Love with Francesca

Francesca Zoia

Love with Francesca is a podcast about unlocking the power of self-love, relationships, and personal transformation. With a blend of heart, authenticity, and expertise, Francesca Zoia, a relationship coach, guides listeners through raw conversations on love, empowerment, mental health, trauma, recovery, and the complex yet beautiful facets of the human experience.

  1. 1 day ago

    52. Why I Finally Decided to Become a Psychotherapist

    Sometimes the path you're meant to follow doesn't look anything like the one you imagined. In this solo episode, I take you behind the scenes of a major career decision I've been quietly working toward for years: finishing the process to become a psychotherapist. After earning my master's in Mental Health Counseling, I didn't immediately pursue licensure. Instead, I followed unexpected opportunities in life coaching, built my own business, and spent years helping women navigate relationships and reconnect with themselves. Along the way, I learned that purpose isn't something you discover overnight—it's something that unfolds as you're willing to listen to yourself. I share why I chose to trust my intuition, even when other people questioned my decisions, and why I'm finally stepping into this next chapter. I also talk about the importance of making mental health support more accessible, and how that value ultimately influenced this decision. This episode explores: Why your purpose often reveals itself through experience, not certainty Learning to trust your intuition instead of outside expectations The difference between following a career path and following your calling Why it's okay if your journey doesn't look linear How every season prepares you for the next one Why accessibility has become one of my core professional values What's changing for Love with Francesca as I begin this new chapter This conversation is for anyone who feels behind, uncertain, or worried they're taking the "wrong" path. Maybe you're not lost. Maybe you're exactly where you need to be to become the person you're meant to be. Connect with Francesca: ❤️ Download your free “Should I Stay or Leave” Guide 🦋 Join the Reclaiming Love Community 📷 Instagram: Love with Francesca ✨ Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast. Your support helps keep these conversations alive!

  2. 23 Jul

    51. Am I Investing in the Right Person?

    One of the hardest questions you can ask yourself in a relationship is: "Am I investing in the right person?" It's a question so many women ask when they're in a long-term relationship that feels uncertain, painful, or full of growing pains. But the answer isn't always as simple as deciding whether to stay or leave. In this solo episode, I unpack how I wrestled with this question in my own relationship and why, looking back, it wasn't just about my husband. It was also about learning to trust myself, my intuition, and my own decision-making after years of questioning it. This episode dives into: Why time alone isn't a reason to stay in a relationship The difference between investing in someone's potential versus ignoring reality What healthy growth actually looks like in a long-term partnership The signs that someone is willing to take accountability, repair, and evolve Why your own fear and self-doubt can make it difficult to trust your decisions How to evaluate whether your emotional energy is being invested in something that can truly grow This isn't about finding the "perfect" partner. It's about learning how to discern whether the relationship you're building has a strong foundation, mutual effort, and the willingness to grow together. If you've ever found yourself asking, "Am I investing in the right person?", this episode will help you look beyond fear and toward clarity. Connect with Francesca: 📷 Instagram: Love with Francesca 🌱 FREE Reclaiming Love Community ✨ Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast. Your support helps keep these conversations alive!

  3. 9 Jul

    50. You’re Just Not There Yet and That’s Okay

    When we look at happy, healthy relationships, it’s easy to assume they’ve always been that way. We see the connection, the ease, the affection, and the partnership, but we rarely see the years of difficult conversations, misunderstandings, growth, and repair that happened behind the scenes. In this solo episode, I share a more personal side of my own relationship journey and talk about something I think we don’t discuss enough: the space between where your relationship is now and where it could become. For years, my husband and I struggled with communication, conflict, distance, and different relationship needs. There were seasons when things felt incredibly hard, and moments when it would have been easier to walk away than continue doing the work. But what I’ve learned is that hard doesn’t automatically mean wrong. Sometimes, what feels broken is actually a relationship that’s still growing. In this episode, we explore: ✨ Why healthy relationships are built, not found ✨ The reality behind “relationship goals” couples ✨ How difficult conversations create deeper connection over time ✨ Why conflict doesn’t automatically mean your relationship is failing ✨ The difference between a relationship that needs work and one that truly isn’t aligned ✨ Why the work you do on yourself is never wasted, regardless of the outcome This conversation is for anyone who feels discouraged, stuck, or uncertain in their relationship and wonders if they’re failing. Because sometimes, the relationship you want isn’t impossible. You’re just not there yet.   Connect with Francesca: 📷 Instagram: Love with Francesca 🌱 FREE Reclaiming Love Community ✨ Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast. Your support helps keep these conversations alive!

  4. 25 Jun

    49. Postpartum Anxiety, Motherhood & Finding Yourself Again | Brooke Bridges

    Motherhood is often described as one of the most beautiful seasons of life, but for many women, it can also be one of the most overwhelming. In this episode, I sit down with Brooke Bridges, mental health advocate, speaker, and coach, to have an honest conversation about postpartum anxiety, identity shifts, and the emotional realities that so many women experience after becoming mothers. Brooke shares her personal journey with anxiety, from growing up in the entertainment industry to navigating motherhood and discovering how postpartum anxiety can affect even women who have already done significant inner work. Together, we explore the pressure many women feel to have it all together, the isolation that can come with motherhood, and why having the right tools, support, and community can make all the difference. This conversation explores: The difference between everyday anxiety and postpartum anxiety Why motherhood can amplify existing mental health struggles The identity shifts that happen after becoming a parent How societal expectations keep women suffering in silence The importance of community, support, and asking for help Why healing starts with honesty about what you're experiencing This episode is a reminder that you are not failing if motherhood feels harder than you expected. You are not alone. Connect with Brooke Bridges: Website: https://www.unearthingwellness.co/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brookembridges ✨ Brooke is currently accepting 1:1 Coaching clients for women looking for support in their mental health, personal growth, and healing journey.  Connect with Francesca: 📷 Instagram: Love with Francesca 🌱 FREE Reclaiming Love Community ✨ Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast. Your support helps keep these conversations alive!

  5. 30 Apr

    45. Why Intimacy Fades in Long-Term Relationships (And How to Get It Back) | Dr. Tabitha

    Intimacy isn’t just about physical connection. It’s about trust, safety, and the ability to fully show up as yourself in a relationship. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Tabitha, psychotherapist and intimacy expert, to explore why intimacy often fades in long-term relationships, and what it actually takes to rebuild it. We dive into how many women slowly disconnect from themselves through over-giving, people-pleasing, and self-abandonment, and how that disconnection directly impacts desire, attraction, and emotional closeness. Dr. Tabitha shares how intimacy is deeply connected to the nervous system, and why feeling safe in your body and within yourself is the foundation for real connection with your partner. This conversation explores: Why intimacy is more about emotional safety than physical connection How self-abandonment leads to resentment and disconnection The role of trauma and the nervous system in relationships Why desire doesn’t disappear, it becomes dormant How reconnecting with yourself is the key to reigniting intimacy This isn’t about trying to fix your partner or force connection. It’s about coming back to yourself first, so intimacy can naturally follow. Connect with Dr. Tabitha: Her website Her instagram Connect with Francesca: Follow me on Instagram Join our Reclaiming Love Collective and get connected with other women just like you looking to figure out whether they should stay or leave their long-term relationship! ✨ Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast. Your support helps keep these conversations alive!

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Love with Francesca is a podcast about unlocking the power of self-love, relationships, and personal transformation. With a blend of heart, authenticity, and expertise, Francesca Zoia, a relationship coach, guides listeners through raw conversations on love, empowerment, mental health, trauma, recovery, and the complex yet beautiful facets of the human experience.