Modern Marriage with Monica

Monica Almaguer
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A couple of years ago, when I went searching for specific tips, tools and tricks to help me level up my marriage. I read books, I searched the internet, I watch YouTube...But the information I found was...shall I say...lacking! The information also was not particularly relevant to the unique challenges of today’s modern marriages with both people juggling the pressures of working outside the home, living up to societal pressures of those ”perfect” homes, bodies, and all other kinds of expectations that comes from social media. And speaking of social media, what about all the ”temptations”, instant access and just overall problems that come along with it. What was out there tended to be fluffy statements like ”be more loving” or ”communicate more”, or the God-awful advice of ”Never go to bed angry”-like anybody can solve anything when they are exhausted... No wonder the divorce rate is where it’s at! I’m the kind of person who needs specifics. Tell me exactly what to do! but there was nothing out there, so I created my own tips, tools and tricks. But the question I’m sure you are all wondering is...Did it work? And to that, I would say. YES! Not only did my techniques work... they also worked fast! Now I am taking my journey, those lessons, and am here to help marriages and relationships, not only survive, but to thrive. If you are married, ever wanted to be, or just want the absolutely best relationship possible. This is the podcast for you!

  1. MAY 2

    The Five Types of Men Who will Can Steal Your Woman and What She Finds So Attractive in All of Them

    You've probably seen the story one too many times - guy posts online about his wife cheating with her personal trainer. But why is it ALWAYS the trainer? Or the firefighter? Or the professor? Is this just a cliche, or is there something deeper happening here? In this episode, I break down the 5 specific professions that women find deeply alluring - and more importantly, WHY. From the personal trainer who literally reshapes her body to the work husband who sees the real her, these men aren't winning because they're exceptional. They're winning because they're present in ways that matter. THE UNCOMFORTABLE TRUTH: Women don't go looking for these men. They stumble into them while looking for something their relationship stopped providing. This isn't about keeping her away from attractive men - they're everywhere. It's about asking yourself: Are YOU the most interesting man in her life? KEY TAKEAWAYS: ✅ Why physical proximity creates psychological bonds ✅ The power of seeing potential in someone ✅ How authority and competence trigger attraction ✅ Why emotional freedom is so rare and valuable ✅ The difference between being a leader vs. being a hammer QUESTIONS FOR YOU: Which profession surprised you most? Have you been slacking in any of these areas in your relationship? Let me know in the comments below. 🔥 TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - Introduction: The Personal Trainer Problem 1:17 - Profession #1: The Personal Trainer 5:00 - Profession #2: The Heroes (Cops & Firefighters) 9:09 - Profession #3: The Intellect (Teachers/Professors) 14:30 - Profession #4: The Boss 19:26 - Profession #5: The Work Husband 24:22 - The Truth Nobody Wants to Say Join Monica's Community Here: https://www.skool.com/modernmarriagewithmonica/about?ref=ef239ca470a34e648243770616f65c73 Benefits Include: 1. Early Access to Videos 2. Free Twice Monthly Group Coaching Calls 3. Ability to ask Monica Questions Directly 4. Podcast Notes 5. The support of the community ranging from novice to expert relationship experience. Contact Monica: Interested in Coaching? Book a call today! calendly.com/monicaalmaguer Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com Want to Fast Track Your Relationship Results? Check Out My Course https://www.smokinghotmarriage.com/6799b46c Socials: https://www.instagram.com/modernmarriagewithmonica https://www.facebook.com/MonicaAlmaguerPodcast https://x.com/MonicaMAlmaguer https://open.spotify.com/show/3U91DRFsdIsReiou3hMA26 https://linktr.ee/Monica.Almaguer #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipTips #ModernMarriage #MarriageCoach #WifeAdvice #MarriageGoals #RelationshipExpert #MaritalAdvice #CouplesTherapy #MarriageHelp

    16 min

  2. APR 17

    How to Handle a Fllirty Friend

    Modern Marriage with Monica

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  3. APR 16

    Are You Killing Your Wife’s Sex Drive? The Attraction Killer that Even Good Men Fall Into

    Are you operating in "hammer mode" without realizing it? This could be quietly destroying your chances of the marriage you actually want. In this video, I break down the dangerous spectrum men operate on - from nice guy to hammer mode - and show you exactly how to find the sweet spot that creates lasting attraction. 🔍 WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: ✅ The 3 relationship modes every man operates in (and where you probably are) ✅ Why "hammer mode" feels like leadership but actually repels your wife ✅ The difference between being a butter knife, a framed man, and a sledgehammer ✅ 5 practical steps to audit your approach and get back on track ✅ How to use the "full tool chest" approach instead of just one tool ⚡ KEY TAKEAWAYS: • Nice guy tendencies create reverse polarity (mother-son dynamic) • Hammer mode = heavy tone, attacking the person vs. the problem • Framed masculine men are self-validated, lighthearted, fun and flirty • Your marriage's default temperature should be warm, playful, and safe • Acknowledge effort even when the outcome isn't perfect yet This isn't about being soft or being aggressive - it's about being the RIGHT kind of strong. The kind that creates safety AND attraction for decades. #MarriageAdvice #DeadBedroom #MasculineFrame #RelationshipGoals #MarriedLife #SexlessMarriage #MarriageProblems #HusbandAdvice #MaritalIntimacy #RelationshipTips 📚 TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 - Introduction to Hammer Mode 02:08 - The Relationship Spectrum Explained 04:27 - What is a Framed Masculine Man? 07:55 - The Hammer Mode Problem 10:27 - How Hammer Mode Feels to Women 19:38 - The Full Tool Chest Approach 22:17 - 5 Signs You're in Hammer Mode 24:27 - How to Get Back on Track Join Monica's Community Here: https://www.skool.com/modernmarriagewithmonica/about?ref=ef239ca470a34e648243770616f65c73 Benefits Include: 1. Early Access to Videos 2. Free Twice Monthly Group Coaching Calls 3. Ability to ask Monica Questions Directly 4. Podcast Notes 5. The support of the community ranging from novice to expert relationship experience. Contact Monica: Interested in Coaching? Book a call today! calendly.com/monicaalmaguer Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com Want to Fast Track Your Relationship Results? Check Out My Course https://www.smokinghotmarriage.com/6799b46c Socials: https://www.instagram.com/modernmarriagewithmonica https://www.facebook.com/MonicaAlmaguerPodcast https://x.com/MonicaMAlmaguer https://open.spotify.com/show/3U91DRFsdIsReiou3hMA26 https://linktr.ee/Monica.Almaguer

    14 min

  4. APR 12

    What Women Really Want! Women’s Dating Expert Spills the Inner Secrets to a Woman’s Mind

    In this eye-opening conversation, I sit down with Matthew Coast — a dating and relationship coach with 2.9 million followers on Facebook — to discuss the real struggles men and women are facing in love today. Matthew shares his unique journey from coaching men to becoming one of the most trusted male voices helping women create successful relationships. We dive deep into: Why dating and relationships have gotten harder for both sides How past trauma creates walls and sensitivity in new relationships The hidden reasons women lose interest in sex after marriage (and it’s rarely what men think) What women really mean when they say they’re “better off single” How men can make women feel truly seen, heard, and emotionally connected Practical ways women can show respect and femininity without losing their strength Why so many women file for divorce (70% statistic explained) The importance of staying attractive, healthy, and high-value in long-term relationships How to keep the spark alive instead of falling into a boring routine We also talk about “Boss Babe” energy vs. feminine energy, the power of appreciation and reassurance, and why both men and women need to stop waiting for the other person to change first. If you’re tired of failed dates, struggling in your marriage, or wondering why good relationships feel so rare today, this episode is full of honest, balanced insights from someone who’s coached thousands on both sides of the dating game. Matthew Coast’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MatthewCoastRA Join Monica's Community Here: https://www.skool.com/modernmarriagewithmonica/about?ref=ef239ca470a34e648243770616f65c73 Benefits Include: 1. Early Access to Videos 2. Free Twice Monthly Group Coaching Calls 3. Ability to ask Monica Questions Directly 4. Podcast Notes 5. The support of the community ranging from novice to expert relationship experience. Contact Monica: Interested in Coaching? Book a call today! calendly.com/monicaalmaguer Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com Want to Fast Track Your Relationship Results? Check Out My Course https://www.smokinghotmarriage.com/6799b46c Socials: https://www.instagram.com/modernmarriagewithmonica https://www.facebook.com/MonicaAlmaguerPodcast https://x.com/MonicaMAlmaguer https://open.spotify.com/show/3U91DRFsdIsReiou3hMA26 https://linktr.ee/Monica.Almaguer If you enjoyed this conversation, drop a like, leave a comment with your biggest takeaway, and subscribe for more honest relationship advice that actually works for real people. Have you noticed dating getting harder? Are men and women both struggling more than before? Let me know in the comments!#datingadvice #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageAdvice #MatthewCoast #MenAndWomen #HealthyRelationships #LoveAdvice

    42 min

  5. APR 6

    Sex in Marriage: How to Keep Intimacy Alive and Better Than Ever!

    Today we flip the script in one of the most honest and inspiring conversations yet! I sit down with Tyler Todt— the most positive voice on Twitter/X, faith-driven family man, shredded dad, former pro poker player turned coach, and men's life coach — for a raw, back-and-forth interview. We start with me asking Tyler the tough questions about: Why so many people feel frustrated with modern dating and marriage The power of radical personal ownership (your spouse is often mirroring YOU) His dramatic life turnaround: from out-of-shape, low-energy bank manager who hated his life... to waking up at 5 AM, building an incredible marriage, semi-retiring in his 30s, and coaching hundreds of men How a single loving conversation from his wife sparked his "come to Jesus" moment and complete metamorphosis The simple daily habits (gratitude journaling, no more negativity or news, vision-building) that transformed his mindset, body, business, and family life Walking shirtless in Vegas, giant sombrero calls, and what "winning" really looks like as a busy dad Then we flip roles — Tyler interviews me about: Why a thriving sex life is often the key to fixing almost everything else in marriage The massive disconnect between how men and women experience connection and desire Hormones, duty sex, initiation vs. receptivity, creating space for your wife, and becoming sexually generous How one partner going first (with intentionality and love) can radically transform the relationship This episode is packed with practical wisdom for men and women who want stronger marriages, better attraction, more intimacy, and lives filled with purpose instead of excuses. If you're tired of the online gender wars, feeling stuck in mediocrity, or want to build a marriage that actually gets better with time, this one is for you. Key takeaways: Control what you can control and stop blaming the opposite sex Build yourself first — vision, discipline, faith, fitness, and ownership change everything Great marriages aren't 50/50 — they're two people constantly elevating each other Sex isn't just physical; it's often the glue (or the missing piece) in long-term relationships Book Recommendations Found in Today's Video: How to Win Friends and Influence People: https://a.co/d/0529otMr The Walls Speaks: https://a.co/d/0fZCLnLA X/Twitter: https://x.com/tyromper (highly recommended follow for daily positivity) YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@tylertodt Email: TylerTodt@Gmail (for coaching & men's retreats) Join Monica's Community Here: https://www.skool.com/modernmarriagewithmonica/about?ref=ef239ca470a34e648243770616f65c73 Benefits Include: 1. Early Access to Videos 2. Free Twice Monthly Group Coaching Calls 3. Ability to ask Monica Questions Directly 4. Podcast Notes 5. The support of the community ranging from novice to expert relationship experience. Contact Monica: Interested in Coaching? Book a call today! calendly.com/monicaalmaguer Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com Want to Fast Track Your Relationship Results? Check Out My Course https://www.smokinghotmarriage.com/6799b46c Socials: https://www.instagram.com/modernmarriagewithmonica https://www.facebook.com/MonicaAlmaguerPodcast https://x.com/MonicaMAlmaguer https://open.spotify.com/show/3U91DRFsdIsReiou3hMA26 https://linktr.ee/Monica.Almaguer

    1h 9m

  6. MAR 26

    The Shocking Truth About What it Really Takes to be a Great Wife and Why Most Women Fail

    Have you ever wondered what it really takes to be a great wife — not just a good one? In this video, I break down my personal "Great Wife Framework" — the exact steps I took to intentionally level up my marriage after realizing I was only showing up as "decent." I didn’t have anyone sit me down and explain my role as a wife, so I had to figure it out myself. Today, I’m sharing the mindset shifts, standards, and practical action steps that transformed how I show up for my husband — and how they can do the same for you. This isn’t about perfection. It’s about making a conscious decision to become the best version of yourself in your marriage. The Great Wife Framework: Step 1: Make the intentional decision to be a GREAT wife Step 2: Create your personal North Star standard (higher than anything your husband would ask for) Step 3: Understand what actually matters most to men (and why thinking like a man changes everything) We dive deep into the four things most men value highly in a wife: frequent sex (yes, it’s #1 for a reason), cooking/food, beauty/femininity, and a pleasant demeanor. I share how I stopped making sex something he had to “earn,” overcame my hatred for cooking, embraced more feminine energy in daily life, and worked on my tone and pleasantness. Plus, the key “stop doing” and “start doing” habits: Stop arguing and needing to be right (try my “5-Year Rule”) Stop mama-bear mode that disrespects his role as father Start being sweeter in delivery Start greeting him properly when he comes home/leaves Start truly trusting and supporting him If you implement even the first two steps, you’ll already be ahead of 99% of couples. These small, intentional changes create massive ripple effects — happier husbands, more connection, better sex, and a marriage that feels like a refuge instead of another battlefield. Ladies: This is for you. Guys: Share this with your wife if you believe she’s the kind of woman who wants to be her best. Drop a comment: Which step are you going to work on first? Have I missed anything important for being a great wife? Join Monica's Community Here: https://www.skool.com/modernmarriagewithmonica/about?ref=ef239ca470a34e648243770616f65c73 Benefits Include: 1. Early Access to Videos 2. Free Twice Monthly Group Coaching Calls 3. Ability to ask Monica Questions Directly 4. Podcast Notes 5. The support of the community ranging from novice to expert relationship experience. Contact Monica: Interested in Coaching? Book a call today! calendly.com/monicaalmaguer Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com Want to Fast Track Your Relationship Results? Check Out My Course https://www.smokinghotmarriage.com/6799b46c Socials: https://www.instagram.com/modernmarriagewithmonica https://www.facebook.com/MonicaAlmaguerPodcast https://x.com/MonicaMAlmaguer https://open.spotify.com/show/3U91DRFsdIsReiou3hMA26 https://linktr.ee/Monica.Almaguer Share this with a wife or husband who needs it.#GreatWife #MarriageAdvice #TraditionalMarriage #HowToBeABetterWife #RelationshipGoals Timestamps: 0:00 - Why most women never decide to be a GREAT wife 2:15 - Step 1: Make the decision 4:30 - Step 2: Create your North Star standard 9:45 - Step 3: What men actually want (sex, food, beauty, pleasantness) 18:20 - Stop doing these 3 things (arguing, needing to be right, mama bear) 25:10 - Start doing these 3 things (be sweeter, greet properly, trust him) 32:00 - Why this is ultimately for YOU

    25 min

  7. MAR 21

    Why Doctors Crap All Over Hormones Pellets and Why They Need to Suck it Up and Get on Board

    Tired of doctors constantly bashing hormone pellets? In this video, I break down why I think the criticism is unfair and often comes from personal bias rather than patient-centered care. Hormone pellets are small, bioidentical (estrogen and testosterone) implants inserted under the skin with a minor incision in the hip. They provide a slow, steady release: levels rise over about 6 weeks, stabilize for months, then gradually taper off—requiring re-insertion every 3-4 months. No daily creams, no weekly injections—just set it and forget it! Hormones are life-changing for so many women—improving energy, mood, libido, vaginal health, and even strengthening marriages. Everyone agrees on that. The real issue? Doctors deciding FOR patients which delivery method is "best" instead of presenting ALL options (pellets, creams, patches, injections) with honest pros and cons, then letting the woman choose. I was on pellets for 5 years and loved them—no issues, amazing results. I only switched recently to match my husband's testosterone method (injections), and honestly? It's been rough getting levels right, and I still have some vaginal dryness that pellets completely eliminated for me. Common doctor complaints about pellets: Expensive/out-of-pocket (true, but for me, $450 every 3 months saved time—no copays, fewer visits, all labs included). Minor incision required. Risk of over-dosing (that's a doctor issue, not pellets—happens with any method). Hard to adjust initially since you're committed for months (fair, so start low!). But these aren't pellet flaws—they're trade-offs. Some women hate daily creams (messy!) or self-injections. I chose pellets because I'm busy and "lazy" about routines—time is a bigger factor than money for me. Even respected experts like Dr. Kelly Casperson (whom I admire) say patients have to "earn" pellets. I call BS—no woman should have to "earn" any option. It's arrogant to project personal preferences onto patients. Women in menopause groups rave about pellets: best sex ever, husbands can't keep up, life-transforming energy and confidence. Thousands (maybe millions) love them—why ignore that? Doctors: stop the negativity. Present facts, respect patient choice. If pellets work for someone, great! If not, switch—no judgment. What delivery method works best for YOU? Drop your experience in the comments—I read them all! Like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more real talk on hormones, menopause, and women's health. 💪❤️ #HormonePellets #BioidenticalHRT #Menopause #TestosteroneForWomen #HormoneReplacement Join Monica's Community Here: https://www.skool.com/modernmarriagewithmonica/about?ref=ef239ca470a34e648243770616f65c73 Benefits Include: 1. Early Access to Videos 2. Free Twice Monthly Group Coaching Calls 3. Ability to ask Monica Questions Directly 4. Podcast Notes 5. The support of the community ranging from novice to expert relationship experience. Contact Monica: Interested in Coaching? Book a call today! calendly.com/monicaalmaguer Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com Want to Fast Track Your Relationship Results? Check Out My Course https://www.smokinghotmarriage.com/6799b46c Socials: https://www.instagram.com/modernmarriagewithmonica https://www.facebook.com/MonicaAlmaguerPodcast https://x.com/MonicaMAlmaguer https://open.spotify.com/show/3U91DRFsdIsReiou3hMA26 https://linktr.ee/Monica.Almaguer

    9 min

  8. MAR 17

    What Men REALLY Need in Marriage (Respect, Sex & No BS): Truth Bombs Dropped from my Husband

    In this raw, honest conversation, we answer YOUR questions from the community: Why most men stay silent in unhappy marriages, the "happy wife, happy life" trap, why respect trumps domination, how to lead without conflict, dealing with disrespect in public vs. private, the role of sex and intimacy (yes, we get real about dead bedrooms and initiation), hormone optimization (TRT + HRT changed everything), green flags before marriage, prenups, and why marriage is STILL worth it in 2026. Michael shares his no-BS take as a traditional, conservative Christian man: Men must speak up, advocate for their needs, and lead the family direction. No sugarcoating—relationships take two, but men often settle or stay quiet. Women: Listen, respect, and serve in your role. Men: Communicate needs clearly—food, sex, respect are basics, but self-reflection and framing matter most. Key highlights: Why "training" your wife isn't the right word—it's about voicing what you want as a man How I went from low receptivity to quick apologies and faster fixes The huge impact of hormone replacement therapy on energy, mood, libido, and marriage passion. Why public criticism kills respect—and how we handle it privately One action for men + one for women to improve ANY marriage TODAY Whether you're in a struggling marriage, sexless relationship, or just want to build a stronger, more passionate partnership—this episode is for you. Men: Stop settling. Women: Pay attention—your husband might be craving this perspective. Join Monica's Skool Community Here: https://www.skool.com/modernmarriagewithmonica/about?ref=ef239ca470a34e648243770616f65c73 Benefits Include: 1. Early Access to Videos 2. Free Twice Monthly Group Coaching Calls 3. Ability to ask Monica Questions Directly 4. Podcast Notes 5. The support of the community ranging from novice to expert relationship experience. Contact Monica: Interested in Coaching? Book a call today! calendly.com/monicaalmaguer Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com Want to Fast Track Your Relationship Results? Check Out My Course https://www.smokinghotmarriage.com/6799b46c Socials: https://www.instagram.com/modernmarriagewithmonica https://www.facebook.com/MonicaAlmaguerPodcast https://x.com/MonicaMAlmaguer https://open.spotify.com/show/3U91DRFsdIsReiou3hMA26 https://linktr.ee/Monica.Almaguer Timestamps: 0:00 - 100th Episode Intro + Why Michael Hates Cameras 2:30 - "Happy Wife, Happy Life" Myth & Why Men Don't Speak Up 6:45 - Do I "Train" My Wife? His Take on Leading 12:15 - Guys at Work: Hating Wives or Just Settling? 18:40 - Community Questions: Pressure to Be Perfect? 25:00 - Vulnerability of Our Marriage Being Public 32:10 - Lack of Sex: Michael's Honest Thoughts 38:20 - Would He Divorce Over a Dead Bedroom? 45:00 - Green Flags Before Marriage + Prenup Story 52:30 - Hormone Therapy: Game-Changer for Us Both 1:00:00 - Respect, Initiation, and Why Marriage is Worth It 1:10:45 - One Tip for Men + One for Women to Fix Marriages If you're tired of black-pill "marriage is doomed" talk, this proves high-passion, respectful, traditional dynamics still work—and get better with effort. Subscribe for more no-fluff marriage advice from a pro-male, pro-sex female perspective. Drop a comment: What's ONE thing you'd ask my husband? 👇 #MarriageAdvice #HusbandInterview #RespectInMarriage #DeadBedroom #TraditionalMarriage #MensNeeds #WifeTraining #HormoneTherapy #TRT #MarriageTips #ChristianMarriage #LongTermRelationship

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A couple of years ago, when I went searching for specific tips, tools and tricks to help me level up my marriage. I read books, I searched the internet, I watch YouTube...But the information I found was...shall I say...lacking! The information also was not particularly relevant to the unique challenges of today’s modern marriages with both people juggling the pressures of working outside the home, living up to societal pressures of those ”perfect” homes, bodies, and all other kinds of expectations that comes from social media. And speaking of social media, what about all the ”temptations”, instant access and just overall problems that come along with it. What was out there tended to be fluffy statements like ”be more loving” or ”communicate more”, or the God-awful advice of ”Never go to bed angry”-like anybody can solve anything when they are exhausted... No wonder the divorce rate is where it’s at! I’m the kind of person who needs specifics. Tell me exactly what to do! but there was nothing out there, so I created my own tips, tools and tricks. But the question I’m sure you are all wondering is...Did it work? And to that, I would say. YES! Not only did my techniques work... they also worked fast! Now I am taking my journey, those lessons, and am here to help marriages and relationships, not only survive, but to thrive. If you are married, ever wanted to be, or just want the absolutely best relationship possible. This is the podcast for you!

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