05：她说做个好人，不然眼歪嘴斜｜亚比同事的不一样和一样 My Sub-Cultural Colleague

Suji，我的亚比朋友，同时也是我前司市场部负责内容的同事。她特别的特别，外表的个性和内心的清醒柔软，让人觉得她像是一本值得反复翻阅的书——每次和她聊天都有惊喜。成年后的Suji，成熟了，完整了，她身上淬炼出的自信和爱的力量，吸引着各色各样的人们，存在着，交互着，最后我们都会觉得，活着真好。就像她爱的歌中唱到：Whenever you are feeling blue, keep walking and we can get far.

大家可以数数我这期说了多少次“特别”。

本期时间轴:

04:12 她说亚文化媒体是世界上工作最快乐的地方

09:30 我们共事时是她第一次坐班

14:04 她的两条狗一只猫都是被领养、都是女性

16:30 新的工作即将启航，我和她一起回看过去的人生31年

25:53 她觉得自己没什么不一样，也更接受他人所谓的“不一样”

31:15 看起来很“mean”的她，“be nice”是她的原则

37:46 从小擅长写作，从精神痛苦中她淬炼出接纳和相信的力量

47:17 “有始有终”是你爱到这件事没办法再爱了，不代表一切不可以变了

51:47 她不希望自己活的很长，但是每一天都活得不后悔

55:17 Suji给所有女生的建议：没有建议，听自己的

Suji的三个宝贝女儿：

BGM: Luv (sic.), Pt. 3 - Nujabes/Shing02

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Suji, my sub-cultural friend and former content strategist colleague from the marketing department. What makes her extra special is how her edgy appearance clashes beautifully with her clear-minded yet tender soul — talking to her feels like reading a book you'd revisit time and again, every conversation with her unfolds new surprises. Now an adult version of herself, Suji has matured into wholeness. The confidence tempered through life and her capacity to love act as magnetic forces, drawing eclectic souls to collide, exist, and ultimately whisper in unison: Being alive feels damn good. Just like the lyric from her favorite song goes: Whenever you're feeling blue, keep walking and we can get far.

(P.S. Let's play a drinking game: Take a shot every time I say "special"  in this post🥃)

Timeline:

04:12 - "Sub-culture media is the happiest workplace on the earth," she says
09:30 - Our time working together was her first office job
14:04 - Her two dogs and cat: all adopted, all female
16:30 - As new work sets sail, we reflect on her 31-year journey
25:53 - "I'm no different from others" – yet more accepting of others' "differences"
31:15 - Behind her "mean" look lies her ironclad rule: Be nice
37:46 - Writing prodigy turned life alchemist: forging self-acceptance through pain
47:17 - "Follow through means loving something until you can't – but change is allowed"
51:47 - She doesn't want to live long, but vows to live each day without regrets
55:17 - Suji's advice to women: No advice. Listen to yourself.