The Catholic Couple

Bobby and Katie Fredericksen

Fun with Faith, Family, and Friends! Hosted by Bobby and Katie Fredericksen 

  1. 2 days ago

    We Stopped Fighting About Screen Time (Our Summer Screen Contract)

    We Stopped Fighting About Screen Time (Our Summer Screen Contract) Summer break is here, and for many families that means one thing: more screen time battles. In this episode of The Catholic Couple Podcast, Bobby and Katie Fredericksen share the Summer Screen Contract that helped their family stop arguing about screens and start building responsibility, freedom, and healthy habits. Instead of becoming the screen police, we discovered a simple system that encourages our kids to read, learn, train, help around the house, and enjoy being kids before reaching for devices. In this episode, we discuss: • The screen time mistakes most parents make • Why education works better than punishment • How to create an "earn before you burn" system • The importance of boredom, creativity, and outdoor play • Practical ways to set screen boundaries without constant conflict • How to prepare your children for a healthy relationship with technology Whether you're raising young kids, tweens, or teenagers, this conversation will give you practical tools to create more peace and less conflict around screens this summer. A special thank you to our sponsor, Saintly Society. Their mission is to help Catholics wear and share their faith with bold, beautiful apparel and gear. Visit saintlysociety.com and support a great Catholic company. Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube and don't forget to follow, subscribe, like and share! If this episode helped you, please like, subscribe, and share it with another parent navigating screen time this summer. What is the biggest screen time challenge in your family? Let us know in the comments. https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85 Purposelycatholic.com

    37 min
  2. 9 Jun

    The Biggest Lie Catholics Have Been Sold

    The biggest lie Catholics have been sold is that we have to choose a side. Traditional or progressive. Conservative or liberal. Truth or love. Justice or mercy. But what if the reason so many Catholics feel frustrated, exhausted, and even spiritually homeless is because Jesus never fit into those categories in the first place? In this episode, Bobby explores the central idea behind his forthcoming book from Ave Maria Press,  Guardians and Prophets: Living a Both/And Faith in an Either/Or World. What is a prophet? What is a guardian? Why does the Church need both? And why does Catholicism refuse to choose between truths that belong together? We'll discuss: ✓ Why Catholic social media feels so divided ✓ The difference between renewal and reinvention ✓ Why the Deposit of Faith matters ✓ How the Holy Spirit continues to renew the Church ✓ The danger of tribalism inside Catholicism ✓ Why dialogue is not compromise ✓ How to hold truth and love at the same time ✓ Why the future of the Church depends on both guardians and prophets If you've ever felt too traditional for some Catholics and too open for others, this episode is for you. If you love the Lion of Judah crewneck and Christ Is King hat featured in this episode, be sure to check out our friends at Saintly Society. Their mission is simple: to evangelize the culture through what we wear. Every piece is designed to spark conversations about faith and help bring Christ into everyday life. Support a brand that's helping spread the Gospel one conversation at a time. 👇 COMMENT BELOW: Do you naturally identify more as a Guardian or a Prophet? #Catholic #CatholicChurch #CatholicPodcast #ChristianPodcast #Catholicism #JesusChrist #FaithAndReason #TruthAndLove #Evangelization #CatholicLife #Christianity #CatholicYouTube #CatholicContent #ChurchHistory #CatholicFaith #CatholicTeaching #SpiritualGrowth #GKChesterton #PeterKreeft #GuardiansAndProphets https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85 Purposelycatholic.com

    23 min
  3. 1 Jun

    What a 13-Year-Old Wishes Adults Understood | Parenting, Phones, Stress & Faith

    What is it really like being 13 years old today? In this special episode of The Catholic Couple Podcast, Katie is out, so my daughter Avery joins me behind the microphone for an honest conversation about the challenges, pressures, and realities of growing up in today's world. From social media and cell phones to friendships, school stress, anxiety, sports, faith, and family life, Avery shares what many kids are thinking but often struggle to tell their parents. If you're a parent, grandparent, teacher, youth minister, or anyone who works with young people, this episode offers a unique glimpse into the mind and heart of a soon-to-be eighth grader navigating the modern world. In this episode we discuss: ✅ What stresses kids out the most today ✅ Social media, phones, and screen time ✅ Healthy boundaries for technology ✅ School pressure and academic expectations ✅ Friendships and fitting in ✅ How parents can make their children feel loved ✅ What kids wish adults understood ✅ Faith, prayer, and staying grounded ✅ Practical advice for raising confident and resilient children Avery's honesty, wisdom, and perspective may surprise you. Whether you're raising teenagers, preparing for the teen years, or simply trying to better understand the next generation, this conversation is packed with practical insights and encouragement. If this episode helps you, please LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE it with another parent who could use some encouragement. 👇 What is one thing you wish adults understood when you were growing up? Let us know in the comments. THIS EPISODE IS SPONSORED BY SAINTLY SOCIETY Want to wear your faith boldly and beautifully? Check out Saintly Society for premium Catholic apparel designed to weave the Gospel into everyday life. The Agnus Dei hat featured in this episode is one of my favorites. Visit: saintlysociety.com By supporting Saintly Society, you're supporting a Catholic company committed to evangelization through high-quality clothing, hats, and accessories that spark conversations about Jesus Christ and the Catholic faith. ABOUT THE CATHOLIC COUPLE We help Catholics live their faith intentionally in marriage, family life, discipleship, and everyday living. Subscribe for: • Catholic Marriage Advice • Catholic Parenting • Family Life • Discipleship • Faith Formation • Spiritual Growth • Catholic Answers • Practical Catholic Living #CatholicParenting #Teenagers #ParentingAdvice #CatholicFamily #TheCatholicCouple https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85 Purposelycatholic.com

    43 min
  4. 26 May

    Why I Felt Spiritually Homeless in Christianity | Divine Tension

    Why are so many Christians spiritually exhausted today? Why does modern Christianity feel increasingly divided, tribal, political, and shallow? In this deeply personal episode of The Catholic Couple Podcast, Bobby shares the powerful conversion story behind his upcoming book, Divine Tension: Why the Catholic Church Doesn’t Choose Sides. From partying, gambling, anxiety, and searching for meaning… to a life-changing encounter with Jesus Christ at Midnight Mass inside one of Chicago’s most beautiful Catholic churches… this episode explores the deeper tensions many Christians feel but struggle to explain. This isn’t about choosing between: • Truth or love • Tradition or evangelization • Justice or holiness • Reverence or mission Catholicism has always been BOTH/AND. The word Catholic itself means “according to the whole” — the fullness of truth, the fullness of revelation, and the fullness of what Jesus Christ left His Church. In this episode we discuss: • Bobby’s dramatic Catholic conversion story • Midnight Mass and encountering the Holy Spirit • Why so many Catholics feel spiritually homeless • The danger of tribal Christianity • The problem with reducing faith into politics • The beauty of the Catholic Church • Why the Mass is both sacrifice and communion • The tension between holiness and mission • How Alpha and discipleship changed lives • Why the Church was never meant to choose sides • The deeper meaning behind Divine Tension If you’ve ever wrestled with: • traditional vs progressive Catholicism • faith and reason • truth and compassion • religion vs relationship • maintenance vs mission …this conversation is for you. https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85 Purposelycatholic.com

    20 min
  5. 18 May

    Catholic Priest Speaks Out On What Matters Most: Fr. Sammie Maletta on Discipleship

    BE DISCIPLES. MAKE DISCIPLES. | Fr. Sammie Maletta on Parish Renewal, Leadership & the Holy Spirit What does it actually take to renew a parish? In this powerful episode, we sit down with our very own pastor, Fr. Sammie Maletta of St. John the Evangelist Parish, to discuss his new book: “Be Disciples. Make Disciples: Eight Leadership Principles to Build a Spirit-Driven , Vision Focused Parish Together, we unpack the 8 leadership principles behind parish renewal and transformation, and the incredible story of how St. John became a thriving, mission-driven Catholic parish. But this conversation goes deeper than strategy. We talk honestly about: 🔥 Following the promptings of the Holy Spirit 🔥 Resistance to change inside the Church 🔥 The fear of stepping into mission 🔥 Why discipleship must move beyond comfort 🔥 What it means to truly evangelize today 🔥 How parish renewal starts with personal conversion Fr. Sammie shares real stories, practical wisdom, and spiritual insight into what happens when a parish stops settling for maintenance mode and starts embracing mission. If you care about: • Catholic discipleship • Evangelization • Parish renewal • The Holy Spirit • Leadership in the Church • Catholic mission and transformation …this is a conversation you do NOT want to miss. 👇 COMMENT BELOW: What does discipleship look like in your life? SUBSCRIBE for more Catholic conversations on faith, culture, discipleship, marriage, masculinity, and mission. #Catholic #CatholicPodcast #Discipleship #Evangelization #HolySpirit #ParishRenewal #CatholicChurch #ChristianLeadership #FrSammieMaletta #BeDisciplesMakeDisciples #PurposelyCatholic #TheCatholicCouple #CatholicYouTube #MissionaryDisciples #StJohntheEvangelist https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85 Purposelycatholic.com

    41 min
  6. 11 May

    The Crisis of Masculinity (And What the Church Gets Right)

    Why are so many men struggling today? In this episode of The Catholic Couple, we dive deep into the crisis of masculinity, spiritual leadership, Catholic discipleship, marriage, fatherhood, and what authentic manhood actually looks like through the lens of the Catholic faith. This conversation introduces the vision behind Sacramental Masculinity — a movement focused on forming strong, holy, Spirit-led men who live with purpose, discipline, virtue, and mission. Modern culture often gives men two false options: • passive and weak or • aggressive and toxic But authentic Catholic masculinity is neither. True masculinity is: strength in the service of others. In this episode we discuss: • the masculinity crisis • why men feel lost today • Catholic masculinity explained • spiritual warfare and men • how husbands can lead spiritually • fatherhood and discipleship • the role of the Eucharist and Confession • prayer and masculine virtue • how men can become saints in everyday life • building a Christ-centered marriage and family Whether you’re a husband, father, young man, or someone searching for purpose and identity, this episode will challenge and encourage you to become the man God created you to be. 👇 COMMENT BELOW: What does authentic masculinity mean to you? — FOLLOW PURPOSLEY CATHOLIC: https://www.purposelycatholic.com/ VISIT SACRAMENTAL MASCULINITY: https://www.purposelycatholic.com/ LISTEN TO THE CATHOLIC COUPLE PODCAST on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thecatholiccouple1 #Catholic #Masculinity #CatholicMen #ChristianMasculinity #TheCatholicCouple #PurposelyCatholic #SacramentalMasculinity #CatholicPodcast #Faith #Jesus #Fatherhood #Marriage #MensMinistry #SpiritualWarfare #CatholicChurch #Catholicism #ChristianMen #CatholicLife #Discipleship #Prayer https://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85 Purposelycatholic.com

    28 min

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Fun with Faith, Family, and Friends! Hosted by Bobby and Katie Fredericksen 

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