Just Ask Her - Dating Advice for Single Men

Hosted by Gracie Pleschourt — Dating Coach + Confidence Expert for Men
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Honest dating advice for single men from two women. Dating expert Gracie Pleschourt (@datingwithgracie on IG) and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt break down real dating questions, real struggles, and what actually works in modern dating. Each week, they dive into listener-submitted questions about their toughest dating challenges and deliver unfiltered, constructive feedback. Submit yours here: https://forms.gle/34JLMADMcxhqdb7X7

  1. hace 2 d

    How to Know When a Relationship Isn't Right (Ep. 83)

    Ever wonder whether you're reading the signs correctly—or holding onto a relationship that's no longer moving forward? In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy answer three real dating submissions from men navigating complicated relationship dynamics. From mixed signals with a coworker to becoming someone's emotional rescuer and exploring unconventional relationship structures, this episode helps you separate emotion from reality so you can make healthier dating decisions. If you're dating after heartbreak, divorce, or years of being single, this conversation will help you build confidence, establish stronger boundaries, and focus on relationships that genuinely align with what you want long term.  Self-Made Man Dating Journal -  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1 Use Coupon SMMAN20OFF when purchasing Journal for 20% off. Submission Form: https://forms.gle/e7LTvCkT1fhkFQEF8 Apply to work with us: https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/bookings/dwg-consultation-call Time Stamps / Chapters:  00:00 Opening Thought: Sometimes the Right Relationship Isn't the Next One 00:00:26 Welcome Back! Fourth of July & Birthday Celebrations 00:02:18 Family Traditions, Minnesota Lakes & Summer Plans 00:05:22 Memorial Day vs. Labor Day (And the White Clothes Debate) 00:09:21 Dating Dilemma #1: Mixed Signals From a Coworker 00:10:40 The Signs That Made Him Think She Was Interested 00:13:06 Did She Friend Zone Him? Reading the Situation Clearly 00:15:18 Why Flirting Doesn't Guarantee a Relationship 00:16:32 Stop Giving Your Best to Someone Who Isn't Choosing You 00:18:35 Rejection Doesn't Define Your Worth 00:19:00 Dating Dilemma #2: Love, Rescue, or Emotional Dependency? 00:22:28 Are You Trying to Save Someone Instead of Dating Them? 00:25:25 Why Financial Support Can Hurt a New Relationship 00:27:03 Trauma Bonds, Therapy & Taking a 90-Day Pause 00:31:00 The Self-Made Man Dating Journal Announcement 00:32:11 Dating Dilemma #3: Can a Poly Relationship Actually Work? 00:35:24 "If I Was Coaching Him..." Tracy's Honest Take 00:39:01 Are You Truly Okay With This Relationship? 00:42:14 Scarcity Mindset After Divorce & Dating Again 00:44:03 The Most Important Question to Ask Yourself 00:46:31 Final Thoughts & How to Submit Your Dating Questions #DatingAdvice #Relationships #DatingCoach

    47 min

  2. 24 jun

    How to Rebuild Trust After Emotional Betrayal in a Relationship (Ep. 82)

    Trust, honesty, and relationship values are at the center of this episode of Just Ask Her. We answer three real dating questions from listeners navigating betrayal, dating apps, and faith-based relationships. First, we discuss whether trust can be rebuilt after a partner secretly continues communicating with someone from their past. Then we tackle a dating app dilemma involving age misrepresentation and what it means for self-trust and future relationships. Finally, we explore faith-based dating and whether staying true to your values is limiting your options—or helping you find the right person. If you're dating intentionally and looking for healthier relationships, this episode offers practical insight into trust, accountability, confidence, and alignment. Self-Made Man Dating Journal -  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1 Use Coupon SMMAN20OFF when purchasing Journal for 20% off. Submission Form: https://forms.gle/e7LTvCkT1fhkFQEF8 Apply to work with us: https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/bookings/dwg-consultation-call Time Stamps / Chapters: 00:00 Hidden Messaging & "Mature Growth" Debate 00:29 Welcome Back to Just Ask Her 02:18 Listener Question #1: Can I Trust My Fiancée? 07:18 Accountability After Betrayal 09:46 Is Couples Therapy the Right Move? 12:36 Listener Question #2: I Lied About My Age on Dating Apps 17:20 Taking Responsibility for Dating App Misrepresentation 20:09 Better Ways to Meet Women Than Dating Apps 26:29 Self-Made Man Dating Journal Announcement 27:52 Listener Question #3: Faith-Based Dating Challenges 31:21 Should You Change Your Beliefs to Find Love? 34:04 Are Faith-Based Women Really “Guarded”? 36:06 Does Height Matter as Much as Men Think? 41:11 Episode Wrap-Up #DatingAdvice #RelationshipTrust #FaithBasedDating Keywords: rebuild trust after betrayal emotional betrayal in relationships dating advice for men relationship trust issues dating after 40 online dating honesty lying on dating apps faith based dating Christian dating advice Catholic dating dating confidence for men relationship accountability healthy relationship boundaries self trust and dating dating and personal values

    42 min

  3. 17 jun

    Dating Isn't the Problem—You're Using the Wrong Playbook (Ep. 81)

    Dating with low self-esteem, autism traits, OCD, or years of rejection can feel impossible—but what if the problem isn't you? In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy respond to a powerful listener submission from a 26-year-old man who feels like dating was stacked against him from the start. They discuss self-worth, attraction, neurodivergence, confidence, and why changing your dating strategy can be more effective than simply trying harder. They also answer questions about dating intentionally in university and how to handle mixed signals when someone seems interested but never follows through. Whether you're struggling with confidence, navigating dating as a neurodivergent man, or simply trying to stop repeating the same patterns, this episode offers practical perspective and encouragement. Self-Made Man Dating Journal -  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1 Use Coupon SMMAN20OFF when purchasing Journal for 20% off. Submission Form: https://forms.gle/e7LTvCkT1fhkFQEF8 Apply to work with us: https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/bookings/dwg-consultation-call Time Stamps / Chapters:  00:00 Mistakes Create Growth 00:00:22 Welcome Back to Just Ask Her 00:05:15 Country Music Festivals & Dating Event Ideas 00:08:10 Why Ratings and Reviews Matter 00:08:51 Listener Question: "Should I Give Up on Dating?" 00:13:32 Challenging the "Unattractive" Narrative 00:20:01 Why You May Be Using the Wrong Dating Playbook 00:24:09 Small Wins That Build Dating Confidence 00:28:56 Self-Made Man Dating Journal Announcement 00:30:06 Dating Intentionally at University 00:33:02 Why Mistakes Are the Curriculum 00:41:25 Mixed Signals and Rejection in Dating 00:47:01 Listener Comments and Coaching Insights 00:56:19 Join the Dating Community #DatingAdvice #DatingConfidence #Relationships Keywords: dating with low self esteem autism and dating advice OCD and relationships dating confidence for men how to stop fearing rejection intentional dating dating advice for college students university dating tips mixed signals in dating attraction beyond looks self worth and dating dating mindset for men overcoming dating rejection neurodivergent dating advice how to build confidence dating

    57 min

  4. 10 jun

    Dating Burnout, Breakups & Moving On: What Men Need to Hear (Ep. 80)

    Feeling stuck in your dating life? Whether you're constantly getting friend-zoned, struggling with dating burnout, or trying to move on after a breakup, this episode breaks down the mindset shifts that can help you regain confidence and take control of your dating journey. Gracie and Tracy answer real listener submissions from men navigating long-term singleness, heartbreak, and the challenge of knowing when it's actually time to put yourself back out there. They discuss dating patterns, emotional recovery, self-awareness, and why waiting around for someone to come back may be holding you back. If you're tired of feeling like dating isn't working for you, this episode offers practical perspective and honest coaching that can help you move forward. Self-Made Man Dating Journal -  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1 Use Coupon SMMAN20OFF when purchasing Journal for 20% off. Submission Form: https://forms.gle/e7LTvCkT1fhkFQEF8 Time Stamps / Chapters:  00:00 You Control More Than You Think 00:20 Welcome Back to Just Ask Her 02:27 Age Gap Dating & Reality TV Discussion 09:12 Listener Question: "Am I Destined to Be Alone?" 10:12 Why Being a Good Guy Isn't the Problem 13:21 The Dating Strategy That Isn't Working 17:11 Listener Question: Breakup After a Promising Relationship 20:19 Recovering After Divorce and Long-Term Relationships 23:43 Why Hope Can Keep You Stuck 27:24 The 90-Day Reset After a Breakup 31:56 Listener Question: When Should I Start Dating Again? 34:02 Are You Truly Ready to Move Forward? 38:28 Making Dating Fun Again 42:20 Celebrating 80 Episodes of Just Ask Her #DatingAdvice #BreakupRecovery #DatingConfidence Keywords: dating advice for men dating burnout getting friend zoned breakup recovery moving on from an ex dating confidence how to start dating again emotional healing after breakup dating mindset relationship advice for men overcoming dating frustration dating after heartbreak healthy dating habits finding love after divorce dating with intention

    45 min

  5. 3 jun

    How to Overcome Approach Anxiety in Dating (Ep. 79)

    Approach anxiety, fear of rejection, and limiting beliefs are keeping too many men stuck in modern dating. In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy break down how men can build real confidence, stop pre-rejecting themselves, and create meaningful connections in dating.  From navigating political and religious differences to dating as a divorced dad, this episode is packed with practical mindset shifts and actionable advice for men who want to stop overthinking and start showing up with confidence. If you’ve ever felt intimidated approaching women, struggled with dating apps, or questioned your value in the dating world, this episode is for you. Self-Made Man Dating Journal -  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1 Use Coupon SMMAN20OFF when purchasing Journal for 20% off. Submission Form: https://forms.gle/e7LTvCkT1fhkFQEF8 Time Stamps / Chapters:  00:00 Anxiety Never Fully Goes Away 00:00:36 Welcome Back to Just Ask Her 00:03:27 Should You Date Someone With Opposite Beliefs? 00:06:04 Are Politics & Religion Actually Dealbreakers? 00:11:03 The Danger of Pre-Rejecting Yourself 00:13:03 “I’ve Approached Exactly Zero Women” 00:17:17 Confidence Comes From Reps, Not Talent 00:18:17 Why Discomfort Is the Price of Growth 00:20:47 The Biggest Mistake Men Make Approaching Women 00:22:02 How to Start Small With Social Confidence 00:24:02 Dating as a Divorced Dad 00:30:42 Why Getting Numbers Isn’t the Real Problem 00:40:13 The Right Way to Text After Getting Her Number 00:42:18 Listener Success Story + Final Advice #DatingAdvice#Confidence#ModernDating Keywords: approach anxiety in dating dating confidence for men fear of rejection dating dating after divorce divorced dad dating advice how to approach women confidence talking to women overcoming social anxiety dating modern dating advice for men dating mindset for men building confidence with women dating podcast for men texting after getting her number self confidence after divorce relationship mindset coaching

    49 min

  6. 27 may

    Why “Love Finds You” Is a Dating Myth (Ep. 78)

    Does love really find you when you stop looking? In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy break down one of the biggest dating myths men believe — and explain why confidence, intentionality, and emotional maturity matter far more than “fate.” They also answer listener questions about attraction, dating anxiety, staying friends with someone you want romantically, and whether dating multiple people at once is actually a good idea. If you’ve ever felt stuck in dating, confused by mixed signals, or frustrated trying to meet the right person, this episode will help you approach relationships with more clarity and confidence. Self-Made Man Dating Journal -  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1 Use Coupon SMMAN20OFF when purchasing Journal for 20% off. Submission Form: https://forms.gle/e7LTvCkT1fhkFQEF8 Time Stamps / Chapters: 00:00 Confidence, dating, and knowing your value 00:38 Welcome back to Just Ask Her 01:20 Tesla road trip stories & charging station conversations 09:07 Listener question: Does love find you when you stop looking? 11:25 Why “fate” isn’t the reason couples meet 17:25 Confidence, curiosity, and attraction in dating 21:18 Are you waiting for certainty instead of connection? 27:31 Self-Made Man Dating Journal announcement 28:40 Should you stay friends hoping it becomes romantic? 33:50 Why emotionally unavailable relationships feel familiar 40:22 Reacting to listener comments and dating stories 51:35 Should you date multiple people at once? 56:03 Is it a turnoff if someone is dating other people? 59:42 Final thoughts and listener submissions #DatingAdvice#Relationships#Confidence Keywords: dating confidence for men love finds you myth intentional dating dating advice podcast emotional maturity in relationships how to attract women dating anxiety tips modern dating advice confidence in relationships emotionally unavailable partners dating mindset for men should you date multiple people mixed signals in dating relationship confidence healthy dating mindset

    1 h 1 min

  7. 20 may

    Why Men Lose Women by Waiting Too Long to Make a Move (Ep. 77)

    Dating anxiety, mixed signals, second chances, and unclear romantic intentions — this episode of Just Ask Her dives into the patterns that keep men stuck in confusion and overthinking.  Gracie and Tracy break down two listener dating situations: one involving a woman who came back after reconnecting with an ex, and another involving anxiety around dating a busy, independent woman. They unpack how to build chemistry naturally, when to make your intentions clear, and why “waiting for the perfect moment” often kills attraction.  If you struggle with overthinking texts, fear of rejection, or trying to “play the long game” in dating, this episode will help you date more confidently and intentionally. Self-Made Man Dating Journal -  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1 Use Coupon SMMAN20OFF when purchasing Journal for 20% off. Submission Form: https://forms.gle/e7LTvCkT1fhkFQEF8 Time Stamps / Chapters: 00:00 Should you give someone a second chance? 00:00 Welcome back to Just Ask Her 02:07 Minnesota sports playoff talk 05:12 Why ratings & reviews matter 05:53 A woman reconnects after going back to her ex 07:22 The risks of giving someone a second chance 12:29 Questions you should ask before reconnecting 15:15 Why men wait too long to build chemistry 18:31 Dating anxiety after heartbreak 23:20 Facts vs. the story your brain creates 27:09 Why you must make your intentions clear 31:30 How to stop future-tripping in dating 35:26 Self-Made Man Dating Journal announcement 37:14 Listener comments, AI discovery & podcast feedback Hashtags: #DatingAdvice #DatingConfidence #ModernDating Keywords: dating anxiety advice mixed signals in dating second chances in relationships how to build chemistry anxious attachment dating dating advice for men making romantic intentions clear overthinking in relationships modern dating podcast how to flirt naturally dating confidence tips communication in dating friend zone mistakes dating after heartbreak how to stop overthinking dating

    48 min

  8. 13 may

    Why You Can’t Make Someone Fall in Love (And What to Do Instead) (Ep. 76)

    Struggling with mixed signals, overthinking, or wondering how to make someone fall in love with you? This episode breaks down the truth about attraction, clarity, and why your mindset is shaping your dating results more than anything else. If you’ve ever felt like you’re “losing her,” getting inconsistent signals, or stuck in patterns of rejection, this episode will help you understand what’s really going on—and what to do instead. Gracie and Tracy walk through real dating scenarios and show you how to shift from chasing outcomes to building genuine connection, confidence, and clarity. Self-Made Man Dating Journal -  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1 Use Coupon SMMAN20OFF when purchasing Journal for 20% off. Submission Form: https://forms.gle/e7LTvCkT1fhkFQEF8 Time Stamps / Chapters:  00:00 Intro: Can you make someone fall in love? 00:27 Podcast intro + dating mission 03:52 Listener question: Relationship uncertainty & age gap 06:01 Is she losing interest or are you overthinking? 08:00 Age gaps, life stages, and external pressure 10:03 The missing conversation: clarity vs chemistry 11:01 Listener question: Struggling to find a relationship 13:50 How to keep hope alive in dating 15:27 Rejection mindset and outdated stories 18:21 Faith, values, and filtering for compatibility 22:47 Rapid-fire dating questions 23:26 “Dating is a waste of money”—mindset breakdown 25:53 Can you make a woman fall in love? 27:26 Why there’s no “perfect approach” 29:43 Stop chasing—start choosing 31:01 The question you SHOULD be asking 32:17 Outro + dating journal CTA #DatingAdvice #Confidence #Relationships Keywords: how to make someone fall in love dating advice for men mixed signals in dating why she’s losing interest dating mindset shift how to stop overthinking dating modern dating struggles confidence in dating how to meet women naturally dating clarity conversation rejection mindset dating relationship advice for men how to approach women authentically dating self improvement tips

    33 min
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Honest dating advice for single men from two women. Dating expert Gracie Pleschourt (@datingwithgracie on IG) and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt break down real dating questions, real struggles, and what actually works in modern dating. Each week, they dive into listener-submitted questions about their toughest dating challenges and deliver unfiltered, constructive feedback. Submit yours here: https://forms.gle/34JLMADMcxhqdb7X7

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    Hosted by Gracie Pleschourt — Dating Coach + Confidence Expert for Men
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    2024 - 2026
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