Full But Not Finished

Stefanie Michele
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Full But Not Finished is for anyone who's tried to "just stop eating when you're full" and realized it's never that simple. Hosted by Somatic and Intuitive Eating counselor and coach Stefanie Michele, this podcast dives into the ongoing work of recovery -- where fullness doesn't always mean satisfaction, and where food, body image, and nervous system work is never finished. Each episode unpacks the psychology, nervous system patterns, and cultural conditioning that shape eating behaviors, showing why willpower alone doesn't work and what real regulation looks like. If you've lived the binge–restrict cycle, felt trapped in body image spirals, or wondered why "normal eating" feels out of reach, this is where we make sense of it — not with rules, but with integration, somatic tools, and a more human way forward.

  1. 1 day ago

    33. How to Rebuild Your Relationship with Exercise (after diet culture)

    Exercise can be hard to separate from weight loss, calorie burning, food compensation, discipline, and body control. In this episode, I'm talking about how to rebuild your relationship with movement after dieting, binge eating, restriction, or years of using exercise as a way to change your body. For a lot of people, exercise does not feel neutral. It can bring up old rules, old pressure, old fear, old rebellion, or the sense that movement only matters if it leads to weight loss or somehow "counts." But movement can also be something else. It can be a way to move energy through the body. It can help discharge anxiety, shift a flat or frozen state, interrupt rumination, and create a different relationship with your own body. It can be slow, ordinary, rhythmic, gentle, practical, or enjoyable. It does not have to be organized around punishment, compensation, or proving anything. I also talk about what happens when diet culture thoughts still show up while you're trying to move differently. Those thoughts may be present because they were built over time. Their presence does not have to define the meaning of what you are doing now. This episode is about reclaiming exercise and movement from diet culture, and finding a way back to movement that feels more like support than self-control. In this episode, I talk about: why exercise can feel charged after years of dieting how movement gets paired with weight loss, control, and morality exercise as a way to move energy through the nervous system why low motivation may be connected to overwhelm, not laziness how slow, steady movement can help thaw a flat or frozen state how higher-energy movement can help discharge anxiety why diet culture thoughts may still appear how to build a new relationship with movement without making it another rule More from Stef: Binge Eating to Intuitive Eating (BE2IE) Self-Study Course iamstefaniemichele.com/iamstefaniemichelecourse.com Substack (essays on body image, appetite, and the nervous system) iamstefaniemichele.substack.com Instagram (daily thoughts + short-form content) instagram.com/iamstefaniemichele

    43 min

  2. 27 May

    32. Supporting a Partner Through Binge Eating Recovery (a conversation with my actual husband)

    In this episode, Stef talks with her husband, Mike, about what it was like to support her through years of binge eating, restriction, body shame, and recovery. They talk about what he noticed in the early years of their relationship, what he misunderstood, what helped him understand binge eating more clearly, and why trying to "fix" it usually didn't work. They also discuss the quieter parts of support: listening without judgment, staying steady when recovery felt terrifying, not making weight gain the center of the relationship, and having a life outside of the eating disorder so the relationship could still hold more than distress. This conversation is for anyone supporting a partner, spouse, friend, or family member through binge eating recovery, and for anyone in recovery who worries that their struggle is taking up too much space in their relationship. It is a real look at what support can sound like when someone does not fully understand the eating disorder, but is still willing to stay present, learn, and keep taking the next step with you. More from Stef: Binge Eating to Intuitive Eating (BE2IE) Self-Study Course iamstefaniemichele.com/iamstefaniemichelecourse.com Substack (essays on body image, appetite, and the nervous system) iamstefaniemichele.substack.com Instagram (daily thoughts + short-form content) instagram.com/iamstefaniemichele

    45 min

  3. 19 May

    31. Hilary Duff, "Strong Not Small," and Body Diversity in Wellness

    Hilary Duff's "Strong Not Small" campaign has brought up a bigger conversation about wellness culture, diet culture, fitness ideals, and the way bodies are still expected to show up. On the surface, "strong not small" sounds like progress, especially for millennial women who grew up in the early 2000s celebrity body-shaming era. We were taught to fear weight gain, compare ourselves to famous women, and treat thinness as proof that we were disciplined, desirable, and doing life correctly. But what happens when the new ideal still looks very similar to the old one? In this episode, I'm talking about Hilary Duff's strength-training campaign, the shift from "skinny" to "strong," and how wellness culture can repackage diet culture in language that sounds more empowering. This isn't about criticizing Hilary Duff personally, and it's not about criticizing strength training. Movement, muscle, and feeling strong in your body can be genuinely supportive. The issue is the pressure that shows up when "healthy" still has to look toned, small, youthful, sculpted, and commercially beautiful. We'll get into why fitness and wellness messaging can feel inspiring while also activating the same body-image pressure many women are trying to recover from. I also talk about how social media, celebrity culture, wellness trends, and fitness campaigns shape what we believe is normal, even when we logically know celebrities have access to trainers, money, editing, time, and resources most people do not. Topics covered in this episode include: Hilary Duff's "Strong Not Small" campaign Millennial body image and early 2000s beauty standards Why "strong, not skinny" can still become a body standard The overlap between wellness culture and diet culture How fitness trends create pressure, rebellion, or over-compliance Why your nervous system absorbs imagery before your logic can argue with it The problem with equating health with visible aesthetics How to reconnect with movement, strength, and wellbeing on your own terms Questions to ask yourself when "shoulds" start moving in on your empowerment More from Stef: Binge Eating to Intuitive Eating (BE2IE) Self-Study Course iamstefaniemichele.com/iamstefaniemichelecourse.com Substack (essays on body image, appetite, and the nervous system) iamstefaniemichele.substack.com Instagram instagram.com/iamstefaniemichele

    41 min

  4. 13 May

    30. When Body Image Meets Aging: a conversation with Deb Benfield

    Aging is natural, but women are rarely allowed to experience it that way. In this episode, I talk with Deb Benfield, author of Unapologetic Aging, about the pressure women face to keep defying the evidence. This conversation is really about the promise underneath anti-aging culture: that if we can stay young enough, thin enough, smooth enough, or close enough to the ideal, we might stay safe, wanted, respected, and socially protected. Deb talks about why that promise is so powerful, why it becomes especially intense in midlife, and why it can cost women so much of their attention, creativity, sexuality, and actual life. We also talk about the body hierarchy, the fear of becoming irrelevant, the way younger women are being pulled into anti-aging fear earlier than ever, and what it means to come back into the body from the inside rather than constantly evaluating it from the outside. This is a conversation about aging, but more than that, it's about compliance, embodiment, and the possibility of using midlife for something more... fun. Deb Benfield is 67, a registered dietitian, nutrition therapist, and body image coach who has spent over 40 years working in the ED and body image world. Her current work focuses on helping people mend their relationship with their aging bodies. Deb's Unapologetic Aging Circle  Deb's Book: Unapologetic Aging More from Stef: Binge Eating to Intuitive Eating (BE2IE) Self-Study Course iamstefaniemichele.com/iamstefaniemichelecourse.com Substack (essays on body image, appetite, and the nervous system) iamstefaniemichele.substack.com Instagram (daily thoughts + short-form content) instagram.com/iamstefaniemichele

    44 min

  5. 6 May

    29. Gentle Nutrition After Diet Culture: How To Make It Simple

    Nutrition is a complicated, sometimes scary word after ED recovery or dropping out of diet culture. You may want more energy, steadier meals, better digestion, or a way of eating that supports your body more consistently. But the second nutrition enters the conversation, it can start to feel threatening. Old rules come back. The pressure to get it right comes back. Even a small thought about protein, vegetables, or blood sugar can start to feel like a case for rebellion. In this episode, I'm talking about how to include nutrition in a non-diet relationship with food without turning it into another set of rules or self-sabotage. I get into overthinking, rebellion, adding instead of subtracting, keeping nutrition basic, all-or-nothing thinking, and why one food does not cancel out another. I also talk about life seasons, because what makes sense for your food has to make sense inside your actual life. This is a conversation about letting nutrition become a neutral, shoulders down experience. More from Stef: Binge Eating to Intuitive Eating (BE2IE) Self-Study Course iamstefaniemichele.com/iamstefaniemichelecourse.com Substack (essays on body image, appetite, and the nervous system) iamstefaniemichele.substack.com Instagram (daily thoughts + short-form content) instagram.com/iamstefaniemichele

    41 min

  6. 29 Apr

    28. Life After Dieting with Guest Allison: Food Freedom, Body Image, and Motherhood

    In this episode of Full but Not Finished, I'm talking with Alison about finding food freedom as a mom after weight gain, years of dieting, and years of living in the binge/restrict cycle. The Body Image Workshop is open! Allison grew up in peak 90s diet culture, with cottage cheese, "Can't Believe It's Not Butter," and the message that gaining weight was something to fear. When her body changed in adulthood, dieting seemed like the obvious answer. What followed was years of restriction, overeating, guilt, and starting over again (including one meal plan that told her to eat exactly 12 scallops for dinner). We talk about what it took for her to see the pattern clearly (through the eyes of her husband, who watched the cycle repeat.  In this episode, we cover: Motherhood, weight gain, and recovery after dieting  Perfectionism around food, movement, and parenting  What support from a partner can look like  Body image (including shopping and crying in the car) in a bigger body 🍽️ Raising kids and breaking the cycle  Healing in gray areas (not making a big deal out of eating a lighter dinner) ⚖️ Food morality and the fear of "doing it wrong" Why recovery does not happen the day you stop dieting  If you're trying to recover from chronic dieting, binge eating, or body obsession while also navigating motherhood, body changes, or the fear of passing this down, this conversation will resonate.  Learn more about my work: www.iamstefaniemichele.com Hi, I'm Stefanie Michele. I help people heal their relationship with food, body image, and themselves through a nervous-system-aware, intuitive eating approach.

    50 min

  7. 22 Apr

    27. 5 Real-Time Tools for a Bad Body Image Day

    Bad body image day? I'm sharing five things I use in real time to interrupt the spiral, work with nervous system dysregulation, and get through a trigger without letting it take over the whole day. We talk about body neutrality, somatic tools, movement, distraction, and what to do when you're too flooded to think clearly. (This episode idea came to me as I was talking to a client on Whatsapp and walked by a full length mirror -- and worked through it in real time.) In this episode:• how I work with a body image trigger in real time • why distraction can actually help • how movement helps when body image feels urgent • one simple somatic tool for dysregulation • what I do when I'm too flooded for any of the above The Body Image Workshop: www.iamstefaniemichele.com/body-image-workshop   Hi, I'm Stefanie Michele. I help people heal body image struggles, binge eating, and their relationship with food through nervous system work, somatic tools, and deeper self-understanding.

    45 min

  8. 15 Apr

    26. Body Image and Perfectionism: Why It Never Feels Like Enough (A Conversation with Kristina Bruce)

    What happens when two body image coaches start talking "off the record"? (also: Join The Body Image Workshop this May for more of this type of conversation) In this special joint episode, Stefanie Michele - a Binge Eating Recovery Coach and Kristina Bruce, a Body Peace Coach share a raw, unedited conversation that was originally happening offline. We realized the "good stuff" coming up was too important not to share, so we hit record. We're diving deep into the high cost of perfectionism in how we've viewed and treated our bodies for decades. We're pulling back the curtain on what it actually looks like to unlearn the shame and find authentic body peace. In this episode, we discuss: The "Dangling Carrot" of Thinness: Why reaching your "goal weight" never actually feels like arriving. Soul Disconnection: How the pursuit of beauty standards forces us to disconnect from our intuition and life force. Subtle Trauma: How offhand comments from family and friends shape our body image from a young age. The Path to "Enoughness": Why recovery isn't about fixing your body, but removing the negativity that blocks your inherent worth. Stefanie's Turning Point: Making the decision to stop fighting her body after decades of binge eating. Kristina's 40-Day Experiment: A radical approach to letting go of negative self-talk and sitting in the truth of who you are. This is a different kind of episode—no scripts, no filters, just two women who have been through the fire talking about what it really takes to heal your relationship with your body.  CONNECT WITH US: Stefanie Michele www.iamstefaniemichele.com https://www.instagram.com/iamstefaniemichele  Kristina Bruce www.kristinabruce.com https://www.instagram.com/kristinabrucecoach/  Download for free The Guide to Body Peace: www.kristinabruce.com/guide More from Stef: Body Image Workshop https://www.iamstefaniemichele.com/body-image-workshop Substack (essays on body image, eating, and the nervous system) iamstefaniemichele.substack.com Instagram (daily thoughts + short-form content) instagram.com/iamstefaniemichele

    54 min
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Full But Not Finished is for anyone who's tried to "just stop eating when you're full" and realized it's never that simple. Hosted by Somatic and Intuitive Eating counselor and coach Stefanie Michele, this podcast dives into the ongoing work of recovery -- where fullness doesn't always mean satisfaction, and where food, body image, and nervous system work is never finished. Each episode unpacks the psychology, nervous system patterns, and cultural conditioning that shape eating behaviors, showing why willpower alone doesn't work and what real regulation looks like. If you've lived the binge–restrict cycle, felt trapped in body image spirals, or wondered why "normal eating" feels out of reach, this is where we make sense of it — not with rules, but with integration, somatic tools, and a more human way forward.

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  • Creator
    Stefanie Michele
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    33
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2025
  • Show Website
    Full But Not Finished

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