The Bridges Between Us

CaringBridge

The Bridges Between Us shares stories of real families navigating traumatic health challenges - including cancer, traumatic brain injuries, stroke, Alzheimer's, and more. Through intimate, thoughtful conversations with caregivers, patients, healthcare experts, and advocates, the podcast explores what it truly means to navigate illness, recovery, loss, and everything in between. Each episode is a window into lived experience - how people found strength when they least expected it, how communities rallied around families in crisis, and how connection became a form of care all its own. These stories are raw, honest, and deeply human. At its heart, The Bridges Between Us is about exactly what its name suggests: the bridges we build between people, between isolation and community, between hardship and hope. Wherever you are on a health journey - as a caregiver, a patient, a supporter, or someone who simply wants to understand - this podcast invites you to listen slowly, reflect openly, and feel a little less alone. 

  1. 16 Oct

    Twenty-Five Percent: Dr. Wayne Jonas on Social Support, Cancer Survival, and the Medicine We're Not Prescribing

    Twenty-five percent. That's how much longer cancer patients with high social support live compared to those with low social support. Not quality of life. Not comfort. Survival. "If you had a drug that increased your living by twenty-five percent, it would be on the docket immediately." ~ Dr. Wayne Jonas. It is not on the docket. It is not prescribed. It is not reimbursable. And Dr. Jonas has spent his career asking why. A physician, researcher, former director of the NIH Office of Alternative Medicine, and author of How Healing Works, Dr. Jonas has spent decades at the intersection of science and healing and studying what the data actually says about why people get better. In this episode of The Bridges Between Us, he joins us for a wide-ranging conversation about the difference between curing and healing, why the healthcare system is structurally designed to do one and ignore the other, and what it would take to change that. He talks about the Personal Health Inventory, a tool his foundation has embedded into health systems nationwide, and makes a direct case for why CaringBridge should be integrated into electronic health records as a bridge between what's the matter with a patient and what matters to them as a person. He also shares something deeply personal: his wife's thirty-year journey through five cancers, her extraordinary gift for building community, and why, after hearing a recent episode of this very podcast, he's thinking about starting a CaringBridge page in her memory. Not for her illness. For the people who loved her. To read more about Dr. Jonas' anniversary edition of How Healing Works, visit https://www.caringbridge.org/resources/how-healing-works-dr-jonas.  Send us your comments. We'd love to hear from you. Support the show

  2. 2 Oct

    Live a Great Life for the Rest of Your Life: Les Whitney on Eight Years with Stage Four Lung Cancer, Perfect Moments, and the Choice to Not Let Anything Get in the Way

    Eight years ago, Les Whitney finished a surf session, picked up his ukulele, and his left hand stopped working. A brain tumor. Then, worse: stage four lung cancer, metastasized. His doctors gave him six months. He's still here. In this episode of The Bridges Between Us, Les, a CEO mentor, author of Cancer's Gifts, and one of the most genuinely joyful guests we've ever had, shares what eight years of living with a terminal diagnosis has taught him about gratitude, presence, community, and the choice to live fully no matter what. He doesn't use hope as a strategy. He doesn't fear dying. He counts perfect moments three to five times a day. And he has found, across eight years of CaringBridge posts to over 1,200 followers, that the act of documenting his journey has built a community that has literally extended his life, including a follower who connected him to a newly approved treatment when his lungs were completely filled with cancer and nothing was working. Les also shares something new: his wife was recently diagnosed with lung cancer too. And he says watching her receive the diagnosis was harder than receiving his own. He is planning a trip to Morocco or India. He is preparing a best man speech in advance, just in case. He is living in a three-month window and calling it a great life. Read more about Les Whitney's Book, Cancer's Gifts, here: https://www.caringbridge.org/resources/cancers-gifts-a-loving-journey-toward-the-final-chapter Send us your comments. We'd love to hear from you. Support the show

  3. 31 Jul

    One Obstacle at a Time: John Carter on His Son Cannon, a Congenital Heart Defect, and What Thirty Days in a Cardiac ICU Taught a Healthcare Insider About Being a Patient

    John Carter has spent sixteen years in healthcare working with health systems, physicians, and executives all over the country. He knows how the system works. He knows which levers to pull. He knows the language. None of it prepared him for the moment a cardiologist walked into a NICU room and a grenade went off. In this episode of *The Bridges Between Us*, John shares the full story of his son Cannon. Born July 5th, named for the cannon his father fired as an Army field artillery officer, wild and unyielding by name and by nature. Diagnosed in utero with a coarctation of the aorta and tricuspid valve concerns, Cannon arrived at nine pounds, briefly fooled every monitor in the NICU into thinking he might be fine, and then wasn't. Thirty days in the cardiac ICU followed including a crash after surgery, a reintubation, an infection, and two moments where John and his wife Vanessa almost lost him. John talks about what it's like to know the system intimately and still feel powerless inside it. About the difference between a care team's mission and a father's. About "hopium," the discipline of focusing only on the next obstacle, never the finish line. And about CaringBridge, which became the one tool that let him protect his family's energy, communicate with their tribe, and process thirty days of fear one journal entry at a time. Cannon just turned three. He's been cleared to annual cardiology checkups. He smiles with his whole face. Send us your comments. We'd love to hear from you. Support the show

  4. 17 Jul

    Ferocious, Loyal, and Absolutely in Control: Sarah Krevans on Caregiving for the Sister Who Refused to Be Defined by Cancer

    Rachel was fourteen months older than Sarah. She was a litigator; ferocious, loyal, deeply private, and absolutely determined not to let stage four metastatic colon cancer define her. When she got the call after her colonoscopy, she knew exactly who to call first: her sister. And Sarah knew exactly what to do. In this episode of The Bridges Between Us, CaringBridge board chair Sarah Krevans shares the story of the two-and-a-half-year journey she walked alongside her sister Rachel - as her voice, her advocate, her fellow wig-try-on partner, and the person who read every CaringBridge post aloud to Rachel before hitting publish, because it was Rachel's story. Not Sarah's. She talks about creating two separate CaringBridge pages - one for family and friends, one for Rachel's work colleagues - to honor a woman who worked in the courtroom almost until the end of her life and wanted to keep those worlds carefully separated. She shares the fruitcake post, the wig shopping photos, the rhinestone-decorated chemo bag, and a Christmas trip to England where a nephew-in-law's secret proposal was the one thing Rachel was allowed to know that no one else did. And she talks about what it was like to slowly take over the narrating when Rachel could no longer be part of the writing, and the community needed a way to say goodbye. Send us your comments. We'd love to hear from you. Support the show

  5. 3 Jul

    Three Minutes and Forty-Nine Seconds: Paolo Narciso on Cardiac Arrest Mid-Run, the Tech That Saved Him, and Why Data Isn't Destiny

    Paolo Narciso has spent four decades building companies - call centers, healthcare startups, AI ventures - and currently serves on the CaringBridge board, bringing a technologist's eye to social connection and care coordination. He knows data. He tracks everything: blood panels, visceral fat, lactate thresholds, sleep, recovery scores. So when his Apple Watch gave him a readiness score of fifty percent before a training run in Egypt - practically begging him to rest - he ran anyway. Three minutes and forty-nine seconds in, his watch paused. He doesn't remember what happened next. What he knows is what the data, the wreckage, and seventeen and a half minutes alone on a trail eventually told him: a sudden cardiac event, four impacts with the ground, a traumatic brain injury, a shattered face, and an Apple Watch that called emergency services, broadcast his exact coordinates, and brought help to a man lying alone in the middle of nowhere. In this episode of The Bridges Between Us, Paolo shares the full story - the diagnosis he still doesn't fully believe, the week tied to a hospital bed, and the CaringBridge page that let him stop narrating his own emergency to everyone who loved him. He also opens up about caregiving for his 89-year-old mother, the BPO industry health crisis that led him to start his first healthcare company, and why he believes every doctor should be telling their patients about CaringBridge. Send us your comments. We'd love to hear from you. Support the show

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The Bridges Between Us shares stories of real families navigating traumatic health challenges - including cancer, traumatic brain injuries, stroke, Alzheimer's, and more. Through intimate, thoughtful conversations with caregivers, patients, healthcare experts, and advocates, the podcast explores what it truly means to navigate illness, recovery, loss, and everything in between. Each episode is a window into lived experience - how people found strength when they least expected it, how communities rallied around families in crisis, and how connection became a form of care all its own. These stories are raw, honest, and deeply human. At its heart, The Bridges Between Us is about exactly what its name suggests: the bridges we build between people, between isolation and community, between hardship and hope. Wherever you are on a health journey - as a caregiver, a patient, a supporter, or someone who simply wants to understand - this podcast invites you to listen slowly, reflect openly, and feel a little less alone. 

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