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"The Lonely Queers" podcast by ASH serves as a gentle but powerful reminder of our inherent power and unlimited potential. In a world full of noise and disconnection, join ASH – a Danish spiritual medium, mother, queer, sex therapist and a woman – on an extraordinary journey of self-discovery.  From skeptic to spiritual guide, ASH shares raw experiences of loss, supernatural encounters, and profound transformation.  Explore the true meaning of loneliness, break free from limiting beliefs, and discover what lies beyond our everyday reality. Through sharing her life experiences ASH is here to empower you to embrace your true potentials, your sensuality and your creativity as to remind you to remember and honor your true values as a queer or as a sensual being living a human life. Through meditation, mindfulness and inspiration, and an authentic storytelling, learn how to manifest a fuller, more abundant life and be inspired to trust your own intuition.  Whether you're feeling disconnected, searching for deeper meaning, or simply curious about the unexplained and perhaps the paranormal, The Lonely Queers Podcast offers a unique perspective on spirituality, empowerment, intuition and and finding your true home within yourself. Welcome to your awakening.  The Lonely Queers Podcast – Where the extraordinary becomes reality.

  1. 3 APR

    #6 ´Your knowing - your intuition'

    #6 YOUR KNOWING - YOUR INTUITION Intuition is your birthright. It is not a gift reserved for the few. It lives in every single one of us. But here is the truth most people won't tell you - it takes a choice to use it. A conscious decision to tune in, to trust what you feel, and to integrate that inner knowing into your everyday life. As women, we are born with this power. But somewhere along the way, many of us stopped listening. We handed our trust over to logic, to doubt, to other people's voices. And we forgot that the most powerful guidance we will ever receive is already inside us. This is about choosing the power within. It is about seeing the glass half full instead of half empty and understanding that this is not naive optimism. It is a choice. A radical, life-changing choice that shifts everything. In this episode, I open up about my own paranormal experiences, sharing moments in my life that showed me, beyond any doubt, that there is so much more existing than what we see and live in this reality. There are layers to this world that most of us never access, simply because we were never told to look. But you can look. You can feel. You can know. This is your invitation to reclaim what was always yours. Thanks for listening // ASH This podcast is made for inspiration and entertainment only.     Visit my DANISH podcast 'ANNETTE's UNIVERS' - meditationer fra hjertetVisit my ENGLISH podcast 'THE LONELY QUEERS' - a podcast about self-empowerment, sensuality, waking up and about my life experience and the paranormal

    20 min

  2. 20 MAR

    #5 'Opening up your sexuality'

    #5 OPENING UP OUR SEXUALITY When did you stop giving yourself permission? Permission to feel. Permission to enjoy. Permission to be fully, unapologetically alive in your body. In this episode, we go deep into the root chakra - the lover chakra. The place in the body where our life force, our creative power, and our sexuality live. And we look at something few of us talk about openly: that many of us as women - unconsciously -  punish ourselves. We punish ourselves by shutting down. By keeping pleasure at a distance. By turning our innate sexuality into something we control rather than something we live. But here is what we need to remember: don't close up your sexual desires. Your soul's essence is deeply intertwined with your sexuality - it is not separate from who you are. It is who you are. And that sexual energy is not just personal. It is connected to something far greater - the big consciousness. When you open up to your own desire, you open up to the universe itself AND your lifeforce. You can welcome pleasure on another level. So what if the opposite of shutting down was the way? What if giving yourself the orgasm, the desire, the surrender is actually a portal? Not just to more pleasure, but to a deeper connection with yourself, your higher self, and the consciousness that runs through all of us. This is your invitation to stop closing down and start opening up. Find a quiet place. And give yourself permission to be here. Thanks for listening // ASH This podcast is made for inspiration and entertainment only.     Visit my DANISH podcast 'ANNETTE's UNIVERS' - meditationer fra hjertetVisit my ENGLISH podcast 'THE LONELY QUEERS' - a podcast about self-empowerment, sensuality, waking up and about my life experience and the paranormal

    20 min

  3. 6 MAR

    #4 'Bella - you never left'

    #4 BELLA - YOU NEVER LEFT The other day, I held my beautiful white dog Bella in my arms as she took her last breath. And in that moment, as her little body went still, I felt something that might surprise you: Not goodbye. But hello. This episode isn't about grief, though my heart is tender and my eyes are swollen.This is about what I know to be true - what I've always known as a medium, but now understand in a way that splits my heart wide open: She didn't leave. She's still here and she has a profound message for all of us! The Afterlife is not somewhere away. It's here. We've been taught such a painful lie: That death separates us. That our beloved ones, our family, our precious pets - go "somewhere else." Somewhere distant. Somewhere we can't reach. That we are dis-connected. t's not true.  The afterlife isn't away. It's here. Right here. It's not another dimension we can't access. It's not a far-off place where souls wait for us. The afterlife is their reality. And it's also ours. We're living in the same space, just at different frequencies. Like radio stations playing simultaneously- they're all here, all now, just tuned to different channels. And Bella? Bella - my little white fluffy doggy - she came into my life 12,5 years ago, a tiny white ball of energy and unconditional love. She was my shadow. My comfort. My constant companion through everything - moves, heartbreaks, transformations, joy, darkness, rebirth. She was my healer.  Listen to what she has to tell us...she has an urgent message from the afterlife. Thanks for listening // ASH This podcast is made for inspiration and entertainment only.       Visit my DANISH podcast 'ANNETTE's UNIVERS' - meditationer fra hjertetVisit my ENGLISH podcast 'THE LONELY QUEERS' - a podcast about self-empowerment, sensuality, waking up and about my life experience and the paranormal

    22 min

  4. 20 FEB

    #3 'Creating our own timelines'

    #3 - season 2. CREATING OUR OWN TIMELINES We are all a part of different constructions and put into systems in this lifetime - but we have to take ownership of our own choice to be here. That is why it is so important that we realise and know that we are the creators of our own timelines and life.  Remember - we are spiritual beings living a human existence.   We have the power to create, and it is time to start taking action and create the best potentials of our lives - so we can be and attract more light and love. It's not a cliché - it's a fact. The law of attraction is a part of our existence. Thanks for listening // ASH This podcast is made for inspiration and entertainment only.     Visit my DANISH podcast 'ANNETTE's UNIVERS' - meditationer fra hjertetVisit my ENGLISH podcast 'THE LONELY QUEERS' - a podcast about self-empowerment, sensuality, waking up and about my life experience and the paranormal

    22 min

  5. 30 JAN

    #2 'Pleasure & fear'

    #2 - season 2. PLEASURE & FEAR This episode is an inspiration to think about your pleasure. And your fears. A stunning sunset paints the sky in impossible colors. Your breath catches. Something in your chest opens and you feel... alive. Connected. Full. But how long do you let yourself stay in that feeling? Maybe seconds before the thoughts rush in: I should take a photo. I need to post this. What am I making for dinner? Did I respond to that email? I'm wasting time just standing here. You pull yourself out of the pleasure. Back to productivity. Back to control. Back to safety. - Is it any wonder we're disconnected from ourselves? - Is it surprising we can't stay present in a beautiful sunset, when we've been trained to believe our pleasure doesn't matter? - Is it shocking we can't fully enjoy sex, when we've been taught our bodies exist for others' pleasure, not our own? You deserve pleasure. Not because you earned it. Not because you've been good enough. But because you're alive. And pleasure is what reminds you of that truth. So wake up. Feel it. Claim it. Your pleasure is your power. Take it back. Thanks for listening // ASH This podcast is made for inspiration and entertainment only.   Visit my DANISH podcast 'ANNETTE's UNIVERS' - meditationer fra hjertetVisit my ENGLISH podcast 'THE LONELY QUEERS' - a podcast about self-empowerment, sensuality, waking up and about my life experience and the paranormal

    26 min

  6. 16 JAN

    #1 'Happy new year'

    #1 - season 2. HAPPY NEW YEAR Thanks for listening // ASH This podcast is made for inspiration and entertainment only.   Visit my DANISH podcast 'ANNETTE's UNIVERS' - meditationer fra hjertetVisit my ENGLISH podcast 'THE LONELY QUEERS' - a podcast about self-empowerment, sensuality, waking up and about my life experience and the paranormal

    23 min

  7. 31/12/2025

    #47 'Self-worth - the foundation of everything'

    #47 SELF-WORTH - THE FOUNDATION OF EVERYTHING The Final Episode of 2025. Happy New Year. This is it - the last episode of 2025. And what a year it's been. I hope this year brought you closer to who you truly are. Even if just a little. Even if just in moments. Because that's the real work, isn't it? Not becoming someone new, but remembering who you've always been beneath all the layers of conditioning and expectation. Today, I want to talk about something fundamental. Something we often confuse but desperately need to understand: The difference between self-esteem and self-worth.  In the last episode I talked about self-esteem and this time I include self-worth. Self-worth is the unshakeable knowing that you have value simply because you exist. Not because of what you do. Not because of what you achieve. Not because of who loves you or how you look or what you contribute. But because you ARE. Being the spiritual entity having a human experience.  Not the other way around. You're not a human trying to become spiritual. You're spirit - eternal, infinite, divine - temporarily clothed in human form. And spirit has inherent worth. Always. Unchanging. Your soul doesn't earn its value. Your spirit doesn't prove it deserves to exist. It simply IS. And therefore, it's worthy. In the episode I will take you into an altered state of mind for a very short while so you can sense what I am talking about. We go through the same themes again and again and most of our experiences with love and relations  is connected to our lack of self-esteem due to unhealed childhood traumas and experiences: The same lessons, the same patterns, the same struggles - but each time, we spiral deeper and expand IF we choose to look inward and work with ourselves and heal. Each time you encounter self-worth issues, you're not "failing" or "not getting it." You're meeting the same lesson at a deeper layer. With more awareness. With more capacity to see and integrate and heal - remember that. My words for you is to inspire you to sense the meaning of my words about self-worth.  Thanks for listening // ASH This podcast is made for inspiration and entertainment only.    Visit my DANISH podcast 'ANNETTE's UNIVERS' - meditationer fra hjertetVisit my ENGLISH podcast 'THE LONELY QUEERS' - a podcast about self-empowerment, sensuality, waking up and about my life experience and the paranormal

    22 min

  8. 19/12/2025

    #46 'Awareness, self-esteem & breaking the projection cycle'

    #46 AWARENESS, SELF-ESTEEM AND BREAKING THE PROJECTION CYCLE Have you ever been in the middle of a fight with your partner and suddenly realized - this isn't really about them? That feeling when you're upset about something they said or did, but the intensity of your reaction feels... bigger than the situation deserves? When you hear yourself saying things or feeling things that seem to come from somewhere ancient and wounded inside you? That's your inner child projecting. And here's what most of us don't realize: We're doing this constantly. All of us. Every time we enter into love- into intimate relationship, into vulnerability, into opening our hearts to another human being - we bring our whole history with us. And I don't just mean the conscious history, the stories we know and tell about ourselves. I mean the wounds we carry from when we were small and powerless. The times we weren't seen. The moments we weren't held when we needed it most. The love we didn't receive in the way our little hearts needed it. The messages we internalized about whether we were worthy, lovable, enough. All of that lives in us. Waiting. And then we fall in love. We open our hearts. We let someone in. And suddenly, that wounded inner child wakes up and starts projecting all those old, unhealed traumas onto this person we love. And here's the painful truth: They're probably doing the same thing to you. When they snap at you over something small, when they shut down emotionally, when they criticize or withdraw or cling - that's their wounded inner child projecting their unhealed trauma onto you. So we end up in this dance - two wounded children in adult bodies, projecting our past onto each other's present. No wonder relationships are hard. But it is not all that dark - there are ways around it and it takes awareness. Self-esteem is the foundation and goes hand in hand with awareness. When you genuinely know your own worth and who you are as a being,- not as an intellectual concept but as a lived, embodied truth - you don't need to fall into that rabbithole all the time. Changing habbits, live THE self-love and self-reflect is some of the keywords in this episode. Thanks for listening // ASH This podcast is made for inspiration and entertainment only.    Visit my DANISH podcast 'ANNETTE's UNIVERS' - meditationer fra hjertetVisit my ENGLISH podcast 'THE LONELY QUEERS' - a podcast about self-empowerment, sensuality, waking up and about my life experience and the paranormal

    23 min
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"The Lonely Queers" podcast by ASH serves as a gentle but powerful reminder of our inherent power and unlimited potential. In a world full of noise and disconnection, join ASH – a Danish spiritual medium, mother, queer, sex therapist and a woman – on an extraordinary journey of self-discovery.  From skeptic to spiritual guide, ASH shares raw experiences of loss, supernatural encounters, and profound transformation.  Explore the true meaning of loneliness, break free from limiting beliefs, and discover what lies beyond our everyday reality. Through sharing her life experiences ASH is here to empower you to embrace your true potentials, your sensuality and your creativity as to remind you to remember and honor your true values as a queer or as a sensual being living a human life. Through meditation, mindfulness and inspiration, and an authentic storytelling, learn how to manifest a fuller, more abundant life and be inspired to trust your own intuition.  Whether you're feeling disconnected, searching for deeper meaning, or simply curious about the unexplained and perhaps the paranormal, The Lonely Queers Podcast offers a unique perspective on spirituality, empowerment, intuition and and finding your true home within yourself. Welcome to your awakening.  The Lonely Queers Podcast – Where the extraordinary becomes reality.

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  • Creator
    ASH
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    53
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Annette Sahara Hørning
  • Show Website
    The lonely queers