You can do everything right. You're just one person in a relationship. And whilst you're thinking not, the other person is dealing with all kinds of demons in their lives. In this powerful, deeply vulnerable episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with Kofi Watting, lawyer and ordained minister, for a raw, unfiltered conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about what makes a marriage last, why love alone is never enough, and the uncomfortable truth that the things that attract us are the same things that become a distraction. Kofi holds nothing back. He breaks down why a good marriage is built on shared goals and shared values, not just attraction and feelings, why two introverts can stay together and two extroverts can clash and both can make it work if they choose to, and the one thing most couples are hiding from each other that destroys intimacy before it even begins: their finances. He reveals why in a lot of our homes spouses are hiding financial assets because they tell you you're going to make too many demands, how some women suffer economic abuse not because their husbands are withholding but because he doesn't have it and he's doing his best, and the moment you realize that this man who comes home every day and is trying is the best husband you could ever have. He also explains why when you say I do that's when love actually opens your eyes, why you start noticing all the things that irritate you after the wedding and not before, and the one question every couple on the verge of divorce needs to hear: hold it. This isn't just marriage advice. It's a masterclass in understanding intimacy beyond the physical, why being naked before each other means financial transparency and emotional honesty, and how Adam and Eve were naked and not embarrassed because intimacy is 360 degrees. Kofi dives into why he left the Catholic church to join his wife's charismatic church so their children wouldn't be confused between the noisy church and the orderly one, how sharing his deepest fears with his wife before a court case doesn't belittle his stature but strengthens their bond, and the uncomfortable reality that the person who is a serial cheater was like that before you met them and you knew it and you got married to them anyway. He also tackles why the things that attract us are the same things that become a distraction, how the life of the party who makes everybody laugh becomes the spouse flirting with everybody after marriage, and the one thing people refuse to accept: he hasn't changed, this is exactly who you met. If you're married, struggling with transparency, or wondering whether love is enough to hold you together when everything else is falling apart, this conversation will give you the clarity, the language, and the courage to stop hiding and start building a marriage where both of you are naked and unafraid. Guest: Kofi Watting ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole. Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🔔 SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss the next episode 👍 LIKE if this conversation challenged you 📤 SHARE with someone who NEEDS to hear this
