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U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun dating commentary, polls, and bonus content, follow @uuppod on Instagram.

U Up‪?‬ U Up?

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 1.4K Ratings

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U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun dating commentary, polls, and bonus content, follow @uuppod on Instagram.

Listen on Apple Podcasts
Requires subscription and macOS 11.4 or higher

    Is The Saying “When You Know You Know” Actually True?

    Is The Saying “When You Know You Know” Actually True?

    On this week’s episode, Jared and Jordana start out with a discussion of the best day of the year for a birthday and how the internet can be a fickle friend. They read a follow up from the listener who wrote in on May 8th, 2022 about Tony the contractor which leads to a discussion about women making the first move. The Awkward Sexual Encounter involves a wet pair of trousers. Later, an emailer asks if she did herself a disservice by throwing out her old pros and cons lists about her current relationship. Is needing to make a pros and cons list in the first place a bad sign? J&J finish the episode with a round of Red Flag or Deal Breaker about peeing after sex, customer service voices, and sharing medical records.

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    Jordana’s Fight Or (First Class) Flight

    Jordana’s Fight Or (First Class) Flight

    On this week’s bonus episode just for U Up? With Benefits subscribers, Jared and Jordana are in the studio talking about Jordana’s most recent tiff with her husband over business class plane tickets. Jordana explains how their attitudes toward money differ, and Jared brings up the emotional side of spending. Later, Jared opens up about how he handled money in his previous relationships. Plus, they discuss how finances get intertwined in relationships.

    Is This A Red Flag Or Am I The As*hole?

    Is This A Red Flag Or Am I The As*hole?

    J&J are back with a Sunday Special, and they start out with a chat about the summer dating season. Next they listen to two new listener jingles which leads to a conversation on how “Les Miserables” is a f*ckboy story. Later they introduce a new segment called The People’s Courtship where Judge J&J will decide who is wrong in a dating situation. This week a listener called the hotline to ask if it was weird for a guy to bring her “grocery store flowers” on a first date. Plus, they talk about how judgmental is too judgmental when it comes to dating.

    • 32 min
    When Does A White Lie Become A Regular Lie? Ft. Rebel Wilson

    When Does A White Lie Become A Regular Lie? Ft. Rebel Wilson

    On this week’s episode, Jared and Jordana start out with a conversation about how to keep dating momentum going while you're traveling for work. The first emailer asks about the difference between taking things slow and getting strung along. The Awkward Sexual Encounter involves a condom balloon. Another emailer asks how much white lies matter after her boyfriend lied to her about going to a strip club. Later, Jared and Jordana are joined by U Up? With Benefits subscriber Rebel Wilson to talk about her dating life and her new movie “Senior Year.” They finish the episode with a round of Red Flag or Deal Breaker about wedding etiquette and recycled playlists.

    • 1 hr 31 min
    How To Take The Hint After Shooting Your Shot

    How To Take The Hint After Shooting Your Shot

    On this week’s Sunday Special, Jared and Jordana are breaking down the texts between a listener and her almost contractor to decide whether or not he’s interested in her. Should she shoot her shot one more time or is a "k" text the kiss of death? Later, J&J introduce a new segment called Rate My Date where they review creative date ideas submitted by listeners. This week’s submission is a triple date straight out of a fever dream.

    • 29 min
    Dating Before & After College

    Dating Before & After College

    Jared and Jordana are back with a very special episode recorded from the Pizza Hut struggle bus in Athens, GA. The first emailer asks how to deal with her boyfriend’s controlling mother. Should she take out her nose ring to please her? Is the nose ring really the issue here to begin with? The Awkward Sexual Encounter features a pet octopus. In the next segment presented by Pizza Hut, J&J answer a listener voicemail from the Hut-Line to solve some college dating struggles. The caller asks how she should address moving from college to the real world in her relationship. Is it better to leave the college bubble single? They finish the episode with a round of Red Flag or Deal Breaker about cult leaders, ear wax, and pet tarantulas.
    Thanks again to our presenting sponsor! Whenever you’re riding the Struggle Bus, order Pizza Hut for carryout or delivery at pizzahut.com

    • 1 hr 23 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
1.4K Ratings

1.4K Ratings

jaded222 ,

For Jordana

Love the podcast! I listen from Canada.
On the show Jordana often says she reads all of the reviews, so out of curiosity I started reading a few and after reading some of the negative reviews, I was really annoyed.
I can’t help thinking some of the commenters take it way too serious.
There’s infinite nuances in dating involving socioeconomic status, gender identity etc..
The podcast content isn’t “archaic” for not citing this every episode.
In my opinion, it’s assumed that the advice you both give applies to anyone that’s open to receive it without getting caught up in the correctness of the delivery.
The show is fun & funny!
Lastly, how dare they suggest replacing Jordana or Jared! Clearly, they’re not fans.
In my mind, it’s unreasonable to complain to change the entirety of a particular podcast.
Instead of leaving unconstructive criticism, move along.
Keep doing what you guys do!

Ok Erebus ,

Long intro fan!

Please keep the long intros and talking more about your personal lives! Favourite part tbh.

meljostiak ,

The best 👌🏼

This is my fav podcast! You guys are great together. So funny and relevant advice too. I do love the long intros because u have great banter. Wouldn’t suggest any changes. :)

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