The Parent Pivot Podcast

Steve and Julia Cummings
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We are Steve and Julia Cummings and we are empty nesters who desire to maintain healthy relationship with our adult children. We have found that something needs to change in us, the parent, when our child becomes an adult. We need to ”pivot” from parenting, to partnering. What does that look like? When do I say something and when do I not? Why won’t they listen to me? We address these questions and host more in a real, raw an vulnerable way in real time. Tune in each week as we help you become a partner to your adult children. New podcast weblog

  1. 10 HRS AGO

    "Best of The Parent Pivot Podcast:" Comedy, Empty Nesting and Ecclesiastes - Interview with Comedian Jeff Allen

    Being an empty nester doesn't have to be a sad season of life. It CAN be a hoot! Just ask comedian Jeff Allen. On this "Best of The Parent Pivot Podcast," Steve and Julia Cummings interview Jeff as get his life experiences of being an empty nester. You'll also get a chance to see the personal side of Jeff as he shares about his new book, "Are We There Yet?" (Available on Amazon). It's an inspirational account and at times laugh-out-loud story of how God rescued him from alcoholism and despair through the book of Ecclesiastes. See Jeff Allen on tour at: https://www.jeffallencomedy.com/tour

    48 min

  2. MAR 17

    Grandparents vs. No-Screen Parenting: How to Have the Conversation

    What happens when grandparents want to help… but they’re running out of energy? In today’s episode of The Parent Pivot Podcast, we tackle a real-life tension so many families face— grandparents stepping in to help with the kids… and parents who don’t want any screen time. It sounds simple… until real life hits. Aches. Fatigue. Rainy days. And a toddler who never stops moving. So how do you honor your adult child’s parenting… without burning yourself out in the process? We’re talking about communication, boundaries, and how to have this conversation without damaging the relationship that matters most. If you’re a grandparent—or you will be someday—this one’s for you. Resources mentioned on today's podcast: 1. "The Parent Pivot: 13 Principles for Building Stronger Relationships with Your Adult Children" by Steve and Julia Cummings. 2. "Doing Life with Your Adult Children" by Jim Burns.  3. Legacy Coalition Grandparenting Summit.  4. Need someone to talk to about your adult child relationship? Call or text   Julia at 714-392-2060 for a FREE consultation. Or visit: www.meadowbrookcounselingga.com

    28 min

  3. MAR 10

    "Best of The Parent Pivot Podcast" - How to Thrive After Your Kids Leave Home: Interview with Jill Savage

    The season of becoming a new empty nester is finally here.  As author and speaker, Jill Savage says, "It can be either a time of 'boo-hoo' or "WOO-HOO!"   You might find yourself caught between grief and delight and full of questions, hopes and regrets.  How can we make sense of it all? On this edition of The Parent Pivot Podcast, Steve and Julia interview Jill and get her wisdom, encouragement and ideas for thriving in this next season of life.  Don't miss it!   Resources mentioned on this podcast: "Empty Nest, Full Life" - by Jill Savage Other books by Jill Empty Nest Retreat and Course Marriage Intensives

    57 min

  4. MAR 3

    The “Angry” Daughter-in-Law — Or Is She Just Alone?

    What if the “difficult” daughter-in-law in your family… isn’t angry at all? What if she’s just alone? In this week’s episode of The Parent Pivot Podcast, we unpack a powerful reflection called the “Angry Daughter-in-Law Theory.” We talk about what really happens when someone marries into an established family system — the inside jokes, the unspoken rules, the old loyalties — and how easy it is to label someone as “too sensitive” or “too much” instead of asking deeper questions. If you have married children — or hope to one day — this conversation might change the way you see your in-law forever. Because pivoting from parent to partner sometimes begins with empathy.   Need someone to talk to about your adult child relationship? Call or text Julia at 714-392-2060 for a FREE consultation. Or visit: www.meadowbrookcounselingga.com

    19 min

  5. FEB 24

    When Generosity Backfires: Tough Love, Adult Kids & Going "Full Miyagi"

    What do you do when your adult child costs you a boatload of money? A wrecked car. A bailout. Another “can you help me just this once?” As parents, we want to be generous. But what happens when generosity turns into enabling? And how do you pivot when your adult child needs more than grace — they need growth? In this episode of The Parent Pivot Podcast, we talk about a powerful moment from a recent workshop where a mom admitted she hadn’t always been the parent her son needed… and decided it was time to “go full Miyagi.” We unpack tough love, ownership, financial boundaries, adult children living at home, and why clear communication matters more than control. Sometimes the most loving thing you can do… is teach discipline with humility. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re being too generous — or not generous enough — this conversation is for you. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Sometime just have a conversation with someone to process with brings validation and relieves those feelings of guilt, anxiety and frustration.  We are here to help.  Call or text Julia at 714-392-2060 for a FREE consultation. Or visit: www.meadowbrookcounselingga.com. Also - pick up a copy of "The Parent Pivot: 13 Principles for Building Stronger Relationships with Your Adult Children" by Steve and Julia. Available for $9.99 on Amazon.

    15 min

  6. FEB 17

    Bite Your Tongue: When Your Adult Child Parents Differently Than You Would

    What do you do when your adult child starts parenting in ways you completely disagree with? Maybe it’s gentle parenting. Maybe it’s food rules. Bedtime. Discipline. Screen time. And you’re sitting there thinking… “We would never have done it that way.” Here’s the harder question: Do you want to be right… or do you want a relationship? In this episode of The Parent Pivot Podcast, Steve and Julia talk honestly about biting your tongue, respecting your adult child’s authority, avoiding triangulation in their marriage, and learning how to pivot from parent to partner. If you’re a grandparent — or you will be someday — this conversation could save your family from unnecessary fractures. Listen now and learn how to stay connected without stepping over the line. Resources mentioned on this podcast: 1. "The Parent Pivot: 13 Principles for Building Stronger Relationships with Your Adult Children" 2. Need someone to talk to about your adult child relationship? Call or text Julia at 714-392-2060 for a FREE consultation. Or visit: www.meadowbrookcounselingga.com

    32 min

  7. FEB 10

    "Best of the Parent Pivot Podcast" - Interview with Gill Tillmann

    Let's face it . . . not only is there NOT instructions handed to new parents by the doctor explaining "what to do" when you leave the hospital and take your baby home. The same can also be said when your adult kids leave home. Where's the "partner manual"? Where do you go to find out how to make the pivot from parent to partner? We got you on this one! On this "Best of The Parent Pivot Podcast," Steve and Julia interview Gill Tillmann, author of the book, "Pour the Wine: We're Talking About Our Adult Children . . . Again". Sit back, relax and pull up a chair and join us for this delightful conversation about "life after parenting." Links: https://www.instagram.com/fished.my.wish/?hl=en Pour the Wine - book

    1h 9m

  8. FEB 3

    Repair Work Starts with Looking in the Mirror

    Looking back at raising your kids brings both joys and sorrows.  Often times we see how we could have done things better - or maybe how we messed up. On this edition of The Parent Pivot Podcast, Steve and Julia give us some practical counsel on how we can do some repair work to strengthen our relationship with our adult kids.   Resources mentioned on today's podcast: 1. "I Know a Guy" podcast with Steve Cummings - a ministry for men from www.BringingKingdom.org. 2. Subscribe to Steve's free Substack newsletter here. Need someone to talk to about your adult child relationship? Call or text Julia at 714-392-2060 for a FREE consultation. Or visit: www.meadowbrookcounselingga.com

    31 min
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We are Steve and Julia Cummings and we are empty nesters who desire to maintain healthy relationship with our adult children. We have found that something needs to change in us, the parent, when our child becomes an adult. We need to ”pivot” from parenting, to partnering. What does that look like? When do I say something and when do I not? Why won’t they listen to me? We address these questions and host more in a real, raw an vulnerable way in real time. Tune in each week as we help you become a partner to your adult children. New podcast weblog

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  • Creator
    Steve and Julia Cummings
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    162
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2023 All rights reserved.
  • Show Website
    The Parent Pivot Podcast

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