The Sensible Sessions

Amber Wardell

My name is Amber Wardell. I am the mother of two beautiful children and the owner of The Sensible Mama. Here we talk about motherhood, family life, business, faith, and the intersection of all of those things. Pour a cup of coffee (or heat up the one you made 2 hours ago) and let’s chat.

  1. I Think I Actually Care What People Think ... A Lot

    5 JUIN

    I Think I Actually Care What People Think ... A Lot

    In this episode, I explore the complex relationship we have with caring about what others think. I reflect on the societal pressure to appear unconcerned about others' opinions, particularly among women, and share my personal journey of realizing that I still care more than I thought. I discuss the difference between saying we don't care and truly embodying that mindset, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and authenticity, and I outline characteristics of individuals who genuinely live without the need for external validation.TakeawaysWe often claim to not care what others think before we truly stop caring.Caring about others' opinions is a part of being human.There's a difference between saying we don't care and actually not caring.The need for validation can manifest in our interactions, even with children.Being right can become an ego issue rather than a pursuit of truth.Deleting negative comments on social media reflects our need for approval.Saying we don't care is often a defense mechanism rather than a reality.Authenticity involves making decisions based on internal alignment.Criticism can be an opportunity for growth if approached with curiosity.Letting go of people who require us to be smaller is essential for true connection.My website:http://www.amberwardell.comSubscribe to my newsletter:https://amberwardell.com/subscribe-to-newsletter/Follow along on all my socials:https://campsite.to/amberwardellBuy my book Beyond Self-Care Potato Chips: Choosing Nourishing Self-Care in a Quick-Fix Culture:https://amzn.to/4g7hHrt

    11 min
  2. When Boundaries Make You the Bad Guy

    14 MAI

    When Boundaries Make You the Bad Guy

    In this episode, Dr. Amber Wardell explores the complexities of personal growth and the impact it has on relationships. She discusses the challenges of setting boundaries, the psychological dynamics at play when one begins to prioritize their own needs, and the emotional fallout that can occur when others react negatively to these changes. The discussion emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, the distinction between being liked and being loved, and the necessity of surrounding oneself with supportive individuals who respect personal autonomy.Takeaways-You lose yourself when you shape-shift to fit others' expectations.-Personal growth can inconvenience others and disrupt established dynamics.-Setting boundaries may lead to being labeled as selfish or narcissistic.-Reclaiming your identity in relationships is crucial for personal autonomy.-Emotional labor in relationships often goes unreciprocated.-People may react negatively when you stop prioritizing their comfort.-True connections will reveal themselves when you assert your boundaries.-Being liked is not the same as being loved or accepted.-The right people will support your growth, while the wrong ones will resist it.-Self-worth is essential for healthy relationships.My website:http://www.amberwardell.comSubscribe to my newsletter:https://amberwardell.com/subscribe-to-newsletter/Follow along on all my socials:https://campsite.to/amberwardellBuy my book Beyond Self-Care Potato Chips: Choosing Nourishing Self-Care in a Quick-Fix Culture:https://amzn.to/4g7hHrt

    19 min

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My name is Amber Wardell. I am the mother of two beautiful children and the owner of The Sensible Mama. Here we talk about motherhood, family life, business, faith, and the intersection of all of those things. Pour a cup of coffee (or heat up the one you made 2 hours ago) and let’s chat.