5. 3 Aug

    E125: An English Madam Part 11

    Send us Fan Mail The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne  Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south London. Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

  6. 27 Jul

    E124: An English Madam Part 10

    Send us Fan Mail The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne  Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south London. Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

  7. 20 Jul

    E123: An English Madam Part 9

    Send us Fan Mail The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne  Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south London. Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

  8. 29 Jun

    E122: An English Madam Part 8

    Send us Fan Mail The Life and Work of Cynthia Payne  Cynthia Diana Paine born 24 December 1932, she was known professionally as Cynthia Payne and nicknamed Madam Cyn, was an English madam, brothel keeper, party hostess, and media personality. She was widely considered to be Britain's best known madam. She made headlines throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when she was convicted of running a brothel at 32 Ambleside Avenue in Streatham, south London. Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

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Welcome to "Behind the Paddle", the podcast that explores the fascinating world of sex across a wide spectrum of topics; from LGBTQ+ and feminine power, to kink, sex work and the adult industry. We aim to inform, inspire and entertain, featuring expert interviews, compelling stories, and thought provoking discussions.Join Porcelain Victoria (a very experienced Pro-Dominatrix of 8yrs)  on a funny and wonderfully truthful look at the world through the lens of a BDSM practitioner working in the sex industry.She will also be answering listeners questions about real-life queries which will be discussed on the podcast. These can be sent in via email or through anysocials. Email: behindthepaddlepodcast(at)gmail.comOur socials: https://allmylinks.com/behindthepaddle

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  • Creator
    Porcelain Victoria
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    129
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Behind the Paddle
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