Send us Fan Mail Joy does not disappear. We just train ourselves to postpone it. Avik sits down with Ulrika Torquato to name a strange habit many of us share: treating happiness like it lives somewhere up ahead, after the goal, after things calm down, after life finally starts. Meanwhile, a hundred small moments pass by unnoticed: the first sip of coffee, a breath that softens your shoulders, a patch of light on the wall, a laugh you almost ignored. We talk about why we delay our own happiness, what we get wrong about joy, and how a tiny shift in attention can change the texture of an ordinary day. Ulrika brings a beautifully unusual lens shaped by a background spanning medicine and opera and her current work in palliative care psychology. When you stop assuming you have endless time, your priorities sharpen fast. We explore why thinking about death is actually thinking about life, and how mortality awareness can make you more present, more grateful, and yes, happier. This is not a pitch for forced optimism. Ulrika rejects toxic positivity and makes room for hard days, stress, and real pain, while still showing how to find something small that lets you breathe again. You will leave with practical tools you can use today: noticing colour, texture, sound, smell, comfort, nature, and the moments you usually rush past while reaching for your phone. Ulrika also shares her Joyry app and the idea of collecting tiny “butterflies” of joy and releasing them as a reminder that nothing is permanent, including the moments we try to cling to. If you have felt like you are waiting for life to begin, press play, then share this with a friend, subscribe, and leave a review so more people can stop postponing their joy. Support the show Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? 👉 DM me on PodMatch 💬 Want to come on the show? Be a Guest 🌐 Explore the full network | 📨 Newsletter | 👥 LinkedIn Community This isn't self-help. It's self-honesty. 💼 Sponsor Our Show | 🎬 Check Our Services 📌 Disclaimer This episode is for educational and informational purposes only. Guest views are personal and do not represent the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify or endorse guest statements. Nothing here is medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional. Engage critically. Third-party content referenced under fair use. Guests are responsible for their own statements. Concerns? Contact us | Full disclaimer. By listening, you accept this disclaimer in full.