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The podcast where adoptees discuss the adoption experience. This is not the usual adoption talk. You will find real, raw, and deep feelings addressed in these interviews. No sugar-coating here! Come and laugh, cry, learn and heal with us.

Adult adoptees share stories of search, reunion, and secondary rejection. Adoptees On also curates recommended resources to encourage and educate the adoption community about adoptee issues.

Adoptees On Haley Radke

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.7 • 28 Ratings

The podcast where adoptees discuss the adoption experience. This is not the usual adoption talk. You will find real, raw, and deep feelings addressed in these interviews. No sugar-coating here! Come and laugh, cry, learn and heal with us.

Adult adoptees share stories of search, reunion, and secondary rejection. Adoptees On also curates recommended resources to encourage and educate the adoption community about adoptee issues.

    Svetlana Sandoval

    Svetlana Sandoval

    280 | Svetlana Sandoval
    We’re back, and I’m sick again, and my voice is only going to be like this for the intro because luckily I was healthy when I interviewed this week’s guest, Svetlana Sandoval. Svetlana is an international adoptee, adopted from Russia at about six months old. We talk about what sparked an interest to search for her biological family, how she navigated the language barriers using technology and a friend of a friend. Svetlana also shares about her decision to reclaim her original name. Due to the sensitive nature of her reunion during the war, she will not be commenting directly on the conflict.
     
    Full Show Notes Here  
    Join our adoptee community on Patreon here  
    Check out our upcoming live events here! This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Nothing stated on it, either by its hosts or any guests, is to be construed as psychological, medical or legal advice. Please seek out professionals in those fields if you need those services. The views expressed by the hosts of Adoptees On or any guests are their own and do not represent the opinions of any organization or other person unless otherwise stated.

    • 52 min
    Reshma McClintock

    Reshma McClintock

    279 | Reshma McClintock
    Oh it is such a delight to get to share this interview with you. Reshma McClintock, the producer and subject of the film Calcutta is My Mother is back with us today. Reshma is a transracial adoptee from Calcutta, India, and this incredible film documents her return to Calcutta for the first time since her adoption, and she would tell you that it also depicts a portion of her journey “out of the fog”. I received permission to share the audio from her trailer, and I’m going to play that for you here, just before we get into the conversation about her story, some of her experiences in Calcutta, and some tips for transnational adoptees about preparing for a home country visit. We also get to talk about her upcoming documentary screening in Minneapolis, Minnesota on May 4, 2024. I get the honour of hosting the Q&A for that event, so consider this my personal invite to you to come and join us to see the film and hang out with some fellow adoptees!
     
    Full Show Notes Here  
    Join our adoptee community on Patreon here  
    Check out our upcoming live events here! This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Nothing stated on it, either by its hosts or any guests, is to be construed as psychological, medical or legal advice. Please seek out professionals in those fields if you need those services. The views expressed by the hosts of Adoptees On or any guests are their own and do not represent the opinions of any organization or other person unless otherwise stated.

    • 1 hr 7 min
    Adrian Wills

    Adrian Wills

    278 | Adrian Wills
    Today’s guest is fellow Canadian, award-winning director and filmmaker, Adrian Wills. Adrian has a brand new documentary out called A Quiet Girl where get to follow his journey of a public search for his birth mother, and experience every new discovery along with him. Today we talk with Adrian about how his friends prompted his search and what he’s discovered about the people of Newfoundland through his time there. We also discuss how we often create these mythical personas of our biological parents from a few short sentences in our non-identifying adoption information.
     
    Full Show Notes Here  
    Join our adoptee community on Patreon here  
    Check out our upcoming live events here! This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Nothing stated on it, either by its hosts or any guests, is to be construed as psychological, medical or legal advice. Please seek out professionals in those fields if you need those services. The views expressed by the hosts of Adoptees On or any guests are their own and do not represent the opinions of any organization or other person unless otherwise stated.

    • 52 min
    John Gallaher, Ph.D.

    John Gallaher, Ph.D.

    277 | John Gallaher, Ph.D.
    You’re in for a treat today, we have award-winning poet John Gallaher with us! John’s newest poetry collection, My Life in Brutalist Architecture releases this month and it’s his first collection focused in on his experience as an adopted person. Even though he was a kinship adoptee, he still had to take a DNA test to find the family he was searching for. We talk about DNA, nature versus nurture, his search for the other John Gallahers of the world and what reunion really looks like for him right now.
     
    Full Show Notes Here  
    Join our adoptee community on Patreon here  
    Check out our upcoming live events here! This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Nothing stated on it, either by its hosts or any guests, is to be construed as psychological, medical or legal advice. Please seek out professionals in those fields if you need those services. The views expressed by the hosts of Adoptees On or any guests are their own and do not represent the opinions of any organization or other person unless otherwise stated.

    • 57 min
    Sanjay Pulver

    Sanjay Pulver

    276 | Sanjay Pulver
    Today’s guest is Sanjay Pulver, an Indian adoptee who has become an outspoken adoptee advocate in recent years. We talk about the complexities of being adopted from an orphanage in a country that is not currently safe for him to return to as a queer trans man. We discuss the intersections between being transnationally and transracially adopted with being a trans person and Sanjay also shares about his experience with somatic therapy.
     
    Full Show Notes Here  
    Join our adoptee community on Patreon here  
    Check out our upcoming live events here! This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Nothing stated on it, either by its hosts or any guests, is to be construed as psychological, medical or legal advice. Please seek out professionals in those fields if you need those services. The views expressed by the hosts of Adoptees On or any guests are their own and do not represent the opinions of any organization or other person unless otherwise stated.

    • 54 min
    Sara Docan-Morgan, Ph.D.

    Sara Docan-Morgan, Ph.D.

    275 | Sara Docan-Morgan, Ph.D.
    Today’s guest is Dr. Sara Docan-Morgan, professor of communication studies and author of the book “In Reunion: Transnational Korean Adoptees and the Communication of Family”. Sara shares some of her personal story, and then we dig into her qualitative research from multiple Korean adoptees who have been in a relationship with their biological family for over a decade. There’s a treasure trove of reunion wisdom in this episode, including a new term that so perfectly encapsulates the weight adoptees carry through the search and reunion experience.
     
    Full Show Notes Here  
    Join our adoptee community on Patreon here  
    Check out our upcoming live events here! This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Nothing stated on it, either by its hosts or any guests, is to be construed as psychological, medical or legal advice. Please seek out professionals in those fields if you need those services. The views expressed by the hosts of Adoptees On or any guests are their own and do not represent the opinions of any organization or other person unless otherwise stated.

    • 56 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
28 Ratings

28 Ratings

virginiamackay ,

WOW!!!

I don’t remember who shared Haley’s podcast with me but holy crap I’m glad they did. Her compassion shows in every single episode she does, especially when the hard parts are talked about. Fortunately the format is edited so well that you never fall into a slump because of a certain topic. She can bring you to tears, but she can also make you cry because you’re laughing so hard.

She feels like my best friend every time I hear her voice.

Thank you Haley❤️

M.H. Yoga ,

Adoptee Remembrance Day musings

I am a 56 year old domestic adoptee trying to walk out of the fog. I have been following your podcast for 2 or more years now. I have learned so much about myself from you and your guests. I wish to thank you Hayley for such an important contribution to all things adoption. I appreciate the fact that you are a Canadian adoptee. You present a kind, sweet and naturally talented interview style. Your podcast will assist any adoptee to dig into and examine each of our own individual adoption experiences. I am grateful that I am still here….as stated by one of your guests in the recordings for this day. I experience my very own set of trauma symptoms and have turned to writing as a means for learning how to live my best life alongside the day to day challenges I feel. Perhaps one day I’ll feel the confidence to share my story. In the mean time, Adoptees On is much appreciated!

Mimi Hanson

gchaimovitz ,

Life changing!

I love this podcast. It has been life changing by allowing me to understand as an adoptee why I see the world the way I do. I love the upbeat and inspirational tone to each episode. I’m so happy I found it!

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