Raise The Bar

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Raise the Bar is a place for honest conversations about health, fitness, and high performance. It exists to give you the tools and mindset shifts to close the gap between where you are and where you want to be. In a world of thirty-second reels and conflicting advice, this show filters out the noise and creates space for nuance in the health conversation. Hosts Ariel Comeau and Matt Duncan, coaches with 30 years of combined experience, sit down with world-class experts and everyday high performers to discuss the latest research, hard-won lessons, and the difficult realities of transformation.

Episodes

  1. 1 day ago

    Stress Expert on Burnout, Nervous System Repair and Expanding Capacity

    Executive coach and stress expert Nic Monteforte reveals why the problem isn’t being stressed, it’s staying stress, why sixty seconds of something physical restores a brain that has stopped thinking clearly, and what the hardest decade of her life taught her about the power of calm. Nic Monteforte spent close to thirty years in leadership, coaching and peak performance, becoming the inaugural female director at Fitness First Australia, where she oversaw a business turning over A$250 million with more than 2,500 staff. She holds a Bachelor of Education in physical education and human movement, teaches Vedic meditation, and is the author of Infinite Capacity. Nic explains: What the stress cycle is, and how leaving cycles unfinished leads to chronic stress That your brain doesn't know the difference between a psychological threat, like an angry email, and physical danger, like a lion chasing you, because the response in the body is the same either way Why logic fails in stressful moments, and what has to happen in the body before the thinking brain comes back online What burnout looks like at the level of the nervous system, and why a collapse that built slowly can feel like it arrives all at once The techniques every high performer should know to reset in under a minute The power of meditation for expanding your capacity and becoming more stress tolerant Which signals to watch for in yourself to know when stress is getting the best of you How capacity gets built by stabilising the nervous system first, and which habits fall away on their own once it is The opinions and perspectives shared in this episode are intended for educational and informational purposes only as part of the Raise The Bar podcast. The content discussed is not a substitute for professional medical, mental health, or therapeutic advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you need assistance navigating physical or mental health, please consult your healthcare professional or a licensed therapist in your area. (14:31) The single month between living the dream and being $500,000 in debt, and the closing doors she could only see in hindsight (20:10) How a decade of unrelenting pressure showed up physically, from severe endometriosis to a hysterectomy at 42 (25:53) The pancake stack image for stress that never gets discharged, and the point where the pile topples over (31:34) One minute on a punching bag, and why the clarity arrives in the stillness straight afterwards (37:28) The sponge you have been squeezing stress into since you were two, and the two part work of emptying it (45:30) A broken leg in a cast as the way to understand what stillness gives a nervous system (59:54) The everyday tells of a system running hot: decision fatigue on small choices, forgetfulness, microaggression at work (01:13:19) Three tools in detail, the ball bounce, the intentional scream and humming until there is no hum left (01:27:09) Why capacity gets built by stabilising the nervous system before anything new is added on top (01:29:47) The gap between trigger and response, and how it stretches from five seconds into something far longer One Coach: https://one.coach/Connect with Nic Monteforte:Instagram: @nicmonteforteYouTube: @NicMonteforte22Website: https://nicmonteforte.com/Book: Infinite Capacity In This Episode You Will Learn:Resources

  2. 5 days ago

    Coach’s Corner: Willpower Won’t Make You Consistent with Exercise

    After sitting down with Gordon to unpack the science of motivation, Ariel and Matt do what most shows skip: they go back and ask what actually stuck. The answer, for Ariel, was a ballet class — her first in eighteen months. Not because Gordon told her to, but because the conversation reminded her that movement is a gift with an expiry date on certain forms of it. "If I don't start doing this now, it's going to be a hundred times harder when I'm 60." It's a small decision that opens onto the episode's real subject: how the things we once identified with quietly slip away from us, and what it takes to pull them back. From there the conversation moves into the machinery. Motivation isn't a switch between extrinsic and intrinsic — it's a continuum, and the whole game is moving along it. Matt walks the full progression out loud: external reward and consequence, then introjected fear and guilt, then identification, then integration, and finally the rare air of pure intrinsic enjoyment. Along the way he makes a point most coaches miss — fear-based motivation is not wasted, it's just perishable. The client who drops from 140 to 120 kilos after a health scare will stall at 120, because the thing that was pushing them is no longer behind them. If nothing has been built to pull them forward, that's where the story ends. The back half turns practical. Ariel breaks down Gordon's physical activity ecosystem into four buckets you can map on a single sheet of paper — community, support, environment, and systems — then adds the harder half of the exercise: writing down what's actively working against you. Matt threads it back through values, silence, self-talk, and the strange blindness we have to our own gradual change. The closing line is the one worth keeping: you'll always have more success controlling your environment than relying on your own willpower. In This Episode You Will Learn: (0:09) Why Ariel booked her first ballet class in a year and a half — and why waiting until 60 to reclaim what you loved makes it a hundred times harder (2:55) "You wouldn't lift the weight for them — so why are you doing the thinking for them?" Why we rush to fill uncomfortable silence, and what it costs the person in front of us (4:17) Why motivation isn't extrinsic or intrinsic, and what it actually means to internalize a behaviour (5:40) The 140-to-120-kilo problem: what happens when the fear that got you started is far enough behind you to stop working (7:04) The full motivation continuum walked out loud — external, introjected, identified, integrated, intrinsic — and why truly intrinsic sessions are rarer than you'd think (8:55) On mantras and self-talk: why "I'm becoming" beats "I am" when you're not there yet, and the cognitive dissonance trap on the other side of it (10:52) Hearing the evidence your client leaves out — the person who missed two mornings, and made ten (11:40) The Physical Activity Ecosystem: the four buckets to map on a sheet of paper, plus the harder list of what's actively working against you (17:00) Why controlling your environment beats relying on willpower every time Resources: One Coach: https://one.coach/ Dr Gordon Spence: Instagram: @hap_healthy_ageing_project Website: https://healthyageingproject.com/ Books: Get Moving, Keep Moving

  3. 23 Aug

    Psychologist & Exercise Scientist on Why Knowing You “Should” Exercise Isn’t Enough | Dr Gordon Spence

    Coaching psychologistand exercise scientist Dr Gordon Spence reveals why thirty years of healthmessaging has failed to make anyone move more, why the reason behind your goalpredicts how long you last better than your discipline does, and how the questionsa coach refuses to answer for you are the ones that change your behaviour. Dr Gordon Spence holds aPhD in coaching psychology from the University of Sydney, where he has taughtthe Psychology of Peak Performance for around fifteen years. He has spent morethan twenty years in private practice coaching executives and leaders, and at51 he went back to university to add a degree in exercise and sport science tothe work. He is the author of Get Moving, Keep Moving and 26 Ways to KeepMoving, both published in 2022. Gordon explains: Why the health advice you have heard your entire life rarely motivates you into actionHow we don’t need more motivation, we need better quality motivationHe explains how to create the type of motivation that will impact you to exercise in a way that feels good That shame and not wanting to let your coach down might fuel you for a long time, but it will also burn you outWhat goal neglect does to the person who hits every session in January and has lost interest by MarchThe four stage framework behind his book -  reflect, project, inspect and connect - that will help you get moving and keep moving for the long haulHow to map out your physical activity ecosystem so that you can exercise consistently in a way that feels good and keeps you connected to othersWhy the moment a client goes quiet and gets uncomfortable is the moment they are on the verge of a breakthrough if their coach knows what to do next In This Episode You Will Learn: (02:07) The paradox of exercise, and why three decades of good healthadvice now lands as white noise (22:03) How treating motivation as a quantity leaves people concludingsomething is fatally flawed about them (26:31) The difference between swallowing a value and digesting it, andwhat that means if you train out of obligation (30:25) What the research credits to autonomously motivated people: moreeffort, longer persistence, better outcomes, more satisfaction (35:23) We would never lift the weight for a client, so why are we happyto do their thinking for them (45:19) Stage one of the framework, reflect, and how to mine your ownhistory for the movement you loved before life separated you from it (01:04:37)  Physical activity as social glue, and the relationships thatget people out of bed on a rainy morning Resources: One Coach: https://one.coach/Dr Gordon Spence:Instagram: @hap_healthy_ageing_projectWebsite: https://healthyageingproject.com/Books: GetMoving, Keep Moving

  4. 19 Aug

    How to Maximize Muscle Growth (In Way Less Time) | Coach's Corner

    A few days on from the Tony Boutagy episode, Ariel and Matt sit down to unpack what actually stuck. What starts as a debrief turns into a working session on the ideas that changed how they are writing programs: that research gives us principles and not prescriptions, that mechanical tension is the driver of hypertrophy, and that a lot of the volume we have all been chasing sits well past the point of diminishing returns. They also dig into why Tony's willingness to say "watch this space" is a rare and valuable trait in an industry that rewards certainty. The conversation gets practical fast. If one or two genuinely hard sets can drive most of your result, what does that free up for the time poor client? If soreness is not a signal of growth, what is? If muscles do not hypertrophy but fibers do, how many angles does a muscle group like the glutes actually need? Ariel and Matt work through fiber recruitment, block length, exercise selection and frequency, then land on a challenge you can take into your own training this week: twelve exercises, one to two hard sets each, and see what your body tells you. In This Episode You Will Learn: (00:30) Think like a scientist, act like a coach. Research gives you principles, not prescriptions. The skill is filtering it through the person in front of you. (02:00) One or two high effort sets go further than you think. Returns diminish after about the third set, and it takes roughly six to come close to doubling the benefit. (03:45) Mechanical tension is the goal, not generic volume. Heavy loads recruit fibers immediately. Lighter, higher rep sets need proximity to failure before type two fibers switch on. (07:36) Soreness and muscle damage are not drivers of growth. When a session creates real damage, protein synthesis goes to repair instead of growth. (08:42) Four week blocks are likely too short for hypertrophy. Early weeks go to remodeling and movement quality. Keep your primary lifts consistent and think eight weeks and up. (10:15) Muscles do not hypertrophy, fibers do. Glutes and pecs run in multiple directions, so they need multiple angles. And you do not buy muscle, you rent it. (15:26) Split the body part across the week, not the session. By the sixth leg exercise, fatigue and pacing kill your output. Three shorter exposures beat one long one. This Week's Practical Takeaway: Run one session built around twelve different exercises at one to two sets taken close to failure, with real intent on mechanical tension. Notice how you feel the next day, how long it took, and what a full week of training could look like structured that way. Resources: One Coach: https://one.coach/ Tony Boutagy:Instagram: @tonyboutagy YouTube: Tony Boutagy, PhD Website: tonyboutagy.com

  5. 16 Aug

    Everything We Got Wrong About Building Muscle | Dr Tony Boutagy

    Exercise scientist Dr Tony Boutagy reveals why one or two hard sets are enough to build significant muscle mass, why soreness is not a sign of muscle growth, and how you can train your entire body in twelve minutes. Dr Tony Boutagy holds a PhD in exercise and sports science and has spent more than 30 years working in the fitness industry, educating over 50,000 coaches along the way. He has built his reputation on testing the field's own long-held assumptions against the evidence, and changing his position in public whenever the data proved him wrong. Tony explains: Why one or two training sets close to failure are usually enough That muscles do not grow, single fibers do, and what that means for how many exercises a muscle like your glutes or chest needs Why soreness and the burn are not the signal your workout worked, and what mechanical tension is instead How the pump you see in the mirror is mostly water, and why toning is not a real trainable adaptation What happens to your body's growth window after 48 hours, and how that changes the smartest way to split your week Why you rent muscle rather than own it, and how fast you lose what you built the moment you stop training it In This Episode You Will Learn: (17:43) Why most training benefits arrive at low doses, and the real skill of finding your minimum effective dose (21:00) Why muscles do not grow, fibers do, and why that means more exercise variety rather than more sets (30:23) Why tension, not soreness or the burn, is what actually drives growth (44:02) Why strength and hypertrophy are different adaptations, and how you can get stronger without getting bigger (51:00) Why the post-workout pump is mostly water, and why toning is not a real adaptation (1:02:43) Why the growth signal is gone within 48 hours, and why three total-body sessions beat stacking sets into one (1:12:00) Why you rent muscle rather than buy it, and how long you have before you start losing it Resources: One Coach: https://one.coach/ Dr Tony Boutagy: Instagram: @tonyboutagy YouTube: Tony Boutagy, PhD Website: tonyboutagy.com

  6. 12 Aug

    Coach's Corner: What We Took From the Sheridan Skye Episode on Women's Health

    Ariel Comeau and Matt Duncan sit down after the Sheridan Skye conversation to unpack what stuck with them, and the honest answer is that a single statistic reframed the whole thing. Only about 20% of women resistance train. Both hosts admit they were floored, because inside the fitness industry it can feel like everyone already knows better. That gap between the bubble they work in and the reality outside it drives most of this debrief. From there the conversation moves into what it actually means for coaching practice. Why menopause, perimenopause and pre and postnatal should be treated as phases of a woman's life rather than specialties to be outsourced. Why coaches carry a responsibility to hold information loosely and own it when they get it wrong. And a nuanced take on wearables and recovery scores, including where they help high performers who have learned to override their own body and where they quietly replace self trust with a number on a screen. Matt and Ariel close with a practical challenge and a moment of parenting self reflection that landed harder than either of them expected. (00:09)  The statistic that shook both hosts Why 20% felt impossible to believe from inside the industry, and what it says about how badly fitness professionals misjudge the world outside their own client base. (01:22)  Menopause and postnatal are phases, not niches Matt on why treating women's life stages as specialties means abandoning clients for the portions of life where they need support most, and Ariel on the single prescription that spans every phase from 16 to 85. (03:13) Get the problem right and the solution wrong Sheridan's line about harmful or useless solutions, and the responsibility it puts on coaches to be accurate, to communicate nuance, and to own mistakes. Plus what listeners should look for in an educator: context, caveats, and a willingness to say it depends. (05:21)  You do not need permission to feel how you feel Ariel on the wearable era and how many of us, men and women, have become disconnected from hunger cues, fatigue and everything else our bodies are already telling us. Tuning in is a practice, not a personality trait. (06:36)  Data is a data point, not a decision Matt makes the case for objective biometrics done well: separate the information from the decision, treat your data like stocks and follow the trend rather than the daily spikes. Ariel on why a low recovery score was the caution flag she needed, and the difference between not being stressed and simply tolerating stress. (10:08) How common endometriosis and PCOS actually are What surprised Matt most, the impact these conditions have on training and on life, and Ariel on why coaches should be asking about the menstrual cycle from the very first conversation rather than waiting for it to become a problem. (11:48)  The takeaway: find three women A simple challenge to move the number from 20% upward, plus a conversation about the language and labels we use with young girls, and Matt's princess moment with his daughter that made him rethink the molds we create without meaning to. One Coach: https://one.coach/ Instagram: @sheridanskyefitSubstack: Sheridan Skye on SubstackPre and Post Natal Coaching Specialist Certification: Clean Health | Australian Institute of Fitness In This Episode You Will LearnResources

  7. 9 Aug

    80% of Women Don't Strength Train & It’s Costing Them Quality of Life | Sheridan Skye

    Registered nurse turned strength coach Sheridan Skye reveals how 80% of women skip the one thing that protects their independence as they age, what the cycle syncing trend was actually built on, and why "for research purposes only" means you are the research. Sheridan Skye spent 15 years as a registered nurse, including intensive care and a stint as a nursing officer in the Air Force, before she left clinical medicine for strength coaching. The turning point was a 75 year old woman who arrived on her ward with osteoporosis, sarcopenia and advanced vascular disease, choosing between an above knee amputation and palliative care. That woman was her grandmother. She now works at the intersection of clinical evidence and the gym floor, with a particular focus on women's health across the lifespan. Sheridan explains: Why only 20% of women resistance train, and what the other 80% are giving up in every decade that follows Why so many women's symptoms get normalised for years, including the 70% of PCOS / PMOS cases that go undiagnosed Whether Pilates counts as resistance training, and how to tell if you are actually training hard enough The rat study the entire cycle syncing trend was built on, and what the research says about training through your cycle What a GLP-1 actually does, and why the human data does not support microdosing it for inflammation or longevity The three young men who died in her ICU after buying what they thought was testosterone How to tell the difference between a credible expert and a credentialed grifter In This Episode You Will Learn: (02:00) The patient who changed everything: the ICU admission that made her leave medicine, and the moment she realised medicine cannot give us muscle or bone (07:40) The 80% problem: childcare, time, and the long-standing medical belief that women's bodies are fragile (17:55) Why women start from a lower bone baseline than men, and when peak bone mass is actually reached (23:00) The screening conversation most coaches skip entirely: low energy availability, REDs, and the red flags in your own cycle (29:04) PCOS explained, why the cysts are not cysts, and the real risk of leaving it untreated (38:00) Why women's pain gets dismissed, and where resistance training fits alongside the standard activity guidelines (45:10) Does Pilates count? Mechanical tension versus metabolic stress, and how many days a week women actually need (58:17) What a GLP-1 agonist does, why skinny is trending again, and the truth about microdosing (01:08:00) What a peptide is, and why "for research purposes only" means you are the experiment (01:17:48) The rat study behind cycle syncing, and why you do not need a wearable to tell you that you feel terrible (01:34:30) Fertility and preconception: when to seek support, the male half nobody screens, and egg freezing as autonomy (01:39:59) Do women need to lift heavy and jump to protect bone? What the research everyone quotes actually shows Resources One Coach: https://one.coach/ Instagram: @sheridanskyefitSubstack: Sheridan Skye on SubstackPre and Post Natal Coaching Specialist Certification: Clean Health | Australian Institute of Fitness

  8. 5 Aug

    Coach's Corner | Sebastian Oreb: The 8 Essential Strength Categories

    Ariel and Matt reflect on a recent conversation with elite strength coach Sebastian Oreb, diving deep into the mindset shifts required for professional and personal growth. They discuss the power of taking on opportunities before you feel fully ready and how leaning into self-doubt can serve as a powerful indicator that you are successfully stretching your limits.The conversation also breaks down practical programming strategies, including the nuance of "periodizing effort" to avoid burnout and the foundational mechanics of RPE (Rate of Perceived Exertion). Finally, the hosts share a comprehensive 8-category exercise audit designed to help anyone build a more balanced, resilient, and high-performing body. Key Takeaways:  (00:09 - 02:07): Embracing the Depth A major takeaway is the importance of putting oneself in positions before feeling 100% prepared. Rather than needing to know everything before starting, coaches and individuals should learn to treat self-doubt as a sign of growth and level up as they go.(02:07 - 04:24) The Principle of Periodizing Effort : Maxing out intensity from week one can lead to overwhelming soreness and poor performance. Implementing a gradual scale, like starting with an RPE 7 and working up to a 10 by the end of a program, functions like a "runup"—allowing clients to gather the necessary momentum to break through plateaus.(04:20 - 05:47) Understanding RPE and Reps in Reserve : Rate of Perceived Exertion (RPE) and Reps in Reserve (RIR) measure subjective workout effort rather than the literal weight on the bar. An RPE 7 correlates to having about 3 reps left in the tank, an RPE 8 leaves 2 reps, and a 10 means absolute technical failure. (05:47 - 09:59) Lessons from Coaching and Parenting: True leadership means removing distractions so performers can focus purely on execution. Furthermore, introducing strength training early builds body-centered resilience, confidence, and the ability to navigate failure—teaching parents to prepare the child for the path rather than clearing the path for the child.(09:59 - 16:08) The 8-Category Movement Audit : To build a balanced body, individuals should audit their weekly routine to ensure it features all eight core movement patterns: horizontal push, horizontal pull, vertical pull, vertical push, knee-dominant squat, hip-dominant squat, hip hinge, and knee flexion. Prioritizing neglected areas like knee flexion (e.g., hamstring curls) helps neutralize the pelvis, correcting posture issues like anterior pelvic tilt. Resources: Connect with One Coach: https://one.coach/ Connect with Sebastian Oreb: Instagram:⁠ @australianstrengthcoach⁠ YouTube:⁠ Australian Strength Coach⁠ Website:⁠ strengthsystem.com

  9. 2 Aug

    Coach to the Strongest Man Alive On Breaking Plateaus and Building Max Strength - Sebastian Oreb

    Strength coach Sebastian Oreb, The Australian Strength Coach, reveals why maxing out every week is the reason you stopped getting stronger, how long you should really be resting between heavy sets, and the four-week model behind the heaviest deadlift in human history. Sebastian is the coach behind Hafthór Björnsson, aka Mountain from Game of Thrones. He coached Thor through breaking multiple world records, including his 510 kilogram deadlift and has since become one of the most sought-after strength coaches in the world. He is also an elite powerlifter in his own right, with multiple Australian records, who started as a 63kg 19-year-old too embarrassed to take his shirt off on Bondi Beach. He is the founder of Strength System and has coached everyone from professional fighters to the strongest people on the planet. Sebastian explains: Why maxing out every week is the fastest way to stall, and the four-week effort model that fixes it Why the rest you take between heavy sets is nowhere near long enough, and the eight-minute window nobody can explain The eight exercise categories every program should be built from, and how to audit yours tonight What a real taper looks like two weeks out from a world record attempt Why getting very strong and staying healthy start pulling against each other at the top end How he broke Australian records without ever believing he was the best, and why outlasting people beats out-training them In This Episode You Will Learn: (01:37) — The Bondi Beach moment: how being a 63kg 19-year-old who was embarrassed to take his shirt off started the whole thing (13:26) — Why running the same program forever stopped working, and the plateau that made him quit lifting weights entirely (22:21) — What he learned from Ernie Lilliebridge Sr that mattered more than any programming: the coach-athlete relationship (28:04)— How a SodaStream seminar in 2016 accidentally put the strongest man on the planet in his gym (35:27) — 450 to 501 to 505 to 510 to 515: the long-game strategy behind breaking a world record in small increments (41:35) — Neural recovery, the mysterious eight-minute sweet spot, and how long you should actually be resting between sets (46:49) — Periodisation of effort explained: the RPE 7, 8, 9, send-it four-week model for breaking plateaus (01:09:07) — The uncomfortable truth about how he got the Australian record: he simply didn't stop when everyone else did (01:17:16) — The eight exercise categories he programs from for every single athlete, and this week's action step to audit your own (01:25:24) — Raising strong daughters: how a 16-year-old squatting 110kg built self-esteem that shows up everywhere Resources: Connect with One Coach: https://one.coach/ Connect with Sebastian Oreb: Instagram: @australianstrengthcoach YouTube: Australian Strength Coach Website: strengthsystem.com

  10. 26 Jul

    Shona Vertue: The Psychology of Stress, Grief, and Staying Healthy Through Life's Hardest Seasons

    Shona Vertue has built one of Australia's strongest fitness brands - over 600,000 Instagram followers and 25,000 people inside her online training system. At the height of that success, she went back to university to study psychology, and in this episode she explains why understanding the mind became just as important as training the body. Drawing on her path through competitive gymnastics, ballet, and personal training, Shona breaks down the biopsychosocial model and why willpower alone rarely explains why people succeed or stall. The conversation moves through the mechanics of behaviour change: the difference between cognitive load and allostatic load, why self-efficacy predicts whether someone starts a health habit at all, and why a motivation problem is almost always a strategy problem in disguise. Shona introduces behavioural activation - acting before motivation arrives - and makes the case for values-based movement over rigid, aesthetics-driven programming. She also speaks candidly about her own transitions:, the physiological toll of a difficult break-up, losing her mother, and becoming a mother herself. Across each, her throughline is consistent - health isn't just physical. It's biological, psychological, and social, and real progress means training all three. In This Episode You Will Learn: (00:22:10) Why the biopsychosocial model changes how you coach  (00:34:42) Cognitive load vs. allostatic load, and why both matter  (01:17:10) Why self-efficacy predicts habit change more than willpower  (01:06:31) How behavioural activation builds consistency fast (01:43:15) Why motivation follows action, not the other way around  (01:28:53) When to hold space for a client, and when to refer out  (01:58:47) Why rest is part of progress, not the opposite of it Resources:Instagram: @shona_vertue YouTube: @shona_vertue Podcast: The Vertue Podcast (also on Spotify)

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Raise the Bar is a place for honest conversations about health, fitness, and high performance. It exists to give you the tools and mindset shifts to close the gap between where you are and where you want to be. In a world of thirty-second reels and conflicting advice, this show filters out the noise and creates space for nuance in the health conversation. Hosts Ariel Comeau and Matt Duncan, coaches with 30 years of combined experience, sit down with world-class experts and everyday high performers to discuss the latest research, hard-won lessons, and the difficult realities of transformation.