Shady and Safe

Q and Brandi Lane
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Country Cousins of 10+ years discuss hot topics. Sometimes Shady, but always creating a safe space.

  1. 16 Aug

    Cheating, Bottom Shaming & Dating Standards

    How many chances should someone get after cheating? In this episode of Shady & Safe, we get into cheating, staying after betrayal, catching lies through an Apple Watch and being cheated on with 12 different people. We also talk about emotional manipulation, dating standards, speed dating, bottom shaming and whether a hierarchy exists among gay men. Plus, we discuss the judgment surrounding a tragic viral Lake County crash and whether consuming constant negativity online is unhealthy. Would you stay after someone cheated? And what are your biggest dating dealbreakers? Follow Shady & Safe Podcast for more honest, funny and unfiltered conversations. #ShadyAndSafePodcast #DatingStandards #LGBTQPodcast

  2. 6 Aug

    Are We Wrong? Jess Hilarious, Streamer University, Cardi B & More

    Q and Brandi are back with another unfiltered episode of the Shady & Safe Podcast. This week, we discuss Trina reportedly requiring promoters to book her husband, Keyshia Cole dating younger men, the “Quiet on the Creek” trend, and Jess Hilarious’ controversial VladTV interview. We also get into ATL Tayh’s prison content, Porsha Williams and Shamea Morton’s friendship fallout, Cardi B defending Stefon Diggs, and the controversy surrounding Streamer University. The celebrity conversations quickly become personal as we debate loyalty in relationships, whether former friends should remain connected to your children, the pressure to create drama online, and how far parents and coaches should go when disciplining children. Are our opinions shady, safe, or completely wrong? Listen and decide for yourself.

  3. 29 Jul

    We Got WAY Too Honest About Dating, Cheating & Relationships

    Robby from the Linkin Wit Robby Podcast joins me for one of my most honest conversations yet. We talk about life after OnlyFans, modern dating, cheating, open relationships, marriage, creator life, mental health, and the mistakes that taught us our biggest lessons. As two Black gay men, we get real about how our experiences have shaped the way we approach love, sex, relationships, and life online. Nothing is off-limits—from dating younger and being friends with an ex to tops and bottoms, relationship rosters, turnoffs, and whether we actually want children. Honest, funny, and a little messy—just how we like it. Tap play and let us know which part you related to most.

  4. 23 Jul

    The Viral Orlando Taser Woman Tells Her Side of the Story | Reign McFadden

    In this episode of Shady & Safe, we sit down with Reign McFadden, the transgender woman behind the viral Orlando taser videos, for an honest conversation about the incidents that put her in the spotlight. Reign discusses the viral confrontations, the incident at Orlando's LGBTQ+ Resource Center, the legal case she says she's facing, life as a transgender woman, mental health, dating, relationships, accountability, and the experiences that shaped her perspective. Whether you agree with her or not, this conversation goes beyond the headlines and gives listeners the opportunity to hear her story in her own words.

  5. 22 Jul

    Toxic Family and Motherhood

    n this episode of Shady & Safe, I sit down with my cousin Brandi for one of our most honest conversations yet. We dive into childhood memories, family dynamics, dating, trust, narcissism, motherhood, boundaries, mental health, faith, and the lessons life has forced us to learn.This isn't a polished conversation, it's a real one. We laugh, disagree, tell embarrassing stories, and get vulnerable about the experiences that shaped us. If you've ever struggled with family relationships, toxic partners, depression, anxiety, or simply figuring out how to protect your peace, this episode is for you.*Topics we cover:* Childhood memories & growing up togetherTrust, going through phones & cheatingNarcissistic behavior and red flagsSetting healthy boundariesMotherhood and raising three childrenMental health, anxiety & depressionFaith, healing & forgivenessFamily conflict and difficult relationshipsFunny stories and rapid-fire questionsDating standards and relationship advice💬 We'd love to hear from you:What's one lesson that completely changed your life? Drop it in the comments below.👍 Don't forget to Like, Comment, Subscribe, and Share if you enjoy authentic conversations that keep it both **Shady & Safe**.

  6. 22 Jul

    These Hot Takes About Dating Are WILD

    This might be one of the wildest conversations I’ve had so far. I brought a guest on and somehow we ended up debating dating, patriarchy, and how men and women move today.I’m not gonna lie… some of these takes had me questioning everything.Be honest, are these dating takes actually insane or is there some truth to it? I need y’all in the comments on this one.Subscribe for more real conversations, messy topics, and unfiltered opinions every week.Follow my special guest on Instagram @officialyungmiracle

  7. 22 Jul

    The Truth About Orlando's Black Club Scene

    We sat down with Rob Vickers (Moneybagg Robb) to talk about what’s really going on in Orlando’s club scene, and why it feels like everything fell off. From losing major spots to people not wanting to work together, we break down the real issues nobody wants to say out loud.We also get into the business side of things. Rob talks about leaving traditional jobs, running multiple businesses, and what it actually takes to make money for yourself. Not everybody is built for it, and we had to be honest about that.And of course, it wouldn’t be Shady and Safe without getting a little messy. We talk about broke behavior in the club, flirting for drinks, terrible dates, and the type of people who act rich but really aren’t.This episode is funny, unfiltered, and way too relatable if you’ve ever been outside, dated in this generation, or worked in nightlife.Follow us everywhere:Instagram: @shadyandsafe TikTok: @shadyandsafe Facebook: @shadyandsafepodcast Follow Rob:Facebook: Rob VickersInstagram: @moneybaggrobbTikTok: @moneybaggrobb_3

  8. 4 Apr

    His FIRST Cruise… and He Did NOTHING But Drink

    Welcome back to Shady and Safe where we keep it a little shady but always safe. This episode is all about real life, taking a break, and what happens when you actually step away and live in the moment. We get into cruise stories, the reality of those all inclusive drink packages, and how a trip can turn into nothing but bar to room to bar real quick. From doing absolutely no activities to fully committing to the vibes, we break down what vacation really looks like when you are just there to enjoy yourself. The conversation also shifts into the importance of rest, unplugging from social media, and learning how to be present instead of constantly recording everything for the internet. We talk about the balance between living your life and feeling like you always have to perform it. Of course we had to tap into some messy takes too, from pop culture opinions to heated debates about what people do versus what they expect in return. Nothing is off limits and the opinions are real. If you have ever needed a break, taken a trip that did not go how you expected, or just enjoy real conversations with a little chaos, this episode is for you.

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Country Cousins of 10+ years discuss hot topics. Sometimes Shady, but always creating a safe space.

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  • Creator
    Q and Brandi Lane
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    20
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Q and Brandi Lane
  • Show Website
    Shady and Safe