Shift Your Perspective Billy J. Atwell

'The World' is not a reflection of you.
Seriously, are YOU responsible for hatred, greed, war, poverty?
What about joy, happiness, prosperity, and beauty?
Yes, you may be 'experiencing' these things, but you are not responsible for what you see in 'The World,' whether good or bad. Thinking so is arrogant and self-righteous; at the core, it's victim consciousness!
You see, 'The World' is nothing but a reality that grants us the ability to experience all that Source is—a Divine buffet that offers us the choice to select from the Eternal experiences of heaven or hell, blessings or curses, the light or the dark, depending on what WE put on 'the plate' of OUR minds.
So, what are your current experiences 'reflecting' back to you?
Your current state of mind; your beliefs about what you are worthy of receiving from life, AKA: Your Inherited Negative Self-Image Root.
When it comes to 'the world,' don't worry about what others are putting on their plate; we all have the free will given to us by The Source to choose for ourselves. Instead, your focus should turn inward, determining for yourself what you are worthy of experiencing, which ensures others are not allowed to 'make up a plate' for you, especially with their use of guilt and shame, which is a tactic to control you or keep you stuck in their choices, all stemming from fear. 
Shifting your perspective isn't a light undertaking; it isn't at all rainbows, butterflies, and namaste that the self-serving and hypocritical fake prophets and self-help gurus that build communities fostering an identity around dependency, helplessness, and the idea that others have any power over you and your life, while simultaneously peddling you out of your money and leaving you even more confused than before (don't even get me started).
By the way, rainbows and butterflies come AFTER experiencing 'the flood' and the chrysalis. Change only occurs after you unapologetically and consciously choose from the buffet of life, AKA: Renewing your mind and permanently changing your belief in what you are worthy of. No guru can do that for you.
No, walking away from the conformity of what everybody else is choosing isn't easy.
However, it is required if you want the ability to experience the 'dream life' stuck in your mind due to the fear of being rejected. Which, if you are honest, they have already done, and you're simply stuck in the trauma of what has already occurred.
SYP Music Playlist on Apple Music:  https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/shift-your-perspective/pl.u-b3b8RKgC3XobJL

Why do you feel guilty for what other people have done to you?
Is it because you feel responsible? Or that perhaps you owe them something?
Whatever the reason, you will never be free mentally, emotionally, spiritually, etc., until you learn this very important lesson. 
Do you wish to know how to be free of their choices? Listen in as I share lessons learned.
Apple Music Links:
Miss Me Blind by Culture Club https://music.apple.com/us/album/miss-me-blind/724214023?i=724214062
Lay It On The Line by Triumph https://music.apple.com/us/album/lay-it-on-the-line/1287325301?i=1287325846 

Moving beyond the trauma of years of violence and abuse can seem like a neverending journey, but it does finally come to an end; there is a genuine release from your suffering caused by others, so NEVER give up; keep walking toward it and get your freedom! 
Listen in as I share my experience of knowing it's truly possible for anyone if they choose. 

To be free from the past and able to move into your 'new story,' you must say "YES!" to life, which means you must accept what "Life" really is. Because if you resist it, it will persist. 
Listen to learn wisdom gained from my out-of-a-life of violence and abuse. 

Running around in circles trying to figure out the past and why they did the things they did to you?
You will be on that merry-go-round your entire life if you don't stop and see the truth of who you are.
Listen in for wisdom gained from having been there myself.

You are instructed to "calleth those things that been not as though there where," so, how are you to experience 'true love' or your "Sunshine Family" when all you've known is pain, betrayal, abuse, and violence?
Listen in for wisdom learned in moving beyond the 'old story' of victim consciousness.