As far as this case goes I’ve steered clear of any real media attention other than the first time stepdad gave an interview and referred in the past tense of what his child “loved” to do. It was at that point where a little feeling crept over me but… knowing the internet as I’ve come to understand it, I knew all kinds of things were about to change in terms of social media. People deciding what, where, when, who and why had taken place, without a clue as to what they’re talking about! The truth is many people THINK they know what they would do under the same circumstances but what is also true is those same people lack the empathy to consider everything involved in the circumstance of a missing child. That’s when they project all of their own dysfunction into the story when they have never experienced the trauma involved when a child comes up missing. Some of them may not even have children so how could they possibly say what they would do. A missing child is the most frightening feeling in the world. Even if you’ve lost your child in a department store because they were playing a one sided game of hide and seek! It’s traumatizing and not something I would wish on anyone, never mind start making accusations against parents who are living in a nightmare like that. Opinions are like farts. Everybody has more than one. It’s just some are stinkier than others. The only reason I listened to this particular podcast was the write up indicated you would separate fact from fiction. Thank you for that! All anyone should be offering are prayers or good thoughts or hope, light and love. Whatever they are most comfortable with. When one farts under the blanket it is counter productive to wave the blankets around! God bless those poor parents and what they’re living through. I’ve witnessed miracles. They can happen. They do happen but even if in this case no miracle is forthcoming, I offer my love, support and prayers to everyone who have love for these two littles!
