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#230: We’ve heard the term “girl’s girl” before and understand what in means in theory to support other women. But what does it actually look like putting it to practice?

Today I have the pleasure of sitting down Dr. Joy Harden Bradford. Dr. Joy is a licensed psychologist and the host of the award-winning podcast Therapy for Black Girls. We have an in-depth conversation on sisterhood, why community is vital for our well-being, and how to create meaningful connections with other women in our lives.

We Also Talk About…What inspired Dr. Joy to become a licensed psychologist and create Therapy for Black GirlsWhy female friendships are beneficial to our healthThe differences between friendship, community, and sisterhood and why they aren’t interchangeableHigh-maintenance vs. Maintenance friends and the role of reciprocityHow attachment styles shows up in friendshipsThe benefits of intergenerational friendshipsNormalizing therapy and exploring different types of therapeutic modalities


Resources:Follow Dr. Joy on Instagram @hellodrjoyListen to the Therapy for Black Girls podcastListen to the “What Does It Mean to Be A Girl’s Girl?” episode on Therapy for Black GirlsNeed someone to talk to? Check out the Therapy for Black Girls Directory to find a therapist near youJoin the Therapy for Black Girls Sister CircleRead Dr. Joy’s book “Sisterhood Heals: The Transformative Power of Healing in Community”Read “Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make--and Keep--Friends” by Dr. Marisa G. Franco


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#229: In today’s episode we’re celebrating Black Maternal Health week by discussing the ways you can be more attune to the seasons of our bodies. Understanding the power of your hormones, menstrual cycle, and fertility can be a game changer and serve as a guide for how to move with your energy no matter what season you’re in.

Our guest is Latham Thomas, the founder of Mama Glow – a global maternal health and education platform serving women along the childbearing continuum. Latham serves as a visiting Professor at Brown University, where the Mama Glow Doula Training program is incorporated to extend her work as a global advocate for maternal health and education. She also recently opened The Soft Space, a wellness and education center in Brooklyn, NY.

In this episode, we discuss unique ways to be in touch with your reproductive health.

We Also Talk About…Latham’s journey starting Mama Glow and opening a new facility in Brooklyn.Living seasonally and pushing through chaotic seasons of lifeMenstrual depression and finding moments of retreatWhy it’s important to listen to your bodyHow to modulate your life to accommodate your reproductive systemHow aging affects the reproductive system in your 20s, 30s, and beyond


Catch up on these reproductive health episodes:Reframing Fertility with Bri Braggs of Fertile AlchemySexual Health from the Womb to the Tomb with Michelle HopeDemystifying Reproductive Health: Egg Freezing, Fertility Treatments, and the Impact of Fibroids with Dr. Tiffanny JonesSexual and Reproductive Health with Dr. Sara FlowersEnding Generational Trauma with Epigenetics + Preparing to Conceive with Dr. Cleopatra


ResourcesFollow Latham on Instagram @glowmavenFollow the Mama Glow community on Instagram @mamaglowVisit mamaglow.com/gatherings for professional doula training programs and moreHave a question you want answered on an upcoming episode? You can share them anonymously with me here.


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#228: Have you ever had a life-altering experience change the way you view friendships and dating? Today’s guests certainly have, and we’re getting every detail of their experience from reality TV to dating on the sidewalk.

Today I’m sitting down with hosts of the new podcast On The Sidewalk, Chelsea Vaughn from Season 25 of the Bachelor, and Cashay Proudfoot from Season 3 of Love Island.

From big chops to experiencing heartbreak, Chelsea and Cash dish about what it’s like to grow, love, and evolve in the public eye.

We also talk about…How Chelsea and Cash navigated public breakups after being on reality TVForming a friendship over shared unique experiencesChelsea and Cashay’s hot takes on working in reality TV as Black womenHow to know if you’re ready for a long-term relationshipHow to manage your dating expectations


ResourcesFollow Chelsea on Instagram @chelseavaughnFollow Chelsea on TikTok @chelseavaughn_Follow Cashay on Instagram @cashayproudfootFollow Cashay on Tiktok @cashayproudfootListen to Chelsea & Cash’s new podcast On The Sidewalk


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#227: Are you living or are you existing? Today, we’re getting back into our wellness girly roots with Peloton instructor Kirsten Ferguson for tips on how to take back control of your life, move through challenging pivots with grace, and learn to enjoy the process of becoming the best version of you.

Kirsten offers amazing advice on evolving alongside your purpose, taking your power back, and the importance of living instead of existing on autopilot.

We also talk about…How Kirsten manifested her dream opportunity to become a Peloton instructorKirsten’s journey with fertility challenges and motherhood.Why intention setting walks and creating personal anecdotes for yourself can be so powerfulThe difference between living and existingOvercoming imposter syndrome and believing you belongTaking pause seasons and ways to celebrate yourself during dark timesHow to tap into purpose and figure out what you really love


Resources:Follow Kirsten on Instagram @iamkirstenfergusonFollow Kirsten on TikTok @iamkirstenfergusonVisit https://www.onepeloton.com/ for workout classes and equipmentJoin Kirsten’s outdoor running series on PelotonSign up for Kirsten’s Intention Setting Sundays. This 60-minute walking class is designed to be low-impact and takes place on the Peloton Tread, making it accessible for people of all fitness levels to reflect and set intentions for themselves. Intention Setting Sunday classes can be taken on the Peloton Tread+, Peloton Tread, Peloton App and live at Peloton Studios NY.Have a question you want answered on an upcoming episode? You can share them anonymously with me here.


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#226: We often think of creativity as a means to get to an end result. We create for a final product, or create to get good feedback. But what if we reframed how we looked at creativity to see it as a source of healing instead?

Today I have the honor of deep-diving with author and filmmaker of the award-winning memoir and Netflix series From Scratch, Tembi Locke, on ways to stay grounded, take inventory with yourself, and find healing through self-expression and artistry.

We also talk about…Tembi’s transformative journey from actor to author to filmmakerHabit stacking and becoming the person you want to beHow to use creativity as a learning tool in difficult timesHow to find the rest in creative seasonsWhat it means to be vulnerable in creative spacesHow to get over the fear of sharing your creative workResources:Follow Tembi on Instagram @tembilockeSubscribe to Tembi’s YouTube channelWatch From Scratch on NetflixRead Tembi’s memoir: “From Scratch: A Memoir of Love, Sicily, and Finding Home”Listen to Season 2 of Tembi’s podcast “Lifted”If you’re in the LA area, check out Octavia’s BookshelfFor more of Tembi visit www.tembilocke.comHave a question you want answered in an upcoming episode? You can share them anonymously with me here.


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#225: Today’s episode is dedicated to the literary lover girls.

Today I have the pleasure of sitting down with New York Times and USA Today bestselling author, Kennedy Ryan. From spicy characters to strengthening women’s relationships with themselves, Kennedy shows us the parallels between romance fiction and key lessons we’re all learning on our healing journeys. She also takes us behind the scenes of the latest romance novel in her Skyland series, This Could Be Us (Don’t worry, we don’t share any spoilers!) and shares how she’s learned to create impact, reclaim her story, and love herself first through the pages.

Whether you’re a lover of romance fiction, are tapped into BookTok, or are looking for ways to practice more self-love and acceptance, you’ll love the gems that are dropped in this episode from start to finish.

We also talk about…Kennedy’s journey from self-publishing to bestselling authorKennedy’s novel “Before I Let Go” being opted for a television seriesKennedy’s favorite book recommendationsWhy reading romance novels can be beneficial for men and womenWhy reading is such an effective form of self-careFeeling seen in fiction and the importance of nuanced representationSetting the bar for yourself and becoming the love of your own lifeResources:Follow Kennedy on Instagram @kennedyryan1Follow Kennedy on Tiktok @kennedyryanauthorFollow Kennedy on X @kennedyrwritesRead Kennedy’s novel “This Could Be Us”Read Kennedy’s novel “Before I Let Go”Check out Kennedy’s other novels hereHave a question you want answered on an upcoming episode? You can share them anonymously with me here.Keep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Watch weekly episodes on Youtube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSubscribe to our newsletter, Mirror Notes


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