Fender Gender

Eyma and Maxine
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Welcome to Fender Gender! A podcast of candid conversations about life, motorcycles, and the trans experience. Hosted by Eyma (he/him) and Maxine (she/her), we tell stories, joke around, and dive into everything from hot takes to heartfelt truths. Expect honest talk, important issues, and a little delirious discourse along the way. We hope you enjoy :) New episodes every two weeks on Spotify | YouTube | Apple Podcasts | Fendergenderpodcast.com

Episodes

  1. Trans History for Dummies: Roberta Cowell

    31 JAN

    Trans History for Dummies: Roberta Cowell

    Roberta Cowell was a racing driver, Spitfire pilot, and the first legally recognized trans woman in Britain. After a POW capture in WWII, a failed marriage, and depression, she transitioned with help from Michael Dillon and Sir Harold Gillies. She lived loud and public until she withdrew from the world and died nearly unknown. Roberta Cowell, Roberta Cowell's Story (Autobiography) https://legacyprojectchicago.org/person/roberta-cowell https://www.brooklandsmuseum.com/discover/our-history/brooklands-stories/brooklands-stories-roberta-cowell/

    4 min

  2. 26 JAN

    Part 2 of LJ's insights: Navigating Trans Identity in Diverse Spaces

    In this episode of Fender Gender, hosts Eyma and Maxine engage in a raw and insightful conversation With LJ about their experiences. They discuss the challenges and nuances of navigating different social settings, such as universities and skateboarding communities, and share personal stories of coming out and transitioning. The episode highlights the dynamics of acceptance and discrimination, aiming to foster open dialogue and understanding.

    29 min
  3. Trans History for Dummies: Micheal Dillon

    13 JAN · BONUS

    Trans History for Dummies: Micheal Dillon

    In this episode of "Trans History for Dummies", we explore the life of Michael Dillon, the first known trans man to undergo phalloplasty in the 1940s. The episode delves into Dillon's early life, his struggles with identity, and his groundbreaking medical journey. It highlights his interactions with key figures like Dr. George Foss and Sir Harold Gillies, and his eventual transition to a Buddhist monk named Jivaka. The episode underscores the importance of gender-affirming care and the challenges faced by trans individuals in history. Further reading / sources: Wikipedia - good general overview of his life and transition:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Dillon University of Aberdeen blog - “Laurence Michael Dillon: doctor, theologian, and trans pioneer”:https://www.abdn.ac.uk/students/student-channel/blog/laurence-michael-dillon-doctor-theologian-and-trans-pioneer/ Beaumont Society - “Michael Dillon – the first trans man to undergo phalloplasty”:https://beaumontsociety.org/michael-dillon-the-first-trans-man-to-undergo-phalloplasty/ History at Birmingham - “Trans Pioneers: Michael Dillon & Roberta Cowell”:https://blog.bham.ac.uk/historybham/lgbtqia-history-month-trans-pioneers-michael-dillon-roberta-cowell/ Legacy Project Chicago - profile of Michael Dillon:https://legacyprojectchicago.org/person/michael-dillon Biographical exhibition (Oxford St Anne’s) - images and timeline:https://www.st-annes.ox.ac.uk/life-here/library/blog/michael-dillon/ National Library catalogue entry for Self: A Study in Ethics and Endocrinology (his own book):https://catalog.nlm.nih.gov/discovery/fulldisplay?vid=01NLM_INST%3A01NLM_INST&docid=alma99315573406676&context=L PDF of Out of the Ordinary: A Life of Gender and Spiritual Transitions (modern biography about him):https://transreads.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/2019-03-29_5c9e4337abd17_michael-dillon-out-of-the-ordinary-a-life-of-gender-a.pdf

    7 min

  4. 15/12/2025

    LJ's Insights on Non-Binary Identity and Transitioning

    Introduction: In this episode of Fender Gender, hosts Eyma and Maxine welcome LJ, a non-binary trans masculine poet and educator, to share their journey of self-discovery and the complexities of gender identity. The conversation dives deep into the nuances of being non-binary, the experience of transition, and the importance of community support. Understanding Identity: The episode begins with LJ sharing their background as a Chinese adoptee, highlighting the unique intersections of their identity. They reflect on how labels like "trans masculine" and "trans man" can mean different things to different people, emphasizing personal preference in defining one’s identity. The Journey of Discovery: LJ reveals that their journey toward self-identity began at the age of 16 during a queer summer camp in Ontario. Surrounded by trans masculine individuals, they realized that being non-binary was a valid and recognized identity, which opened up new possibilities for them. Hormones and the Body: As the conversation progresses, the topic of hormone therapy comes up. LJ discusses their initial hesitations about starting testosterone and how they navigated the changes it brought. Despite passing as male after starting hormones, they maintain a strong identification as non-binary. LJ describes their experience as being on a spectrum rather than strictly identifying as a man, which reflects the fluidity of gender identity. Unexpected Realizations: Throughout their transition, LJ faced unexpected challenges and realizations. They recount how their mental image of themselves aligned with the physical changes brought about by testosterone. This alignment provided a sense of validation and fulfillment, as LJ felt they were finally stepping into a part of themselves that had always existed but had not fully manifested. Familial Relationships and Acceptance: The conversation also touches on family dynamics, particularly how LJ’s non-binary identity was received by their parents. They share the complexities of being understood within a family that may find it easier to grasp a binary identity. LJ reflects on their childhood experiences and how their interests and behaviours hinted at their true identity long before they had the language to express it. Conclusion: The episode wraps up with key takeaways about the importance of community, self-acceptance, and the ongoing journey of exploring one’s identity. LJ’s story serves as a reminder of the diverse experiences within the gender spectrum and the need for understanding and support. Ultimately, embracing one’s true self is a journey worth taking, no matter where it leads. Podcast theme music by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Transistor.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Learn ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠how to start a podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here. Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/FenderGenderPodcast Submission Link: fendergenderpodcast.com

    28 min

  5. 03/11/2025

    Performative Maleness

    In this episode of Fender Gender, Eyma, Maxine, and Keanda dive into performative maleness and the personal evolution of self-expression, we share our unique perspectives on living authentically.  Podcast theme music by ⁠⁠⁠⁠Transistor.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠. Learn ⁠⁠⁠⁠how to start a podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ here. Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/FenderGenderPodcast Submission Link: fendergenderpodcast.com

    42 min

  6. 20/10/2025

    Coming out at work

    In this episode of Fender Gender, Eyma, Maxine, and Keanda talk about the unique challenges of being trans in the workplace. We dive into the differences between coming out socially versus professionally. Podcast theme music by ⁠⁠⁠Transistor.fm⁠⁠⁠. Learn ⁠⁠⁠how to start a podcast⁠⁠⁠ here. Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/FenderGenderPodcast Submission Link: fendergenderpodcast.com

    39 min

  7. 20/10/2025

    The first time I felt right in my gender

    In this episode of Fender Gender, Eyma, Maxine, and Keanda talk about the first time they truly felt right in their gender. What that moment meant, how it shaped their confidence, and how it changed the way they moved through the world. Podcast theme music by ⁠⁠Transistor.fm⁠⁠. Learn ⁠⁠how to start a podcast⁠⁠ here. Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/FenderGenderPodcast Submission Link: fendergenderpodcast.com

    24 min

  8. 07/10/2025

    Dating While Trans

    Dive in with us into the weird, wonderful world of dating as trans people. In this episode, we explore the challenges, triumphs, and heartfelt stories that define the trans dating experience. Things get a little spicy, a little chaotic, and definitely honest because once sex comes up, we don’t shut up. Join us for a raw, funny, and unfiltered convo about love, attraction, and everything that makes dating while trans both complicated and beautiful. P.S. We filmed outside, so apologies for a bit of background noise here and there. If you want to skip the motorcycle talk, the dating convo starts at 17:46. Covert Art: punk_puss Podcast theme music by ⁠Transistor.fm⁠. Learn ⁠how to start a podcast⁠ here. Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/FenderGenderPodcast Submission Link: fendergenderpodcast.com

    46 min
  9. Navigating Friendships: Before & After Transition

    22/09/2025

    Navigating Friendships: Before & After Transition

    Join us as we share our experiences navigating friendships after transitioning. We discuss the challenges and joys of maintaining connections, coming out to friends, and finding new communities. This episode offers a heartfelt look at how our relationships have evolved and the support we've found along the way. Covert Art: punk_puss Podcast theme music by Transistor.fm. Learn how to start a podcast here. Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/FenderGenderPodcast Submission Link: fendergenderpodcast.com

    25 min
  10. Trans Elders

    20/09/2025

    Trans Elders

    In our first episode of Fender Gender, we explore the invaluable role of trans elders in our community. Join us as we discuss their wisdom, the challenges they face, and the impact they have on younger generations. Through personal stories and heartfelt conversations, we highlight the importance of preserving and sharing the experiences of those who have paved the way. Covert Art by: punk_puss Podcast theme music by Transistor.fm. Learn how to start a podcast here. Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/FenderGenderPodcast Submission Link: fendergenderpodcast.com

    25 min

  11. TRAILER

    Fender Gender: Meet Your Hosts

    What do motorcycles, messy conversations, and being trans have in common? That’s what Fender Gender is here to explore. Hosted by Eyma and Maxine, this podcast dives into stories, hot takes, and truths that don’t always get told. Here’s a first taste of what’s coming. Podcast theme music by Transistor.fm. Learn how to start a podcast here.

    1 min

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About

Welcome to Fender Gender! A podcast of candid conversations about life, motorcycles, and the trans experience. Hosted by Eyma (he/him) and Maxine (she/her), we tell stories, joke around, and dive into everything from hot takes to heartfelt truths. Expect honest talk, important issues, and a little delirious discourse along the way. We hope you enjoy :) New episodes every two weeks on Spotify | YouTube | Apple Podcasts | Fendergenderpodcast.com

Information

  • Creator
    Eyma and Maxine
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    11
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Eyma and Maxine