"Who you are today is not by reason of what you have consciously emitted, but more for what you have unconsciously heard." In this deeply transformative episode of Konnected Minds, we dive into one of the most powerful and overlooked truths about human development: that 95% of your belief system was formed before the age of seven, that your mind keeps record of everything you've heard, seen, and said, and why understanding the invisible forces shaping your mindset is the first step to breaking free from limitations you never consciously chose. We unpack the psychological research on theta brainwaves and why who you are at 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15 is usually a result of the things you imbibed when you were much younger, why you're a product of your surroundings automatically, and why every time you heard people call you foolish, stupid boy, you are a dullard, you are last position, those statements didn't fall to the ground but fell as seeds that germinated in your mind. We break down why as a child your brain is unintelligent in the sense that you are incapable of distinguishing what is true from what is not true, why your subconscious could take a joke as fact and a wrong opinion as truth, and why some kids grow to the age of 9, 10, 11, 12 and automatically see themselves as backbenchers who will never amount to anything because a teacher's opinion became rule and fact in their lives. We discuss why your eyes and ears are not just organs of sight and hearing but gateways to your life, why the family is the smallest unit of society but the most powerful because embedded in the family are the primary mirrors of possibilities that children see, and why seeing daddy hit mommy at the age of six, eight, nine, ten creates records stored somewhere in your mind that power everything you do on top even when you don't realize it. We expose why everyone sees what's on top but no one sees what's beneath, why your subconscious and unconscious mind is much more powerful than your conscious mind, and why someone who is rude didn't just wake up rude but grew up in an environment that shaped their behavior through what they heard, saw, and said. We also get into the story of the young lady who used to cut fish into different pieces every single time because when she was growing up they didn't have a big fry pan, and even now when she has a big fry pan she still thinks small like an elephant that was caged in infancy and tied to a tree but has outgrown the tree and doesn't know. We break down why what you say confirms what you heard and what you saw, why what you hear yourself say is more powerful than anything else, and why you fight thoughts not with thoughts but with words because your mind keeps record of your words. But we also confront the dangerous trap of confirming it tough, why statements like it's tough and can't you see stuff have some legitimacy but will keep you stuck if you let them define your reality, and why there is absolutely nothing glamorous that is not gotten or sustained by pain. We discuss why no one ever promised you an easy life, why Jesus said in this life you will have tribulation which means in this life you will see struggle, and why everything worth having will require some push even if for some it's harder than others. We close with the most powerful mindset shift you can make: find mirrors of possibilities no matter how small. We unpack why no matter how bad things are all you need is one person who has a semblance of a good life, why no matter how minuscule or granular an example of prosperity or success might be in your environment you must hold on to that example as a symbol of possibility, and why that 0.0000001% example of what is possible is enough to walk towards if you choose to see it as a gateway instead of a reminder of what you lack. If you've ever felt stuck because of your upbringing, if you've been carrying limiting beliefs you never chose, or if you're ready to reprogram your mind by controlling what you hear, see, and say from this moment forward, this conversation will change everything. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Derrick Abaitey is a Ghanaian entrepreneur, podcast host, and personal development advocate. IG: https://www.instagram.com/derrick.abaitey
