What The Hell Do I Know w/JB

Jason Becker

Faith, doubt, deconstruction, recovery, and real conversations for people questioning everything.

  1. vor 6 Tagen

    Episode 92 | April Ajoy: Is Christian Nationalism Driving People Away from Jesus?

    What happens when questioning your faith actually brings you closer to Jesus? In Episode 92 of "What the Hell Do I Know with JB", I sit down with author, speaker, comedian, and content creator April Ajoy (@aprilajoy) for one of the most thoughtful conversations we've had on the podcast. April grew up immersed in evangelical culture before beginning a long journey of questioning Christian nationalism, politics, church culture, and the beliefs she inherited. But contrary to what many assume, her journey wasn't away from Jesus—it was because of Jesus. Together we talk honestly about grief, deconstruction, LGBTQ relationships, church hurt, privilege, politics, and what it means to love people well while holding onto faith. This isn't a debate. It's two people asking difficult questions with humility and respect. Whether you agree with April (or JB), disagree with her, or find yourself somewhere in the middle, I hope this conversation challenges you to think more deeply and love people more generously. Topics include: • Christian Nationalism explained • Deconstruction and rebuilding faith • Church hurt and religious trauma • LGBTQ conversations inside the church • Politics and Christianity • Learning to hold convictions with humility • Why asking questions doesn't have to destroy faith • What Jesus looks like through a different lens April is the bestselling author of "Star Spangled Jesus", available wherever books are sold. 📚 Pick up "Star Spangled Jesus" today. Follow April: Instagram: @aprilajoy Follow me: Instagram: @_jason_becker Website: [www.vintagewisdom.org](http://www.vintagewisdom.org) A huge thank you to our sponsors for making these conversations possible: 🏡 Floorzz [www.floorzz.com](http://www.floorzz.com) 🛡️ TruNorth Pest Control [www.trunorthpest.com](http://www.trunorthpest.com) If this episode challenged you, encouraged you, or simply made you think, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone willing to have honest conversations. #AprilAjoy #ChristianNationalism #Deconstruction #Faith #Jesus #Church #Politics #Podcast #WhatTheHellDoIKnow #JasonBecker #Christianity #ChurchHurt #ReligiousTrauma #FaithJourney

    Episode 92 | April Ajoy: Is Christian Nationalism Driving People Away from Jesus?
  2. 14. Juli

    The Questions the Church Is Afraid to Ask | Summer Smash Up Pt. 3

    Welcome to **Part 3 of the Summer Smash Up**—a collection of four of my favorite conversations from this season of **What The Hell Do I Know with JB**. If you're new here, this is the perfect place to jump in. This episode brings together four incredible guests who aren't afraid to ask difficult questions, challenge assumptions, and remind us that truth is often found in honest conversation—not easy answers. 🔥 **Ellie Unbound** (@ellieunbound) shares her journey through deconstruction after growing up in the megachurch world and why asking hard questions doesn't have to mean abandoning faith. ❤️ **Quinn Padilla** (@itsquinnpadilla), therapist and abuse survivor, courageously explains the cycle of abuse, trauma bonds, and what healing can actually look like for survivors. 💪 **Nathaniel Blackburn** (@nathanielwblackburn), founder of **TruNorth Retreats** and former MTV *Real World* cast member, talks about why vulnerability isn't weakness—it's where real transformation begins. 📖 **Zack Lambert** (@zackwlambert), bestselling author of *Better Ways to Read the Bible* and Senior Pastor of Restore Austin, shares why context matters, why grace matters, and how reading Scripture differently can deepen—not diminish—your faith. These conversations don't ask you to agree with every opinion. They ask you to think. To listen. To have empathy. And maybe...to grow. Whether you've been in church your whole life, walked away from faith, experienced church hurt, survived abuse, or you're simply searching for honest conversations that matter, this episode is for you. 👇 I'd love to hear from you. **Which conversation impacted you the most?** Leave a comment and join the discussion. --- ### Connect with our guests Ellie Unbound Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ellieunbound Quinn Padilla Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsquinnpadilla Nathaniel Blackburn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nathanielwblackburn Zack Lambert Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zackwlambert --- ### Connect with JB Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_jason_becker Website: https://www.vintagewisdom.org --- ### Huge Thanks To Our Sponsors 🏡 **Floorzz** https://www.floorzz.com Whether you're building your dream home or remodeling your current one, Floorzz has you covered with exceptional flooring and customer service. 🐜 **TruNorth Pest Control** https://www.trunorthpest.com Keeping homes across Florida and Georgia pest-free with industry-leading service. Tell them JB sent you! --- 👍 If you enjoyed this episode, please Like, Subscribe, and Share. Every share helps these conversations reach someone who may need them. Thanks for being part of the journey. —JB #WhatTheHellDoIKnow #JasonBecker #Podcast #Faith #Deconstruction #ChurchHurt #MentalHealth #Healing #TraumaRecovery #Leadership #NathanielBlackburn #EllieUnbound #QuinnPadilla #ZackLambert #BetterWaysToReadTheBible

    The Questions the Church Is Afraid to Ask | Summer Smash Up Pt. 3
  3. 7. Juli

    4 Conversations That Will Challenge How You Think | Summer Smashup Part 2

    Welcome to Episode 90 of What The Hell Do I Know with JB! ☀️ Summer Smashup Part 2 is here. If you're new to the show, this is one of the best places to start. This special episode brings together some of the most powerful, emotional, and thought-provoking conversations we've had this year. Four incredible guests. Four completely different stories. One common thread...real people having honest conversations. In this episode you'll hear: 🎙️ Jim Pierce sharing his heartbreaking story of childhood abuse, healing, forgiveness, and why getting help can change everything. 🎙️ Valentina Piloneita (@leerparacrecersrb) discussing immigration, education, reading, and why every child deserves hope regardless of where they were born. 🎙️ Marla Taviano (@marlataviano) challenging long-held assumptions about faith, love, heaven, and what it really means to love your neighbor. 🎙️ Shawn Vinson (@svinson9999) opening up about addiction, recovery, fatherhood, and the moment that completely changed his life. These conversations don't all agree with one another—and that's exactly the point. At What The Hell Do I Know, we believe growth happens when we're willing to listen before we judge. If this episode makes you think, laugh, wrestle with something, or gives you hope... 👍 Like the video 💬 Leave a comment 🔔 Subscribe for more honest conversations every week. Follow Jason Becker 📸 Instagram: @_jason_becker 🌐 Website: https://www.vintagewisdom.org Guests 📚 Valentina Piloneita Instagram: @leerparacrecersrb ✍️ Marla Taviano Instagram: @marlataviano 💪 Shawn Vinson Instagram: @svinson9999 Huge Thanks To Our Sponsors 🏠 Floorzz https://www.floorzz.com Whether you're remodeling your home or building your dream house, Floorzz has you covered. 🐜 TruNorth Pest Control https://www.trunorthpest.com Protecting homes and businesses throughout Florida and Georgia with world-class pest control.\ Thank you for supporting the sponsors that make this podcast possible. Watch the entire What The Hell Do I Know Podcast Playlist for more conversations that challenge perspectives, inspire growth, and remind us that none of us have it all figured out. #WhatTheHellDoIKnow #JasonBecker #Podcast #SummerSmashup #Faith #Recovery #AddictionRecovery #Immigration #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Leadership #Healing #ChristianPodcast #Storytelling #Hope

    4 Conversations That Will Challenge How You Think | Summer Smashup Part 2
  4. 30. Juni

    Summer Smash-Up Part 1 | Marriage, Parenting, Faith & Mental Toughness

    ☀️ SUMMER SMASH-UP | PART 1 OF 3 ☀️ I'm taking a little summer break, but I didn't want to leave you hanging. So I dug through some of the most powerful, thought-provoking, and meaningful conversations from Season 3 and put together this Summer Smash-Up series. In Part 1, you'll hear four unforgettable moments: 🎙️ Meaghan Hampton (@soulcareforfamilies) on parenting, grace, discipline, and why fear-based parenting often misses the mark. 🎙️ Jason Becker (me) (@_jason_becker) reflecting on 25 years of marriage, the lessons learned through counseling, raising kids, faith, and the hard work that builds a lasting relationship. 🎙️ Doug Pagitt (@dougpagitt) discussing politics, faith, immigration, empathy, and what it means to truly see the humanity in people who think differently than we do. 🎙️ Dr. Brandon Orr (former Director of Sports Psychology for the University of Missouri Wrestling Program and attached to the 7th Special Forces Group Green Berets) sharing elite performance psychology, mental toughness, discipline, and one of the most powerful life lessons I've heard all year. This episode is about: ✅ Marriage ✅ Parenting ✅ Faith ✅ Leadership ✅ Mental Toughness ✅ Grace ✅ Personal Growth ✅ Becoming a Better Human Whether you're on vacation, driving to work, sitting at the beach, or just looking for something meaningful to listen to, I hope these conversations challenge and encourage you. Buckle up. This is Part 1 of the Summer Smash-Up. Special Thanks To Our Sponsors 🏠 Floorzz.com Whether you're building, remodeling, or upgrading your home, the team at Floorzz can help with flooring, design, and project planning anywhere in the continental United States. Visit Floorzz.com. 🛡️ True North Pest Control Serving the Emerald Coast, Central Florida, and Georgia. From ants and spiders to full-service pest prevention, True North Pest Control has you covered. Visit TrueNorthPest.com. #SummerSmashUp #WhatTheHellDoIKnow #JasonBecker #Marriage #Parenting #Faith #Leadership #MentalToughness #PersonalGrowth #Podcast #MarriageAdvice #ParentingTips #ChristianPodcast #SelfImprovement #BrandonOrr #DougPagitt #MeaghanHampton

    Summer Smash-Up Part 1 | Marriage, Parenting, Faith & Mental Toughness
  5. 23. Juni

    Zack Lambert: Better Ways to Read the Bible, Ask Hard Questions & Build a Faith That Heals | ep 88

    Episode 88 of *What the Hell Do I Know with JB* welcomes pastor, author, and thought leader **Zack Lambert**, founder and lead pastor of Restore Austin. Zack joins Jason Becker for a powerful and honest conversation about faith, church culture, biblical interpretation, inclusion, doubt, and what it means to follow Jesus in today's world. Drawing from his book *Better Ways to Read the Bible: Transforming a Weapon of Harm into a Tool of Healing*, Zack shares why so many people are walking away from the church, how harmful interpretations of scripture have impacted generations, and why asking difficult questions may actually strengthen faith rather than destroy it. Together, Jason and Zack discuss: • Why millions of Americans have stopped reading the Bible • Church growth, Christian nationalism, and the future of faith communities • LGBTQ+ inclusion and what scripture actually says • Women in leadership and the history of patriarchy in the church • Why curiosity, doubt, and questioning should be welcomed • How Jesus consistently expanded the circle of belonging • The difference between religion that harms and faith that heals • Raising kids who can think critically about faith • Finding safe spaces to ask difficult spiritual questions Whether you're deeply religious, spiritually curious, deconstructing your faith, or simply searching for a better understanding of scripture, this conversation offers wisdom, compassion, and hope. 📖 Learn more about Zack Lambert: https://www.restoreaustin.org 📸 Follow Zack: @zackwlambert 🌐 Visit Jason Becker: https://www.vintagewisdom.org 📸 Follow Jason: @_jason_becker Special thanks to our sponsors: 🏠 Floorzz Premium flooring solutions for homes and businesses. 🧭 TruNorth Helping individuals and organizations navigate growth, leadership, and purpose. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who could use a little more hope, curiosity, and grace in their journey. #WhatTheHellDoIKnowWithJB #ZackLambert #JasonBecker #WhatTheHellDoIKnowWithJB #BetterWaysToReadTheBible #ProgressiveChristianity #FaithDeconstruction #BibleStudy #ChristianPodcast #Jesus #ChurchHurt #LGBTQInclusion #RestoreAustin #FaithAndCulture #SpiritualGrowth #Christianity #Theology #PodcastLife #VintageWisdom #FaithJourney #ReligionAndCulture

    Zack Lambert: Better Ways to Read the Bible, Ask Hard Questions & Build a Faith That Heals | ep 88
  6. 16. Juni

    Did Feminism Destroy Western Civilization? | Dr. Vishal Mangalwadi & Jason Becker ep 87

    In this episode of What The Hell Do I Know with JB, I sit down with renowned author, philosopher, and cultural commentator Dr. Vishal Mangalwadi for what started as a fascinating conversation about Christianity, Western civilization, truth, freedom, and the Bible's influence on culture. But somewhere along the way, the conversation took a turn neither of us expected. What began as a discussion about faith, history, and the future of the Church became a spirited debate about feminism, marriage, authority, equality, and whether modern Western culture has been strengthened—or weakened—by the pursuit of gender equality. Dr. Mangalwadi argues that feminism has contributed to the decline of the family and weakened the foundations of Western civilization. I wasn't convinced. What followed was an honest exchange between two people who share many of the same values, yet see some of the most important cultural questions of our time very differently. As always, the goal wasn't to win an argument. The goal was to pursue truth. The Definition of Feminism Referenced in the Opening Feminism is the belief in and advocacy for the social, political, economic, and cultural equality of all genders, especially focusing on addressing the historical and ongoing inequalities faced by women. At its core, feminism argues that people should have equal rights, opportunities, and treatment regardless of gender. Topics We Discuss • Is the Bible responsible for shaping Western civilization? • Did Christianity create the foundations of freedom and democracy? • Has the American Church lost its influence? • Why Dr. Mangalwadi believes evangelicalism has been defeated culturally • The role of marriage and family in building strong societies • Can equality and authority coexist? • Has feminism strengthened or weakened women? • The future of Christianity in America • Why disagreement can be healthy when truth matters About Dr. Vishal Mangalwadi Dr. Vishal Mangalwadi is an Indian philosopher, social reformer, theologian, and bestselling author known for exploring the relationship between biblical ideas and the development of modern civilization. 🔗 Website: https://revelationmovement.com 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vishalmangalwadi Connect With Jason Becker 🌐 https://vintagewisdom.org 📸 https://www.instagram.com/_jason_becker Sponsors This episode is brought to you by: 🏠 Floorzz Premium flooring solutions that help transform houses into homes. 🐜 TruNorth Pest Control Protecting homes, families, and businesses with professional pest management services. Join The Conversation This episode touches on topics that matter deeply to many people. Whether you agree with Dr. Mangalwadi, agree with me, or think we're both wrong, I'd love to hear your thoughts. Can a society pursue equality without losing stability? Has feminism helped women, hurt women, or both? What role should faith play in shaping culture? Drop your thoughts in the comments. Let's disagree thoughtfully and pursue truth together. #WhatTheHellDoIKnow #JasonBecker #VishalMangalwadi #Christianity #Feminism #FaithAndCulture #WesternCivilization #BiblicalWorldview #Marriage #Family #CultureWar #Religion #Podcast #ChristianPodcast #Truth #Democracy #Faith #Church #Culture #Freedom

    Did Feminism Destroy Western Civilization? | Dr. Vishal Mangalwadi & Jason Becker ep 87
  7. 9. Juni

    MTV Fame, Addiction & Redemption | Nathaniel Blackburn (Real World Seattle) | Episode 86

    From MTV Fame to Rock Bottom to Redemption. In Episode 86 of What the Hell Do I Know with JB, Jason Becker sits down with Nathaniel Blackburn (@nathanielwblackburn), best known as Nathan from MTV's iconic Real World Seattle season and one of the original stars of The Challenge. Nathaniel opens up like never before about life after reality TV fame, the pressure of sudden success, addiction, alcoholism, homelessness, suicidal thoughts, and the painful search for identity that followed his years in the spotlight. What started as a dream of fame quickly became a battle for survival. This conversation goes far beyond reality television. Nathaniel shares the childhood trauma that shaped him, the internal voices that drove his addiction, the moment he hit rock bottom, and how faith, recovery, vulnerability, and purpose ultimately transformed his life. Today, Nathaniel is the Founder and Executive Director of True North Retreats, helping men find healing, freedom, purpose, and authentic community through transformational retreats and mentorship. Topics include: ✔️ MTV's Real World Seattle ✔️ The infamous "Slap Heard Around the Real World" ✔️ Early reality TV vs today's reality television ✔️ The rise of The Challenge ✔️ Addiction and alcoholism ✔️ Recovery and sobriety ✔️ Faith and spirituality ✔️ Trauma and healing ✔️ Men's mental health ✔️ Vulnerability and masculinity ✔️ Marriage, family, and forgiveness ✔️ Why so many men are silently struggling ✔️ Building True North Retreats This is one of the most raw, vulnerable, and powerful conversations we've had on the podcast. Connect with Nathaniel Blackburn: 📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nathanielwblackburn 🌐 True North Retreats: https://trunorthretreats.org Follow Jason Becker: 📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_jason_becker Whether you're building a new home or remodeling an existing one, Floorzz has everything you need—from hardwood and tile to luxury vinyl and laminate. Their team of designers can help you find the perfect flooring solution and ship it directly to your door. 🌐 https://floorzz.com Family-owned, family-operated, and committed to doing the job right the first time. If you're dealing with pests, termites, mosquitoes, or general pest prevention, call the team that JB trusts. 🌐 https://trunorthpestcontrol.com #NathanielBlackburn #RealWorldSeattle #MTV #TheChallenge #AddictionRecovery #Sobriety #Faith #MensMentalHealth #Recovery #Podcast #JasonBecker #TrueNorthRetreats #MentalHealth #Redemption #WhatTheHellDoIKnow

    MTV Fame, Addiction & Redemption | Nathaniel Blackburn (Real World Seattle) | Episode 86
  8. 2. Juni

    I Was Married to an Abuser for 10 Years... and Didn't Know It | Quinn Padilla

    For years, Quinn Padilla believed she was simply married to a difficult man. What she didn't realize was that she was trapped in a cycle of emotional abuse, manipulation, control, and trauma bonding that would keep her stuck for nearly a decade. In this powerful conversation, Quinn shares the raw truth about surviving an abusive marriage to a Green Beret, the hidden forms of abuse that often go unnoticed, the threat of suicide that kept her trapped, and the heartbreaking aftermath that followed. Today, Quinn is a Trauma Therapist and Abuse Recovery Coach helping women identify abusive patterns, heal their nervous systems, and reclaim their lives. We dive deep into: • Why strong, intelligent women stay in abusive relationships • The psychology of trauma bonds • Gaslighting, manipulation, and emotional abuse • Red flags most people miss early in relationships • How abuse impacts children • PTSD, nervous system healing, and recovery • Brainspotting therapy and trauma treatment • Life after abuse and finding healthy love This is one of the most important conversations we've had on the show. If you know someone struggling in a toxic or abusive relationship, share this episode with them. 🎙️ Guest: Quinn Padilla 📲 Instagram: @itsquinnpadilla 🎙️ Host: Jason Becker 📲 Instagram: @_jason_becker If this conversation helped you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it. #QuinnPadilla #TraumaTherapy #AbuseRecovery #TraumaBond #EmotionalAbuse #MentalHealth #HealingJourney #PTSDRecovery #Brainspotting #DomesticAbuseAwareness #WhatTheHellDoIKnow #Podcast #RelationshipAdvice #Gaslighting #TraumaHealing

    I Was Married to an Abuser for 10 Years... and Didn't Know It | Quinn Padilla

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