In this episode, I'm talking directly to the woman who feels like she's lost herself somewhere along the way. If you've gone through a "soft girl era," burnout, or a season where rest quietly turned into stagnation… this conversation is for you. I unpack how high-performing women often overcorrect when they're exhausted, and how that pendulum swing can disconnect us from our drive, fire, and identity. I walk through the exact mental frameworks, identity questions, and personal audits I used to reconnect with my inner badass, without swinging back into hustle, burnout, or self-punishment. We talk about why excellence is earned, why balance is often the wrong goal, how to use strategic imbalance, and why wanting more does not make you vain, selfish, or wrong. This episode is an invitation to stop shrinking, stop numbing, and stop pretending you don't want the life you actually want, and to start living in alignment with the woman you know you're meant to be. In this episode, we cover: Why "soft girl era" can become a trap for high-performing women How burnout makes shrinking feel attractive The difference between rest and self-abandonment Why excellence is not an accident, it's lived How identity (not motivation) drives lasting change Using strategic imbalance instead of chasing balance Being productively self-critical without shame Why guilt around wanting more blocks growth How to ruthlessly protect your vision and desires Reconnecting with ambition, standards, and self-trust If this episode resonates, share it with a woman who's ready to stop playing small and start becoming "her" again. Fitness, health, and holistic wellness for $22/month Interested in a luxury 1:1 online health coaching experience? Look no further than FENIX ATHLETICA, where we fuse science and soul for life-long transformation (inside AND out). For the high-achieving hot girls that want to recover better, support glowier skin, and promote longevity through better cellular health, get 20% off your first order of Mitopure and make wellness easier than ever. Follow me on Instagram Follow EMBody Radio on Instagram
