The Fit Mess: A Men's Mental Health Podcast

Jeremy Grater & Zach Tucker
The Fit Mess: A Men's Mental Health Podcast

The show for men who are sick of their own sh*t and ready to make a change for better mental health. Zach Tucker and Jeremy Grater have been on a never-ending quest for knowledge about physical, emotional, and mental health. They've tried everything from questionable diets to questionable therapy techniques, and now they're here to share their misadventures with you. After years of hosting this wild ride of a show, they've managed to snag interviews with some big shots in the health and wellness world. But don't worry, they won't let all that success go to their heads. Instead, they'll use it to bring you small, achievable steps you can take to maybe, just maybe, improve yourself a smidge. So buckle up, because The Fit Mess is going to take you on a rollercoaster of self-improvement, complete with awkward moments, actionable advice, and a healthy dose of sarcasm. Get ready to join Zach and Jeremy as they stumble their way through the world of men's mental health and try to uncover some habits that might actually make a difference. Or at least give you a good laugh along the way. Welcome to The Fit Mess, where we make messy lives just a little bit less messy. Topics covered: Breaking down societal expectations of masculinity Navigating emotions and vulnerability Exploring the stigma surrounding men seeking help for mental health Coping strategies for stress and anxiety Managing work-life balance and burnout Relationships and communication skills Fatherhood and the Challenges of Parenting Body image and Self-esteem Dealing with depression and mood disorders Masculinity and Identity Addiction and substance abuse Overcoming trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder Men's mental health in the Military and First Responder Professions Suicide prevention and awareness Coping with grief and loss Anger management and emotional regulation Nurturing healthy friendships and support networks The Impact of social media on Men's mental health Men's mental health and physical fitness Sleep Disorders and the Importance of restorative sleep Financial stress and mental well-being Coping with unemployment and career transitions Recognizing and managing symptoms of anxiety disorders Exploring the link between men's mental health and physical health Mindfulness and meditation practices for mental wellness Strategies for building resilience and emotional strength Addressing loneliness and social isolation Mental health challenges specific to men of different ages (e.g., young adults, middle-aged, seniors) Cultural and ethnic factors influencing men's mental health Seeking therapy and counseling: benefits and misconceptions Exploring alternative therapies and holistic approaches to mental health Coping with infertility and reproductive health challenges Men's mental health during and after divorce Breaking the cycle of generational trauma Balancing career ambition and personal Well-being The Impact of childhood experiences on Men's mental health Examining the link between masculinity and risk-taking behavior Redefining success and finding fulfillment beyond traditional notions Men's mental health and the justice system Strategies for managing anger and aggression in healthy ways Developing emotional intelligence and self-awareness The Role of Exercise and physical activity in Men's mental health Men's mental health and body dysmorphia Coping with chronic illness and disability Overcoming performance anxiety and imposter syndrome Strategies for managing work-related stress and pressure The Impact of societal pressures on Men's mental health Exploring Men's mental health in different cultural contexts Creating inclusive spaces and support systems for men's mental health

  1. How to Build Real Connection in a Disconnected World

    5 DAYS AGO

    How to Build Real Connection in a Disconnected World

    Are you tired of feeling like you're not measuring up to society's definition of success, even when you're doing well on paper? Society often pushes men toward toxic masculinity and endless achievement, many struggle to find authentic connection with themselves and others. This episode tackles the challenging journey of breaking free from cultural expectations while managing depression and finding genuine fulfillment. Learn how to reframe your relationship with success, discover practical tools for managing depression without medication, and understand why connection might be the missing piece in your personal growth journey. Join us for an honest conversation about masculinity, mental health, and the power of asking better questions to transform your life. Topics Discussed: &]:mt-2 list-disc space-y-2 pl-8"> Redefining modern masculinity beyond cultural stereotypes Managing depression through alternative methods like exercise The impact of social comparison on mental health Connection as a pathway to fulfillment The importance of asking better questions Breaking free from achievement-based identity Finding purpose beyond financial success Processing trauma through physical activity The role of therapy in personal growth Balancing self-improvement with self-acceptance ---- GUEST WEBSITE: https://dradamdorsay.com/  ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS: Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice. Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach! Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster! Start your own podcast!

    44 min
  2. NOV 26

    How to Start Your Healing Journey From Where You Are Now, with Kelsey Aida and Lynnsey Robinson

    In this episode of The Fit Mess, hosts Zach and Jeremy discuss simple yet impactful strategies to overcome negative thought patterns, focusing on gratitude and positive brain training.   They share their recent struggles and how small daily practices like exercise, meditation, and proper mindset can lead to dramatic improvements.   Special guests Kelsey Aida and Lindsay Robinson, hosts of the 'High Vibing It' podcast, share their personal experiences with overcoming depression and limiting beliefs.   They emphasize the importance of subconscious work, gratitude practices, and the power of small, consistent actions to rewire the brain for positivity.   The conversation concludes with insights into the creation and impact of their podcast, aiming to help people unlock their full potential. Topics discussed: Using emotional release to process depressive feelings Establishing a daily gratitude practice Making small, gradual changes to your mindset Tapping into the subconscious through writing, meditation, and affirmations Observing your self-talk and reshaping negative narratives The power of movement for releasing feel-good endorphins Accomplishing small tasks to build confidence and momentum Having compassion for your own unique healing journey Stepping outside your comfort zone for growth Staying consistent with self-care rituals over time Training your brain to scan for positives versus negatives ---- GUEST WEBSITE: High Vibin' It Podcast https://www.kelseyaida.com/  https://www.lynnseyrobinson.com/  ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Get bonus clips and additional resources in our newsletter! Connect with us on Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS: Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice. Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach! Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster! Use Vibrant Blue Oils to improve the flow of energy through your body.  Start your own podcast!

    29 min
  3. NOV 5

    How to Manage Stress When Everything Changes

    Are you feeling like your brain has too many tabs open and you can't find where the music is coming from? In this episode, we share our favorite tips for managing overwhelming life transitions, from blending families to buying fixer-uppers and everything in between. You'll discover practical strategies for maintaining sanity when life throws multiple curveballs your way, learn why physical movement is crucial for mental clarity, and uncover the simple yet powerful "brain dump" technique that can transform your daily productivity. Get ready to turn your overwhelm into organized action with tools you can implement today. Topics Discussed: Managing multiple life transitions simultaneously The power of morning exercise routines Brain dump techniques using whiteboards Blending families and relationship dynamics Home renovation stress management Work-life balance strategies Self-compassion during challenging times Task prioritization methods The importance of maintaining routines Setting boundaries and saying no ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS: Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice. Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach! Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster! Start your own podcast!

    22 min
  4. How To Improve Your Mental Health By Changing WHEN You Eat

    OCT 29

    How To Improve Your Mental Health By Changing WHEN You Eat

    Are you tired of conflicting nutrition advice that doesn't seem to work for your body? In this episode, Dr. Sarah Doyle reveals a revolutionary approach to eating that aligns with your body's natural rhythms. This conversation unveils a powerful method that synchronizes your meals with your body's circadian rhythm, potentially transforming your sleep, energy, and overall health. Discover how simply changing when you eat certain foods can reduce inflammation, improve hormone balance, and enhance mental clarity - all without counting calories or following restrictive diets. Listen now to learn how this ancient wisdom, combined with modern science, could be the key to unlocking your optimal health. Topics Discussed: The 7X Method and its origins in Central America How circadian rhythms affect digestion and metabolism The connection between gut health and mental wellness Natural alternatives to conventional medications The importance of quality sleep and proper timing The role of supplements in overall health Exercise timing and hormonal balance Thyroid health and autoimmune conditions The impact of food timing on inflammation The relationship between stress and eating patterns ---- GUEST WEBSITE: https://drsarahdoyle.com Save $2000 on the 7X Method BootCamp - Use Promo Code MESS2000 ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS: Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice. Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach! Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster! Start your own podcast!

    33 min
  5. How to Support Your Child's Mental Health Before It's Too Late

    OCT 22

    How to Support Your Child's Mental Health Before It's Too Late

    Summary In this episode, Jeremy is joined by Sally Raymond, who discusses the challenges of modern parenting, the importance of emotional intelligence, and the impact of social media on youth. She also shares her journey following the tragic loss of her son and emphasizes the need for better communication and connection between parents and children. They explore the emotional disconnect often experienced by boys and the role of education in fostering social skills. The conversation concludes with practical advice for parents on how to create a nurturing environment for their children. Topics Discussed: We need to connect more with others in real life. Children are not being taught essential life skills. The loss of a child is an unimaginable stressor. Boys often lack emotional communication skills. Social media can create divisiveness among youth. Education systems are failing to teach critical social skills. Parents must model vulnerability for their children. Storytelling can strengthen family bonds. Vulnerability is a source of power and connection. Every child's story can provide valuable lessons. ---- GUEST WEBSITE: https://sallyaraymond.com/  BOOK: The Son I Knew Too Late: A Guide to Help You Survive and Thrive ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS: Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice. Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach! Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster! Start your own podcast!

    29 min
  6. OCT 15

    How to Be OK With Starting All Over Again

    Do you ever feel like you're constantly starting over in your fitness journey? Many of us struggle with the frustration of setbacks and the mental challenge of beginning again, especially when life gets in the way of our wellness routines. In this episode, you'll learn how to embrace the beginner's mindset, practice self-compassion during setbacks, and find motivation in small, consistent actions rather than focusing solely on end goals. Listen now to transform your approach to fitness and self-care, making each "day one" an opportunity for growth rather than a source of frustration. Topics discussed: The emotional challenges of starting over in fitness routines Dealing with feelings of shame and disappointment in yoga class The importance of asking for help and guidance Overcoming the frustration of multiple "day ones" in health journeys Adapting workout intensity after breaks or setbacks Comparing oneself to others in fitness settings Setting realistic expectations for progress The mental health benefits of consistent exercise Embracing imperfection in physical practice The power of showing up and focusing on breathing in yoga Chapters: 00:00 Personal Growth Through Yoga and Self-Reflection 00:50 The Journey of Self-Improvement and Vulnerability 03:47 The Importance of Consistency and Patience 06:24 Embracing the Beginner's Mindset 09:10 Finding Balance in Life's Challenges 12:15 The Role of Community and Asking for Help 15:18 Competing with Yourself: A Personal Perspective 17:56 The Messy Process of Growth and Learning ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS: Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice. Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach! Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster! Start your own podcast!

    22 min
  7. How to Use Fitness to Boost Your Mental Health

    OCT 8

    How to Use Fitness to Boost Your Mental Health

    In this episode, Joe Martin and Jeremy Grater discuss the critical role of accountability in personal transformation, particularly in the context of mental health and physical fitness. Joe shares his journey from struggling with depression and weight issues to finding empowerment through consistent physical activity. They explore the importance of showing up, the mental health benefits of exercise, and the need for a long-term perspective in achieving health goals. The discussion also highlights the challenges faced by youth today, including bullying and mental health issues, and emphasizes the importance of supportive environments for personal growth. Takeaways Accountability is crucial for progress in fitness and mental health. Physical activity serves as a powerful antidepressant. Showing up consistently can lead to transformative results. It's important to not let a slip-up derail your progress. Long-term health goals require patience and persistence. Youth today face unique challenges that require attention. A holistic approach to health includes mental, physical, and emotional well-being. Small, consistent actions lead to significant changes over time. Comparison to others can hinder personal growth and motivation. Finding joy in the process is essential for sustainable health. ---- GUEST WEBSITE: https://fitandpositive.com/  ---- Chapters 00:00 From Struggles to Strength: Joe's Journey 06:03 The Power of Small Changes 09:25 Building a Fitness Identity 14:23 Finding Your Path in Fitness 16:44 The Importance of Community in Fitness 18:15 Mental Health Benefits of Exercise 20:03 Overcoming Personal Struggles 22:26 Self-Compassion and Accountability 24:55 Addressing Youth Mental Health Issues 27:03 Taking Small Steps Towards Change ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS: Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice. Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach! Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster! Start your own podcast!

    31 min
  8. OCT 1

    How to Balance Big Goals While Living in the Moment

    In this episode of The Fit Mess, Jeremy Grater and Zach Tucker explore the themes of goal-setting, daily consistency, and personal identity. They discuss the importance of focusing on the process rather than the end goal, emphasizing that daily actions contribute to mental health and personal growth. The dialogue highlights the balance between having goals and appreciating the journey, ultimately defining one's identity through daily actions rather than achievements. Topics Discussed: The pros and cons of goal-oriented vs. process-oriented approaches How focusing on daily habits can lead to long-term success The impact of gym consistency on mental health Balancing big goals with small, achievable daily targets The importance of finding purpose in daily activities Ryan Holiday's perspective on goal-setting and process focus Celebrating achievements without losing momentum The role of self-identity in goal pursuit and daily habits Adapting when facing setbacks in goal achievement Finding motivation beyond specific goals Chapters 00:00 Navigating Workplace Challenges 00:00 Mental Health and Daily Struggles 03:12 The Process Over Goals Philosophy 08:54 Finding Balance Between Goals and Living in the Moment ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS: Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice. Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach! Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster! Start your own podcast!

    19 min

Ratings & Reviews

4.6
out of 5
8 Ratings

About

The show for men who are sick of their own sh*t and ready to make a change for better mental health. Zach Tucker and Jeremy Grater have been on a never-ending quest for knowledge about physical, emotional, and mental health. They've tried everything from questionable diets to questionable therapy techniques, and now they're here to share their misadventures with you. After years of hosting this wild ride of a show, they've managed to snag interviews with some big shots in the health and wellness world. But don't worry, they won't let all that success go to their heads. Instead, they'll use it to bring you small, achievable steps you can take to maybe, just maybe, improve yourself a smidge. So buckle up, because The Fit Mess is going to take you on a rollercoaster of self-improvement, complete with awkward moments, actionable advice, and a healthy dose of sarcasm. Get ready to join Zach and Jeremy as they stumble their way through the world of men's mental health and try to uncover some habits that might actually make a difference. Or at least give you a good laugh along the way. Welcome to The Fit Mess, where we make messy lives just a little bit less messy. Topics covered: Breaking down societal expectations of masculinity Navigating emotions and vulnerability Exploring the stigma surrounding men seeking help for mental health Coping strategies for stress and anxiety Managing work-life balance and burnout Relationships and communication skills Fatherhood and the Challenges of Parenting Body image and Self-esteem Dealing with depression and mood disorders Masculinity and Identity Addiction and substance abuse Overcoming trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder Men's mental health in the Military and First Responder Professions Suicide prevention and awareness Coping with grief and loss Anger management and emotional regulation Nurturing healthy friendships and support networks The Impact of social media on Men's mental health Men's mental health and physical fitness Sleep Disorders and the Importance of restorative sleep Financial stress and mental well-being Coping with unemployment and career transitions Recognizing and managing symptoms of anxiety disorders Exploring the link between men's mental health and physical health Mindfulness and meditation practices for mental wellness Strategies for building resilience and emotional strength Addressing loneliness and social isolation Mental health challenges specific to men of different ages (e.g., young adults, middle-aged, seniors) Cultural and ethnic factors influencing men's mental health Seeking therapy and counseling: benefits and misconceptions Exploring alternative therapies and holistic approaches to mental health Coping with infertility and reproductive health challenges Men's mental health during and after divorce Breaking the cycle of generational trauma Balancing career ambition and personal Well-being The Impact of childhood experiences on Men's mental health Examining the link between masculinity and risk-taking behavior Redefining success and finding fulfillment beyond traditional notions Men's mental health and the justice system Strategies for managing anger and aggression in healthy ways Developing emotional intelligence and self-awareness The Role of Exercise and physical activity in Men's mental health Men's mental health and body dysmorphia Coping with chronic illness and disability Overcoming performance anxiety and imposter syndrome Strategies for managing work-related stress and pressure The Impact of societal pressures on Men's mental health Exploring Men's mental health in different cultural contexts Creating inclusive spaces and support systems for men's mental health

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