The GLUE-OOM

The GLUE-OOM

Discussions with the men of F3Omaha regarding male community leadership and all things acceleration.

  1. Every HIM Needs A Break Room

    vor 5 Tagen

    Every HIM Needs A Break Room

    Every HIM Needs A Break Room | Break Room (Alex Kucera) | The Glue-OOM Ep. 251 Every man hits a season where life stops making sense. Good job. Nice house. Busy calendar. Checking every box. And still — hollow. For Alex "Break Room" Kucera, that season came hard. Divorce. Depression. 145 pounds. Too much alcohol. A marriage where he admitted he never put his spouse first. A longing for fatherhood he wasn't ready to carry. And an F3 invitation from his father he kept refusing. This episode isn't about divorce. It's about identity. It's about what happens when the life you thought you wanted falls apart long enough to reveal the man you were actually meant to become — and the brotherhood, the miles, the flag, and an 11-month-old daughter who is about to start remembering who her dad is that pulled him the rest of the way there. Every HIM needs a break room. Alex Kucera became one for the PAX around him. This is how. 👥 IN THIS EPISODE The EH that took two years — and why Q Tip never pushed onceFirst post at the Trident: pre-run, sandbags, and almost becoming "Gaylord Focker"Divorce, depression, and what 145 pounds of self-pity actually looks likeRunning as sanctuary — headphones on, not always playingWhy he canceled his Orange Theory membership weeks after his first F3 postQ Tip at 71: one kidney, 42 years of sobriety, and a son paying close attentionSaying yes to the Future flag mid-prerun — and meaning it 20 minutes laterPassing the flag to someone not on his radar who wanted it badly enough to askWeeping in a church pew the first time he brought his daughter to MassThe prayer request that lands hardest because he says it quietly💬 KEY QUOTES "Getting divorced was the best worst thing that ever happened to me." "I knew I was gonna like it — but I didn't want to do it at that time in my life." "I was 145 pounds, not eating, probably drinking too much." "I wasn't fit to lead five years ago." "Seeing your 71-year-old father kick ass is just awesome. It really is." "The first time I brought my daughter to church I was sitting there weeping." "She'll understand me as a person soon. That's what drives me to be the best version of myself." "Life sucks occasionally. That doesn't mean it's going to suck forever." ⏱️ CHAPTERS 00:00 Welcome To The Nomad 03:00 Q Tip's Long Game — The EH That Took Two Years 08:00 Father's Day & First Post At The Trident 10:00 Pick Up The Six Before The Workout Started 12:00 The Naming Of Break Room 13:42 Divorce, Depression & The Pit 18:38 Rebuilding Through Fitness 27:00 Running, Anxiety & Hearing God 34:40 Marriage, Movement & Fellowship 40:17 Q Tip, Sobriety & Legacy 45:47 Faith, Church & Becoming Dad 51:48 The Future Flag & Leaving Well 59:18 Identity, Fatherhood & The Prayer Request 1:03:00 Name-O-Rama & Wrap

    1 Std. 3 Min.
  2. Switchfoot Leadership: Pleading Not Guilty. Board Certified.

    31. Mai

    Switchfoot Leadership: Pleading Not Guilty. Board Certified.

    SUMMARY: The Plague and Gator sit down with Switchfoot (Mark Matulka) at The Nomad in Old Town Elkhorn — and what unfolds is one of the most layered stories of perseverance and reinvention The Glue-OOM has ever captured. A guidance counselor told him he was a trades guy. He earned two bachelor's degrees, a master's, and a law degree. He scored in the 7th percentile on his first LSAT. He passed the Nebraska Bar. He almost got denied from that same Bar over a skateboarding citation — where the listed victim was society. That citation is now framed on his desk. This is an episode about what happens when you refuse to accept someone else's ceiling, find brothers who hold you accountable, and learn that carrying a flag means being a caretaker — not a commander. 📌 EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS ✅ The EH that started at a bomb threat — ICB responded to an emergency, won over Switchfoot's son with a police cruiser, then dropped the F3 invite on the spot ✅ First workout: a Smurf followed immediately by a Stormbreaker beatdown — ICB did not ease him in ✅ The naming circle almost landed "Kickflip" — Farva held the line. Rules are rules ✅ Victim: Society — the framed skateboarding citation that nearly derailed his bar application ✅ Guidance counselor said trades, not college — two bachelor's, a master's, and a law degree later ✅ Three LSATs, a newborn, and a dying mother-in-law — he went to Creighton Law anyway ✅ A 20-year-old from South Omaha arguing American values with Fidel Castro supporters in Cuba ✅ "I know my truth" — Shark Week's throwaway joke became his personal mantra for hard days ✅ Planting the flag alone before anyone arrives — his definition of what it means to be a site Q ✅ The Mufasa lunch — before taking the Wild Kingdom flag, Mufasa reframed everything: caretaker, not commander ✅ How he picked Joe Camel as his successor — burned him on a disc pass, and that was the audition 💬 KEY QUOTES "Two bachelor's degrees, a master's, and a law degree later — people are wrong." "I may not be the best in the room, but I'm going to be the hardest worker." "This isn't my site. This is our site. I'm a caretaker." "Nobody's going to give a shit what case I won. They're going to care: did I make an impact?" "I know my truth." "In two years, my daughter's not going to want me to lay in her bed and bullshit about the day. I need to put first things first." "There is a God. I am not him." "Your health is your real 401k. If you're dead, you can't spend the money." "Don't sell yourself short. Trust your abilities. Then get your experience." "You're not going to grow if you're not stretched — but you're not going to grow if you're too uncomfortable either. It's that sweet spot just outside your comfort zone." 🕐 CHAPTERS 00:00 — Cold Open & Pre-Show: Rap Beefs, Jerry Springer, and P Diddy Documentaries 04:00 — The EH: How a Bomb Threat and a Police Cruiser Changed Everything 07:30 — First Workout: A Smurf, a Beatdown, and a Brutal First Mile 09:30 — The Naming: Kickflip Was Right There. Farva Said No. 12:00 — Victim: Society: The Skateboarding Citation That Followed Him Into the Bar 18:00 — The Pit: Life Before F3 — Mothballed Fitness and a Mother-in-Law's Cancer 20:00 — From Lube Tech to Law School: Metro, UNO, and Three LSATs 28:00 — Experience Over Everything: Cuba, STRATCOM, and the Governor's Office 36:00 — Accountability & Brotherhood: Scandal, Shark Week, and "I Know My Truth" 44:00 — The Third F: Faith as a Question Mark, Service as the Answer 55:00 — Leading Wild Kingdom: Planting the Flag and the Mufasa Lunch 1:01:00 — Succession, Joe Camel, and the Closing Prayer: First Things First

    1 Std. 9 Min.
  3. Reflux: What Was Buried Came Back Up

    24. Mai

    Reflux: What Was Buried Came Back Up

    EPISODE SUMMARY The Plague and special guest co-host Gator sit down with Reflux for one of the most emotionally layered episodes of The Glue-OOM to date. What begins as a funny story about a dad getting spit up on before his first post slowly unfolds into a conversation about grief, inherited faith, male friendship, Shield Lock accountability, and the leadership courage required to stop suppressing what’s really happening underneath. Episode 249 traces Reflux’s long road from movement without roots to surrender, alignment, and a legacy centered not on himself — but on Christ. ✅ EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS Splinter Cell’s persistent EH campaign finally lands.The Battlefield beatdown that started everything.The hilarious origin story behind the name “Reflux.”Pre-runs becoming more transformational than workouts.Running as stress relief and spiritual clarity.The hidden loneliness of career movement across five cities.Losing his mother at 14 and carrying her final letter for years.“I never felt worthy” becomes the emotional center of the episode.Why confession inside Shield Lock changes men.The hard lesson of balancing F3 with marriage and newborn realities.Catalyst leadership and learning to give leadership away.Redefining legacy through Christ instead of personal achievement. 🔥 KEY QUOTES “The LBs just kept stacking up.” “I really need a butt kicking.” “As males, we need other male friends to do things with.” “You come for the workout… now I’m all about the coffee, the faith, the COT.” “I never prayed for myself until I was in my 30s. I never felt worthy.” “Surrender is the word I keep coming back to.” “Sin is everywhere… and when you share it, usually three guys go, ‘Yeah, me too.’” “I’m John Stockton. You’re Malone. I’m giving you the ball.” “My goal isn’t to build a legacy. My goal is to enhance the legacy of Christ.” 🧭 CHAPTERS 00:00 Welcome to The Nomad — Reflux & Gator Join The Plague 03:58Splinter Cell’s EH & The Battlefield Beatdown 06:10The Naming of Reflux0 8:00The Berm, Pre-Runs & Expanding Brotherhood 09:45Running, Stress Relief & Hearing God on Mile Five 12:30Why Men Need Male Friendship 14:00Marriage, Newborns & Learning Alignment 18:00Shield Lock, Vulnerability & Confession 29:00The Wandering Years — Five Cities & Running From Roots 34:00His Mother’s Letter & The Worthiness Struggle 42:00Catalyst Leadership & Giving the Ball Away 49:00Legacy, Christ & What Really Lasts

    58 Min.
  4. Buy Yourself a Little Freedom: Leadership Maintenance for the HIM

    17. Mai

    Buy Yourself a Little Freedom: Leadership Maintenance for the HIM

    EPISODE SUMMARY The Plague sits down with Yugo to unpack the story behind his F3 nickname, his journey through fitness and fellowship, and how running became more than exercise—it became survival. From managing a Porsche dealership to navigating stress, family life, and the pull of isolation, Yugo shares how the Shield Lock of F3 changed his perspective on brotherhood. The episode is a gritty reminder that acceleration happens faster when men stop trying to carry life alone. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS ✅ Getting EH’d by DaKine after years of resistance because of work schedule conflicts ✅ First-ever post was a massive flag pass at The Coupe ✅ The hilarious origin story behind the name “Yugo” ✅ Growing up in small-town Nebraska fixing cars because owning one meant learning to repair it ✅ Career journey from local technician to Porsche service manager ✅ Honest conversation about trades vs. traditional college paths ✅ Discovering that the real value of F3 happened during the runs—not just the workouts ✅ How running became stress relief and emotional reset during difficult seasons ✅ Mortimer and market-to-market training building deeper bonds with other PAX ✅ The power of FIA crossover relationships helping EH men into the gloom ✅ Why consistent proximity with men matters more than motivation KEY QUOTES “I can run anytime… then I started really chatting with the guys while you’re running.” — ~00:09:40 “If I don’t run for several days, I just generally feel bad.” — ~00:11:05 “Running outside… it’s hard to beat.” — ~00:11:15 “My first workout was a flag pass.” — ~00:02:30 “People call me Yugo everywhere.” — ~00:03:20 “I hated it at first.” — ~00:03:15 “You can basically write your own check.” — ~00:06:05 “That was my release.” — ~00:11:45 CHAPTERS 00:00 Opening at The Nomad 02:00 FIA Connections & The EH 03:00 The Story Behind “Yugo” 05:00 Growing Up Around Cars 06:30 Porsche Leadership & Trade School 08:45 Marathon Burnout & Competitive Drift 12:30 Mortimer, Brotherhood & Shared Suffering 19:30 Family Life & Relational Rhythm 29:00 Faith, Honesty & The Quiet Struggle 35:30 Boston, Goals & Reigniting Fire 38:30 Launching The Crown 44:30 Accountability & Leadership Maintenance 51:30 “You Go. I Go. We Go.”

    58 Min.
  5. Low Point, High Calling: Leadership from the Roots

    10. Mai

    Low Point, High Calling: Leadership from the Roots

    EPISODE SUMMARY The Plague sits down at The Nomad in downtown Elkhorn with Eric “Low Point” Ellison — one of the few men in F3 Omaha posting alongside his own father, High Point. What begins as a hilarious story about thinking F3 was “old guy stuff” unfolds into a grounded conversation about fatherhood, injuries, consistency, identity after sports, and the quiet battle to stay connected when life gets heavy. “Low Point, High Calling” is ultimately a story about inherited leadership, relational acceleration, and the men who help keep us from drifting. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS ✅ ✅High Point EH’d his own son into F3 ✅The fastest naming in COT history ✅First beatdown with Stripes at The Berm ✅Monkey humpers in Birdman’s driveway ✅Why preruns changed his entire fitness journey ✅The emotional void after college athletics ended ✅Plantar fasciitis and the danger of broken rhythm ✅The tornado moment that proved F3 community was real ✅“I’m disappointed in you” parenting philosophy ✅How F3 changed his patience at home ✅Site Q leadership lessons from Bunztown ✅“Lead from the back” philosophy ✅“See me out there. Pray I’m there.” KEY QUOTES “That’s old guy stuff.” “I thought it was going to be, show up one time.” “I could see myself doing this again.” “I need that.” “When you go home and the kids are screaming… today’s going to be a better day.” “You tell your daughters they’re beautiful, and you tell your sons they have what it takes.” “I let the people raising me down.” “As a site Q, I’m going to be there to run every morning.” “See me out there. Pray I’m there.” CHAPTERS 00:00 — Welcome to The Nomad — The Plague Introduces Low Point 01:30 — High Point EHs His Son 03:00 — “That’s Old Guy Stuff” 04:00 — Stripes, Burpees & The Berm 05:00 — Fastest Naming in Circle History 08:00 — Baseball, Fitness & Discovering Preruns 15:00 — Plantar Fasciitis and the Rhythm Break 22:00 — Marriage, Kids & Becoming a Better Dad 27:00 — High Point’s Influence and Authentic Manhood 39:00 — Tornadoes, Brotherhood & Community 45:30 — Bunztown Site Q — Leading from the Back 56:00 — Injury, Drift & the Closing Ask KEYWORDS #F3Omaha #GloomToGlue #Brotherhood #Leadership #Omaha #F3Nation #ShieldLock #SadClown #EH #Halfsy #LowPoint #HighPoint #AuthenticManhood #SiteQ #Fatherhood #Fitness #Bennington #Acceleration

    1 Std. 4 Min.
  6. Bullseye: Aim True When You Can't See the Target

    3. Mai

    Bullseye: Aim True When You Can't See the Target

    🎙️ EPISODE SUMMARY The Plague sits down with Bullseye at The Nomad—joined by Stripes—to unpack a story of survival, brotherhood, and quiet resilience. From ICU recovery and losing his vision to learning how to stand on his own again, Bullseye shares how F3 Omaha became the proving ground for his comeback. What unfolds is a raw look at how men walking beside you—step by step—can pull you out of the Gloom and into something stronger. ✅ EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS Bullseye’s first post at Wild Kingdom—walking while others ranUsing a pulse oximeter mid-workout just to surviveThe untold story of PAX coordinating rides behind the scenesThe 45-minute fall on ice that defined his fearLearning to walk again—two houses at a timeFour months of avoiding the ground entirelyThe breakthrough moment: first time doing hammers on the groundThe internal celebration nobody else sawDart league travel and the origin of “Bullseye”Q Source, Shield Lock, and conversations that rebuilt his confidenceThe Impact Retreat moment that changed his fear of deathBaptism, leadership, and stepping into Site Q💬 KEY QUOTES “I was starving for oxygen.” — Early Workout “Nobody had a problem with me stopping.” — Early F3 Experience “I was there for 45 minutes… not able to get up.” — The Fall “That fear… it was real.” — The Ground Struggle “I didn’t get on the ground for four months.” — Recovery Arc “It was a big celebration for me internally.” — First Breakthrough “I had a fear of death… the Impact Retreat helped me move past that.” — Faith Shift “Where else would we ever meet?” — Brotherhood Reflection 🧭 CHAPTERS (00:00) Opening + Nomad Setup + Stripes Joins (01:24) Meet Bullseye + First Post Story (03:00) Walking the First Workout + Oxygen Struggles (05:30) Naming Story + Dart League Background (08:00) Competitive Dart Career + Identity (10:30) Fear, Judgment, and Early Mental Battles (12:00) The Fall on Ice (The Pit Moment) (14:30) Rehab, Recovery, and Physical Limitations (17:00) ICU, Vision Loss, and The Deep Pit (23:00) Learning to Walk Again + Early Wins (36:00) Breakthroughs, Joy, and Brotherhood Moments (52:00) Faith, Impact Retreat, and Baptism (1:07:00) Site Q Leadership + Final Reflections

    1 Std. 20 Min.
  7. Hook, Line, & Leader The Walleye Story of Brotherhood and Redemption

    26. Apr.

    Hook, Line, & Leader The Walleye Story of Brotherhood and Redemption

    EPISODE SUMMARY The Plague sits down with Walleye at The Nomad to unpack a story that moves from generational struggle to leadership through brotherhood. After years of battling weight and watching his father’s trajectory, Walleye found something different in F3—accountability, consistency, and men who wouldn’t let him drift. What follows is a transformation story that proves leadership starts when a man decides his story won’t end the same way. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS ✅EH at UNO basketball game finally lands after years of resistance ✅First workout: chaos, connection, and instant belonging ✅Coronado as the “no man left behind” on-ramp ✅The Pit: father’s death, emotional eating, identity struggle ✅Realization: motivation fails, brotherhood doesn’t ✅94-pound weight loss journey begins ✅Formation of the O-Line (shared struggle → shared growth) ✅Shield Lock built before he even knew the term ✅Trial-and-error across AOs (no shortcuts in the Gloom) ✅Naming story: fish punch → surgery → legacy ✅Faith journey reignited after years away ✅Leadership shift: “someone built this for me” ✅Impact awareness: being on another man’s “Mount Rushmore” ✅The “last domino”: stabilizing the Third F ✅Closing: patience, growth, and continuing the work KEY QUOTES “I got sold that night—and I’m so glad I was.” “There is no judgment… you will not be left alone.” “By society standards, I’ve been an obese man.” “When they stopped going, I stopped going.” “F3 has changed my life and potentially saved my life.” “It is not the workout.” “I would still go to coffee every day.” “You want to be in a Shield Lock with guys heading in the same direction.” “The last domino… is the Third F.” CHAPTERS 00:00 – Pre-Show: Faith & Shield Lock Context 02:10 – EH Story: UNO Basketball Game 05:30 – First Workout: Coronado Experience 08:20 – Coronado Philosophy: No Man Left Behind 10:30 – The Pit: Weight & Family Legacy 16:50 – Breaking Point: Health & Realization 22:30 – O-Line Formation: Brotherhood Begins 31:00 – Shield Lock in Practice 38:50 – Naming Story: “Walleye” 43:00 – Faith Journey: Returning to Belief 54:30 – Leadership: Giving It Away 01:02:50 – Legacy: Impact on Other Men 01:07:00 – Closing: Third F & What’s Next KEYWORDS & HASHTAGS #F3Omaha #GloomToGlue #Brotherhood #Leadership #Omaha #ShieldLock #SadClown #MensWork #Accountability #FitnessJourney #FaithJourney #WeightLoss #F3Nation #GiveItAway

    1 Std. 14 Min.
  8. Sandworm Season: Out of the Netherworld and Into the Gloom

    19. Apr.

    Sandworm Season: Out of the Netherworld and Into the Gloom

    🎬 EPISODE SUMMARY At The Nomad, The Plague sits down with Sandworm for a conversation that starts with job loss but unfolds into a deeper story about identity, isolation, and brotherhood. After losing his footing through two layoffs, Sandworm enters a quiet Sad Clown season—until an EH pulls him into F3 at exactly the right time. What follows is a slow transformation from fitness-focused outsider to a man shaped by fellowship, Shield Lock, and a redefined sense of purpose. 🔥 EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS Airport layoff after 13 years at YahooThe “catfish” job that exposed deeper instabilityThe real Pit: unemployment, rejection, and loss of identityEH by Little House at the exact moment of vulnerabilityFirst post at Wulff Den and the Beetlejuice → Sandworm namingEarly mindset: “This is just a workout”Turning point: pre-runs and coffees create real connectionBouncer staying back on a brutal pre-run (brotherhood in action)Showing up to a site at the wrong time (and staying anyway)Shift from performance → presence (“I’ll finish last, I don’t care”)Block Party / smaller groups → deeper relationshipsFormation of a Shield Lock (Billboard makes the ask)Studying Titus → evolving faith and leadershipThe McConaughey COT: “Someone to look up to…”Q-ing his home AO and releasing leadership the right wayStill showing up—not to lead, but to serveAdmitting he struggles to ask for help (but receives it anyway)Closing reflection: family, daughters, faith, and financial pressure 💬 KEY QUOTES “He kind of pounced when I was most vulnerable.” — ~04:30 “I got catfished.” — ~11:23 “That was the struggle… when unemployment actually hit.” — ~11:40 “I was like, why are these guys just talking?” — ~27:50 “Now I’m totally that person. I’ll be last. I don’t care.” — ~28:00 “Bouncer stayed back with me the whole time.” — ~18:30 “Don’t hesitate. Worst they can say is no.” — ~41:20 “I don’t want to let anyone else down.” — ~58:40 “If you come into this thinking it’s just fitness… give it time.” — ~53:30 “Someone to look up to. Someone to look forward to. Someone to chase.” — ~53:35 🧭 CHAPTERS (00:00) Cold Open & Nomad Setup(02:14) Meet Sandworm — Background & Early Connection to The Plague(03:30) The EH Story — Little House & Perfect Timing(04:30) The First Layoff — Airport Email & Initial Optimism(07:30) The Second Fall — “Catfish” Job & Real Unemployment Hits(12:00) Identity Crisis — Job Loss, Motivation, and Mental Grind(16:00) First Post — Wulff Den, Beatdown & Beetlejuice Naming(22:00) Early F3 Experience — Fitness Focus vs Fellowship Resistance(27:30) Turning Point — Pre-Runs, Coffees & Brotherhood Formation(35:00) Going Deeper — Block Party, Smaller Groups & Real Connection(40:00) Shield Lock Formation — Billboard’s Ask & Titus Study(47:00) Faith & Leadership — Church, QSource & Spiritual Growth(52:30) The McConaughey COT — Defining What a Man Needs(55:00) Leadership in Action — Q-ing, Letting Go & Serving Anyway(57:30–END) Closing Reflections — Family, Pressure & What Matters Most

    1 Std. 5 Min.

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Discussions with the men of F3Omaha regarding male community leadership and all things acceleration.

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